Questions From Readers

Hello Sam,

This is Ryan 23 years old.
I met a straight alpha during covid randomly on grindr and met him and he wanted me to give him hand job as he talks dirty and kicked me our with cum face. It was my first time being a slave. Since then i have been doing the same every week till yesterday.
Only once he let me suck his cock for an hour with condoms on.
I have begged many times to control me and use me. I also offered to do his house chores and be his slave but he dont respond for it or just says i need more training before i become that slave.
My question to you is: how to have him use me and become his slave?
3 years of handjob and getting kicked out with cum face doesn’t seem to please him enough to use me?
Your thoughts on this?
Please and thanks 

Ryan, thank you for writing!

There are no easy answers to this situation. You can’t make a straight Alpha do anything he’s not yet comfortable to do. And we don’t know the circumstances that make him uncomfortable. It could be some bad experience in his past, a phobia, whatever. Neither one of us know him well enough to diagnose it.

I will suggest this: he probably has a girlfriend or wife at home (and maybe kids), which is likely one reason why he won’t use you in other ways, and also why he’s been so secretive. The discovery of this situation with you might completely unravel his life, and I’m sure he doesn’t want that (and neither do you). 

The simple fact is that some straight Alphas are only going to take things to a certain point, and no more. However, you might be able to coax him into a little more during the times you are with him. Try offering to massage his feet, for example. Perhaps make him some food and get him drinks. Try these little things so he will see you exist to serve him, not harm him. He needs to see you as more than just a handjob machine. 

But I wouldn’t push him much harder than that. If you really need to get fucked or get used, I’d find another Alpha for that. 

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