Hi Sam l, interested to know your views on switches and how that dynamics work. If some faggots switch or are they not in hierarchy.

I had an interesting task from my master, which I suggested as he was complaining about how flaky faggots are. He was trying to recruit a new fag so spending time on gydoo. I said I would do this for him to give him time back and serve him. So I went on initial as a master in description I spoke with faggots quickly in intro saying I was a fag performing a task, I promoted my master suggesting him as a strong master who brought out the true fag in me and I’ve been quite successful. This has become a reg task and I do it willingly.

Here is the catch couple of times the fags have said they like me and want me to be more dominate, sometimes suggest that with my master and sometimes directed to me. It’s given me thoughts of replicating some of my master traits, that turns me on…like a mini master…I am confused sometimes as I find the power stimulating. I am still my masters property and have told him about it. He still has me doing the task but wants me to tell him when these feelings happen. It got me thinking about switches, maybe when a relationship ends, do some faggots switch. Is it about the person or should I forget about it and concentrate on being the best fag I can for my master.

I have been with my master nearly a year. I am in my 40s and he is much younger -25 but he is so good. He s been a master since he was 17 and is amazing.

Would love to hear your thoughts.

Well, you pose an interesting problem, brother.

I think it’s a mistake for you to be faking dominance to attract faggots for your Master. It doesn’t do you any good, nor does it represent your Master properly to prospective faggots. But that’s just me.

Once again, I don’t believe people are lifelong switches. There are phases people go through based on their current experiences, but eventually people find their true position. And I think you already know your true position: FAGGOT. Your Master knows this, too, which is why he’s wisely monitoring you as you flirt with dominance. 

I just think it’s a silly distraction. You already have a young, powerful Owner that you love serving. Why are you threatening that balance and harmony?  

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Hello again Brother. Thank you so much for your answer to my last question. It was very helpful. I am trying my best to prepare for what I hope to be the start of my submission to my Straight Master. I was wondering if you could give advice on 2 separate matters to this end?

First, I have read your preprepared letter and I cannot thank you enough for going to the effort of writing it to help us fellow faggots out. I was wondering if you would advise me to send it before the holiday, so he has time to read and process it? Or should I wait until we are together in the cabin? I am slightly worried it may scare him off or cause him to second guess if he is, as you correctly say, trying to be a nice guy.

Second, as any self-aware faggot should be I am locked in chastity. He is not aware that I do this however. If I am successful in submitting I will have no issue giving him the keys. But I do not want to seem presumptuous or predatory, and I am concerned that if he realises I arrived wearing it he may think negatively of how I have approached submitting to him. Any advice is appreciated, although I understand if you are too busy and only wish for updates once I have given him the letter

This is a follow-up to THIS QUESTION. 

Thank you for the follow-up questions, brother. I want you to be able to get this right! 

I don’t think you should send him the letter ahead of time (unless you happen to get into a conversation about it before the trip). Get into the conversation and use the letter as a way for him to get a broader view of things. 

As far as chastity is concerned, I think you should wear the cage on the trip. If he discovers it, that will be a way to open a conversation for sure. But here’s a little secret: straight Alphas get excited when they see an inferior male in chastity. I don’t know why that is. My theory: the sight of the caged faggot pings their own dominance in a new way, and they realize that this inferior male is subservient. The cage gives them permission to use it however they want. So I wouldn’t be concerned about that too much.

Don’t ask him about being a keyholder until he responds positively to your admission of being a faggot. He has to get past that first before accepting the rest of it. 

Be patient and submissive and weak. Essentially, throw yourself on his mercy. Trust in him that he’s an Alpha who knows how to guide you. 

I’m truly excited for you, brother. I think something awesome is going to happen. I love you! 

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How do I make myself more attractive to alphas? be hairless from below my eyebrows, wear panties, chastity and buttplug?

You make yourself more attractive to Alphas by being submissive, obedient, and service-oriented. Chastity cages are excellent external jewelry for faggots, but a fag’s most attractive qualities are internal. 

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You gave a picture of how you think fags are in the grand scale  but I have one question . What about a trained fag a fag trained in the art of pleasure in many forms and pleasure is only one function because serving falls under pleasure, what if you are sent to a pain Master something like that you need to learn to go beyond because that is pleasure . Where does that fag fall in? He knows he is better than other fags but still he humbles himself.

I don’t really understand your question. How is the fag better than other fags? 

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hey sam,

i’ve always liked your content but also kind of hated it, just because i couldn’t accept the reality of being a faggot. although there are soo many signs and even my mindset is there, it’s a bit hard. but today something happened which was pretty telling

i was at the local sports court, playing with a friend when a group of guys came up to use and suggested we play in teams. i was put on a team with 2 guys who are friends. one of them was a clear alpha – my first impression of him was me walking onto the court & he was flexing both his biceps to his friend. soon after the game started it became clear that i was the least talented player (on both teams lol), and then my teammates kind of stopped passing me the ball anytime. and then 2 other guys joined and one of them also had a bit of an alpha vibe, and of course…to my luck, he joined our team. i could immediately tell that he sensed i was a fag, and started bossing me around (in the context of the game), while also ignoring me (in terms of passes, shooting, etc.)

as i said, i was with a friend who is straight (not an alpha tho), and he kind of immediately had the respect of the other guys on the court, but i was kind of just ignored the whole time…especially by the alphas (mainly the one flexing his biceps).

and instead of feeling sad (i did a bit..), i felt kind of realization wash over me that i’m stupid to think i could ever be on the level of an alpha in anything really. instead of playing on the same team as the alpha, i should be tending to his needs, bringing him water, fetching the ball, etc.

& i also couldn’t help but imagine what it would be like to be used by him. even tho he is definitely not my type, and also not the prettiest guy out there, i would even say i’m prettier than him, but something about his attitude and the way he treated me (ignored and looked down) kind of made me want to serve him. another aspect that also excited me is that i was clearly older than him (he must’ve been 20-21 & i’m 27). it felt nice hot to be made to feel less by someone who is younger than me.

unfortunately where i currently live, being gay is not acceptable at all, so i would never be able to even hint at my faggotry (although we just learned it’s sometimes obvious) while im still here.

im sorry i guess this is not a question but just an anecdote..

Well, I’m glad you’ve finally started to have your eyes opened to the truth, brother! Yes, Hierarchy is undeniable. Once you grasp it, you start seeing it everywhere … just as you described! 

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Hi brother Sam,

I work in an office with a lot of straight alphas. It is hard to work there and be taken seriously when I’m a faggot. It is also hard to seriously focus on my servitude when I worry about my submissive actions being unwanted or unprofessional. Do you have any advice for a brother faggot.

Do they know you’re a faggot? Why would it be hard for you to work there as a secret faggot? 

Now, I do understand what it’s like to tiptoe on that line between submission and professionalism, and I haven’t always been good at it. But it’s something we all must deal with. Just continue to be submissive and complimentary, and Alphas will notice eventually. Just be ready to tell them you’re a faggot if they ask about being gay. This will put them back on their heels and force them to take you seriously. 

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Hi. I am wondering how I let a straight alpha male know I am available for service. We have been friends for 8 years now and in that time I have tried to be as obedient as possible. I have always gone along with his suggestions and desires, I have done everything I can to make his life better and more enjoyable. For his part, he seems to know I am “always game” for whatever he has in mind. He has a very dominant attitude with most people in his life and I know from some very frank conversations we have had that he is a rough BDSM master in bed. I also know he has repeatedly complained about women not putting out, not doing all the stuff he wants to do and not being submissive or service oriented enough for his liking.

Next week we will be going on holiday to a cabin together, and all of our other friends have apparently pulled out. To make sure we can still go and that he can have the holiday he deserves, I have covered their shares of the holiday and I have told him it is “so he can still have his holiday” and his only response was that I was such a good friend, when in actuality I am hoping to be his good fag. I have told him I am always happy to help in any way he wants, but he just laughed and said that gay men were funny. Is he oblivious or drawing a line? And if it is the former, how do I get him to see me as the faggot I am beneath him in the hierarchy?

Straight Alphas like him suffer from two simultaneously-running problems. (1) Gay males deserve the same respect as any other Man, and (2) what I call “nice guy syndrome”. 

I’m going to posit this: your friend has thought about using you sexually. He might even be quite interested in doing so. Why do I say that? Because he’s repeatedly complaining TO YOU about how women aren’t serving him and submitting to him enough. I think if you had done anything to help him see what you really are – a faggot – he would’ve used you. 

But let’s focus on what’s coming up. Serendipity has gifted you some time alone with him in a secluded place. Now’s the time, brother. Sit at his feet. Offer him a foot massage. Kiss his feet. See where I’m going with this? 

Start a conversation with him about Alphahood. Ask him if he considers himself to be Alpha. lead it into a discussion of Hierarchy. Show him material from this site if you need to (I have a “letter to an alpha” in the sidebar that he can read). He needs to grasp the inequality between you, and that you have a natural place as his servant, not his friend. 

The sooner you do this during the trip, the better. This will give him time to digest the information and act on it. 

You MUST do this. You have a prime opportunity to finally reveal the truth to this great Alpha! Good luck, and keep me posted!  

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I read Hierarchy University’s story about and interview with young Master Simon of Sweden and how he became master of his own literal Daddy. The story was not only informative and interesting but also highly homoerotic.

I’ve some questions for your site, relevant to the Master Simon interview and story:

1. Is young Master Simon accepting new older unowned slaves? And if so, how may a prospective unowned slave contact Master Simon?

2. Are there any young masters or websites for finding young masters in the United  States, who also train older slaves, in a manner similar to Master Simon? And if so, how may an  unowned older slave contact these young masters?

Thanks, brother.

1. I don’t know if he is accepting older faggots. I kind of doubt it right now given his age and current life, but I’ll ask him. 
2. There are no websites I’m aware of that are specifically tailored to the young Alpha/older faggot niche. It’s basically just trial and error. You do understand that you’ll likely only be used as a cash fag, right? Are you prepared for that? 

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I discovered chastity in high school and was intrigued with it from the first time I saw it. I grew up as what you would call a typical  “jock.” Captain of the football and baseball teams. I was always hanging with the most alpha guys in my school. I always felt submissive around them and knew I was gay but hadn’t learned about the hierarchy yet. After going to college I was caged by an alpha and from the first time I locked up I knew I was meant to be in a cage. My nub was never really big and was something I was always embarrassed about when hanging around the guys or being in locker rooms. Until chastity. I love how I look and feel when caged. I started pretty small got a cheap cobra nub knock off from amazon and then sized down pretty quickly to a steel nub. I would wear it to team meetings and things and would love how horny I’d get when in the presence of alphas while being caged. I would go through spurts of being caged and unlocking but always ended up back in a cage. Since I stop denying my place in the hierarchy I’ve been a lot happier. My goal now is to find a real alpha to serve and take ownership of me and try and stay locked more days in 2025 than not. Your content was instrumental in me realizing my place is to serve and obey real men. I wish I knew earlier as I would have offered myself to some of the straight alphas I hung out with. Thank you for all you do. Hierarchy is truth!

My brother, what an amazing testimony you’ve left here! Thank you so much for sharing your truth! 

Regret is a terrible heartache, isn’t it? However, we can make ourselves forget it by embracing our truth and purpose and learning to live in it! And that’s exactly what you’re doing now, and I applaud you!

I think it’s a great thing that you’re self-locking. This helps us to take responsibility for our own faghood, and we start our chastity journey, not because of the demands of an Alpha, but because WE KNOW IT’S THE RIGHT THING TO DO. That changes everything, honestly.  

I don’t know how old you are and if these memories are in the distant past or just a few years ago, but if it’s fairly recently these Alpha teammates could be re-contacted and thanked for helping you realize you’re a faggot. This could lead to some excellent outcomes. Just a suggestion. You just never know what Alphas on the team were thinking about breeding you and were too afraid to do anything about it. 

Anyway, I’m so proud of you, and I thank you endlessly for sharing this! I love you!  

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Hi Sam,

I was an avid reader of FWA back in the day and I am so happy to discover Hierarchy University. I was curious about that young fag would you referred to as “Baby Boy”? I remember you two were quite close. The voice message you left him in podcast episode 26.5 is still very moving.

Thank you so much for returning to the fold! I’m glad to have you back! 

Thank you for asking about Baby Boy. As you know, he and I went through the most incredible journey together and we won. We beat the world. The voice message you mention was literally the lowest and most terrifying moment of the entire two-year experience, because it looked very much like cancer was going to essentially destroy both of our lives. 

Of course, that didn’t happen. Instead, I managed to get him to Australia where he lives in safety today.

We still talk practically every day. He’s finishing up a college degree in IT with an emphasis on cyber security. He has a full-time job and lives alone in an apartment. 

I don’t know if it’s possible for me to love anyone or anything as much as I love him. I’m so proud of his bravery, kindness, resilience, and integrity. He’s one of the funniest persons I know, too. I’m so proud to call him the son of my heart, the gift God entrusted to me. 

Baby Boy changed absolutely everything about me and my life forever, and I’m eternally grateful.

Thank you for asking about him! AS you can tell, I’m a pretty proud Papa!  

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I’m glad I was able to find you again Sam as I followed your fags worship alphas site and wondered what happened when you disappeared.  My question is for further clarification on the difference between fags and betas. I love to suck cock and serve dominant alpha guys but a part of me feels drawn to being fully and sexually submissive. Does that make me beta?

I’m glad you’ve found me again, brother! Thank you! 

Faggots are essentially slave males. They don’t have natural rights like most other males; they belong to Men and Alphas to use as they will. A faggot has a need to be enslaved and used by Alphas without choice or question.

Submissive/bottom betas (beta-subs) are autonomous males who do not have a slave mentality and are simply more comfortable being fucked. It’s more of a sexual position rather than an entire lifestyle.

Hopefully that clears up your question.

As for you, I think you sound more like a faggot based on what you mentioned. However, you can try to use my book “Are You A Faggot?” (check out the link in the “Book Store” section). It’s designed to help you answer this yourself.  

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Hey, I’ve been reading your website for a while but I’ve never sent you a message before. However, I just saw your last post about vers men and I want to clarify one thing in case people do not agree with you:

SAM IS RIGHT, VERS ARE FAGGOTS

I am 41, I’ve been married with a sub fag for 20 years. We met when he was 18 and I was 21. After a few weeks talking online (back in 2005), he insisted that he was vers and he would only get in a relationship with me if I bottomed for him too. I invited him out for dinner for our very first date, I ordered a salad for him and told him that he should eat something light because I was going to fuck him. He took it as a joke. After 2 glasses of red wine and a few hours later, he was on his knees in my apartment sucking my dick.

I spent 5 minutes fucking his throat and repeating out loud that there was just one top in my house. 20 years later, he is a very successful and happy man, whose little dick has not seen a hole since 2005.

I truly believe that vers men enjoy the feeling of fucking, it feels awesome. But it only takes one real man to make them understand what they are. So, if anyone doubts you, here is a 40-year-old Alpha with 20 years of experience fucking multiple faggots and owning my most precious fag as my husband.

Congrats for your great content, Sam. I hope you have a nice weekend.

Master, thank you very much for your perfectly-written explanation of what I consider to be the correct Hierarchical interpretation! Your thoughts and experience should be the final nail in the coffin for the versatile argument. You’ve destroyed it completely.

Your fag husband should be very grateful that you are the Alpha you are, and that you submitted him with your great power. Without that, your husband would’ve wasted more of his life lost in a limbo of confusion and uncertainty. How sad that would be! 

I can understand why some faggots want to cling to the “versatile” tag. As you said, fucking feels great, but it also has to do with a fear of losing complete control to an Alpha. Of losing autonomy. Of becoming a possession. 

The twist in this is the fact that being completely owned by an Alpha brings great FREEDOM. It allows the faggot to truly experience purpose and fulfillment every day. I liken the times I’ve been owned to being in the eye of a hurricane. The world all around is chaos, but I’m safe and at peace under the power of my Master. No doubt your faggot feels that way. I wish that feeling for every faggot.

Master, I would dearly love to profile you on the site. I think your twenty-plus year reign over Hierarchy has given you much wisdom and insight that I’d love to share if you’re willing. Please write to me at hi*****************@***il.com.

Thank you, Master! 

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Hello Sir, I am into exposure – next to being a Finsub. What should I share publicly on the internet and where and what should stay private for masters only?

What you said makes no sense, brother. How can you be into exposure, yet only expose yourself to Masters? That’s not exposure, that’s just annoying Masters and/or sexually assaulting them.

I have a long-standing issue with exposure fags. You guys have it all wrong – being a faggot isn’t about your fetishes and kinks … it’s about serving Men. These Men (particularly Alphas in findom) don’t care about your body or what you’re doing to yourself in pics because the vast majority of them are STRAIGHT. They want your MONEY, not YOU.

Exposure faggots are ultimately worthless. Your fetish and your insistence on pushing it into the DMs of uninterested Masters leads nowhere except an unfulfilled life. Time to grow up.

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Hello there!

I really enjoy all your content and i absolutely identify with a lot of what you say about Alpha/faggot dynamics.

I love serving men and have a couple of Doms/Alphas I serve and who enjoy playing with me. But I likewise have a couple of subs who I Dominate and I really enjoy controlling them and pushing them to be the best subs they can be.

One of my Alphas has enjoyed using me and my sub, like a tiered heirarchy. Which was great fun.

My question is this – where do switches fit in the “Hierarchy”?

Hi, thanks for writing to me.

I don’t know what the context is for these relationships. Are they findom relationships? Sexual, in-person relationships? I’m assuming they’re in-person sexual encounters based partly on what you described about a three-way Hierarchy. 

Personally, I don’t recognize versatile people as a permanent part of Hierarchy. Obviously, they’re constantly shifting anyway, which is problematic. But the other thing is this: what are the chances you’re going to be happily versatile for the rest of your life? I’d say it’s close to 0%. Eventually what’s going to happen is a powerful Alphas is going to take complete control of you and force you to accept the real truth: you’re submissive. 

I have this theory that versatile people are really subs and faggots who simply cannot accept their reality so they take on a dominant role as a coping mechanism. You may disagree, but I’ll bet not very strenuously. I think you can see where I’m coming from. 

Boy, I really hate these questions about versatility. I get myself in trouble every time, but I can’t seem to come to any other conclusion based on the evidence I’ve seen. Maybe you’ll be different … but I doubt it.  

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Hi Sam, I’m a fag from New York and I recently meet a alpha online, one thing that confused me was the he told me he was vers and the likes getting fucked. I’m curious Sam can a gay vers be an alpha in your experience and opinion.

Thanks for writing, brother. In my experience, a vers guy cannot be Alpha. It violates one of the tenets of Alphahood, that they are dominant Men. You cannot claim to be dominant if another Man is topping and penetrating you. Sorry. I know that’s going to offend switches out there, but I don’t care. I’m tired of pretending like this is not the truth just to placate their indecisiveness. 

Here’s another truth: practically every vers I’ve ever known eventually makes a decision one way or another eventually, and they almost never choose Alpha. In other words, they’re really bottoms/faggots who are simply trying to resist it. 

I find this behavior to be just as offensive as so-called “cash masters” in findom pretending to be Alpha so that faggots will pay them money, and then they weakly tribute that money to real Alphas in secret. It’s underhanded and pathetic. 

BE WHO YOU WERE BORN TO BE!! 

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Hello sir, I’m a 20 year old sub that’s new here just recently followed and I’ve recently entered into a dom/sub type of relationship. I’m obviously not well versed in this area due to being new but my dom is saying I don’t have choices anymore now. I understand that but it makes me a little nervous but also excited. He’s also asking me to push my boundaries ie he asked me if I’ve ever done watersports and I told I hadn’t and wasn’t sure about trying it. His response was we are gonna change that and I don’t really get a say in it because I’m a sub who needs to owned by a man. It turned me on a little but also just wondering if that’s how it usually is and what other things I should expect coming? Idk I’m just overall a little nervous any advice would be great appreciated thanks for reading.

My brother, thank you so much for writing to me! I appreciate your honest apprehension. 

Don’t be afraid. Your new Master sounds confident and an Alpha with a plan for you. Keep in mind that the things he’s suggesting (like watersports) will help you get more deeply in-touch with who you are and your purpose. 

Think about it this way: it feels good to you for a reason. You were born to be owned by an Alpha, and you were born to submit and serve him. It feels good because you sense this truth. I promise, there’s nothing better than knowing your purpose and fulfilling it.

I don’t know what to expect from your Master, of course. I would guess he will probably put you in chastity, and that’s an adjustment you can overcome.  

I recommend that you just try to be obedient and respectful and really give it your best effort. You will grow so much through training and use. 

If you need more advice/help, please reach out my brother! 

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what kind of instructors and instructions are you planning to have on the discord?

Sadly I just learned that Discord has shut the community down without anything even being on there. So onto the next plan, I guess!

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Hey! Thank you so much for helping all men, fags and alphas, with your knowledge and accessible platforms.

I’m a 30yo happy and highly submissive faggot. But I always struggle with not knowing the answers to the following question.

How do you approach close-minded, 100% straight, young (+18) but very basic (in tastes, general knowledge, activities) Alpha types you find on the streets?

I come across these profiles in the street (I live in Spain), usually with friends, they come from sitting in the park, smoking joints, laughing and talking, with a natural cockiness, but I know that by culture or social appearance, they know nothing of this world and surely they will find “gay” (disgusting) anything that comes out of basic standards or commonly “heterosexual” interactions or actions between individuals of the male gender.

And it makes me want to offer myself, but surely I run the risk of getting beaten up or robbed, I would not know how to do it and even less try to do it with the maximum probability of achieving my purpose, to serve. Or if directly I should not try, it is better to look elsewhere or in other ways to avoid a high probability rate of failure and live a worse experience or contrary to the expected?

In short, I do not know how to correctly identify opportunities on the street, nor do I know how to make approaches or simply how to offer myself.

And no, I’m not looking for my pleasure, I’m looking for his, because his is what makes me happy and gives me pleasure. And no, I’m not looking to just eat his cock (although I would love to), just knowing that I can do something that gives him pleasure without being hit on or robbed would make me feel useful.

I am sorry if my message is confusing or if it has already been answered, I have spent hours on your site but I have not been able to find the answers I am looking for to this/these questions raised, probably because I am not smart or savvy enough, my apologies.

I am grateful for any help I can get in this regard. Thank you very much for everything!

Brother, thank you for writing.

You have a very common concern, one so common that I’m toying with writing a small ebook explaining it in more detail. But I’ll give you some help here.

In simple terms, you really want to start offering to submit in ways to Alphas you already know in your life. Why? Two reasons: (1) You’re not experienced enough to approach strangers with offers of service yet, and (2) Alphas you know will be more likely to use you, and more likely to treat you kindly if they aren’t interested.

So you think of one or two Alpha friends you’d like to serve, and you start doing extra things for them. Find ways to be useful, buy them gifts you know they want/need, offer to do chores like detail their cars or whatever. Speak to them in respectful language (call them “Sir”, etc.). 

They will notice this change and eventually ask you why, which will give you an opportunity to explain the difference between you and them. 

Alternatively, you can ask a question like, “Do you consider yourself to be Alpha?” This can lead into a discussion of Hierarchy (you might even show them the pinned post about Hierarchy on this site). 

But I want you to understand this: Alphas understand what you are and they understand Hierarchy naturally. They aren’t going to beat you up or hurt you, especially not the ones you personally know. So don’t be afraid. This is a very natural thing, and Alphas are just as much a part of it as any faggot. You’re simply trying to find fulfillment, and they’ll realize it if you do it the way I’m suggesting. 

Good luck brother! 

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Hello Sam, I’ve been reading this site since its FWA. I have a question. Do you remember, Bobby? The wrestler who thought he was an alpha and had a rivalry with another wrestler (who was physically smaller than Bobby). I remember the last update you posted about them had the other guy dominate and scent train Bobby. Any update on that?

I went looking through the rubble of my rescued FWA database searching for this story, but I couldn’t find it. However, I did unearth a story that I will need to restore to this site because it’s such an incredible account of a God Alpha’s life of domination – Master Kyle.

But anyway, I’m sorry I couldn’t find it. I don’t have any updates, either.

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Hi Sam,

Thank you for your amazing podcasts and website. I am 24 and a faggot. I have serviced several Alphas since I discovered my true identity. None of them have been interested in me being locked in chastity and I have only explored this on my own. I understand that chastity is important to many Alphas and therefore their faggots but I have not experienced that yet.

i have read about how to get used to a device and how to build up the time i can wear it for gradually and carefully to be ready to go long term. i have read that it may take several devices and lots of trial and error before finding the right fit.

i have been servicing an Alpha for nearly three months and he has decided he will lock me. Unlike my previous Alphas he insists on long term locking. He has ordered a CB3000s which he has used with other faggots. When asked about getting the right fit and buildig up time in it he said that this device has always worked for his faggots so it will work for me. He said when it arrives i will wear it straight for two weeks to get used to it before any discussions.

i feel scared as this all goes against what i have read. i have tried to talk to Him about my concerns but he says i don’t know what i am talking about and he does. He has locked up faggots before and knows how to lock me.

i know my Alphas knows best and has experience with chastity training but why am i scared?

Congratulations on your new Alpha Master! It’s time for you to stop flirting around with this and start experiencing it.

Why are you scared? Because your Master fully intends to lock you permanently in chastity and change your life. That’s huge and frightening, but it’s also transformative. It’s something you need to become the next level of your journey. 

This Master is wise to not allow you to pull back from this. I admire that in him. I think you need to submit and trust him. 

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