Hi Sam. I am 38 years old and openly gay all my adult life. I got married to my husband 20 years ago and we adopted a child. I did all the “American dream” things. Married, career, home, children etc. etc. while I am openly gay, I have suppressed my faggot nature. A few years ago I told my husband I needed to submit and worship Alphas. My husband’s NOT an Alpha so he gave me permission to serve others and I have done so very well for 3 years now. My problem is, I have to give most of my time to my family and career and I’ve struggled to find an alpha that doesn’t want ALL of me all the time. So my question is, can I be a faggot even though most of my time is spent in service to my family and career? Or should I accept that I can’t serve enough and retire my faggothood?

Thank you for the question, brother! 

First of all, congratulations on the relationship and family! Most faggots (like me) remain free of long-term romantic relationships and raising children, so it’s nice that you have that.

I think it’s telling that, despite having that comfortable family life, your heart is still needing to serve Alphas. Here’s what it tells us: faggots are BORN TO SERVE. It’s not a choice, it’s not a kink, it’s not a mental illness. We are simply born into that function.

So when you ask “Can I still be a faggot if the majority of my time is spent with my family?”, it’s sort of misdirection. You will ALWAYS be a faggot regardless of what you’re doing in life. And you will ALWAYS have a need to serve. 

Now, you might be classed as a non-functioning or  low-functioning faggot given your circumstances, and there’s nothing wrong with that. This is your life today, and you have important responsibilities to care for. I’m in a similar boat with you right now, so I feel your frustration. 

Your desire to serve is admirable, brother, and I respect you completely. Your willingness to reach out and TRY is better than many faggots who never try at all. You deserve praise, not judgement. Live the best life you can, brother! 

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Hi Sam, before I knew I was a faggot and locked myself, when I would jerk off my balls would always retreat inwards like that knew it was wrong to be using my dick. Does this have anything to do with the genetic predisposition to faggotry? Every alpha who I’ve discussed it with looked at me like I was crazy when I described it. My balls are obviously significantly smaller than theres but idk just curious. Thanks

Thank you for the question, brother! 

That is a very interesting problem that I’ve never heard of before. The movement of the scrotum is largely considered to be an unconscious function of the human body, one not affected by emotions or thoughts (it involves heat distribution within the scrotum). 

Now, could there be some kind of mind-body wiring inside of you that causes your body to mistake/link your shame with colder body temperature? That might be possible, but again, I’m only speculating. I’d be curious to know if there is anyone else who has experienced this. 

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Hi Sam, I hope you’re doing OK. Listen recently. I’m having a bit of a hard time. I’m trying to make my alpha relationship work, but we kinda ended on a fight and it was over him not wanting me to see my dad. Long story short my dad has terminal pancreatic cancer and he doesn’t have long to live and he’s been trying to control me to not go and see him And after several days of fighting I told Damien to go Pound sand he left and after I was done visiting my dad I got a text message from a friend saying that he caught Damien fucking some slut in the bathroom

what do I do? Do I forgive him or do I stand up for myself and tell him to get the fuck lost because this hurts Because I love him dearly, but he’s making me choose between him and my dying dad did I make the right call?

PS I saw that video You know the one of how the girl said she was gonna give that guy a blowjob and she started biting down with her teeth. I was just like are you stupid? You’re just showing him why He should dump your ass and go find the nearest fag and dump a load down his throat

Brother,

Thank you very much for writing!

First of all, I’m so sorry that you’re going through this awful moment with your father. I have yet to lose my parents (came close with Mom many years ago), so I cannot imagine what you’re going through. I hope your family can come together for support!

I must tell you I’m pretty disgusted by the selfish, pig-like behavior of your “Alpha”, Damien. Yeah, I put quotes around it because, while he may have been born Alpha, it’s clear he has no idea what that word actually means. Calling him Alpha denigrates the truly great Alphas in that fraternity who have done incredible feats of selfless courage and generous benevolence to benefit us all without anything for themselves. Our world is the astounding miracle it is because of great Alphas, and Damien doesn’t have the intelligence, depth, or imagination to even conceive of that let alone live up to it.

Please go be with your Dad and your family. They’ve been there long before Damien, and will be long after. Forget him. He’s not worthy of being served by you, my brother.

Love,

sam the faggot

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I am a faggot by nature.

I like when powerful men dominant me. I like the smell of their feet. I get turned on by the sound of their piss . I enjoy submitting to men.

However, I DONT want to be a faggot. Can I retire my brain to just be gay

Thank you for your question! 

I get this question every so often, and I understand how you feel. It’s hard to accept a life destined to cravenly serving Men and Alphas or being owned by them as a servant or slave. 

But as you might know, I firmly believe we are born into our Hierarchical place. I say this because I have seen the disastrous examples of faggots trying to live straight lives or trying to be a sub boyfriend in an equal relationship. It never works. Ultimately the faggot ends up unhappy and unfulfilled.

Rather than looking at your faghood as a negative, look at it as a positive. Faggots have a very specific, important, and irreplaceable function in Hierarchy. We get the opportunity to serve our greatest Men and inspire them to even greater levels of power. We are gifted with the chance to be a part of making Alphas more successful, focused, and pleased.

But most of all, we fulfill ourselves and our true purpose! 

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Hi Sam, thx for all the work here. I’m wondering if you have any insights into young footballers being Alphas. I’m thinking about Lucas Bergvall or Gavi. Do you think they’re naturally dominant? Do you think they show it in bedroom? May secretly use faggots?

I guess they also have people working for them. Probably people in their midage cooking, cleaning, doing loundry for those young Alphas that have more money that those people will ever earn. Do you think Lucas or Gavi may get a power rush from that? Do you think they show their domination in some way? Also, it sounds like a perfect job for a faggot… do you think there are any serving them as employees?

Thanks for the question!

Most athletes – especially those approaching pro-level – are dominant and Alpha to one degree or another. It’s the nature of competition itself, which is very much an hierarchical behavior. Sports teams (like the military, fraternities, politics, etc.) are hierarchically structured and very much centered around a winner-takes-all philosophy.

And what do we see so often when dealing with powerful Alphas in the heat of competition and battle? We see faggots in service to some degree or another. There’s a reason why I’ve covered faggots being used and shared among teammates and fraternity brothers so often on this site. Owning and using faggots is part of Alpha life and their expression of dominance.

I didn’t know the two players you mentioned, but they’re pretty hot!

As for your question about them using faggots, it’s impossible for me to know that. But I can confidently say this: they’ve been exposed to information about the service of faggots. The secret is out now, and young Alphas in today’s world (particularly high-profile sports Alphas) are well aware of the use of faggots.

Whether or not they have used them, I’m sure we won’t ever know for sure given how Alphas lie about such things.

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Hi Sam. I’ve tried listening to the podcast on Targeted Bullying, which sounds like one of quite enjoy. But the link keeps bringing up a podcast on Straight Alphas, Women, And Hierarchy. Just wondering if this is a technical issue?

It was a weird glitch. I’m not sure why it was doing that. It’s fixed now, though. Here’s the link as well: https://hierarchypodcast.com/hierarchy-290-targeted-bullying/

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Hey Sam, wondering if you have any thoughts on this. I’ve started going to this inexpensive Chinese massage place in the West Village in NYC. It’s got 10 super plush oversized leather lounge chairs along two facing walls – so about 20 people can get foot massages at the same time. The first time I went I was the only one there. I closed my eyes and got a great hour foot massage. I heard people coming in while I was getting my massage but when I opened my eyes – I couldn’t believe the place was filled with these hot studs getting their feet massaged. They were all in their 30’s / 40’s –  clearly finance/tech bros – all in T shirts and shorts – really built — meaty thighs/legs spread while a small masseur kneeled before them at their feet.  ALL were looking at their phones during the massage, or watching the masseur work. None had their eyes closed.  They exuded such testosterone and a cockiness, like “yeah, kneel before me and massage my feet.”  One particularly hot dude kept telling the masseur he wanted it harder – and he’d bark and order how and where he wanted his feet touched. All I could think of was here was perfect hunting ground to meet an alpha. But how?! There had to be some dudes there that would welcome a FREE foot massage.. But how to approach about that? Every scenario I think of sounds creepy. I keep going back and seeing all these hot dudes getting their feet massaged is driving me crazy thinking that here is an opportunity.  Would love any thoughts/advice.

Thank you for the intriguing question, brother! 

All of the places where straight Alphas congregate to get body work done – gyms, saunas, massage parlors, barber shops, etc. – are great places to offer service. Why? Because these Alphas are the ones who recognize their Alphahood through their body and are seeking elite ways to pamper and enhance both the look of their bodies and their social standing. They’re typically well aware and quite conscious of Hierarchy on some instinctual level. You were right to pick this juicy spot! 

Massage parlors (particularly foot massage) are especially great targets because of the inherent power dynamic involved, as well as the Alpha’s built-in desire to have his feet touched and pampered. 

There are a couple of ways to approach this. I’ll outline them all and you can choose which one suits you and the situation best.

1. You could ask the staff when a certain Alpha typically makes his appointments and arrange yours around the same time in order to hopefully end up in a waiting room together. In that moment you could ask him if he considers himself to be Alpha (this is a go-to that works amazingly well). He will likely have an answer. Be ready for him to ask you WHY … you’ll need to have that answer. You might be able to direct him to this site and the Hierarchy pyramid (depending on how the conversation goes).

2. You could wait for him outside and attempt to talk to him after his massage. You could use the approach above, or possibly ask him if he would like free massages and/or domestic service. You’d be surprised at how curious that makes straight Alphas. 

3. Offer to buy him a drink or lunch or something like that (depending on the time of day, etc.). Alternatively, you could buy him something if you notice an opportunity (“Sir, I saw this tie and I thought it would look great with that one suit” or something like that).

4. Print out my “Letter To An Alpha”, write “thank you for your consideration, Sir” and leave contact information on it, and leave it on his car for him to find after his session.

5. Buy a hard copy of my book “May I Serve You, Sir?”, fill in your contact info, and give it to him.  

These are all viable options. You might be inspired by these suggestions to try something else, or a combination approach. But trust me, these work more often than you think.

Let me know what happens!! Happy hunting!  

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So, i get that my place as a faggot is to be a hole for men anytime/anywhere etc. but what if the guy wanting sex isn’t an alpha at all. They just maybe don’t know their correct place in the hierachy. At the same time i second guess myself and i probably shouldn’t be the one to judge anyone and i should just let them do what they want to be safe. What do you think? Is it required that i let these other faggots fuck me anytime they want too?

Thank you for the question, brother!

This is an interesting issue, honestly. Your choice really depends on how much you’re willing to bend your own standards.

I’ll give you an example from my own life. I was once friends with a black faggot named Michael (we bonded over filmmaking), and Michael was in a relationship with a black pre-Alpha named DeMarkus. I wasn’t particularly attracted to either of them because I knew neither of them were truly Alpha (and both were GAY gay, if you know what I mean). 

But unbeknownst to me, they both wanted to have sex with me. So they conspired to get me drunk at this bar, then we went back to their place and had a threesome. Dee fucked me while Michael and I kissed. It was okay (Dee had a big dick), but I didn’t come away feeling great about it. I knew I had just lowered my standards somewhat (even though I was quite drunk). 

Ultimately you need to make this decision for yourself. I just don’t think you’re going to feel right submitting to inferior males. Like it or not, Hierarchy colors these choices more than we realize! 

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Hello Sam, fellow fag here, I hope this finds you well.

Firstly, I must start by thanking you for your wonderful work over the years. I was a reader back when FWA was still a thing. I also thank you for being candid with your own struggles, personal and legal, and standing up to fascism. While this is a space for domination and submission it is still important to be principled in every aspect of your being. I hold tremendous respect for you.

Before I get to my question here is some context: I’ve dipped my toes at various levels with submission, exclusively online. I did get close to meeting in person but I chickened out. In fact I threw my cage away. And I’ve done that a few times now. I get scared and want to distance myself from the fag inside me. Inevitably though I always return. I know it stems from some trauma I still carry and I’m neurodivergent.

Now I have the opportunity to reach out to that alpha again. I know I don’t deserve his attention but he was damn good as my Daddy. Equally I don’t want to insult him by crawling back (for the third time). He deserves better.

I do find myself in a better headspace though and I’ve managed to beat my previous chastity lockup record and counting. Additionally, I do struggle to find the right connections with alphas that can accommodate my disability.

My queries for you are:

Could you offer advice on how to conquer that fear?
What would you suggest to fags that want to run away instinctively?
Is there a way to make things good with my Daddy? Should I even attempt it?
Do you have any external resources that you think would help unowned fags beyond content on this website?

Thank you for this opportunity to ask and I will keep following in the hope of becoming a better fag. Even if this doesn’t get a response please continue your hard work.

Many thanks,

subnameddom (I’m aware of the irony)

Thank you for writing, brother.

The issue you describe is pretty common, so you shouldn’t beat yourself up too much over it. Faggots are pretty vulnerable, so it’s understandable. 

I do think the online service stuff (like findom, etc.) exacerbates this problem. When a person gets comfortable in safety behind a computer screen, the simple act of meeting with someone in person becomes much more difficult. The same goes for masturbating to porn or Alphas online. The disconnect between the easy online fantasy and real-life interaction makes it harder to come out and live honestly in realtime. 

I’m not sure how to fix it, honestly, because at some point the solution involves you simply embracing what you need to do and then doing it. There’s no magic formula for this part. You either want it badly enough to take action, or you don’t. It’s just like the countless people out there dreaming of starting a business, but never do. They enviously watch YouTube videos of people finding success, all the while growing bitter because those people took the action they didn’t. You see what I mean?

I do think it’s bad that you’re wasting this long-suffering Alpha’s time with your indecisiveness. He seems like a good Master who deserves better. I’m not trying to make you feel bad by saying that, brother. I just want you to appreciate what’s at stake. 

If you want this to come true, then you need to say “fuck it” and just go do it. You’ll never know how it feels to actually serve and be owned by a truly superior Man until you TRY. 

I’m rooting for you, brother. I really am. I wish I had a magic wand that could make it happen for you, but life wants us to earn our fulfillment. So go grab it while you still can! 

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Hi Sam, this is fag cocksucker, a fan of your blog. I have two questions. The first is about fagBNB /subBNB, because I heard that this program has been delayed or canceled. And here’s the question: will it be resumed, do you have any updates on this, or not? Because I think it’s a program with great potential, I would very much like to use it myself, of course.

The second question, or rather not a question, but rather an idea/ different view  at fagBNB. Because I live in a place where, I think, not many masters would simply want to come on vacation or so. So, what do you think about a solution where the master announces himself and his apartment/place to sleep in exchange for service? Of course, everything must be signed in a contract, everything must be agreed upon etc. In exchange for accommodation/a place to sleep, fag can serve the master in any way the master wishes like sexual service, cleaning, cooking for the master, shopping (the master can save money on shopping), or simply giving a blowjob a few times a day in gratitude for the accommodation. Fag can be on his vacation, maybe can work from Master place or whatever. But the Master in the end have checked fag for service. I think this idea is also worth considering, because every fag would be happy to go even to a smaller town just to serve a master. Tell me what you think.

Thank you for the question, brother! 

Yes, SubBNB is currently sidelined and/or cancelled given that Master Raz (the co-creator of it) is serving in the military. However, I’ve started a proto-FagBNB on the FREE Hierarchy Discord, available right now. I am looking into ways to make it work viably on the Discord, but for now there is a room open for that service.

As to your other idea, I think it has merit. However, knowing online Masters as I do, I think it’s unlikely that Masters would open their homes to online faggots. Men (and particularly Alphas) are very compartmentalized. They like to keep the various parts of their lives separated. Viewing from the Alpha perspective, I think they’d be uncomfortable with a faggot “invading” their personal space. 

I could be wrong, though. Maybe some Alphas can weigh in on this idea.  

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Hi brother,

This faggot is 54. It’s locktober but the slave is so frustrated because its Master doesn’t allow it to be caged. It is so nice to be locked and show its submission. But Master decided that the slave should stay in chastity just by the power of Master’s will.

The slave is really grateful and honored that Master thinks it is able to do that. And it will !

Of course it’s easier than for young faggots. The slave is so proud of the young faggots that manage not to jerk and cum.

To be honest, the slave is really ashame when it can’t avoid a hard-on in front of its Master. Master’s aim is that the slave’s clit stays soft. That’s so difficult….

Of course there is only one cock in our relationship. And of course we are both feeling better after cumming, which has a complete different meaning for Him and it.

Do you think that not being allowed to be caged will improve Master power ?

Thank you for the question, brother! Happy Locktober! 

Congratulations on having a Master at your age! I occasionally hear from older faggots who complain that they feel they are all washed up, so it’s nice to have an inspirational story like yours to show them all what is actually possible! 

I do understand your Master’s perspective, and I can definitely respect it. In some way, he is demonstrating a certain level of trust or faith in you and your ability to obey. He knows you want to honor him in all you do, and this is one way to do that. So I’d definitely look at it that way.

Funnily enough, I never got hard while serving. I was always so in awe of serving and so focused on what I was doing to please them that I simply didn’t even pay attention to myself. Now, mind you, I masturbated A LOT when I was by myself until about 8 years ago, when I began to take a more serious inventory of every aspect of my life and how I was using it. There is a certain responsibility I feel from my functions on this site and for my audience, so I do try to practice what I preach whenever possible. That’s MY point of view, but everybody’s different.

As far as your concluding question, YES I definitely do think that it will grow his power. What Master wouldn’t be flattered and proud to simply command something and have it be done, rather than requiring physical props to make it happen?  I can tell you’re a good faggot, and I’m sure you make your Owner proud every day! 

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Hey brothers,

I’ve been deep into my own training lately — pushing hard in the gym, staying disciplined with diet and mindset, and I can feel the power building every day. Even when I’m on my own, I keep that alpha focus switched on.

Curious how the rest of you channel that same dominant energy when you’re alone — what do you do to keep the mind sharp and the body charged between sessions?

Let’s share what works and keep raising the bar

Sir, thank you for the question?

This seems like something that you should be sharing in the Alpha rooms on my Hierarchy Discord rather than here. You can join that by CLICKING HERE.

But I want to comment on your post as well even though I’m a faggot. What you describe is a great secret of Alphahood, namely, the intense focus on personal development with the end goal of becoming a dominant and unstoppable machine. It’s part of that testosterone-fueled appreciation for Manhood and Alpha supremacy that all members of the Alpha fraternity have.

I really love that you are looking to your Alpha brothers for support while also providing encouragement to them! Being a part of that exclusive Alpha club is such an advantage! 

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Hi Sam. I hope all is well! Just wondering if you know what has happened to Alpha Aesthetic? His Twitter is gone and most records of him on Google have vanished?

He has rebranded himself in an attempt to distance himself from findom as he starts a couple of new businesses. He doesn’t want those efforts endangered by his findom empire. He is still doing drains on the DL and he has retained a group of faggots as his personal property, but he’s no longer doing anything publicly. 

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Hi Sam,

I have been reading some of your stories on the website. Thank you for your contribution to the community.

I am cash faggot loser. I am currently serving a real straight alpha god. I love him so much. He is so hot, muscular, sexy and real straight alpha, But he is ruthless and demanding, and does not do any gay shit.

I read some of your stories, like some of the straight master got sucked off by their faggots. I found its kinda odd. My god does not like that at all, he thinks its gay shit. Not only that, he does not even allow me to see his dick, and be close to his private.  I also wanted to sniff his farts, but he does not like my nose close to his ass, so i can only sniff from afar when I am in the same room with him. He does not even allow me to lick his barefoot, because he thinks faggot’s saliva is disgusting,  but he allowed me to lick his shoes, and shoes only. Honestly, i kinda like it, because that proves he is a real straight. I feel myself so lucky. I pay him weekly, and work hard for him, he said its natural for me to pay him, i totally agree, I am his ATM loser servant.

He beats me hard, and I am allowed to eat his shit, piss, spit, sniff his feet, and he put me in chastity too. I ate his morning spit a lot before he brushed his teeth, its stinky, but the taste was so good, real alpha scent. he use belt to beat me, give me bruise, he said he will NEVER do any gay shit, just real straight alpha domination.

2 weeks ago, he trained me to sniff his shit in the toilet, he was so ruthless naturally, i love him so much.

So my question to you is should I just obey him, and do I am told, and not thinking about my needs? Like wanting to see his cock, sniff his armpits, and being closer to sniff his farts?

Or should I keep asking him about what I wanted? I tried in the past, it failed miserably, he said its NOT about what i want, its always about him.  He wants my cash and total obedience.

Thanks,

LoserS

Thank you for your question, brother.

There’s something quite sad about your letter, and I’m not sure what I can say to help you. I think you’re pretty happy where you’re at even though this Alpha absolutely mistreats you and hurts you and is destroying your life. 

Feeling love for an Alpha can make a faggot do all sorts of detrimental things to itself. That’s why I’ve always encouraged faggots to seek good Alphas who know how to build a solid foundation with them. Destroyer Alphas only understand pain and cruelty. 

But I’m not sure that anything I say is going to change the perspective broken inside of you, brother. You feel like you deserve this treatment, which is why you crave his cruelty … it reinforces what you feel about yourself. 

I truly hope this person doesn’t completely destroy you. Please be careful.

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Thank you so much for responding. I have to admit that I was a little disappointed.  I think deep down I hoped that either you will give me the secret or someone will read it and give me a shot and neither has happened.         Just wanted to say thank you for taking the time to read my message and respond,

Brother thank you for writing!

Don’t get discouraged! You will find what you’re looking for. Just keep focusing on developing yourself and devoting yourself to training. The right opportunity will appear. 

I love you!

Not sure if you remember but some fag “Tom” wrote to you a few months ago? Well turns out he took your advice since I woke up to a letter on my desk last week of some “letter to an alpha”. Safe to say I was surprised that my roommate was a complete beta. Here’s a little context, Tom and I moved in together for uni a few weeks ago and we never really talked beyond furniture and shit like that. He was always quiet and didn’t make much sound which was quite nice but I always thought I could feel him ogling me when I changed, never had any proof but I could sense it. After the first few days I just ignored it, I’m used to other men looking at me in lockeroom so a roomie isn’t so different. Not to brag but I’ve always been the center of attention, it’s not like I try to be it just happens. Anyways last week when I was getting ready for class I found a printed letter on my desk from you know who and I confronted him about it. He was kind of vague and nervous about it, talking about some hierarchy alpha fag thing and just told me to scroll your site. Not gonna lie there’s a lot on here and I just don’t have the time nor do I want to comb over a bunch of gay porn so I thought I’d use his email to ask you directly. Where do I go from here? I’m straight and don’t really want to do any gay shit so for now I’ve just been having the fag clean the room and help me with some tedious work.

This is a response to THIS QUESTION. 

Sir, thank you so much for reaching out! 

I am sure the letter and your roommate’s revelation came as something of a surprise, but the message itself was probably not as surprising. After all, you freely admit that you’ve always been a leader wherever you go and people always cater to your wants and needs. 

That’s because you were born Alpha, Sir. You were always meant to be served in some way or another by inferiors like your roommate. I have no doubt that, if you examine your past, you’ll be able to recall many others who submitted and served you in various ways. It’s always come easy for you, hasn’t it? That’s your natural Alphahood at work, silently but undeniably controlling the impulses and actions of lesser ones you encounter in life.

I do want to correct you on one thing, Sir. Your roommate isn’t beta … your roommate is a faggot. There is a difference. Beta males will obey you when you tell them to do something, of course, but you don’t OWN them. However, faggots are the property of Men, especially Alphas like you. Your roommate is offering himself to you as your servant, your property. 

I’m glad to hear that you’re already using your new faggot to perform domestic chores and other “tedious work” that is, of course, beneath you. That shows you have great instincts, Sir. 

You asked where should you go from here … well, this can go as far as you want it to go, Sir. An owned faggot will obey your wishes in all things, so really anything is possible. Increase your faggot’s responsibilities. Have your faggot kiss your feet whenever you return to the dorm. Have your faggot give you massages and foot massages. If you needed to unload, you could make your fag suck your dick or drink your piss or whatever. It’s literally up to you, Sir. (I know you might not agree about a faggot sucking your dick as a straight Alpha, but this site has compiled a lot of evidence that straight Men use faggots as cocksuckers A LOT more than anyone knows … READ THESE TESTIMONIALS). 

I also highly recommend scent training with your new faggot, Sir. It’s likely your faggot is already addicted to your pheromones, but scent training only increases the hypnotic effect. Have it kneel and inhale your scent from your crotch (you can leave your pants or underwear on), or have it deeply inhale the scent of your armpits. Foot worship will also have this effect.

Another thing I recommend is putting your faggot in chastity, Sir. Faggots should not be allowed to use their penises like Men do. Chastity cages prevent the faggot from playing with itself, but they also shrink the fag’s penis and keep the faggot focused on its purpose – serving you. 

I think you will discover that faggot ownership vastly increases your power, Sir. This is one of the great untapped secrets that most straight Alphas refuse in life because of the “gay” stigma attached. You must understand that Hierarchy affects all people regardless of whether or not they acknowledge it. Men have owned faggots since forever. Entire civilizations (the Romans, the Greeks) were practically founded on that principle. Gladiators were serviced by faggots prior to battle in the Coliseum. And on and on. The British Empire had Kings, and those Kings owned male slaves that served them.

It’s simply the way of the world. The fact that straight Alphas refuse to own slave males (faggots) for their needs simply because they think it’s “gay” denies history AND denies themselves of the great power they receive through owning them.

I’m betting you’re already feeling some increase of power just from starting to accept your faggot’s service, which is why you’re writing now. You’re starting to sense there is a greater power to come from your ownership of this faggot, and you’re right. There is much more than you can know, Sir. 

So don’t stop growing into your proper role, as a MASTER and eventual God Alpha! 

Thank you again for writing, Sir. Please tell your faggot “Tom” that I’m proud of him for having the courage to offer himself. And Sir, please feel free to write at any time. You can use my personal email if you’d like: hierarchyuniversity@gmail.com. Thank you, Sir!  

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Hi Sam,

I’m an aspiring fag in my mid 20s who’s quite new to this. I don’t have too much experience previously but all the signs point to my faghood. My question revolves around accepting an dom, I know we don’t essentially pick them, but I had one session with an older dom in his 60s.  He lives alone but his house is dirty, and he’s not that attractive to me. But he’s willing to provide the training I desperately need.

So should I just accept him for the time being or wait it out to find someone I’m genuinely attracted to since I know from previous encounters that I’m way more submissive and down to expose myself to my true nature. Simply put if dom turns me on, there’s little I deny them.

Looking forward to your input.

Love the podcast btw

Thank you for the question, brother.

Congrats on coming to terms with your purpose! I’m proud of you for wanting to learn and grow as a faggot! 

One common misconception about being a true faggot is this idea that faggots must service ALL Men. I disagree. There are plenty of Men who claim to be dominant or “Alpha”, but are actually NOT Alpha. And my question is this: would any superior Man live in a filthy house? I don’t think so.

Also, you’re not attracted to him. Superior Men of that age group might not be your cup of tea as a faggot in your twenties, and that’s perfectly understandable. You shouldn’t need to serve a Man if you’re not attracted to him at least in some way. This guy sounds like a delusional pig. You deserve better.

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Hi Sam,

Happy Locktober!! As someone who is trying to extend my Locktober into November and maybe beyond I have to ask, as a locked faggot yourself do you ever cum while caged? Is it something I should try to do or just not worry about it? It is all easier said than done.

Thanks for writing to me! Happy Locktober to you, too!

I have never cum while caged, but I might be a special case. I had used my mind to stop masturbating a few years before being caged, and I’ve never ejaculated from being fucked (not even when being cunted). So I’m not sure I’m the standard. 

Other faggots have cum while in their cage, so I know it’s possible. 

Personally, I think faggots should really try not to cum as much as possible. Ejaculation is something Men do, not faggots. Plus, not cumming keeps you hornier and needing cock. I always default to recommending that faggots focus on service or preparations for service, rather than servicing themselves. 

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Dear Sam the Faggot,

We could be brothers. I wish we were. I’m probably much older than you, but you are much wisher than I.

I am a faggot, or at least I think I am. But I’m not out to myself completely, and you are the 2nd person I have told I have fantasies of serving. The first person is a dominant man younger than I, who lives in another state. We met via social media accounts that neither of us use anymore, so we communicate via text messages or snail mail.

I have a boyfriend, a partner of 10 years, and we have a house mortgage, but I’m not out to him.

I’m torn. I feel I should try to live my remaining years happy in my relationship, and continue to hide my fantasies of serving dominant men. My BF is plain vanilla in many ways, and I feel confident that even approaching the topic of needing him to be more dominant would cause the relationship to end.

I apologize for wasting your time since I don’t really have a question. I’m just venting. However, I really do appreciate your website. Thank you for your posts and advice.

My dear brother, thank you for writing!

One of the greatest compliments I ever receive from doing this work are the many letters I get from brothers like you who open up their true feelings for the first time. I know the suffocating burden you’ve been carrying around your entire life. I hate that you’ve been unable to truly experience your life as you were born to – as a faggot.

I hate when people diminish or dismiss the feelings you and I have. We aren’t crazy or fetishists. We’re faggots. It’s how we were made. 

I’ve always remained on that hill, insisting that faggots come to accept the accurate knowledge of Hierarchy so that they might be free. It was one of the primary motivators for this site more than ten years ago. I’ve met a lot of brothers like you in that time, believe me. Some of these ones have openly wept when I got them to admit publicly to me that they are faggots. I cherish every one of them and their confessions, just as I cherish yours, my brother.

Fortunately, your story isn’t as sad as some brothers who must suffer in silence alone. You’re in a loving relationship, and you also have an Alpha with whom you can discuss your proper role.

You didn’t say your age, but I’m guessing in the 50-60 range. It’s probably too late in the game to upend your cozy life in favor of maybe serving an Alpha.

My advice: stay where you are, build a cozy life of love with your partner, and rest easy in the knowledge that your faggot truth was heard, acknowledged, and treasured by me, your grateful brother!

love you!

~ sam the faggot

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1. I have never drank an alpha piss but I am turn on by the idea. It’s like being owned forever since you can never un- drink it.
2. Have you ever done it ?
3. how do I prepare
4. how do I bring it up

Thank you for the question!

Piss play in general is a pretty thrilling aspect of the Alpha/fag dynamic. It seems like Alphas truly love using their piss both as a marking as well as a humiliation tool. For faggots, it’s a privilege to receive an Alpha’s piss. It fulfills some primal part of our nature.

Drinking an Alpha’s piss is the most thrilling way we can show our deep respect for every aspect of his being, even his waste. 

I have done it many times, mostly straight from the tap (not much of a fan of bottled piss). My best technique for it is to have the Alpha piss into my mouth so I can swallow it directly down my throat (I used this as a fun party trick while in prison).

I guess everybody prepares differently. I did by drinking my own piss and getting accustomed to the acrid taste of it (not overwhelming, but sharp). As I later discovered, piss varies wildly from Alpha to Alpha depending on their diet and health.

To bring it up to a Master, you’d just kneel and respectfully ask him if he would give you his piss. Like I said earlier, many Alphas love this and will eagerly grant you that wish.

Asking random Alphas for it is a bit trickier and depends on the situation. But if alcohol is involved, you should have little resistance.

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