Hi Sam–I’ve been exclusively owned by a straight alpha for several years now. Sexual service is rare, and I sometimes feel myself yearning to serve other men. At the same time though, I feel deep, true loyalty to my owner. I plan to be his boy for life.
I’ve discussed my feelings with him, and he doesn’t mind if I talk to other guys too. I still feel guilty about it though. It’s like these dueling feelings inside me.
My question is this: is monogamy unnatural for fags? Can I casually serve men while still remaining loyal to my original alpha?
So let me get this straight: you have been in a service relationship with a straight Alpha for YEARS and you didn’t bother to tell me this story??? REALLY??? Do you have a confidentiality agreement with him, or did you have a stroke while writing to me? I think that story would be of INCREDIBLE VALUE TO A PLANET FULL OF FAGGOTS, don’t you think? I’ll be expecting your story written in an email to this email address ASAP: hierarchyuniversity@gmail.com
In the meantime, your question:
Faggots are generally (and notoriously) not monogamous UNLESS they are caged and are fed/bred regularly by a dominant Master. Since you’re not getting that regularly, your thoughts tend to follow your hunger.
As far as servicing other Alphas and still being loyal to your Owner … clearly that is not loyalty, right? And bear in mind that your Owner told you he doesn’t mind you talking to other guys … does that mean just talking, or talking and servicing?
I’m not a typical faggot when it comes to this. I had a 3-4 year period after my first Alpha Roger dismissed me when I was a faggot whore, but then I started finding myself being owned and I found loyal monogamy to one Master at a time suited my view of my place better. I’m definitely even more inclined toward monogamy now that I’m locked in chastity.
It sounds like you have an incredible straight Owner (I’m guessing since I haven’t yet received your description of him and his Ownership of you), and I would hate for you to ruin or endanger things with him simply because you can’t control yourself. But again, that’s my current mindset speaking.
Hello sam, its me Ryan again Thanks for previous advice I have been with another master for a short period and once he forced me for watersport and i had to drink his piss, though i didnt agree first he forced me to do it. After i did i was bit disgusted and told him im not comfortable. He didnt try after that session. Now after few months im really craving to do it and get trained and im so scared to ask him to do again. How should i proceed or give him a hint that im ready to do it and get trained without affecting our regular meet-ups Is it going to be a weird situation that i denied once?
No, it won’t be weird. If this Master is any Master at all then he will understand that faggots act like this sometimes. In fact, I’m betting he’ll be proud of you for considering it more deeply and finally submitting to his will.
This is Ryan 23 years old. I met a straight alpha during covid randomly on grindr and met him and he wanted me to give him hand job as he talks dirty and kicked me our with cum face. It was my first time being a slave. Since then i have been doing the same every week till yesterday. Only once he let me suck his cock for an hour with condoms on. I have begged many times to control me and use me. I also offered to do his house chores and be his slave but he dont respond for it or just says i need more training before i become that slave. My question to you is: how to have him use me and become his slave? 3 years of handjob and getting kicked out with cum face doesn’t seem to please him enough to use me? Your thoughts on this? Please and thanks
Ryan, thank you for writing!
There are no easy answers to this situation. You can’t make a straight Alpha do anything he’s not yet comfortable to do. And we don’t know the circumstances that make him uncomfortable. It could be some bad experience in his past, a phobia, whatever. Neither one of us know him well enough to diagnose it.
I will suggest this: he probably has a girlfriend or wife at home (and maybe kids), which is likely one reason why he won’t use you in other ways, and also why he’s been so secretive. The discovery of this situation with you might completely unravel his life, and I’m sure he doesn’t want that (and neither do you).
The simple fact is that some straight Alphas are only going to take things to a certain point, and no more. However, you might be able to coax him into a little more during the times you are with him. Try offering to massage his feet, for example. Perhaps make him some food and get him drinks. Try these little things so he will see you exist to serve him, not harm him. He needs to see you as more than just a handjob machine.
But I wouldn’t push him much harder than that. If you really need to get fucked or get used, I’d find another Alpha for that.
Hey Sam, I love serving men, no matter if they are straight, bi, or gay. But I really don’t like to shave. I’m not too hairy but my chest and my ass are quite hairy. Most men I serve love my blowjob but when they see my ass it’s a huge turn off for most of them. On the one hand, I think that real Alphas fuck holes no matter how hairy they are. On the other hand, I might just be a bad fag for not shaving properly. What do you think? I know I can be obedient and I know my bj is great, but easily 95% of the Alphas I try to serve give up when they see my hairy ass. Should I just ignore my own will and keep my hair always smooth? What are your thought on hairy fags in general?
I guess the real question is this: how badly do you want to be fully used by Men? Because as long as you keep your ass hair, your service to Men will be limited by it. I realize we currently live in an “accept me as I am because I’m beautiful just the way I am” kind of society (at least in the West), but the truth is Men will always be visual animals, and visual aesthetics matter.
This post is part of a thread chronicling the acceptance of Alphahood by a young gay Alpha named Lorenzo and the ownership of his former submissive boyfriend. CLICK HERE to read all of these posts in chronological order!
I’ve said it countless times – Alphas should have their faggots (or females, if you can find a willing one) lick their asses. I’ve seen what it does to a Man when he’s rimmed. The startling intimacy and gentle, probing sensation of a tongue there feels surprisingly good, but it’s the wave of undeniable power he feels that is the real benefit. I’ve been ravaged more than once by Alphas after I’ve licked their ass, the adrenaline surging through their bodies like a conquering King.
Sadly, many Men do not take full advantage of a faggot’s natural position as a worshiper. I try to make converts, but I’ve only managed to convince a handful of Alphas to try it. But EVERY SINGLE ONE who took my advice came back to breathlessly tell me how incredibly powerful they felt! Look folks, I know of what I speak!
Master Lorenzo is the latest convert. We had a discussion recently about it, so he decided to try it with his faggot.
I followed your advice about using my faggot for other purposes. Everytime I used his holes I simply told him to get on his knees, suck my cock, then fuck his throat, fuck his pussy and breed it. Nothing different form, everyday the same script.
I admit that I didn’t like the idea of getting rimmed. The only time I tried to suck a dick I hated it so much that I thought that anything different from getting sucked and fuck would be bad. But I listened to you and decided to use Rick in other ways.Yesterday he arrived at my place happy and excited to be fucked. He undressed and got on his knees, as always. He was hungry for my cock and tried to start sucking me, but I resisted and told him to wait. I sat down on my couch wearing just my underwear and socks and ordered him to take care of my feet.
My feet size is 13 and Rick loves them but I’ve never explored this part of my power over him. I told him to kiss and lick my feet. He did for a long time and it was a great worship section. After five minutes of his mouth on my feet, my cock was too hard to wait but I took a deep breath and waited a bit more to use his holes.I told him to come up to my balls and worship them too. He kissed them, licked them, and thanked me for being such a good Master. But before sucking my cock and fucking his throat like a pussy I grabbed him by the hair and shoved his face in my armpit. He wasn’t expecting that but I pressed his face against my armpit and he didn’t fight against my will.
I just told him to enjoy that moment and the honor to sniff my armpits. I was already fully naked on the couch and he was leaking a lot of precum in his underwear, like the good faggot he is. Very obedient and sexy, Rick asked if he could suck my cock. The poor faggot was getting desperate, he had been hungry for my cock and balls for days.He had already licked and kissed my feet, legs, balls, stomach and armpits. There was only one last taboo to break in my mind and make my faggot worship my whole body. Before he understood what was going on, I made him kneel on the floor, stood up and instead of shoving my cock in his throat I turned back and shoved his fag mouth and nose in my ass.
Rick was so shocked that he didn’t even react. I always told him that I would never accept to be rimmed but things changed. After talking to you and my brother Alpha Bruno, I realized that an Alpha can be worshiped in his hole and it has nothing to do with being a bottom. It is simply power.
I said “now lick” and it was awesome to feel how he couldn’t barely breathe with my strong hand holding his head against my ass. At first it was weird to feel something in my hole but the pleasure of the moment wasn’t the feeling itself but the indescribable power that I had over my faggot.
He licked, kissed and felt it very well on his entire face. When I let him go, he was just a good boy on his knees looking up to be still trying to figure out what had happened. “Open this mouth now”, I said. I was so horny after all that worship that I needed to fuck and unload as soon as possible.
Rick showed me his cute mouth and soft lips and I fucked him stronger than ever. Tears were coming down from his eyes and I just said “make me proud” and he kept quiet, taking my cock all the way down. I let him breathe by kissing my balls and got back to his throat.
I literally used his head as a fleshlight. I shot a very thick load and he swallowed every drop. I noticed he needed some extra care because I had used his throat very brutally. So I hugged him, laid down on the couch and kissed his forehead. We both fell asleep and I woke him up 3 hours later by kissing his lips. I fucked his pussy in the bitch position and missionary. He took it like a pro and as a reward he got another nice big load.You were right, Sam. Faggots are born to serve superior Men like me and you fags should worship my whole body.
What an awesome experience! I’m so proud of Master Lorenzo for trying it!
I thought it was especially important for Master Lorenzo to do this with his faggot because he’s still training it to some degree, and this is an especially potent use of power. Faggots need to understand that everything about a Man is worthy of worship.
I must say that Master Lorenzo sounds especially excited by this new perspective on the depth and breadth of his Alphahood!
This post is part of a thread following a faggot named Tim, who has recently been sold to serve a Master named Rex. CLICK HERE to read this entire thread in chronological order!
One of my favorite sagas from the old site was the inspirational story of a faggot named Tim who was sold into service to a God Alpha named Master Rex. Under Master Rex’s firm guidance and powerful use, Tim was able to experience many new things, including the wonders of being cunted.
I was so enamored of little Tim’s tale and had such respect for Master Rex that I painstakingly restored the entire thread from the old website to this one, post-by-post. I did so in order to celebrate this message I received from Tim:
Hi Sam, I’m glad you’re getting to restore some old content. i was the subject (well, my Master Rex was the subject) of your Episode 236 and just to let you know we three are still good and doing well. I’m still Faggot #2 in the household and love being here and Master Rex is kind and giving and brutal in bed like I deserve and like he is meant to be. I follow his every command – and so I feel loved and taken care of.
Hope you are well – Faggot Timmy
I cannot tell you how proud I am of my little brother! Still serving Master Rex faithfully after all of these years! Still a beloved possession of one of the more powerful Alphas to ever appear on FWA or anywhere in my life. It’s rare that an Alpha keeps two live-in faggots for this length of time. That speaks to Master Rex’s honor and faithfulness as well as the talent and devotion of his faggots!
I’m so glad I restored this vital Hierarchical thread to this site! Thank you, Tim!
This post is part of a thread following a faggot named Tim, who has recently been sold to serve a Master named Rex. CLICK HERE to read this entire thread in chronological order!
My brother Timmy has been one of the braver faggots featured here in recent days. He was sold into service to a new Master, a God Alpha named Rex, by his former Master, Frank. Then Tim had to navigate the highly ordered, hard service life in Master Rex’s household and the existing house Hierarchy with lead faggot Devin. It was a lot, and often not easy at all, but Timmy worked hard and diligently. Now, he’s been welcomed into Master Rex’s service.
Of course, when serving a God Alpha like Master Rex, there will always be new challenges. He’s the type to put his faggots through their paces and test how they handle different stimulation.
Just check out the latest challenge, according to Tim:
I wanted to update you a bit since my MASTER REX is going away for a few days with his siblings for work. And then a quick question for you.
MASTER REX told Faggot Devin and me that we aren’t to be left unattended – that unattended faggots can get into trouble when not supervised. We didn’t say anything to this, after all, it’s MASTER’S rule which goes in the house. Personally I know what my duties and am confident I wouldn’t “get into trouble,” I’m not even sure what that really means, but Devin and I do not question MASTER’S judgement.
Anyway, MASTER told us that MASTER FRANK, who is my former MASTER, and who I have found out has also cunted Devin a couple of times, will be staying in the house to watch over us and keep us in line. MASTER FRANK will also bring a friend of his someone who I have never met – PHIL – with him.
Per MASTER REX, we are to follow MASTER FRANK’s instructions and commands and fulfill his wishes. I’m not sure how this pertains to PHIL – I don’t know if PHIL is a faggot or an ALPHA or something in between but he will be treated as a guest in MASTER REX’s house until we have other instructions.
I expect MASTER FRANK will be cunting both Devin and me while he is here. I’m looking forward to it, MASTER FRANK is an expert cocksman! He also likes a lot of cock sucking during the day. MASTER FRANK will not be working during this visit so our every action will be in service of MASTER FRANK’s desires – and whatever we are told to do with PHIL.
I know this isn’t uncommon where ALPHAs share their faggots with fellow ALPHAs…MASTER FRANK loaned out my faggothole to friends of his from time to time. The wild card here is PHIL – we’ve been told nothing like if he’s a fellow faggot and caged or a big strapping ALPHA man. I guess they want to spring it on us and have us react accordingly? I will keep you updated!
It’s pretty interesting that Master Rex is trying this with his faggots. I know he trusts Master Frank, but there’s no way to tell what use by Master Frank might do to his faggots, particularly Timmy. It sounds like Timmy is actually quite excited to have his old Master – the one who sold him – back inside him again. I’m curious about that.
And then there’s the unusual addition of “Phil” in the picture. Who is this? How might he change the dynamic here? I have no idea. I do suspect “Phil” is a faggot that Master Frank is bringing with him, but Phil could also be a Master in training, too. We shall see.
But then Timmy had a question that I quite liked:
Now, can I ask you about a MASTER’s family? MASTER REX from what I am told, doesn’t keep Devin secret from his siblings – they think he’s his boyfriend (and honestly, that’s not far off from what I can see) but the faggot/MASTER relationship is not spoken about and I don’t think they know about that. And they certainly don’t know about my presence as the #2 Faggot for MASTER. I was told once to go to my room and stay there while MASTERs sister dropped by for a short visit, which of course I did. I just hope it’s not a problem for the future. I really love serving my MASTER and I love my faggot brother Devin too – we have bonded over our service to our GOD ALPHA. Do you suppose that a lot of MASTERs and ALPHAS have familial problems like this – I mean…if they are so God-like to us, shouldn’t they not care what their siblings or relatives might think? Devin says this is not my problem so stop worrying… I hope I’m not overthinking things here, I do that sometimes
This is an excellent question. One would expect a Master with the all-encompassing power and control of Master Rex to have the boldness and courage to present himself as an owner of faggots to everyone in his life, including his family. And I agree with Timmy – it doesn’t seem like an Alpha to shrink back from the truth in this manner.
I told Timmy that we can’t know the family dynamics Master Rex might be considering when he hides the truth of his faggot slaves. Sometimes life is easier to avoid the uninformed judgments of others, rather than shove it in everyone’s faces and have to deal with constant battles.
However, I do feel like I’m making excuses for what ultimately amounts to cowardly behavior. If I’m running around admitting to people that I’m a faggot and faggots like Timmy and Devin are surrendering their entire lives to serve as live-in faggots, then all-powerful Alphas like Master Rex should have the strength of character to admit to their ownership of faggots.
What do you think?
Regardless, I’m proud of Timmy for continuing to live his truth while fearlessly and obediently serving no matter what is thrown at him!
This post is part of a thread following a faggot named Tim, who has recently been sold to serve a Master named Rex. CLICK HERE to read this entire thread in chronological order!
I was so thrilled to hear that fag Tim was finally making inroads with his new Master. Tim was now regularly being cunted by Master Rex, and was also being integrated more fully into the household. I was glad that my early confidence in Master Rex proved true, and it’s clear Master is fully in control.
One of the surest signs of a true God Alpha Master is the magnanimous way he allows and encourages his faggots and females to reach out and better themselves. Many Men become jealous or insecure when their owned faggots seek such things, but not true Alpha Masters like Master Rex. And because of this Master Rex has deeply taken control of Tim’s mind and heart.
Hey Sam: We’re still working on details but pretty much have a schedule to accommodate schooling for both Devin and myself as well as being there for MASTER’S every need. MASTER REX was clear that we need to continue our education but also without it interfering with our service of him. My class in January will be 3 days a week and Devin’s will be over by then as he’s going in September for a recertification class that won’t overlap with mine.
Everything is still going fine, MASTER loves tandem-cunting (is that a phrase, maybe now it is 🙂 both Devin and me, he is enjoying having me as the second faggot in the house….He went out and fucked some other “side-faggot” the other night but then confessed to us that it wasn’t as good as me or Devin, so that made us very happy…I think I could live on MASTER REX’s seed alone! Your Faggot Brother – Tim
I love that phrase “tandem-cunting” (might use “dual cunting” as a replacement) and its implications. It’s powerful enough for a faggot to be cunted, but it’s even more impactful to witness another faggot being cunted at the same time. What it does is reinforce the experience in each faggot’s mind of the reality of that experience, but it also helps both faggots respect the magnificent power of their Alpha. This dual-cunting by Master Rex was very impactful.
I’m so glad Master Rex has let Tim into his house and bed. Through Tim we are able to marvel along with Tim at this dominant God Alpha’s life and power.
This post is part of a thread following a faggot named Tim, who has recently been sold to serve a Master named Rex. CLICK HERE to read this entire thread in chronological order!
I always ask faggots about their day-to-day life with their Masters. It’s interesting to me because every Alpha is different, and I think it’s instructive to see how each one trains their personal faggots and how the faggots respond.
I rarely get a response as detailed as the one my brother Tim sent me about his daily service to Master Rex. To be fair, Master Rex seems (from the outside) to be a rather demanding taskmaster. My Masters always had tasks for me, but they realized I had other things to do as well, which I appreciated. Master Rex, on the other hand, seems to enjoy taking over every aspect of his faggot’s life. And really, every Alpha has the right to make his stable of faggots into whatever he wants or needs, so I’m not criticizing Master Rex in any way.
Let’s look at what Tim sent:
Well, firstly, My daily life under ex-MASTER Frank was also domestic in nature although I did (still do) have a part-time job in a store as well as going to school. I took a year gap in schooling about the time MASTER Frank sent me off to MASTER Rex. MASTER Frank made me promise to complete my degree and when I transferred to MASTER Rex, it was understood by them that I would continue my schooling….I’m hoping to become a physical therapist someday and you need an advanced degree these days for that.
After MASTER Rex leaves for work, I finish cleaning up, I prepare for cooking dinner that evening, prepping whatever is necessary for later. Devin gives me a list of major tasks for the week as well as daily things so I have to make sure to work on then — like I was cleaning the gutters , I was stripping wallpaper in this old house and then there’s the daily vacuuming and cleaning the bathrooms( must be done every day). MASTER likes fresh sheets on the bed and fresh towels towels every day.
Speaking of towels, MASTER showers when he gets home and Devin sometimes dries MASTER off after his shower —other times he does it himself . I haven’t been given that chore yet \ but I’m sure I will at some point.
If it’s a day I go to the store then I make sure all the morning stuff is done and that the laundry is started before I go to my part time job there. I also will get any items on the shopping list but Devin usually does the main grocery shopping.
I get back about 4 hours later from the store before anyone else, and start making food and finishing the laundry and make MASTERS bed with fresh sheets and put out fresh towels.
I am caged all the time, except when showering and every two weeks I can uncage and jerk off if I wish, which is me thinking of MASTER REX. Devin has a calendar marked with days that I can do that. Mostly I’m allowed around the house to wear only a t-shirt and at most underwear , but usually nothing else but my cage. MASTER Frank was the first man to cage me and I feel secure in my cage.
Devin comes home next and checks on what I’ve done. He’s very good to me and we do talk about pleasing MASTER and kiss and hug each other and rub our cages together – we have become good faggot brothers. We don’t fool around with each other but we cuddle sometimes and talk about how we got cunted the night before or how we need our MASTER’S seed to be happy. I think it’s our way to reinforce our devotion to our MASTER.
MASTER REX comes home next and Devin does the main greeting by taking off his coat, removing his shoes and kissing his feet. I kneel there also and have gotten to participate in this greeting of our MASTER, but it’s Devin who takes the lead on this… I think they are almost closer to being boyfriends than I realized initially, you can tell there is love between them…although MASTER REX is still always in charge, and if Devin or I do something that HE disapproves of HE lets us know.
We eat dinner and then I clean up and I get some time to study my books for school, or use my phone…school starts for me again in January. MASTER and Devin usually sit on the couch and watch TV and Devin takes MASTER’s cock in his mouth, while I make sure my hole is ready for MASTER if I’m called by him.
My ex-MASTER Frank who MASTER REX knows well made sure my faggot “contract” included my schooling. (MASTER Frank also retained the right to use my holes from time to time but that hasn’t happened yet. ) I learned from Devin that MASTER Frank actually fucked him a couple of times before I got sold to here which I had not known. If my MASTER REX wants his ALPHA friends to use my holes I am happy to fulfill his wishes!
Recently, MASTER REX has been extra good to me and puts his strong arms around me and strokes my hair or feels my hole and calls me a good faggot. Sometimes he follows that up with a hard slap or a lash of his riding crop on my butt which makes my little caged faggot cock strain against the metal. He buried my face in his armpit the other day and I thought I would faint from joy! he’s gentle at times like that, but the sex is always pretty rough. He cunted Devin the other night and had me positioned under his powerful cock going into Devin’s hole then he would pull out of Devin and plunge it down my throat and back again into Devin – that went on for about a half hour.
I usually have to be in bed and sleeping (unless my fagholes are needed) by 11:00, it’s a big old house so text is the easiest way for MASTER to summon me….
This is what my day is like, really. Once Devin’s schedule changes with his work and school things will change but not sure how just yet. We’ll also have to incorporate my school schedule when it starts up again but I know with my MASTERS Alpha guidance it will be fine.
This is a huge, extensive list that Master Rex has created to keep his two live-in faggots busy all day. It doesn’t seem to take into account the fact that Tim is in school, although maybe I’m not reading it correctly.
Overall, though, I’m impressed by Master Rex’s list, but I’m even more impressed by Tim’s eagerness and dedication to fulfilling the list. It could be very easy for a faggot to grow resentful to a Master as strict as Master Rex, but Tim seems to be embracing it. He almost seems to be flourishing from that kind of control!
Many Alphas hold back from doing something like this with their domestic, live-in faggots. However, it’s clearly a vital aspect of the dynamic. In fact, I think it’s vital for an Alpha to grow more deeply into his true role.
A Man doesn’t hammer a nail into a joint halfway and expect it to hold. The same goes for the exertion of Alphahood. Go all the way, or start expecting it to fail.
It’s clear Master Rex is building for the long-term!
In my last podcast I discussed the startling true story of Master Andrés, a completely straight Alpha who has taken on a live-in faggot for sexual and domestic service much like Masters Matt, Jin, and Kyler and others have done. During the podcast, I used that story as a jumping-off point to discuss how important it is for faggots to take the initiative and risk to offer themselves to straight Alphas.
I received some interesting feedback from that story and podcast, but I received one comment in particular that didn’t necessarily have a great ending, but contained a valuable life lesson. Here’s what a faggot named Sergio said:
I really resonated with the end of this episode. I was a beta bitch to my Straight Alpha friend for many years, driving him around, buying his drinks at the bar, putting his needs first. I’ll never forget the day I got down on my knees and really offered him service. I came out of the fag closet and let him know I was his to use and abuse. He laughed. He told me to stop playing. I told him I was serious. He told me he wasn’t interested, he wasn’t gay, and he just wanted to be friends. I told him I knew he wasn’t gay. He declined my worship nonetheless.
We went back to the way things had been, him taking the lead and me following his subtle orders, but things quickly changed. I was serving as his foot stool, kissing his feet and drinking his piss straight from the tap within a few months of the first time I got down on my knees and let him know I was a faggot who lived to serve him and men like him. He wasn’t a violent Alpha, but from time to time he kicked me in my balls and laughed while I was on the floor screaming in pain. Whether it was worshipping his feet, drinking his piss, smelling his farts, serving as his footstool or ball torture, I always thanked him profusely for allowing me to serve. He’d just laugh and call me a fag.
It never became full sexual service, although I was almost always rock hard when serving him, but I was a happy fag driving my Alpha friend around, buying his drinks and serving as his comfort and his entertainment, and it all happened because I had the courage to offer him the service he deserved.
Bravo to Sergio for showing the courage to offer service to this Alpha, but even more props to him for continuing to service selflessly even after the Alpha rejected his greater, more intimate offer of service. The Alpha knocked him down, but Sergio recognized that the Alpha still deserved loyal service and worship! That’s the correct viewpoint!
This is what it takes: courage, humility, and resilience!
Hi Sam! I’ve been following your page for a looong time (years lol) and you’ve been instrumental in me realizing i’m a fag. I did have a few questions that I’m hoping you can help me with, and i’d be eternally grateful for a response:
I know I’m a faggot. I know i must serve men. However I also have a very successful career and personal life. Is it possible to have both of these things? I’ve been too nervous to serve a Man due to how it could impact my “normal” life, i’ve had online doms blackmail before (non consentually), so maybe i’m just a bit overreacting to that.
where do I find doms irl? do you have a list of locations you recommend frequenting? I’m not a fan of the whole online thing and much prefer to serve in person and that’s how i think i’d be most successful.
Well it’s nice to hear from a long-time reader! I’m glad I’ve been able to help you find your truth!
I don’t think it’s impossible to have career success while also serving as a faggot. I’ve managed to do it, and so have other faggots I’ve known personally and online. You might remember my interview with Brian, the faggot who served his Master while also enjoying a successful career. I think the real key here is having a Master to serve full time. This was what I did after several years of being a slut, and it made all the difference for me. I think you’ll find that will be the case as well.
Where to find Alphas to serve? Well, you can always find Alphas to service on apps and whatnot, but you’ll rarely find an Owner there. Honestly, the best path is finding Alphas in your everyday life that you can start submitting to in various ways. Then Ownership develops organically.
Alphas love to have cocksuckers service them while they play video games. I dunno why. As a non-gamer, this suits me just fine. I’d much rather focus on my Alpha’s joystick than some stupid video game.
The weird part is how much faggots love to be used like this. It’s crazy, isn’t it? Essentially the fetish comes from a faggot’s natural desire to be reduced to a utility, a masturbation device.
Hey Sam I really love your content! I’m a fag from Italy, 19 y old, and I met a alpha in the gym. He is 25, super hot and amazing, I starting talking about his training and we got closer and closer. I served him in many ways and it took me months to give him a blowjob. His dick is just perfect and I love serving him. However, he refuses to fuck my ass. He says that this is too gay and he would never fuck a male ass. How can I convince him that fucking my boy pussy is not gay? I already suck his dick quite often but I really want to feel him inside my ass. Thank you, Sam!! Your work is amazing
Hi brother!
Congratulations on finding an Alpha and working your way into providing oral service for him! You’ve followed the plan perfectly! It does take some time to convince a straight Alpha that it’s safe to let you service him!
I do understand your desire to be fucked by him, but not every Alpha is interested in going there. Let’s face it: ass fucking is somewhat taboo to many people. It’s just not that appealing to everybody.
You may not like my advice, but I think it’s accurate: be satisfied with the service you’re being allowed to perform. There are many faggots who never get the chance to suck a straight Alpha, and might never get that chance. You’re one of the fortunate faggots who worked my plan perfectly and is gifted with the chance to suck a straight Alpha’s cock. Just be happy with that, continue to be submissive and eager to please, and hope he will change his mind.
I get so tired of hearing straight guys insist that straight Men don’t use faggots. As they repeatedly tell me, the use of faggots by definition means they are not straight.
Well let me tell you, if that’s the case then there are far fewer straight Men then we imagined.
Most of the Alphas I’ve served in my life either casually or as an owned faggot were straight Men. I never questioned their desire to use me despite being resolutely heterosexual. The only time it became an issue is when I would struggle to contain my jealousy over their relationships with women. And in those moments when my Alphas were forced by me to choose, they always chose their females over me … because ultimately they were straight.
Then I started the FWA site and the Hierarchy Podcast, and I began chronicling many true stories of straight Alphas who use faggots sexually. In fact, the original name for FWA was Fags Worship STRAIGHTS because that was what I knew in my service career. And with every story I covered, the compiling evidence proved my own experience wasn’t an outlier. Straight Alphas DO use faggots sexually.
But don’t take my word for it. Listen instead to these clinical psychiatrists and therapists who have studied and treated many cases of straight Men who use gay males sexually. Not only that, but they have clinical reasons WHY straight Men use gay males sexually.
Here are their professional opinions:
So what should we think about this? Can this circle be squared?
Of course! It’s honestly very simple: straight Alphas use faggots because they love POWER. They love WORSHIP. They love SERVICE.
As the doctors above attest, Male sexuality is more fluid and situational than most of us are willing to admit in public. In my experience, Men will do all sorts of taboo things when they know they’re safe. And Men compartmentalize their sexuality so completely that understanding the complexity of it is like getting lost in a labyrinth.
So I will never agree that straight Alphas don’t use faggots. THEY DO. In fact, I think an increasing number of them are turning to faggot ownership and service. So the time has come to put this issue to bed. It’s proven.
Ever since I first realized my faghood when I was 17 years old, I’ve always embraced learning and practicing my craft. I just had this need to get better, understand my own motivations, and remain in what I felt was the proper headspace. Eventually I became an owned faggot multiple times, trained relentlessly on several occasions, and developed a natural rhythm as a faggot that has persisted to this day.
However, that doesn’t mean I’ve stopped developing myself. Far from it! I’ve been unowned over the last few years due to a wide variety of circumstances (rescuing Baby Boy, surviving cancer, employment restructuring), but throughout that period of time I’ve tried to keep myself in what I’ve dubbed “Perpetual Subspace“. One way I did that was by voluntarily self-locking my skin tag in chastity two years ago. However, I’ve continued to do ass and throat training exercises, meditation, etc. in order to keep myself ready for service.
I know there are a lot of faggots out there who are unowned and have never been owned for whatever reason. However, that doesn’t mean you cannot experience the deep meaning of your faghood through self-training. In fact, I think this should be a vital aspect of of every faggot’s life regardless if they’re owned or not.
So I wanted to create a guide for unowned faggots in order to help steer them toward purpose and (hopefully) prepare them for service.
PHYSICAL TRAINING
There are certain physical demands placed upon a faggot by most Alphas. It’s important that a faggot work toward certain physical benchmarks in order to be of service.
WEIGHT: Yeah, I know … why must Alphas be so shallow, right? Well, it’s because they are superior Men, and they deserve the best (and they know it). They don’t need to fuck or receive head from a fat faggot when there are ten other perky twink faggots ready to do the same thing. So be mindful of this. If you’re serious about serving, get into some sort of shape. I’m not saying you need to look like Tom Daley, but at least try to get rid of flab and develop an ass of some sort. This involves dieting and gym exercise.
STRETCHING: Faggots are tossed around and bent in a variety of ways while being used. However, it’s more than just being able to get your knees to your ears. It also means being able to arch your back and get into the Bitch Position on demand (and it will be demanded a lot ). This requires a lot of concentrated practice involving stretches designed to loosen those parts of the body. You need to get used to holding those positions while an Alpha is pounding you, too.
THROAT EXERCISES: A faggot is expected to deepthroat pretty regularly. Therefore it is necessary to heavily practice overcoming your gag reflex. I use a 7″ silicone dildo with balls to keep myself tuned up, and I still do that even though I’m currently serving as a straight Alpha’s cocksucker. So just imagine how important it is for a faggot without regular dick to use this method!
If you don’t have a dildo, you could possibly use a hard vegetable like a carrot for practice, but this is a choking hazard in my mind. Instead, use a large metal spoon to stimulate the back of your throat, and see if you can get used to controlling it. This will help you eventually overcome the reflex when you have actual dick in there.
Regardless of your method, practice swallowing when you feel gagging coming on. This will not only neutralize the reflex, but it will also encourage your throat to accept more cock into it.
This is a video from Throat-it-boy that shows the level of cocksucking most Alphas expect. Train yourself to get to this point.
ASS EXERCISES: You’ve heard me discuss Kegel exercises (which are primarily designed for vaginas) a number of times on this site. This is critical. These exercises will help your pussy retain strength over the coming years of abuse due to Alpha rutting. Kegel exercises are covered on this site and elsewhere on the internet, but a more ass-centric version of these exercises were “popularized” via a series of bizarre, uncomfortable instructional videos by Dr. Joe Kramer.
But there is more to ass training than muscle development. There is also hole training. This would ideally involve multiple sizes of silicone dildos or buttplugs. This will help to open the hole and relax the muscles for penetration. However, these devices can be used while inserted to develop the power of the anal muscles by clamping down on them repeatedly.
Get accustomed to how your ass works and how it can be used to provide pleasure!
MENTAL AND EMOTIONAL TRAINING
A lot goes into being a faggot. There are mental and emotional hurdles to overcome in order to fully submit to an Alpha and find true fulfillment in his service. Roughly, this can be broken down this way:
ADMIT YOU ARE A FAGGOT: Saying it out loud or repeating it as a mantra can help a faggot break down the mental and emotional barriers that prevent it from reaching acceptance and peace. I never had much of a problem here, but I’ve come to know many, many faggots still trapped behind this seemingly insignificant barrier. I’ve seen faggots CRY when they openly admit it for the first time. It is deeply meaningful.
So how can a faggot come to accept its truth? The most obvious way is to admit it vocally to other people. If you can’t do it in your personal circle, then find people online (Twitter or the FWA Discord are terrific free resources) to whom you can admit it. You’ll be surprised. Another way might be journaling this statement on paper. There is a technique for manifestation which relies on repeatedly writing a phrase on paper so that it will come true. Try writing “I am a faggot” repeatedly on paper and see how you feel.
ADMIT IT TO OTHERS: This goes in conjunction with the previous step, but here I’m advocating actually admitting it to people you know in your personal life as far as you’re able. It doesn’t need to be anything weird. It’s simply an admission of something you’ve come to realize about yourself. Do this helps to ground it and make it more real in your heart.
MEDITATION: I’ve come to find that quiet time spent meditating and visualizing what I want or need in my life helps to manifest them. In part, that’s because these become more powerful goals that I subconsciously pursue. Focus on the type of Owner you want to serve, and be specific. Visualize how you want to serve, what kind of faggot you yearn to be for him, and every detail of that life you desire. Then follow it up with action.
This focus of mind is important even down to certain physical acts. For instance, when I’m preparing to suck a dick I visualize myself so hungry to have the dick inside me that I push myself to swallow it, desperate to have it all inside me. It’s like the way an Olympic jumper visualizes how far he needs to leap, and his body stretches incredibly to achieve every last millimeter. You must WANT IT MORE THAN ANYTHING ELSE.
LITTLE ACTS: Performing simple, discreet acts of service for Men during the course of every day can definitely help train a faggot’s mind to the important of always seeking to serve. Opening a door, getting a cup of coffee, offering a drink, getting a towel for an Alpha at the gym. These are simple things that might not mean anything to the Men, but it means the world to the faggot offering.
FINDOM: Far be in from me to advocate findom for faggots. I don’t particularly like how findom ruins both Alphas and faggots, which allows game playing as a substitute for real service and worship. HOWEVER, findom can be a useful starter for the true life of a faggot in the future. It can give new and frightened faggots their first taste of actual service to a Man. For true faggots, it never stops at simple financial transactions – they will eventually develop and want more. But, at the start, we need to experience SOMETHING.
CHASTITY: Ideally, a faggot would be locked in chastity by a Man taking ownership of it. However, an unowned faggot doesn’t have that luxury yet. Still, that doesn’t mean the unowned faggot can’t experience the profound revelation of being in chastity. The faggot can lock itself, try it out, and see what it does over time.
I’m the perfect advocate for this. Despite being a faggot for a couple of decades, I never had a Master who wanted to put me in chastity. I always considered it to be a silly fetish, and I also felt it was unnecessary since I had control over my dicklet and never masturbated or got hard around Men. But over the last couple of years, I really became embarrassed that I wasn’t caged. I felt like I was dishonoring true Alpha cock by leaving mine free and used the way Men used theirs.
So I locked up in March of 2020, and my perspective changed completely. It was like a colorblind person putting on Chromatic glasses and seeing the world in color for the first time. I suddenly became hyper-aware of the Men around me, how they strode confidently while I walked among them locked. It was definitely a transformational moment in my faghood, and that was after many years! So there’s no reason why this should not be an option for unowned or virgin faggots as well.
I really hope this guide helps my unowned brothers find ways to expand their confidence and appreciation of the important Hierarchical role Nature has called them to play. Just keep in mind: your faghood isn’t something that happens to you like a disease. It is already part of you. So find ways to become better at understanding it and enhancing it so that you’ll be ready to fulfill it whenever you get the chance!
This post is part of a thread following the story of Sir James, a straight married Man coming to understand and embrace the faghood of his beloved son. CLICK HERE to read all of these posts in chronological order!
I have spent the last few days compiling information from Sir James and also his 16-year-old son as this situation has continued to increase in complexity and intensity. This is shaping up to be one of the most touching and overwhelming stories I’ve ever covered here, one that really speaks to the power of love between parents and their child, and the importance of putting aside preconceptions in order to best help those in need.
In the last post, I discussed how Sir James took the lead with his faggot son Jamie (another faggot named Jamie on this site!) and put the chastity cage on him for the first time. The chastity cage was something given to Jamie by the three straight school Alphas he services all the time.
Of course, these three straight high school Alphas (names: Master Bill, and Alphas Jacob and Damion) are not yet equipped to properly handle the training and maintenance of an owned faggot; they just like the faggot’s throat. So Sir James has had to take the lead in enforcing the rules for faggots, and he’s been doing so with an impressive firmness.
I can see that having a faggot for a son also comes with its challenges. When he got back from soccer practice he asked me to take his cage off. And I had to take the time to explain to him that faggots in my house stay caged and how could he think of disrespecting his alphas in this way. We had an argument and I sent him to his room to cool off for a few hours to cool down. We had a better time over dinner and he asked if he can have a sleepover next week. So I told him that it is fine with it but the cage is not coming off.
I was impressed at how Sir James tied the cage with respect for Alphas! This should always be the primary reason why a faggot is in chastity, so this was excellent!
Then Sir James upped the ante on the sleepover idea:
Thank you for getting back to me. I told my boy that we will be having a pool party next weekend and he will be hosting it for is mates and their girlfriends, I was thinking it is a good way for me to showcase my little faggot in a very good light and positive way. I did do a lot of reading on chastity for faggots and your words also reflect my understanding. It was one of my proudest moments when my boy showed his Alpha his cage and got a loving head rub. As it was for my boy too. I did tell him about you and that I now have a very good understanding of how faggots think and it is in large part due to your site. This weekend past I do seem to have bonded with my boy like nothing else. So I am feeling very happy as up until this past weekend he was starting to drift away and it was the fact that he is a faggot that he was drifting away.
It made me happy to hear that Sir James and his son were bonding again, healing a rift that secret faghood was causing between them! This is what TRUTH does!
During all of this I started a separate conversation with Jamie (with Sir James’s approval). I was trying to coach Jamie through the things his father was enforcing. Then something unexpected happened – Sir James invited Master Bill (the Apex Alpha of the three using Jamie) over to the house for dinner!
Said Jamie:
We are having Bill over for dinner tonight. My Dad needs to have a chat with him He said.
Then later:
He was talking to Bill by himself for over a hour and all I was allowed to do is bring out beer for them. Dad never has beers with me. My Dad loves him. They never stop talking about sport and girls. At one point Dad said does Jamie give good head, and Bill said “Just The Best “
This was amazing not only because Sir James took the time to get to know the young Alpha using his son, but also because this young Alpha sat down like a Man and didn’t freak out or back down at all. Very impressive!
Around the same time, I received messages from Jamie about new aspects of service:
Sam can you tell me what a good Gym Faggot should do for is Alpha at the gym? Bill and Jacob have told be that I am going to be there gym faggot for summer. They work out at the YMCA four days a week for 1 to 2 hours. Will people be able to tell that I am a gum faggot?
I was so excited to hear about this! I know the faggots in Canada love serving their Masters at the gym, and it helps to keep them in a proper headspace. I knew this was a pretty significant step.
Then Jamie wrote back after his first experience:
My first time as a gym faggot. Being a gym faggot is just the best! I feel so good being useful to my Alphas! I was leaking lots of pre cum for the whole time. And I came away with a bag of sweaty gym clothes. Bill said he expects them back pressed and ironed. And I feel so happy that I am allowed to do this for them. They only call me faggot now and others in the gym could hear them. The thing is I love it. The gym clothes smell so good it seems a shame to wash them. I thought I would be to embarrassed to shower at the gym But it was all good. I feel so safe around my Alphas. I think I am on the biggest high of my life. There socks smell the best. I think I am going to get them some new ones so I don’t have to wash them.
Such a simple, natural way to train a faggot in public, accomplished by two 16-year-old straight Alphas! You can see that these types of roles are so ingrained into Male behavior that it happens without much planning. They just KNOW how it’s supposed to be!
Meanwhile, Sir James was developing a firmer view of chastity and faggot purpose:
Hi Sam, I have been doing a lot of reading on faggots and chastity and especially for teen faggots. And would like to confirm that I have got it 100% right. the rules are very basic. But this is all very new to me. Bill is coming over for dinner and I need to explain to him that he will be the one responsible for milking and some of the cleaning.
For the best results
1 The faggot should be in his cage 24/7
2 Cleaning should be supervised so the faggot does not masturbate and ejaculate
3 The faggot should be milked once a week the cage stays on for the milking
This is done by massaging the prostate normally one gentle stroke will be sufficient as the faggot should be very horny.
My faggot is washing and Ironing his Alphas workout clothing and I think this is a very good lesson for him. But I can’t believe he asked his mother to do it, Sometimes I think faggots do not think the same as normal people.
I laughed out loud at that final comment. It’s remarkable how far Sir James has come in such a little bit of time, isn’t it? He truly understands that his faggot son was born this way and has drastically different needs from other boys. Even more remarkable is the way both Sir James and his wife are supporting their faggot son’s development and improvement as a faggot! Unprecedented!
Then Sir James updated me again with some conclusions he’s come to:
Been a good week and it is nice to see my little faggot grow and blossom. I have kept firm with his chastity and it does seem to have made him a little more of a submissive. His mother has been showing him how to wash and Iron and how to cook and he is so keen to pick up new skills I think he is going to turn out to be a fantastic faggot. I have given some thought to what you said over my boys milking and it something that I will do my self for him till he is out off the house. Because everything I have seen is the the best results happen when the faggot does not get to ejaculate. Had Bill over for dinner this week and he seems like a good guy and we also got to meet his girlfriend when she came to pick Bill up. My little faggot is acting even more like a faggot the past few days and it nice to see him being himself and feeling safe.
Meanwhile, the new openness has led to more boldness from Jamie’s three Alphas. I received this series of messages from Jamie the other day:
Bill and Jacob are coming back to my place after they work out today. I want to be the best faggot I can be for my Alphas. I do love it when they hold my head down as I am balls deep it feels so good. I just love how it feels. He was pushing and I would go that bit deeper. Damion came over too. All three on the sofa with there dicks out Good job Mom or Dad was not home! Jacob gave me shit because some off his cum went on the sofa. Sam it was the very best session I have ever had I was on a high for cock!
This morning Sir James cleaned his beloved faggot son. Said Jamie:
Dad took my cage off so I could clean. But he stood in the shower till I was done and put it right back on. I was hopping to get in a quick wank. Dad told me off about it because I am serving three Alphas and it is very important that I show them the proper respect. My Dad is very big on me showing my Alphas the proper respect. Looking back on it I am happy my Dad did not let me cum in the shower. Dad was right again.
When Dad was washing my cage in the sink as I was showering I was thinking he must love me to do that for me.
Frankly, I can’t think of many greater expressions of love between a father and his son than what Sir James is doing to train his son for his future life. He’s giving Jamie self-respect, training, direction, and kindness. He’s allowing his son the room to discover purpose.
There’s no greater gift a father can give his son!
Thank you to Sir James and my brother Jamie for sharing their journey with me!
The following is part of a thread following the adventures of Jonah, a black faggot who serves as a “cabfag” for an older white over-the-road truck driver. CLICK HERE to read these posts in chronological order!
I’m consistently surprised at the creativity of some of my fag brothers. I’ve always considered myself to be something of an innovator when it comes to my service as a faggot, but every so often I come across a faggot who thinks outside the box. I’m always eager to highlight these ones, because I believe it inspires other faggots to stop being so timid.
Jonah is already a rarity – a black faggot. I feel black fags have extra layers of difficulty and prejudice to climb through in order to find fulfillment because of the expectations heaped upon them because of their race. It might be these hurdles that caused Jonah to develop creative new ways to serve Alphas.
Incredibly, Jonah now serves as a full-time faggot for an over-the-road truck driver. This is a position that even I in my hungriest moments never considered as a possibility. I always thought these ones who service truck drivers (referred to, most hilariously, as “lot lizards”) were just quick “pump-and-dumps” during pit stops, not live-in, over-the-road sexual and domestic fags.
Here’s Jonah describing his most unusual service opportunity:
I spent 6 weeks completely naked on the road with a trucker named John in an 18 wheeler truck as a CabFag.
Whats a cabfag you ask?
It’s a faggot such as myself who remains completely naked in the cabin of an 18 wheeler truck behind the driver and passenger seat.
John is white in his 50’s, I’m black and 32.
When ever he stops, He fucks me. Right there in the truck and dumps a load in me. No matter if its for gas, food, laundry, a drop off, a pick up, the Wal-Mart parking lot while waiting on the next trailer to pick up. When the truck stops, I get a load!
Not to mention giving John road head or him telling me to get in the passenger seat doggystyle back arched with my ass spread facing the windshield. Sometimes for miles and miles. When I do get out of the truck you use the bathroom at a truck stop he forces me to do a bunch of humiliating/liberating things like he makes me wear at least one piece of clothing on that hes shot his load on or has been used as a cum rag. He’s made me get out of the truck with his load all over my face, talk loud enough to expose me a dick loving faggot … a bunch of other things as well. I haven’t even mentioned the hotels!
I loved every second of it! I’m a faggot! Letting white men fuck my butt is my purpose. White penis is god! God I fuckin love white dick so much.
You can hear Jonah’s excitement in his words above, can’t you? That’s the sound of a faggot finding fulfillment through pure service. Jonah’s journey is like a gold digger finally finding a rich vein of gold after years of fruitlessly hacking into the earth. I’m really proud of Jonah and his relentless efforts to find new ways to serve, and I’m happy for his success. I only want that same happiness for every faggot.
So what do you think? Would this kind of service appeal to you? Could it work in your present circumstances?
I ask this question with complete humility and total respect for your answer. I’m a Beta male, and willingly submissive to Alpha males, and I would work myself to the bone for an Alpha that could guarantee that I would be allowed to service him sexually if the quality and quantity of my work were to his satisfaction. My question to you is; am I correct in assuming that I would not be in a position to expect him to agree to anything like that? That if I’m going to serve, it must be with the knowledge that I might never be allowed to be of service sexually?
Yes, you cannot expect a straight Alpha to agree to terms like that or ask for terms like that.
In my experience, the act of total obedient and submission over a sustained period of time will cause the straight Alpha to get turned on enough that he will do something.
However, when serving a straight Alpha, we should always go in with the expectation that we will never serve sexually. We should instead find joy and fulfillment in the fact that we get to serve them at all.
