Hi there Sam, for the sake of anonymity my name is Tom, I’m 19 and in uni in the usa. I’ve been following your site since I was in like middle school? Highschool maybe? And I’ve always found the content really hot but I always thought I was just a horny teen. (Btw thanks for keeping it free I really appreciate it). But eventually I realized I was a real f@g and read as much of your blog as I could, even digging to find your old site when it was shut down. But anyways to my actual question.

I’m sure get this question about how to serve a lot and I’ve seen some of your replies and tried to do that (Grindr, recon, blowers) but I haven’t found anyone who really understands the hierarchy. I’m scared to find someone in person but at this point it’s not even that I want to but I can’t. I’ve tried online but as a uni student I don’t have any money to send for findom.

One thing I’ve tried is offering my services as a graphic designer, assistant, or homework slave online but they always ghost me after one or two assignments. Do you know any other ways I could try serving? Or even any alphas in school who would need a fag like me to serve them?

Thanks for writing to me after so long! I’m always wowed when I hear from youngsters who have been reading me since they were practically boys! Such a huge responsibility!

I’m proud of you for making attempts to submit to Alphas at uni! However, what you’re doing is very safe and simple and largely risk-free. 

You need to keep in mind that college Alphas are HORNY and FULL OF TESTOSTERONE. They all want service and worship. So you can often be much bolder and direct with them.

Get into a conversation with an Alpha and start it with this: “Do you consider yourself to be Alpha?” This almost always leads to conversations about Hierarchy. I did this in prison, so you can do it in uni. Use the pyramid diagram here to highlight hierarchy.

You can also use resources like “Letter To An Alpha” to explain things for you.

It simply requires bravery and boldness. You can do this!

Hello,

My name is Jon. I’m in my late 30s—5’10″, 155 lbs, average/fit build—and I live in Washington, D.C.

I’ve been part of the gay scene for about 20 years, but I’ve still not found what I’ve been deeply craving: the opportunity to truly submit to someone. I’ve tried, but honestly, I haven’t had much luck. I’ve encountered so many fakes and flakes over the years, and as I get older, I worry that it’s becoming even harder to find what I’m looking for. That thought breaks my heart.

At the same time, I have fears about family finding out and being disappointed in me. I dream of finding someone—a friend or boyfriend—who I can have a “normal” relationship in public, while privately being able to fully submit to them.

Just to share a little background: I was raised in an African culture and often felt more comfortable spending time with girls because I didn’t feel “man enough.” Even back then, I think I knew something about myself that I just couldn’t express. There are many moments in my life where I’ve shown my true colors.  but I’ve never been bold enough to admit anything because of my family.

I’m sorry if I’m rambling. I guess I’m just hoping for some guidance—or maybe, even, for someone out there to consider giving me a chance.

Thank you so much for reading.

Jon, thanks for writing!

I really can hear the frustration eating you up inside, and I feel for you. For African cultures, there’s enormous pressure on males to conform to certain masculine expectations. That can be overwhelming, and almost choke you to death.

But you are not alone in this. We all deal with these pressures in one way or another.

Honestly, trying to live life as a true faggot is very hard because much of gay culture dismisses faghood as a fetish, and not a serious state of being. So we are sometimes even ostracized by our own “community”. 

But to be blunt, the solution to your issue lies INSIDE YOU. You need to learn to let go of these family pressures (because they ultimately mean nothing) and take responsibility for your own path and happiness. 

Finding a Master is a process of trial and error, but it can be done. Apps like Grindr, TheBlowers.com, Recon, and others can get you access to Alphas, and from there you can start making connections. I’d recommend that you start submitting to Alphas you know in your everyday life, but you don’t sound ready for that.

There’s no magic bullet here. It just takes working on yourself and trying your best to submit both publicly and privately to Men. It will lead to success, but nothing will happen until you heal the family issues holding you back.

I read the question and answer about cunting and it made me wonder about femdom implications.  I know a local female domme who also does double with a male domme.  Her clients are not faggots per se but more so beta males, or beta sissys.  How does cunting apply in a situation like this that starts with a femdom theme and beta males?

Thanks for the question!

Cunting is a physical/emotional experience when a sub male is fucked by a Man, and is not exclusive to faggots. So beta males can be cunted as well if they are properly broken and fucked.

Hi brother. I have been avidly consuming your site over the past few months and it has really opened my eyes to the fact that I am a faggot and born to serve superior alpha men. That fact has been playing itself out through online findom for me over the past few years. I have dipped in and out of that and served a few masters online though I always felt that it was insincere on their part. They were conventionally attractive straight guys using it as an easy way to make money. About a year ago however I started to serve a new master who is different. He is young and straight and incredibly handsome. More than that though he thrives on power and control. I’ve sent him a lot of money over the past year but also had such deep conversations about myself and him as well. I’d categorise him as an apex alpha and definitely as a protector.  I’m more open with him than I am with anyone else. Submitting to him feels so good and right. He is however 100% straight and I know this will never go anywhere beyond this type of service and submission to him. I feel so conflicted about whether I should stop as findom ultimately feels like a stupid path to be following. Equally however I trust my master and know that he won’t take advantage of me beyond a certain point. If I walk away from this I worry that I’ll eventually get weak and go back looking for more and end up under the control of a destroyer alpha who could do real damage to me.

I’m so torn about what I should do. Any guidance you could give this confused Fagott would be much appreciated.

Thanks for the question, brother!

As I’ve made pretty clear over the years, I’m not a huge fan of findom. Mostly my dislike centers around the laziness/addictive aspects of it, which I find to be harmful dead ends.

But there are also genuine faggots like you who would do well with a real Master, but you’ve painted yourself into a corner just as you described. 

Since you have a deep connection with this Master, I’d talk to him and tell him what you’re dealing with. Tell him you need something more real, and see if he has a role for you. Sometimes long-term straight findom Masters begin to want to own personal fags, and you could be one for him.

If not, then I think you should move your focus away from findom and start looking for a local Alpha. They exist, and they will use you. I realize this is scary, but at some point the training wheels (findom) must come off the bike so we can ride free. This might be that moment for you.

Hey Sam. I’ve always identified as a bottom. My small dick and the seeming inability of it to stay hard really reinforced that thinking in my head. Plus I am a submissive person in general. Part of my wants to try topping. Like take a viagra and see what it is like. But I don’t know if that is a good idea. I just don’t know if this is a good idea.

Thanks brother. Yeah, this is a bad idea. Topping a faggot is a responsibility, especially when it comes to taking someone’s virginity. You are not equipped physically or emotionally or hierarchically for such an act. Stick to your lane.

How to get rid of a broken faggot?

I guess you could dismiss it, Sir?

Sam, I was at a small art opening the other day and there was one very hot frat/bro/alpha there with his girlfriend. He was late 20’s clearly an athlete, permanent 5 o’clock shadow, wearing T-shirt, shorts and flip/flops. He clearly was alpha, he was so self contained as he moved slowly through the gallery, his girlfriend, clinging to him. I could tell he knew people were looking at him but he never looked at anyone or at me even though I couldn’t stop stealing glances at him. He had the same energy that all those str8 bros online have who are now using fags. I wanted to somehow make contact with him or say something to him but it seemed like it would be too weird — what could I even say? But here’s my question: I wish there was a sign or signal or gesture that a fag could use to make itself known to an alpha — a sign that any alpha would understand meant:  “Oh here’s a fag making itself known to me”. I know you have merchandise like T-shirts and things that do this, but I’d be curious if you or even some of the Alphas who come here regularly could come up with something that would make it easy for a faggot to signal it’s availability to any alpha – a kind of universal sign that alphas and fags know about.  A sign that could be spread among alphas online, because fag/alpha dynamic seems to be spreading like wild fire among this new generation of Alphas – and I am sure the Alpha I saw the other day has been approached in his life by a faggot — he just had that cocky arrogant alpha big dick energy. Any thoughts from you or the alphas here would be appreciated!

Thanks for writing! This has been an issue I’ve wrestled with mightily over the years, and I’ve never come up with a suitable solution. Shirts just aren’t universal nor every day solutions, and while I think a bracelet could work, I couldn’t find one that pleased people.

Here are some new ideas. I ran them on Twitter, and the consensus seems to be in favor of the thick leather bracelet as long as it was customized.

LEAVE YOUR THOUGHTS BELOW!

Hey Sam Have something interesting happening with a biker i meet on Tiktok that I’m sure is a Alpha. He created a Discord server for his follow. I’m the only gay guy in it. He’s super sexy and funny. Loves to tease me and the ladies with picture. Also talking about we wouldn’t be able to handle his cock and he can go all night. One of his biker friends joined the discord. And when there on together. They always compete with each other trying to get the ladies worked up. The main biker get a little jealous and always makes sure to one up his friend or any other guy me and the ladies talk about. And always tell us we are all his. I’ve tried to talk with him in DM but he’s not very good about responding. He created a Throne account so people people could send him stuff without knowing his address. And I sent him stuff on there. But just last night he told us he would pick one person that he would tell his address to. And anyone that wants to send anything can go through that person. He ended up picking me to have his address and have the ladies go through me to send him stuff. I plan i ordering stuff when I get paid to send to him. I’m wanting advice on how best to approach him about his Alpha status?

Thanks for the question!

I don’t think you need to worry about teaching him that he’s Alpha. He knows. 

What he might not understand is what larger implications that has in his life (although it sounds like he does know that, too). I have plenty of resources here to send him that can start a conversation with him. My book “May I Serve You, Sir?” will lead him through Hierarchy and teach him why he needs to own faggots. My “Letter To An Alpha” is a quick, one-shot outline of that same material. Send him one of them and see what he says. 

Hello there,

I have an alpha that I’ve had for awhile, we don’t live together but I come by his place often. I do chores for him, and of course I service him. Though he is a caring dom, he is becoming very strict, which I have no problem with. If I am not up to his standards, he will punish me- sometimes with spankings, sometimes he will intentionally make a mess for me to clean up. It is more frequent when he is in a bad mood.

The weird part is that I always enjoy when he is like this. I really enjoy being humiliated, and I like the discipline. It makes me a better faggot for him- I don’t want to slack off. It’s never abusive or physically harmful, he is just in charge and I feel like he has the right to. Is it common for fags to enjoy this? And why do fags enjoy this? I think his raw, angry, masculine energy being taken out on me (and my holes) just brings me a level of satisfaction that is hard to describe. Not sure if this is controversial or that if some fags do not enjoy this.

Thank you for the question, brother!

Congratulations on finding a Master who seems to be hitting all of the right buttons with you! You don’t sound unhappy at all about his more aggressive moments, but more curious as to why it is pleasurable to you. (Hopefully I’m reading that right!)

Let me preface my answer this way: while faggots are a natural part of our world, we are undoubtedly broken creatures. We know our imperfections and inferiority well. We feel it deep within ourselves, this worthlessness and shame. 

We are often overlooked hierarchically by Men unless we have something to offer them, reinforcing those feelings of being nothing.

When Alphas treat us in abusive or demeaning ways, we recognize their abuse as “what we deserve”, but it’s even deeper than that. When Alphas abuse us verbally or physically, we feel finally “seen” by them. We have a purpose, and having purpose is deeply satisfying to anyone.

Some of this is closely related to Stockholm Syndrome, but I do think there are compelling variations from that classic explanation of abuse attraction. Faggots are poorly understood by modern psychiatry (if they’re acknowledged at all), so there’s very little specific knowledge to reference. 

But having been a faggot my entire life, I feel my explanation above is as close to correct as I’ve ever seen. If anyone else has something to add, please do so in the comments.

Thank you for such an important question, brother!

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Hi, first of all, love your work

So, i am now 25 years old and own multiple fags, some my age, others older and most of them younger than me. The older faggots I mostly see them as cum dumps and toys to use to let off some steam and the younger fags, although I do like to break them in and training them to be good fags I also like to treat them almost as girlfriends. But it wasn’t always like that. When I was about 18 till I was 21 i had a crush on a friend of mine and I think I almost had fag feelings for him, I wanted to be his fag. Now, nothing happened between us because he was deep in the closet so I got over the crush and started to own faggots and now I can’t even think of ever wanting to be a fag ever again. So… what happened?? Can a fag evolve into an alpha?? Or was I always an alpha and was just infatuated?? Or am I pretending to be an Alpha now and I am in fact a faggot in denial??

Thank you once again and sorry for any misspealing mistakes, english is not my first language

Master, thank you so much for writing to me!

The issue you mention is something  that happens to some Alphas and tends to cause a lot of confusion. It involves a lack of understanding of ALPHA HIERARCHY.

As you know as a reader of this site, I outline a distinct, four-level Hierarchy among Alphas. Like any hierarchy, the lower levels of the Alpha Hierarchy “submit” to the upper levels.

Occasionally this submissive obedience/respect feels almost like infatuation or sexual attraction, because all Alphas are sexually aroused by power. That doesn’t mean the lower Alpha is actually a faggot. It simply means that he recognizes the superiority of the more powerful Alpha.

Sometimes sexual encounters happen between Alphas of different levels, with the more dominant Alpha feeding/breeding the lesser Alpha. These do not result in a “fagification” of the lesser Alpha. Instead, there is a mutual interchange of power. Sex between Alphas is almost like mutual admiration, a shared celebration of superiority.

I believe this infatuation you felt when you were younger is part of your growth as an Alpha. This Alpha you mention was likely a more powerful and developed Alpha, and his power intoxicated you. But I don’t think you were ever born a faggot, Master. Your life since then bears that out.

Now you’ve moved on and became even more powerful yourself, Sir. You’ve ascended, and now know the truth about yourself and your purpose – as a leader, an Alpha. You own all of these faggots, and they gladly submit to your every command because you are a natural-born King.

You were never going to be a faggot, Sir, and you never will be. You’ll always be rightly worshiped, just as nature intended from the beginning of your life!

I hope that helps ease your mind, Sir! Thank you again for writing!

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Hi brother Sam.

It is a fagot from France. It doesn’t know if it has really a question to ask, but would like to share a few things.

First of all, you won’t like it, but it is maried to a woman since 30 years and love her, but does not have sex with her anymore. Therefore being a fagot is not easy. Anyway it knows its place in the hierarchy probably since ever. It will always serve and submit to Alpha in any situation.

It doesn’t only serve Alpha, since there are a lot of Men, shy, Muslim, maried, old or whatever that need a mouth and sometimes an ass to empty their balls and it is happy to help.

It is really lucky to be owned by a wonderful Master since 6 months. Master likes to get a massage and it really improved a lot its skills. It is really proud to please its Master and still works to give better service.

Master is not really into giving pain, and it misses it but has no right to complain. Nevertheless it has been beaten on ass and balls recently because it did a big mistake and needed to be punished : it did play with its clit and of course it ended in cuming. Not real orgasm, hopefully,  just a failed one. But Master was really angry and it was really ashamed.

Beating the slave was not the only punishment. The real one was to devoid the slave the right to serve Master in any other way than massage : it was stopped when trying to lick His feet,  His ass or His balls. It was of course not allowed to suck Him or be fucked by Him. That’s a real punishment. Master said He’d better masturbate and use a tissue to clean His cock than use the slave. Of course Master is right.

It is really impressive to see how it is craving to serve and worship its Master. It is suppose to be born as a Male, but it is obviously not. It is not looking for any kind of sexual pleasure. Just try to serve. Does a fagot got pleasure when it licks feet or ass or cock? Of course not. But it can’t do anything to repress it from doing it. And is so sad when it is not allowed to do it.

It seems that is so easy for Alpha since fagot are so willing to serve They don’t even have to dominate. But the truth is that fagot will not submit and serve any Man the same way. It will always be helpful to empty balls. But it will only submit and worship Alpha as soon as they smell Them. There is not question. Just the urge to kneel.

Thanks a lot brother for your work here. It for sure helps a lot of fagot and some Alpha to better know what they are and be happy in finding their place in the hierarchy. And also thanks to be very clear about destroyer Alpha.

Thank you brother for sharing your experience! No matter what circumstances we have, we can still make ourselves useful to Alphas!

Good boy!

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Hey how are you all I’m like brand new barely out the box realized I’m a faggot and I was looking into how to become someones full time bitch?

any tips or tricks into how I go about it ?

Thanks for the question!

First of all, congrats on realizing and accepting the truth! I’m proud of you!

To find an Alpha, start with the Alphas you know in the circles of your life. Start submitting to them in various ways. Perhaps use the resources on this site to open a conversation with him about Hierarchy. If he’s Alpha, he’ll respond.

You can also use apps like Grindr, Recon, and TheBlowers.com.

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Hey brother Sam,

i have been approached by an Alpha who trains faggot’s like us to take a fist. I noticed that there isn’t much information on your site about fisting. He claims that a Man can cause a faggot to orgasm wholly through their boipussy itself through fisting. I imagine that this would be similar to cunting? He claims that by effectively inducing a physiological “female” orgasm in a faggot through fisting is superior to any other form of orgasm. According to Him the resulting orgasms are infinitely repeatable and escalating in their intensity.

I’ve done some research that tends to agree with what He is saying, if it is done by someone with experience and is gentle. But i would like to know what you think. Have you ever been fisted?

i would love to know your thoughts Sam!

Thanks for the question!

I’ve never been fisted, and none of the Alphas I’ve ever served have demanded that of me. I’m kinda glad, because I can’t say it’s particularly interesting to me.

I have a fag friend who loves being fisted (he even visited Germany once and was fisted on a stage by two Men!), and he’s reported to me that he feels euphoria from it (something like being cunted).

I guess I don’t feature fisting content on the site because it’s not a personal interest and few ever mention it to me. I think if I found fisting content that was hot or a teaching moment, I’d feature it.

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Hi,

I am wondering if I’m a fag or trans. I love straight muscular men. I want to serve them in all the ways they desire. I am willing to work for them , clean after them , be a footstool , a urinal.

Recently, I enjoy when my alpha calls me a girl. Talks to me as if I’m a girl. Referencing my dick as a clot and telling me to rub it. I get so arouse at the thought of him fingering my pussy (not bussy).

I am happy to be his cuck but it’s not enough for me. Yes, I like seeing him fuck , cleaning up his cum , and washing the sheets after he has sex. However, I never care about the woman but I want to be her. I want him to fuck my in my pussy .

what am I? A desperate cuck? Another fag? What should I do now?

Thanks for the question! 

Many faggots have fantasies of being feminized. They fantasize about being the woman their Alpha passionately desires and loves. They even get turned on when Alphas talk about impregnating them and carrying their babies. I don’t think that means all of these faggots are wanting to be post-op transsexuals. I certainly am not. People who are transsexual are usually that way their whole lives, and that’s why (at least in the U.S.) trans people are clinically examined prior to any type of surgery to see if it can be correctly determined.

I think you’re a faggot with an overactive imagination (that’s not necessarily a bad thing), and not a transsexual. 

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Hi! First time writing here so please forgive me for any errors. I am a college student at a school in a large city. I have talked to quite a few masters on Grindr and even scheduled meeting times. I’m so excited for them then… I bail. I’ve done it multiple times and I feel terrible. I really want to try to submit. It’s just so scary to commit to meeting up. How do I get over this and how do I best serve a master the first time we meet up?

Thanks!

Thank you for writing! 

Well, you’re definitely not alone in this, brother. Meeting a new potential Master can be intimidating, especially online when guys can pretend to be anything (which is why I don’t care for that method). 

But here’s the problem you’re facing: doing NOTHING leads to NOTHING, right? 

At some point we all must engage with our lives and make uncomfortable choices. Through those uncomfortable choices – let’s call them challenges instead – we learn and we grow. 

So really, the answer to this is really inside of you. Do you want to live a life in dreams, or do you want a dream life? 

If/when you decide to meet a Master, immediately kneel and kiss his feet. The Master will direct you from there most likely, but you want to make the first effort to show your submission to him.

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Any update from Josh, Ashley and Alan?

This question references THIS THREAD. 

Yeah, I haven’t heard from Sir Josh and Ashley in a couple of months. I heard from their faggot, but I chose not to publish it. 

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Hey Sam,

I don’t expect you to remember this at all but a while back I’d messaged asking if you had any advice about pursuing service with some Alphas I knew from my college who I only spoke to via socials.

I took your advice and reached out to the one who I used to kind of serve (still kicking myself for ending that way back when)… but he never responded.

I know I probably should just drop it but I wanted to ask if you had any advice for going forward? Just, keep an eye out for other Alphas in my life? Or reach out to the other 2?

Hey Sam,

I just sent a message to you earlier about how the Alpha I reached out to on socials didn’t respond, but a little while after I sent that HE FINALLY DID.

Turns out he really remembered me and we had a nice convo catching up. We don’t really live near each other anymore, it turns out, which sucks. But I apologized for stopping service to him before and for my past behavior, and I even offered to help him with anything he needs. He was really sweet about everything and didn’t make too much of a big deal about it, but seemed receptive.

For literal years I’ve thought about messaging this Man Sam, you have no idea. So thanks for encouraging me to reach out to him. I hope to start introducing hierarchy to him as we continue to talk– maybe one day he’ll find a use for me again!

Sorry for the back to back messages/asks, I didn’t think he’d even remember me but when he responded I HAD to update you.

Yes, I remember you!

I’m glad you worked up the courage to contact him! The first step is always the hardest! And I’m glad he responded and seemed open to something in the future! Definitely try to look for ways to engage him in a more direct conversation about Hierarchy! That’s a great way in!

Keep me posted!

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My lovely brother Sam, I have been dealing with a awkward situation and I’d like to know your opinion. I am 19, 100% submissive faggot. Since my childhood, I have always known that I was born to serve superior Man. The problem is that I have always had a really good relationship with my father, he is a true Alpha who takes care of my mother, my sister, and me like a real God Alpha. I decided to come out as gay just for him, not my mother and sister because, although they are all conversative, I’m much closer to my dad than my mom. I was afraid he would expel me from home or say something really homophobic, but instead the said “that’s okay son, I accept you as long as you don’t behave like a woman when you go to bed.” Of course he didn’t use terms like fag or alpha, but he basically said that he will love and accept me as long as I never bottom. He wants me to be a Gay Alpha! But I just can’t.

I won’t ask you if I should become an Alpha because both you and I know that we can’t change nature. But what would you do in my place? I told this story to my best friend, who is a faggot as well, and he thinks that I should just tell my dad I’m an Alpha top because he will never know who I am serving and how I get fucked in bed. I guess that’s the easiest solution but I will eventually have a boyfriend/master and it will be obvious for my dad that I’m a cumdump.

Have you ever seen a situation like that? I thought my dad would refuse to talk about that, but he is REALLY serious about me not bottoming, and happy to accept me if I fuck and breed fags.

Thank you for the intriguing question, brother!

Yeah, you’re a faggot. If you’ve known and accepted that truth for that long of a time, you’re definitely a faggot. And honestly, I think your father should’ve known, too. I’m kind of wondering if he said that to you in the hope you might somehow choose a different role, as if you could.

It’s funny about Alpha fathers … they understand Hierarchy much better than we think they do. We think because they’re straight Men that they couldn’t possibly understand what a faggot is or how a faggot feels, but deep down they do. After all, they’re MEN more than they’re husbands or fathers. And MEN UNDERSTAND HIERARCHICAL TRUTH like it’s IMPRINTED ON THE INSIDES OF THEIR SKULLS.

Sadly, your father is headed for a disappointing day when he finally discovers his son is a faggot and not an Alpha. But you must keep in mind that his disappointment comes from a place of concern, because again, he’s a MAN and he knows how Men treat subs and faggots. He doesn’t want his son to be hurt or abused or treated like a cumrag.

I can respect that.

I tend to agree with your faggot friend. I don’t think there’s a need to sit him down and tell him you’re a faggot. Frankly, it’s none of his business. Knowing your gay is more than enough information for him to adjust his expectations. I mean, if you’re going to tell him you’re a faggot, are you also going to tell him what positions you prefer to be bred in or what flavor lube you prefer in your b-hole? You need to draw the line somewhere, sista. LOL

My inner drag queen suddenly came out to give advice! LOL

Anyway, I hope you understand what I’m saying, brother. If your father is truly Alpha, he will piece the rest together over time.

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What happened to Twitter feed? I send a lot of my inexperienced young fags there to learn. I don’t like having to explain everything. I prefer they show up with basic understanding of their role, etc. Your Twitter was really good for that orientation.

How else can you help provide my youngest faggots with some mentorship? I feel like personal mentorship to young faggots is something you need to start doing as a service to their Masters. Make the fags pay a little $ for your trouble.

I’m Master Lee aka Billy Bo$$

Hung, mature, redneck, god…

Master Lee, thank you for the question, as well as trusting me with your faggots! 

Yes, my big account @hierarchypcast was suddenly shut down by X without warning, and they never even considered my appeal. So much for being the “free speech” app!

However, I maintain four other accounts on the platform exactly for this reason. My new main account is @hierarchy_uni. You are welcome to send them that way, Master.

As far as your statement about how I “need to start (mentoring young faggots) as a service to their Masters”, what on earth do you think I’ve been doing for the last ten years, Master? That’s ALL I do. And when I’m not mentoring faggots, I’m mentoring Alphas.

Hell, my shepherding work with faggots has made tens of thousands (probably hundreds of thousands by now) for cash Masters in the findom scene. 

And nobody pays me shit, even when I request it. How’s THAT for appreciation?

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Hi Sam

I have a bit of a conundrum. I feel like being someone’s fag would bring me fulfillment in life, but I do have a few personal issues.

Personal details if that helps form a visual image of who I am;

22 years old. Southern African. Not sure if I am gay or bi because I have gotten it on with women. Monogamous. ‘Liberal’ I suppose.

1. Pride and Ego. Its hard for me to accept the title ‘fag’, because that title feels beneath me. I could never accept that some people are born superior to me. I think to highly of myself (God complex honestly), and so cannot accept that I’m meant to call every alpha ‘Sir.’

2. Self Identity. I have seen on your blog and other sources how ‘fags’ present themselves, the ‘ideal’ picture of how a submissive is meant to act. That is so far divorced from how I act that it feels like if I cannot act like the basic fags, I would stop being who I am, and that’s something I cannot do.

3. Feeling Lost. I’ve seen that the alphas on your blog and other places have an idea of how a fag should be. The perfect bitch with no autonomy at all. That can not be me. And so it is as if just because of who I am, I can never attract an Alpha. In order to gain this one thing, I would have to lose something else, and that is a bargain I cannot make.

I feel like this makes me sound like a hopeless case, but I can give you a scenario of how I would want the perfect situation;

I meet a man who makes it clear that they are an Alpha. They state what they want. They show me that they actually are an alpha (basically someone in control of their life, someone commanding in their presence, someone who is a never moving mountain in the storm). They do not just demand obedience and submission, but show me why my giving them submission and obedience (to specifically them) would be the best thing for me. Not ”Obey because you are a fag and slave and that’s your role” but ”Surrender to me because by giving yourself to me you will have everything you’ve ever (spiritually? psychologically? emotionally?) wanted”. I hope that made sense.

Also, they should want me not want me because I’m just a ‘fag’ made to be conquered, but because there is something about me that drew them to want to conquer me.

I hope this did not sound like, ”Woe is me.” I genuinely have no idea if I should just give up on the idea of ever finding an alpha. I would appreciate any advice you can give or anyone else you could kindly pass my conundrum onto.

Yours

Let me go by Mat.

Thank you for writing to me! I don’t get enough visitors from South America! 

Your situation is very odd. I almost hesitate to advise you because I’m not sure if you’re reading your feelings correctly. 

Why exactly do you think you’re not Alpha? Everything you say sounds quite Alpha to me. I’d hate to try to advise you to keep pursuing a place as a faggot if you’re not actually a faggot.

You see, I have documented something I’ve dubbed “Alpha latency”. In cases of Alpha latency, a true Alpha thinks he’s actually a faggot (or supposed to be a faggot). This is usually due to past trauma or sexual abuse as a child or some other factor. It’s only when the Alpha realizes what he’s actually supposed to be and stops trying to be something he’s not does he actually find peace and purpose.

So I don’t want to advise you as a faggot, because then I’d only be reinforcing a false narrative in your mind. If you’re actually Alpha, then I want you to embrace that. But I can only do so much on my end … it’s YOU that must make an honest appraisal of your feelings and what thoughts bring you true pleasure and purpose. 

But as it stands now, I am not convinced you’re actually a faggot at all. 

You can look through the category “Alpha Latency” by CLICKING HERE.

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