Hello, my husband and I love your content and I would like to share with you our household dynamic because it may be useful for a deeper understanding of hierarchy. I am 38, he is 40. We met 10 years ago at the gym. We were both tops, so at first we would make out and jerk off together, sometimes getting faggots for us to share. After a few months, he convinced me to suck his dick, and I did for the very first time to please him. He has never sucked me, but I started giving him head and enjoying it more and more.

A few years ago, we decided to bring faggots into our house because I didn’t want him to fuck me and we would only fuck random holes from time to time. Long story short, we now live in a nice house with two amazing faggots. However, my husband likes to make it clear that he is the main Alpha of the house. He calls me “manager” because I take care of the boys and make sure that they are always ready to get fucked. I fuck them too, but my husband always has the last word. The boys really respect him as a Master and King.

From time to time, he makes me suck his dick in front of the boys to make sure they understand that, although we are both Men, he is the big Alpha of the pack. I love fucking and breeding our fags, but I understand that my husband has the right to choose first which one he wants to fuck, and if he wants me to please him, I must suck his dick too.

Have you ever seen dynamics like that? I feel like a faggot when he cums in my mouth and makes me swallow it, but the boys treat me like their Master too.

Thank you, Sirs, for this experience and your question! 

You ask if I’ve ever seen dynamics like yours before … Sir, I practically WROTE THE BOOK! After all, my Hierarchy diagram is (in my opinion) the most accurate representation of not only Hierarchy in general, but also Alpha hierarchy specifically. There is nobody who has explored this topic with more relentlessness and accuracy and then documented real-life examples the way I have. 

Alpha couples like yours remain a fascinating subject for me, primarily because I’m a faggot and can only imagine what it’s like to be a superior Man in a loving relationship with another superior Man. It must be amazing to sit at the top of all things with the one you love and know that all of creation exists as your playground! 

Of course, as you pointed out, there is a hierarchy even your loving relationship obeys. Your husband is a God Alpha, and you’re an Apex (most likely). This is very natural, Sirs, and I’ve seen it/written about it multiple times. 

I do love the delicious detail you added about how your God Alpha makes you suck his cock in front of the house faggots! That’s a pure power move that reinforces hierarchy for everyone. It’s genius.

You wanna know another reason why I love Alpha couples? Because they seem to get the functions of faggots much better than almost any other kind of Man. The gay agenda likes to emphasize that the word “faggot” is slanderous and the treatment of faggots as they should be used is cruel and discriminatory. Alpha couples I’ve ever known freely own faggots, call them faggots, and use them like they’re faggots. It’s absolutely perfect. 

So yes, Sirs, I definitely have heard of situations like yours, and I’m grateful for that. Alpha couples have taught me so much and reinforced beliefs I’ve had about Hierarchy. Your faggots are very fortunate to be owned by two powerful Alphas like you both! 

Thank you, Sirs! 

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Hi brother!! I am 19 and I know I am a faggot since I was very very young. My father left my mom when I was 4 and he was a really bad guy for her. My mom is my hero and my best friend. She raised me and has always protected me. She is super liberal and we talk about everything with no fear or embarrassment. I came out to her when I was 15 and she has been super supportive, she knows everything about my sexual life and always gives me great advice.

We have never talked about faggots and alphas using these terms, but she is aware that I am a femboy who loves big man and needs a true Alpha. I have a friend from school who really likes me and treats me really well. My mom knows him and likes him too. He wants to take me as his boyfriend and was very clear to me that he wants to be the dominant part of the relationship. I am a virgin and so far I have only given him blowjobs. He always says that really likes me and he is ready to be part of my life but, before making it official, he demands two things: I need to swallow his cum and he wants to breed me.

Of course he will eventually take my virginity if we become boyfriends and I am okay with him breeding my hole. But I am still a little concerned about taking his cum in my mouth. I don’t know… I suck his dick several times a week and he always shoots his load on the floor. He told me that it is okay that I feel uncomfortable now, but he will only take me as his sub boyfriend if I accept his load on my face, on my chest, in my mouth, and deep inside my ass.

I had a very honest conversation about that with my mom and she said that Men love spreading their seed and, if he is healthy and responsible, there is no reason to be afraid of swallowing his load. She literally told me that he is a great guy and I should take his load in my mouth and in my ass before he finds somebody else who is willing to take it. Then she said, “he’s a gentleman and very hot, trust me, he will find somebody else if you don’t want it.”

So what do you think brother?? Am I being stupid with this fear of taking his load? Do you think that it is realistic to convince him to keep shooting his load on the floor or inside the condom? Could you please talk a little about the importance of cum in a fag-Alpha relationship?

Thank you! I love you Sam!! I love your work!

Hi brother! Thank you for writing to me! 

First of all, your mother is incredible. I love everything about her! What an amazing response she had about swallowing Alpha cum! 

Here’s the other thing: she’s absolutely right. You have nothing to worry about with diseases. First of all, he’s your age and likely extremely clean. And also, your saliva kills most pathogens and your stomach acid definitely does. 

You need to get into the mindset that swallowing Alpha cum is a PRIVILEGE. It is a GIFT an Alpha gives to his faggot. I realize it’s a little weird at first, but you’ll feel more complete as a faggot if you do. 

Breeding is a simpler thing, of course, and should be a no-brainer.

Simply put, you need to get over this resistance to give honor and respect to Alpha cum. It is the most valuable substance on Earth, the essence of an Alpha, and it belongs inside of you rather than on the floor/ground. 

His cum will change you for the better, brother! So listen to your brilliant mother, and serve this powerful Alpha properly! 

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I am a professor in Italy and I would like to know your opinion about one of my students. He is 20, very hard-working, and really attractive. He wears make-up and many straight men, both students and faculty, look at his ass when he passes by. It is very clear that he has a crush on me, he always comes to my office hours and pretends to have questions about the course materials. When I tell him to look for other tutors, he comes up with the most absurd reasons to keep coming to my office when I am by myself. I am married to a submissive guy and my husband thinks that I should just fuck him, but I don’t want to risk my career. I am sure that if I put my pants down he would suck my dick without saying a word, but I do not want to take him as my fag. How do you think I could give him good advise to make sure he will find a Man to take care of him? He is probably hoping that I will eventually fuck him, but that’s not going to happen. I want my student to be happy and have the best Alpha he can find.

Sir, thank you very much for your question! 

Yours is a highly unusual question, because I think a vast majority of Alphas would’ve fucked their faggot student in every part of the college, including the cafeteria at noon. Generally speaking, Alphas love easy holes to fuck and and fresh flesh to feast upon. 

But you’re clearly an Alpha with a conscience, and that’s awesome! You’re even standing with your principles despite even your sub husband giving you his approval! That’s admirable, Sir, and again, quite unusual.

As you probably already know, faggots are highly unreasonable, particularly when they’re “in heat”. A firm “NO” hasn’t worked so far. I’d suggest sitting the faggot down and telling it something like this: “I know what you are and that you have a need to serve. However, I will not do anything with you because it would be wrong, not only to my husband but also to the school that placed its trust in me. It’s time to stop yearning for what you cannot have, and instead look for a Master that can own you and train you the way you deserve.”

I don’t know anything about this faggot, so I’m not sure if that will work, Sir. But something like that needs to be said to it. 

I hope it helps! Thank you, Sir! 

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SIR how does a fag go about finding true verified Alpha’s. So many are on and off, seems like a revolving door SIR

Hi brother. So I assume you’re referring to cashmasters in findom. And that inconsistency (and also lying) in findom is one of the dangers of the scene. I would say that any cashmaster that I repeatedly endorse (through retweets or features) is verified because I do prefer to communicate with the Masters I feature. My main account is @hierarchypcast.

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It’s statistically difficult to find true love in our world today. Something like 60-70% of straight marriages end in divorce, and gay relationships typically fare much worse.

In the Hierarchical world, deep and lasting relationships are almost nonexistent. Sure, it lasts for a while and even burns hotter than any other kind of relationship, but oftentimes one of the two (usually the Alpha) moves onto something more stable and socially-acceptable.

While my efforts on FWA and here (and across my social media) typically don’t deal specifically with finding romance (I’m a realist), I’ve been blessed to be a part of at least four marriages between Alphas and faggots. So I’m saying that love does happen sometimes, even in deeply fetishistic relationships.

I received a remarkable letter from an older faggot named Kevin. He was moved to write to me to share his experience as an exposure faggot for an older Alpha named Dennis after I railed on the worthlessness of exposure faggots. I really wanted to highlight this message, because it should give all faggots hope.

sam the fag,

i recently listened to your podcast deriding exposure fags.  Maybe i can change your mind a bit.  i met my Master in 2007 in the old yahoo chat rooms.  We hit it off immediately and chatted regularly for several months.  Then He ordered me to visit.  He only lived a few hours away so i immediately got in my car.  When i entered His home i immediately dropped to my knees with my head down and it felt better than anything i had done previously in my life.  He ordered me to my feet because HE had other plans

He got out His camera and ordered me to strip, all the while He was taking pictures.  I was nervous having Him document me that way, but i trusted Him.  He then shaved me from the neck down and tied me up using the camera the whole time.  Then I got my reward by sucking His dick

This type of scene happened every time we met.  Eventually he would joke “too bad only the two of us know about these pictures because everyone should know what a faggot you are”.  i would laugh and quickly change the subject.  it made me nervous at the thought of posting my pics to the internet for anyone to see.

One day when i was home and HE texted me one of the photos he took of me and said: “post it faggot”.  i did not hesitate and posted it to my tumblr account.  he texted me “there is my faggot, exposed as it should be”.  That made me so incredibly proud that i pleased Him and that HE wanted to show me off.  This became a regular thing between us.

Master Dennis passed away in 2019 and that devastated me.  Now i am an old faggot in my 60s.  Alphas can have any faggot they want, so why would they want me?  Sometimes i still post pics of me because it makes me feel closer the memory of my Master.  Yes, i want more than that.  I want to serve, and i have not given up my quest to be owned again, but in the meantime exposing keeps me in my fagspace and brings back wonderful memories.

faggot kevin

It’s funny how little memories waft into our lives like a lovingly-remembered scent, and instantly we are back with those we still cherish. This sweet tribute to a long-lost Master felt that way to me.

The Master/faggot dynamic is poorly-understood by most and definitely dismissed, but as Kevin demonstrates here, the dynamic cuts through posturing and exposes the rawness of who we truly are beneath. Masters and faggots share with each other the most primal instincts one can ever reveal, bound by a trust that defies death.

I’m so glad my brother Kevin shared his heartache and longing with me, and now to you. It’s a shared longing, a shared heartache. But ultimately, taking the gamble and exposing ourselves to risk leaves us with tender memories that carry us onward.

Thank you, Kevin.

I don’t know if you ever saw the 2008 BBC TV serie Merlin, a very loose reinterpretation of the Arthurian legends, in which Merlin is Arthur’s manservant and has to keep his magic secret. I saw it again for the first time since I’ve known Hierarchy and it struck me that Merlin is actually Arthur’s faggot. Although he resists it at first, as time passes it becomes clear that he’s hopelessly in love with his Alpha Master. He is devoted to him and worships him, in a one-sided relationship where Arthur treats him like a likeable stooge. Funny how the Hierarchy is even reflected in a popular family TV show!

I did not see that show; I’m not really big on watching a lot of serialized television (or much television in general). I took a glance at a little bit of it due to your question, and it looks kinda chintzy and cheap. 

However, I’m not really surprised that the show reflects Hierarchy as you describe. You’re right – it’s literally everywhere once you’re trained to see it. It’s so ingrained into the very fabric of human society that art constantly and unconsciously reflects it. 

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Sam, not a question, but my second brain kicked in with the question from the fag whose lover is dominant in bed but hasn’t extended it further. Wow, how does he show Him he wants to be used as a slave.

I flashed to him putting himself in a cock cage, then coming to his Dom, kneeling, then holding out the keys and asking Him if He would own and control the keys. That small action would convey all that needed to be said. Respectfully considering the Dom, I’m sure He’s aware His partner is not cumming when He uses him for sex. He probably really enjoys that clear Masculine, Dominant, Superior feeling that comes with it.

I’m so glad he asked the question and you published it. I really enjoyed the side trip it gave me!

This is in response to THIS recent Questions From Readers question.

Yes, I thought about suggesting that, but I thought it might be over-the-top. It’s certainly an excellent “next step” in the process! 

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Hi brother Sam,

Thanks to your informative posts I have finally realized that I am a faggot. Although my boyfriend is not familiar with the hierarchy, when we have sex he naturally senses my submission and adopts an alpha role. It has also become clear for the both of us that his pleasure is the only thing that matters. He regularly fucks me mercilessly and cunts me until he cums inside me. After he finishes, he says that he is exhausted and leaves me touching myself so I can come alone. It feels natural to be used and treated like a fuck toy.

The thing that leaves me unsatisfied is that in our day-to-day lives we have a regular relationship where we behave like equals. He likes to cook for me and does half of the housework, which often frustrates me. I don’t know how to tell him that I want to become his faggot and fully submit to him without scaring him. Lately, I have been trying to do more housework, encouraging him to have a rest while I clean or wash the clothes, but I feel that it is not working.

What are subtle things that I can do to signal that I want to fully submit to him and help him accept his alphahood?

Hi brother, thanks for the question!

This is a pretty common issue among gay couples. Men too often view submission as “kink play” consigned to the bedroom, while believing equality and mutual respect is the “proper” way to be in everyday life. 

But that’s simply not how true faggots are. I think it’s almost impossible for an Alpha to understand that we faggots are actually HURT (and it’s almost like a physical pain!) when our Alphas don’t allow us to serve as their property, their faggot. For true faggots, it’s not a fetish … it’s WHAT WE ARE BORN TO BE.

Tell you what: I want you to read this article I just wrote and then put it into practice: https://hierarchyuniversity.com/the-way-to-an-alphas-heart/ 

Greet him on your knees and kiss his feet when he walks through the door. Sit at his feet while he’s watching TV. 

Start calling him “Sir”. 

You need to fully lean into your true feelings and submit to him completely. If he’s as dominant as you describe in the bedroom, then surely these steps will help him embrace his dominance in all areas of his life!

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There’s an old saying: “The way to a Man’s heart is through his stomach.” And yeah, Men love a great meal.

But if you’re serving an ALPHA (or want to be), the way to his heart is through his FEET.

You see, food satisfies a Man’s physical hunger, but an Alpha hungers for something greater: POWER and WORSHIP. He craves it the way his body craves air. It fuels everything he believes himself to be and everything he intends to become.

Foot worship is the ultimate act of submission and worship in the eyes of an Alpha, particularly if that foot worship comes from a faggot. When an Alpha sees a faggot debase itself entirely, surrender its masculinity, and kiss his feet, the Alpha swells with tremendous power and aggression.

There will always be a reaction to that simple act!

The following experience came in through my Questions From Readers inbox, but it was long enough and pointed enough that I’m turning it into a proper post so that everyone may learn:

I wanna tell you one experience that I remembered other day, it’s pure hierarchy. When I was 21 yo (now I’m 29) and had a vanilla relationship. At that time I had no idea what hierarchy or faggots/Alpha were, but I already knew that feet turned me on so much, and luckily my ex-boyfriend allowed me to worship his feet. Even though our sex dynamic was pretty vanilla, he was only top and I was only bottom, he always fucked me until he comes and then he kept his cock inside me and I wanked till I cum, almost every time it was like that.

But one day everything changed, we figured out together a new way of pleasing each other. We were having our usual dynamic when after had bred me he took his dick out of my hole and just lay by my side, instead of wanking and cum I instinctively went to the end of the bed, on the floor and started worshipping his feet and then massaging them, I was horny as fuck doing it but at anytime I thought about my dick, I was totally focused in give him pleasure and I wanted him to relax, after around 25 minutes of me worshipping him, he told me to join him in the bed and I obeyed, I didn’t know but he was ready for another round (that’s why he wanted me in the bed) we started kissing and a few minutes later his dick was in my hole again, he gave me another load and this time he left his dick inside me and told me to cum, after I came we stayed in the bed for a few minutes exhausted and in bliss about what had happened.

After that it became a thing between us, every time he gave me a load (in any of my holes) I worshipped his feet and kept myself chaste to receive another load afterwards and it wasn’t something he forced me to do, it was so natural for me, I craved to please him so bad, but I have to say he encouraged me to keep chaste because he realised it was good for our relationship, specially good for him (having an eager boyfriend to unload anytime). At some point he started ordering me to worship his feet and trainers as well before AND after fuck me.

After a while I figured out the world of chastity cages and I bought my first cage, it was a medium holy trainer, we already had broken up when I got this cage, but we still had some contact and I ended up telling him about the cage in a text message, the first thing he said was “I wanna fuck you while you are using the cage, and this time you’re not going to cum at all” and that’s exactly what happened, he arrived at my house, made me lick his trainers clean while he ignored me, then I worshipped his socked feet and his bare feet, he unloaded in my hole and ordered me to massage his feet, probably for 40min, after that he fucked me again, I got another load, he told me to grab a butt plug, he plugged me and said “keep my loads safe inside you until tonight at 10pm and keep the cage on as well” it was 5pm when it happened, this said he dressed up and left. I did exactly what he told me to do and it was the best feeling ever, knowing I had pleased a real man and had his seed inside me. Hierarchy is truth! And as soon as we know our place, the happiest we can be brother Sam.

This perfectly illustrates my point! Can you see how foot worship dialed-up the dominance in this Alpha/faggot dynamic?

Here’s the other thing: faggots need to give in to their natural desire to worship Alphas in this way. Don’t be afraid to even start submitting to an Alpha through foot worship. This faggot followed his instinct, and it paid off dramatically well!

Believe me, true Alphas cannot resist foot worship. The ones who don’t need it simply haven’t experienced it yet. Foot worship and service has been a huge tool in my faggot toolbox in order to serve Alphas and be owned by them!

Hello Brother,

About two years ago, I took in my then 14 year old nephew. He’s had a very rough life but has turned out to be an amazing kid. He gets good grades, is a multi sport athlete, and has a lot of friends. At 16, he is already exhibiting alpha traits.

For Christmas, he asked for sessions with a personal trainer because he wanted to max his looks. My partner’s ex-boyfriend is a trainer and was willing to take him on.

And oh my God, it has paid off. At the risk of sounding weird, my nephew is a fucking stud. He was always a cute kid and naturally fit, but now with his new workout routine, he has become a GOD among mortals.

And to add to that, he has had a few girlfriends. We talked about safe sex, of course, and he told us he needs condoms with more room. So apparently he is bigger down there too.

What’s more, he has become pretty popular on TikTok and Snapchat. He doesn’t have to post much and gets a ton of likes. He thinks it’s fun, but I think this sort of attention about to awaken the alpha within.

I told him to put his cash tag on his profile. Already he has had a few guys send him money. He doesn’t quite understand his power yet, but I’m encouraging him to lean into it slowly.

My partner is much more dominant and masculine than me and can speak alpha and sports and masc things with him. Even he has noticed that the kid has potential.

Thank you for providing incredible resources. I will find a way to introduce him to your site.

Thanks for the message!

It’s wonderful to see an Alpha that young start to embrace that natural power within himself! I’m glad your partner has gotten him into physical fitness and weight lifting! While I don’t think huge muscles have much to do with Alphahood in general, I think it’s vital for the Alpha during his developing years. It gives the developing Alpha a sense of his physical superiority over inferior males and gets his mind in the framework of besting others. It also helps that he’s receiving tributes from faggots on TikTok, for obvious reasons. 

I’m really proud of you and your partner for shepherding your nephew toward his destiny! Keep my posted on his progress! 

P.S. I loved it when you said your partner “speaks Alpha”! It really is its own language! 

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Was very intrigued by Master JA’s compelling story and wondered if he is available for contact. Thanks!

Master JA’s letter to the former itineration of this site – fagsworshipalphas.com – came while I was incarcerated. I ended up answering it while still locked up, but when I got free everything had collapsed. He left no email address for me to reach back out to him. The letter was so astonishing that I recreated it here from the archive in the hope that he will someday find it an return!

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Hi Sam, im a british guy. I absolutely loved the back to nature video. My boyfriend and I love being out in nature and every time we were deep in the woods I was guaranteed that he would get all primal and end up fucking me. Nature really does do something to us and its all good. I’m not going to say im a fag because I’m not we just two guys who love nature and one of us gets so turned on its crazy. Thanks for your amazing work and the videos my friend.

Brother, thanks for writing! I agree with you completely! I’m glad you enjoyed it! 

Hey brother Sam, i wanted to know your opinion, or what research has shown you, about the power of cum. i have been sucking cocks and swallowing cum for 20 years and i find that the longer i have been doing it the more addicted to cum i have become. i find myself thinking and dreaming about sucking cock and swallowing cum to the point that all my little faggot mind does is dwell on the thought of bringing an Alpha man to climax and swallowing his load. Are the chemical properties of cum that powerful? i am worried that i am getting to the point that i cannot think of anything else. is that a bad thing? i know that there are a lot of Alpha men out there who are glad that this is the case. Maybe that is who i was meant to be and what i was meant to do. i’d appreciate your response to this addiction of mine.

Thanks for writing brother! 

Yes, cum is definitely that powerful on both physiological and psychological levels. Cum contains seven mood-altering substances including serotonin and tryptophan (the stuff in turkey that makes us sleep after eating it). It’s even more potent when we are bred with it, because it directly enters the bloodstream through the colon walls! 

But then there is the psychological effect of having a Man ejaculate down our throats and we swallow his essence. There is really nothing like it, and that can be quite addicting as well.  

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What’s the real pecking order of superiority—White, Black, or Asian—and am I, an Asian dom, secretly at the bottom?

Alright, I’m a dominant Asian dude—built like a tank, cocky as hell, and I’ve always thrived on pinning guys down and making them worship me. I’ve got this alpha energy, and I love the power trip. But your posts keep throwing me off, man. You’re always hyping up massive black cocks—thick, veiny monsters that could split anyone open—and it’s got me questioning everything. I always figured white guys were the top dogs: chiseled jaws, towering frames, and those big, perfect dicks that scream superiority. I mean, I’ve been drooling over them myself, fantasizing about their rugged hands forcing me down, degrading me with that smug, entitled grin, calling me a pathetic little Asian bitch while they ram me with their huge white cocks. But if white dudes are into black cock—craving that raw, primal power—where does that leave me? I’m over here, a so-called dom, getting hard thinking about white men owning me, humiliating my smaller Asian dick, laughing at how it doesn’t even compare. Does that make Asians the lowest? The ultimate inferiors? I’m conflicted—part of me wants to keep dominating, but the other part wants to kneel and take it, drooling over white superiority while secretly wondering if black reigns supreme. What’s the hottest, most fucked-up racial hierarchy here, and how do I deal with this as a dom who might just be a submissive fag deep down?

1. What’s the most superior race?

   – White

   – Black

   – Asian

Sir, I’m sorry if I’m rattling your confidence! You have no reason to feel that way.

Look, I feel like I have a pretty balanced understanding of Hierarchy, but I’m still a faggot and a human. I have served a lot of black Alphas and I’m attracted to them. But in my mind there is no difference between Alphas based on race or even dick size. You should take the same mentality, Sir. 

I don’t want to rank them as you requested. I respect Alphas of all sorts, and I don’t want to hurt anyone. 

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I find it funny how people both reproach you for reporting the story of a 15-year-old teenager AND ask you to demand that his anonymity be withdrawn! Lucas’s words are imbued with the freshness and assurance of a confident, mature young man, but nothing over the top. What an idea to think of a very elaborate but useless plot!

Thank you. I completely agree with you, of course. I have an incredible track record when it comes to this work, yet there’ll always be naysayers. It’s a symptom of internet culture and the conspiratorial crap that causes everybody to think they’re amateur sleuths who can figure out the REAL truth. I promise there’s no conspiracy between me and Hillary Clinton’s pizza parlor and aliens from outer space. It was just a concerned mother seeking answers. 

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I think I’m a fagot. I’m a hot 39 year old who came out three years ago. I’m pretty hot though and look a lot younger and gum a lot. I Was a dominant top at the start but then after getting fucked realised the dominance was what I was wanting to feel and not give. I’m pretty masc presenting and I love big cocks, they make me wanna worship them and I feel really submissive. Just some background on me hehe.

Ive been following you since I came out, but only just found out you have this website. It hits the spot for me- I’m so turned on by the idea of being a man’s fagot.

Unfortunately I live in a city of bottoms haha. I’ve been able to reach out to guys in other states though and am considering moving. (I live in Australia).

Is it normal that the idea of finding a guy who doesn’t want to touch my cock at all and is obsessed with my boy pussy , is what I want. I’m also driven crazy by body odour (sweaty pits) etc and groin and cock smell. Gott a have fresh breath and clean bum though haha. I even get turned on by the idea of my future alpha waking up in the middle of the night , can’t be fucked getting out of bed and walking to the bathroom, so he wakes me up, pushes my head under the covers to his crotch, uses his fingers to open my mouth, flops his big soft cock in it, and releases down my throat. I’d love to do that for him. Save him getting up and I get to swallow part of him as he pisses in me.

But what other stuff should I focus on. I read briefly about washing cooking and cleaning . I suck so much at cooking though and I love my full time job so am worried this part will be a struggle

Well you definitely sound like a newly-outed faggot! And no, it’s not crazy to want to find an Alpha who won’t touch your cock – it’s normal. Your idea of moving out of Australia in order to find a service opportunity is exciting! Work hard to improve your domestic skills and prepare yourself for your coming future as a Man’s valuable faggot!

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Hi Sam,

My name is John. My friends call me Johnny (and you can, too ). I’m a huge fan of your work. I’ve been following your work for probably about 6 years now, and it’s been very eye opening. I’ve been feeling conflicted lately and finally decided to get in contact with you. I apologize in advance for the novel ahead of you.

For some context, ever since I was a young boy, I’ve always had feelings for other boys/men. As I got older (around 12/13), I started to feel attraction towards the other boys around me. I was constantly trying to sneak peaks at their crotches in class and the hallways and at the other boys changing while in the locker room without understanding why. As I got older, I only seemed to get hornier.

I would regularly spend hours in my bedroom jerking off multiple times a day to gay porn and just thinking of boys at my school. I had always been a very shy kid, and so I never dared act on my feelings or urges growing up. It wasn’t until I went off to college that I started experimenting more with my sexuality now with my newfound independence (still only in privacy of my own company). When I was 18, I bought my first fleshlight. And, although it always felt good the few times I stuck my penis into it and used it, I never felt a desire to use it much. The thought of some other, more endowed guy using always turned me on more.

I’ve always been very turned on by porn involving anal sex and sucking cock, even from a very young age. I remember in my early teen years finding phallic objects around the house to insert into my anus when my parents weren’t around. It felt odd but weirdly satisfying. It hurt but, for some reason, I just couldn’t stop myself.

Growing up, my dad had a running buddy he’d train with for marathons and he would regularly invite him over to go running. Looking back at it, I had a huge crush on my dad’s running buddy. I even got lucky once by catching him pissing in the woods with his cock out. Fuck, he was hot.  There was one day he came over to my house after going for a run, and my dad let him change out of his sweaty workout gear in our guest room. When he left the room, I remember sneaking into the guest room and I found the pile of his sweaty running clothes. I walked up to it, sorted through it and found his sweaty compression underwear.

The aroma of this man put me in a daze. I remember putting his underwear up to my face, shoving my nose deep into the crotch and butt area, and I took deep inhales. I think I even profusely licked the inside of the groin area to see what he tasted like. I was 15/16 at the time. Although a part of me felt a strong urge to take the underwear, I decided against it to avoid my dad’s friend from wondering where his underwear may have gone. As I went further into puberty, these sexual urges only got stronger and more perverse.

When I was 19, I stumbled upon male chastity cages online. They deeply intrigued me to my core. I began becoming very interested in sub-dom relationships and the concept of “faggotry” and the new concept of “male hierarchy.” That’s when I happened across your content and podcast.

I bought my first chastity cage around that time at 19. It was a very cheap one and didn’t work well. I used it once or twice in private, but was disappointed with how it worked. As I got into my very early twenties, I decided to experiment again with different kinds of chastity devices. I learned about myself that I liked a chastity cage that would completely cover my entire penis as to prevent any outside stimulation (except for a pee hole, of course). I then began buying numbing creams and lubing up the inside of the cage to keep my penis numb for hours.

As time went on, I began to have “masturbation sessions” by locking my penis more and more often and only using a dildo on myself for hours at a time. Admittedly, there were some days when I would use a dildo on myself (while in chastity) from sunrise to sunset. I came to view myself more and more as a “faggot” but still find it hard to identify as such.

Although I love anal play on myself, I always ended up needing to remove the cage at the end of sessions to finish myself off to get rid of my pent-up horniness. I find it incredibly hard to concentrate on literally anything when I’m locked and horny despite absolutely loving the feeling. I can’t think straight and I feel I act irrationally when really horny and can’t release it. The longest I’ve been locked for is 5 days (even at night). I use a strap to prevent the cage from tugging on my balls. Part of me would love to be a good locked boy 24/7/365, but I don’t see how that would be possible practically with how horny I get when I get no release. I feel it would also make it challenging to perform my job. To clarify, I do (on occasion) go out in public in my cage and I love the feeling.

I’ve never served any so-called “alphas” as I’ve always been too afraid. I’m not super skinny nor am I “ripped” by any means. I have an average body and a decent sized penis when not locked. I’ve been told I’m good looking, but I still lack confidence to do anything with anyone else in the real world. I’ve had sex with one other boy before, but it was never more than “vanilla.”

I’m 24 now when writing this. I apologize for the novel I just wrote. I simply wanted to give you as much background context as concisely as I could manage. Part of me feels a strong urge to know what it feels like to take a cock into my mouth and butt and feel it explode within me. Through all your content and podcasts, I’ve been inspired with your own journey. You seem to have been locked for years with little issue. I guess I don’t know where to go from here or if I should even act on these feelings. Part of me still really enjoys jerking off, but another part of me feels I should lock up and stop stroking like how real Men do. Part of me thinks I shouldn’t deserve to use my penis like a Man would. I don’t know. I feel conflicted.

I know through your podcasts you recommend channeling pent-up horniness through service, but that simply has not been an option for me up until now. Part of me wishes I could lock up, throw away the key, and forgot about cumming, but the more logical side of me knows that I need other outlets to release my horniness. I have an extremely high libido. I don’t know what to do.

Would locking up for long periods negatively affect my penis? Would it shrink or become impotent? Honestly, the thought of that kind of turns me on, but I don’t know. What effects could I expect? Is it even possible to stay locked like that indefinitely? How would I even release my pent-up horniness? How is it even possible to derive sexual satisfaction without cumming through only servitude? These are all questions I ask myself. I’m at a bit of a loss at this point in my life, and I’m unsure of how to proceed. I would greatly appreciate hearing your thoughts on my situation and what I can do to solve these issues.

Thank you for your great content throughout the years, and keep up the good work, Sam!

Your follower,

Johnny

Thank you for your book-length question! 

All of that text can be answered very simply with one sentence: Stop living in a fantasy world inside your head and go serve a real human Man. 

You’re overthinking everything when you’ve experienced nothing. That makes no sense at all. Stop jacking around and experience life! 

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Hi Sam you know im a faggot and i have a crush on lucien. i love alphas and i want to serve them. but i have a question? is it normal for a faggot like me to want to serve women too? be submissive to them? like alphas? im confused Sam. whats wrong with me? But she only contacts me when she wants money. the Goddess is called Alexandra.

Brother, thanks for writing! 

Yes, occasionally faggots have a desire to serve females, too. I think it comes from the gay impulse to worship brash, outrageous, drag queen-like females. I’ve had a few in my life as well. Typically, unless a real friendship develops, it usually fizzles out because the faggot gets tired of worshiping a person he doesn’t have a real sexual attraction to.

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Dear Sam,

I tried a lot of what you said and I made it a whole month without cumming! At the end of said month he unlocked me made me nut as quick as possible then right back up I’ve been since. So we are definitely close to no release for me ever. We also got a cage he thinks that’ll be the best form of punishment for me as I’ve had a hard time staying compliant. Although he’s gotten very good at making me do exactly as he wants. The cage came up also as a way to give him some privacy once he finds other boys he wants me home while he fucks around but out of his way! Turns me on thinking about it honestly. I know there’s better faggots out there than me and I’d never want him to go without he’s a REAL MAN! And he should get whatever ass he wants whenever. I think you were right about him being alpha also. He jumped on the feet worship quick rubbing them all over my face making me kiss and massage him. I didn’t think I’d like it as I never have before but that MAN makes me feral haha I’d do anything for him. Thank you again sam you’ve helped me so much more than you know! Feel free to ask me anything more you’d like to know about us I’d love to tell you haha! I’m @fagboyalex98 on x!

thanks again!

Fag Alex

Brother, I’m so glad to hear that you’ve had a great month experimenting with chastity! I also love to hear that you’ve discovered the wonders of worshiping an Alpha’s feet! You’re officially a faggot now! HAHA

Keep me posted! 

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I’m a 19 year old ,black bottom who is interested in becoming a faggot for a powerful alpha but I have a few questions. Whats the first step in really becoming a fag, and can I only be a fag in the bedroom or it’s a 24/7 thing?

Hi brother! Thanks for writing! 

I’m glad to hear you’re embracing your truth! I know it can be a little scary, but don’t worry. There are plenty of resources under “advice for faggots” at the top of the site. 

But to answer your immediate question: yes you can serve either as simply a sexual-service faggot, or as a full-time faggot. That would something you’d discuss with an Alpha when the time arrives! 

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