Hi Sam,

This is the first time I’m writing to you on the site, but I would like to share my story if you think it’s appropriate. Thanks to you, I have discovered my nature as a faggot. I have learned about hierarchy and my place at the feet of alpha men. I am grateful to you. My name is Antoine (on social media, I go by Lucien, like my crush). I am Italian, 35 years old, and I am a virgin. Lucien is a former Swiss guard, straight, and alpha, and I am madly in love with him. I was fortunate to live with him for a few months in Rome, and I always showed myself to be available and submissive, obviously without telling him anything, but I tried to make him understand my devotion through my availability and by helping him with many things. I also visited him in Switzerland, and those were the most beautiful moments of my life. In the end, we both returned to our own places, and the distance made me realize how much I depended on him. I bought your book “Can I Serve You?” and I found it fantastic. Thanks to our discussions on X, I was convinced to confess my feelings. Since I did, he hasn’t been treating me the same way; he ignores me, we don’t talk on the phone anymore, he says he has work problems and doesn’t want to. I even offered to help him financially, but he refused. I am desperate! In a few months, I will meet him in Rome with a group of friends who know nothing about all this, and he will be staying with others instead of with me. I have become so jealous that I made it obvious to him, and he responded annoyed, “Stop with these childish things, or I will kick you out of the group.” I am desperate, Sam. Help me; how should I behave when I meet him in front of everyone else? I m a faggot Sam, I need to serve an alpha, to be ed by an alpha. Thank you, Sam; you are precious.

Brother, thanks for telling your story here on the site! 

Lucien does sound like an amazing, very dominant Alpha. I can see why you love him and worship him so much!

It does seem like you’ve pushed him too far or been too needy/desperate with him, and that clinginess is bad for Alphas. They don’t like that, and sometimes react angrily to it. You need to relax and be submissive and quiet and let him dictate things for a bit. Perhaps the trip to Rome might be a chance to offer him help or gift him something, but I wouldn’t make a big production out of it if you do. You really need to allow him to take the lead if he chooses. 

This is a dance. Occasionally a toe gets stepped on, but that doesn’t mean the dance is over. Keep trying.

Have a question? CLICK HERE to ask!

any updates on master kenzo, or on the alphas joe and joel from the old site?

Believe me, anything I hear about Master Kenzo will be posted the same day (unless otherwise instructed). The thread on Master Kenzo is a new and current thread, so you’ll hear something when I do.

The thread on young Master Joel was an incredible one from the summer of 2021. I found the stories in the FWA archive buried in the database of this site, and they are truly magnificent. However, I went hunting for his contact information and couldn’t find it. I’m almost positive we corresponded via email, but I can’t find him there. I guess I’ve lost touch with him, which unfortunately happens. I hope he’s well!

Have a question? CLICK HERE to ask!

Sup Sam, found your podcast just wanted to ask about my situation. Little bit about me, I’m 19 5’5 , a fit 145lbs, hairy, 8 inch cock, but in my day to day life I’m a little bit more feminine acting. I enjoy more gay things like theater, but I still dress masculinely. I think people intuitively expect me to be a faggot but I have found that I really enjoy dominating. I have both dominated and submitted to guys before but I seem to have a knack and a very intense elation that comes with dominating men, especially taller older men. I also have several guys who are long term submissive to me who do any task I request of them over video. I guess my question is am I still an alpha by your standards if I enjoy more feminine things? Love the pod, great jerk off fodder.

– twink alpha C

Sir, thank you for writing to me! 

I get so tired of people putting limitations and enforcing stereotypes on Alphas. I hear these complaints all the time. “He’s not tall enough to be Alpha” or “his dick isn’t big enough to be Alpha” or “he doesn’t have enough muscle to be Alpha” or whatever. I’ve heard it all and I’ve shot them all down. 

Let me just say it again for the Peanut Gallery in the back rows: An Alpha is defined by what he is INSIDE. 

Now, most of the time there are outward qualities that manifest from that inner Alpha (like he works out because he wants a body that reflects his heart, or a cocky walk or way of speaking), but those outward qualities don’t define the Alpha. 

I’m just going to say this right up front: you’re Alpha. Everything you described to me identifies you as an Alpha in my eyes. 

Let me tackle your “feminine” personality aspects: A findom Master by the X name @ServeElRey is a twink Alpha with a scrawny body, a big dick, and he’s extremely dominant. He’s a gay Alpha, and he mounts bodybuilders twice his size. But when you hear him speak, he sounds like a very feminine, “clubby” gay boy. But if anyone judged him based on those outward factors, they’d be making a mistake; he owns many faggots all around the world and makes more per year than most doctors. 

I feel like you might be holding back from truly expressing your dominance because of some prejudice you’ve built up within yourself based on how you think others view you. I implore you to stop doing that, Sir. You are not only denying yourself the enjoyment of your natural Alpha power, but you’re also denying the world of it! 

So embrace your Alphahood, Sir. Accept your rightful place and start building the type of Kingdom you want for yourself … even if that Kingdom has sparkly unicorns and glitter everywhere! (that last part was just a joke, Sir!)

I hope this helped, Sir! Thank you!   

Have a question? CLICK HERE to ask!

Hi, any updates yet on a potential podcast episode/interview with Master Jay and Naveen Roy? They have such good chemistry together and it’s so rare to see this in the scene, give the fans what they want to see]

Yes, hello Sir! We are definitely going to give both of our large audiences exactly what they want to see! I’ve been watching you and I’m extremely impressed with your methodical control over your faggots! I don’t know what it is (maybe the whole Kings and Queens aspect of the culture), but British Alphas are especially attuned to Hierarchy and they embrace it eagerly. You are no exception to that, Sir.

I’m very much looking forward to it! Thank you, Sir!

Meanwhile, here’s Master Jay in action with famous foot fag Casey Cooper:

Hi Sam, I am a locked faggot who got into cashmasters and I feel like I am doing something wrong. Everytime I get drained I squirt like crazyy. Am I doing something wrong?

No, brother. It’s simply the result of being hyper-stimulated during a drain. It can happen. A faggot can still cum in a chastity cage if they are sexually aroused enough (of course, in those cases the cage acts as a stimulator). I wouldn’t worry about it at all; you’re doing good, brother! 

Have a question? CLICK HERE to ask!

Hi Brother Sam,

I never saw this before but I think I’m a 25 year old faggot. Thanks to your podcast and this website I start to realize my purpose in life. Unconsciously I have always surrounded myself with Alpha malesthst I needed to serve.

I have sucked many straight guys, like my uber driver while driving, and been a domestic faggot before. And sometimes I lock myself in chastity to serve a Daddy Alpha as a free use slut. It’s never about my pleasure. The focus in the last 8 years has been on being an obedient slut for real men.

But some part of me wants to have a romantic life with a cute boyfriend that I will eventually marry. Do you think this is possible? Or should I embrace being a faggot and cage myself and get on my knees in my thong to serve lots of strong man? Is being a good faggot more important than my personal love life?

Thanks for everything you do!

x a faggot from the Netherlands

I don’t consider this to necessarily be an “either/or” issue. I know of plenty of Alphas in relationships with their faggots – even marrying them! – so I don’t think they’re mutually exclusive options. In my time running FWA and this site I’ve seen four marriages occur between Alphas and faggots! In fact, right now this site has a contributing writer, Zack, who is a faggot owned by a very powerful Alpha Master AND BOYFRIEND named Master Declan. 

In my opinion, it’s best to start by simply serving the best Alphas you can find as well as you possibly can. Any good Alpha will want to keep you for good, and more can come of it.  Either way, devotion to service will keep you busy and used during the lean times without love and romance. The other way around doesn’t work as well. 

Have a question? CLICK HERE to ask!

Hi Sam,

I’ve been serving an alpha gainer who’s 5 years younger than me for over a year now. It started off with him coming over and I’d buy him food and worship him and suck him off, and over time grew to me doing his weekly shopping, laundry, fixing his car etc.

He had a bf but still used me, and when they broke up he used me more often. A few months ago he said he mightn’t be able to see me anymore because he was seeing a new guy and didn’t want to feel bad. I reached out to you and you suggested to continue doing his chores, which I did and he accepted.

However more recently I’ve noticed that he seems to be more distant and not as engaging.

Within the past year I’ve had one serious illness, a health scare and a death in my family, and the family house I was staying in was sold and I had to move back with my parents. I was numb to everything that went on in the last year, but it suddenly hit me recently when the house I was staying in was cleared out, and I felt low. I felt like everything was collapsing around me and I was lost and a failure, especially with my alpha becoming more distant. I reached out to him at my lowest and he helped me through it, and opened up to him about my childhood, job, personal life etc. He wanted to keep his life private, which I respected, but said I would love to know more about him if he wanted to talk.
The other day realised I had fallen for him and had strong feelings for him, which I confessed to him. He said he didn’t want me to think something would come of it, and agreed to keep things the way they are for now.

I’m terrified now that I’ve crossed a line and he will slowly or even suddenly cut me off. I’m afraid to message him back in case I appear needy, but at the same time I’m afraid to not message him in case he decides he’s better off without me.

Please Sam I could really use some advice now, it feels like my whole world is crumbling and I don’t want to think of a life without my alpha in it.

Hi brother! Thanks for writing to me! 

Well, you made a tactical mistake by opening up about being in love with him, but I think you know that so I’m not going to dwell on it. 

This Alpha is clearly a good Man. He’s continued to support you emotionally even though he’s moved on to another relationship. He obviously likes your worship and service. But it’s important for you to realize he’s not in love with you, and likely never will be. That’s okay, because faggots can still be useful beyond that.

But you must be okay with your role. You need to accept your position in his life and not be a burden to him. If you are, he’s going to discard you. So reign in your emotions and just allow him to make the next moves. He knows where you belong in his life, so allow him to put you there and keep you there. Trying to force his hand is only going to lead to results you won’t like at all. 

I know this isn’t much *and it’s not easy to do), but that’s your situation right now. You’ve kinda boxed yourself in with your outburst, but that’s also your situation in general. Just relax. I have great confidence in this Alpha. 

Have a question? CLICK HERE to ask!

Hello Sam!

I’m writing with an issue probably everyone had struggled with at some point, however I feel like for me it’s too much, and I need help.

Thing is, I always feel like am two different people, the horny and the regretful. I seek out men all the time,  and every time I get on my knees I already feel deep shame, so bad it even causes apathy, where I space out while in the act.
I totally disconnect from my body, and focus on the cock. That’s a good thing right?
Except I feel no real sensations during that time. It’s like I’m blocking it all out. I barely moan, squeal and then mechanically cum.
During and after the act I feel terrible. I become numb for a couple hours, sometimes even days.
Yet I always come back crawling for more. I really can’t get enough of cock and cum and spit and piss and pits and musk. It’s always the same. The before is always amazing, I fire up grindr and arrange a meet up, I head there when the time comes and again shows up my numbness.
I am infuriated that I cannot find my own pleasure in serving. Isn’t it that my pleasure is supposed to be derived from the man’s pleasure? I feel a deep sense of purpose within it, I really love men and love cock, so I push through the stupid feelings and still accept the cock and cum with my whole heart, mouth and hole.

But still, I feel like a failure.
While I do recognise the deep interplay of shame and desire, and how much it drives me to wanting more and more cock, I feel like it is excessive.

Dear Sam, what would you advise me to do?

– vitale

Thanks for the question, brother!

Here’s the problem: there isn’t really much you can do about this.

You’re experiencing two things I’ve written about quite a bit on the site. The first is SUBSPACE, which causes that empty, mindless feeling you describe. The second is THE VOID, which is that numbed ache that you describe after you’ve served that eventually drives you back for more. 

These are both quite natural occurrences for a faggot who does experience subspace easily (as it sounds like you do). This many not be a matter of doing anything to avoid it (because I largely think it’s unavoidable) as it is a matter of understanding what is happening within yourself and paying attention to how these feelings effect you. By doing this, you can take yourself out of a “victim” stance and become more active in how you process it. 

I hope this makes some sense to you. Just know that what you’re feeling is normal, brother.  

Have a question? CLICK HERE to ask!

Hi Sam!

I am happy in a long term relationship but would like to also service an alpha male.  I am wondering whether this is possible and if you have any advice on how to make my current partner embrace the idea.

Hi brother! Thank you for the question! 

I’ve encountered your situation quite a few times over the years. The conventional thought is this: you already have a loving, long-term relationship … so why do you need to also serve an Alpha? Most likely this will be the perspective of your partner once you discuss this with him.

Here’s what most non-faggots don’t understand about us: we MUST serve these Alphas. The superiority and dominance of these Men automatically trigger our submissiveness and put us in a state of subspace that acts like a hypnotic drug. Endorphins flow easily as we kneel and serve these Kings. 

It’s simply the way faggots are built. It’s NOT a fetish. It’s why we exist.

This is not going to be an easy conversation with your partner. But somehow you need to reinforce to him that this is something you need as a faggot, and it’s not a reflection on him.     

Have a question? CLICK HERE to ask!

Hey, I love your content I truly do believe the fags and alphas roles highly. I’m @Masterofbanks a financial dom my only problem lately is like to set boundaries once I first talk to the fag and get a better understanding of what they should expect and what they also want it isn’t the most attractive because there is nothing worst then the moment your talking to a fag and I have to stop and tell them a boundary so I guess my question is what’s the best way to start that conversation.

Thank you for your question, Sir!

In my opinion, you’re doing right by setting boundaries right away, especially if there are behaviors you will not accept or that you encounter too often. Waiting to set them invites bad behavior in the faggot, which must then be weeded out through training. 

Starting the conversation is easy. A faggot is subordinate and a possession of an Alpha, so like an employer might do with an employee, you simply focus the faggot and tell it your demands. The faggot should be receptive to this, and if it isn’t then you need to get rid of it. 

I hope this helps, Sir!

Have a question? CLICK HERE to ask!

There’s a hot guy i admire on Instagram. I tried contacting him and said i could serve, buy his used shoes and pay him. At first he would only read without answering and then he just blocked. Since i found his email i send him a money transfer asking to be forgiven and to be given a chance saying he could ask for anything so i can make up for it and the intensity.

But is it already too late? Did I lost all chances already?

Is there a way to save this and have me still serving him?

Thanks in advance.

P.s. what would be the best one to approach hot Alpha on social media that are pure strangers?

Hi brother. Thanks for writing.

Yes, I think it’s safe to say that you’ve lost any chance of serving this Alpha. He blocked you, but then you stalked him anyway. So yeah, he isn’t going to want anything to do with you. 

In terms of approaching hot Alpha strangers, rule number one (that you broke with this last Alpha) is this: DON’T BE CREEPY. Be professional and respectful and submissive, not WEIRD or STALKER-LIKE or SCARY or DESPERATE. 

Have a question? CLICK HERE to ask!

Hi Sam,

I am 45 y-old Alpha and I have a 22 y-old fag. He is very sweet and obedient. We live together and are very happy. However, I found out that he has a serious problem with findom addiction. He already lost thousands of euros doing this online and finally confessed to me. I could just find another one, but as a Man my role is to take care of him. His addiction led to depression because the “masters” that they served online just blocked him when his money was over. It is very difficult for me to understand why he has the urge to send all this money to random guys online if he already serves me so well. But what matters now is to stop this addiction, he literally lost all his savings, and if it weren’t for me supporting the house, my boy wouldn’t have money to buy bread tomorrow.

Instead of sending him back to his mother’s house and find another sub boy, I want to make sure that he is out of this horrible addiction, otherwise his depression will only get worse. I think I will approach this issue as alcoholism and try to find other coping mechanisms for him, but I could really use some help.

Thanks. I hope you can help up.
Adriel.

Master, thank you for writing to me! 

Findom is a pretty insidious fetish, very addictive and distractingly intense. Victims of findom rarely think about the consequences of the money and time wasted on it because their minds are on a dopamine high. I’ve seen far too many of my fag brothers destroy their lives in findom, and I’ve heard far too many Masters who were more than happy to encourage the destruction for their own selfish ends.

You’re right to treat it like alcoholism or drug addiction, Master, because that is (at a chemical level) exactly what it is. A counselor might be a great thing to incorporate into a “treatment” for findom addiction. I really think you should take away his money and give him an allowance, with increases if he starts to respond positively. Your faggot’s phone and computer usage will need to be restricted and/or heavily monitored. If the faggot isn’t in chastity, that needs to happen. Any cracks in this defense will allow the cold, harsh water of findom to seep back into your faggot’s life.

But there is a more complex issue that involves you, Master. Namely, why is your faggot so eager to sneak around behind your back and serve other Men (boys, for the most part) when he is owned by an Alpha like you?  I understand the faggot may have come into service to you with this addiction, but your ownership wasn’t enough to break the spell. That’s concerning. 

To battle that, you really need to emphasize the disappointment you feel. Your faggot let you down, betrayed your trust, and used you. Those are incredibly disappointing behaviors for a faggot that belongs to an Alpha Master of your caliber. You need to underline this to your faggot, and remind it that it is ultimately just a faggot no matter how beloved it might be to you. It can be replaced, and it will if drastic changes are not made.  

I really want to commend you on your commitment toward your faggot despite these struggles, Master. This touched me: “I could just find another one, but as a Man my role is to take care of him.” Not many Alphas take such a resolute stance toward a possession as lowly as a faggot. 

I’m profoundly frustrated and disappointed in your faggot’s behaviors as well, so I certainly hope you can use your natural power to turn this faggot around and help it, Master. My thoughts are with you. Please keep me informed, Master.

Yours,

sam the faggot

Have a question? CLICK HERE to ask!

Hi brother Sam, my name is Luke, i’m a faggot and i am serving casually a gay Alpha who i met on grindr, it’s been 8 months we are meeting regularly. He takes chastity really seriously, that’s a big thing for Him. i already enjoyed it, i know it’s good for fags, but i could never go too long with it by myself. He’s pushing my limits, ordering me to keep locked 24/7 since 7 months ago, we had a few breaks between this time, the maximum i stayed locked in a row was 1 month.

The main problem is: i am able to cum caged, i can’t control myself, when i see i am rubbing my locked clit desperate to cum, most of the times i want just to edge myself and stop, but sometimes i went too far and came. i told Him when it happened and He punished me, but i can’t help myself. Do you have any advice? i know i need to stop doing it to focus 100% on Him and His needs.

Thank you for writing! 

First of all, congrats on finding a gay Master who takes chastity seriously and wants to help you deepen your submission. It seems to be a rare thing to find gay Masters devoted to caging their faggots, so that’s great for you! 

I understand your concern. I was uncaged when I voluntarily stopped masturbating altogether. What really helped me was a deep disgust and shame from masturbating because I knew I was insulting Men. Ultimately I do believe that is the only way to success against masturbation. The correct shame needs to be greater than the pleasure. 

Start meditating on why you serve. Really think about and focus on how amazing Men are, and why they deserve obedience, respect, and HONOR. Forget about your peepee and focus instead on your hole. That is what you truly are, after all. 

Have a question? CLICK HERE to ask!

So I love gooning and sending to men who are better than men in many ways, it’s fun and pleasurable and I thank them for letting me serve them. I do serve different people though as I can’t pick one master.

The question, I have for you, is how do I do it offline. I’ve only really done it online thru findom but want to try out Chasity with a master, be a part of their sexual lives and find more fulfillment. I have ur book but I’m just as anxious online if not more talking to someone I like whether he be str8 or gay in person

You start by finding Alphas in your circle of people you know, identifying the Alphas, and making an approach.  

Have a question? CLICK HERE to ask!

I’m a college student, been a faggot all my life, started to suck dick right after I turned 18. I’ve this one alpha straight man living on my flat, seperate rooms. From the dick print I see on his pants, he has a massive cock.

We share some classes, he knows I’m gay, we interact every now and then. I want him to turn me into his slave, and fuck me or atleast let me suck his dick.

How do I approach him, and get a taste of that alpha cock?

Thanks for the question, brother!

First of all, you need to get some focus. You might not be able to service his cock, but you might still be used as his slave faggot. Are you prepared for that? 

It doesn’t sound like you’ve had the kind of interactions that would allow you to start offering help or service. You might be able to offer to make him some food or give him some food (always a good opener), but going up and offering to do his laundry might be a bit much.

I’d suggest this: next time you talk to him, ask him if he considers himself to be Alpha. If he’s as Alpha as you suggest, he will say yes. Engage him in a discussion of Hierarchy, and ask him what qualities define Alphahood or why Alphas are important in society. 

If he asks you why you’re asking, direct him to this site and the opening post about Hierarchy. Ask him where on the chart he feels he ranks. This is going to get his attention. He might even ask you where you rank; if he does, you MUST be prepared to tell him you’re a faggot! This will startle him, and he will take it seriously. 

I recently had a faggot use my “Letter To An Alpha” post (in the sidebar) to help an Alpha friend of eight years take ownership of him. You could use that, too. 

This stuff works. I’m offering it to you free. Just use it.

Have a question? CLICK HERE to ask!

Hi Sam. I’m not sure if you remember me but I asked you for advice a few years ago regarding a situation with my hockey teammate who I was also roommates with at the time. After I tried and failed to assert myself I updated you about well him using his underwear on me and I wanted to update you. A few years later and my hockey career is over. I lost my edge completely on the ice and couldn’t compete physically at all. Instead of training I spent my days sniffing my roommates dirty laundry and performing chores for him. Towards the end of the season he was performing on the first line and I was a healthy scratch. He knew it and would mock me relentlessly, but he had won. On the last day before we had to leave for the end of the season he finally fucked me. I would putty in his hands by that point and he knew it. He had me in a mating press and came deep inside me and it was pure euphoria. He actually went on and now plays college hockey but I couldn’t get him out of my mind so now I followed him to his college (I don’t go there I just live in town) and I watch his games like a fan. Sometimes it’s so embarrassing because I used to be better than him, but now I just feel like an utter simp.

This question is a follow-up to a thread from FWA dating 2022/2023 that has been restored and read by CLICKING HERE!

Oh, awesome! I LOVE hearing back from old stories and receiving updates! Thank you for being faithful and following up with me! 

I do indeed remember your story! How could I forget it? And while FWA technically is gone, I have the archives stored in the new database and I found both of your “Questions From Readers” from 2022/2023 in there! I went ahead and recreated both posts here on the new site in order to properly present your update two years later! That’s how much I appreciate you getting back to me! 

In my response to your previous question (from January 2023) I told you it looked like you were becoming this Alpha hockey player’s faggot. Looks like I nailed that prediction! This is about as Hierarchical as any story I’ve ever heard, and the lessons it holds about the nature of Alphahood are profound. 

I’d now really love to know if he’s breeding other faggots, or if he bred you just to assert dominance. I’ve heard of some straight Alphas doing this, so it makes me curious now that I’ve heard this follow-up.

You feel like a “simp” because he took away your masculinity. This is a result of your own actions, right? You decided to try and subjugate him and make him your bitch (your words), but he turned the tables and thoroughly did that to you instead. It is purely a battle for dominance, and he decisively won. 

I feel like you’re lost and hiding in the shadows stalking him. You’re pining for him and his power. He bred you with his seed, and it’s now coursing within you. You’ve been claimed. It’s only natural that these things pull you to him.

So why don’t you make contact with him, kneel, and offer yourself as his faggot? It’s what you really want. I’m sure he could use a servant like you in his busy life. He’s already bred you, and seeing you submit to him after a couple of years will instantly demonstrate how powerful he is. He’s not going to turn you down. 

It’s what you need to do, brother. Stop living in this twilight world of indecisive wandering and embrace purpose! 

Your other questions can be found here: https://hierarchyuniversity.com/category/fag-bobby-hockey-player/

Have a question? CLICK HERE to ask!

Hi Sam, you may remember me from some months ago (or you may not) as the alpha hockey player who was trying to force his other annoying alpha teammate into faggot submission. You gave me advice about walking around barefoot and naked. Wrestling and attempting to humiliate him whenever I could to force his tendency’s to show. Well… it backfired. At first he thought I was just acting kinda strange to bug him at first constantly walking around naked but eventually I did get him to wrestle me and even though he is much skinnier than me he actually beat my ass. He takes time to remind me whenever he can and started asserting himself more in our apartment. Eating my food, taking my shelf space etc. and since I knew he could kick my ass I let him. Over time it has affected my play and my leadership in the locker room. He’s taken my spot on the first line and my presence in the locker room. Recently Ive been having strange fantasies about him and I hate it because he’s such a dick. Recently I was in the showers with him and he caught me staring at him as I didn’t even realize my dick was growing hard. It was extremely embarrassing and I need to know how to reassert myself. Do I need to take combat classes?

[ archived follow-up to THIS QUESTION from January 31, 2023 ]

Welcome to the wonderful world of Alpha politics! It’s complex, brutal, and necessary! Sir, I’m sorry this happened to you! This is an unexpected outcome for sure, one I couldn’t have anticipated just based on your initial description. However, it does aptly illustrate the electric fluidity of the power exchanges within the Alpha fraternity. So I take it you’re not interested in serving this Alpha now that he has asserted his dominance over you? He’s clearly demonstrating that he owns you to some social degree. He probably looks at you like you’re a faggot (or at least HIS faggot). Many faggots would adore these circumstances, but I can certainly understand why you would reject that idea, Sir. If you really want to reassert your dominance and challenge him, you’ll need to take certain steps. First of all, you’ll need to stop him from taking your food and other stuff in the living space. These are simple rules of ownership (it’s literally your stuff) that should be respected. The trickier part is the physical dominance. How much does this mean to you, Sir? Do you want to risk a violent episode for the sake of your Alphahood? If you do, you’ll need to prepare yourself for the confrontation. As a faggot, this is tough to answer. My answer would be to submit completely, but as an Alpha that might be unacceptable to you, Sir. However, I would add that there is nothing wrong with being his subordinate Alpha brother. You can still be Alpha to his Apex Alpha.

Have a question? CLICK HERE to ask!

Sup fag Sam, I reached out to you recently and I wanted rob thank you for getting back to me in a timely manner. There’s quite a few alphas on my hockey team, but there’s one in particular that I clash with a lot (he’s my roommate as well). He’s good looking, but his long blonde hair and thin chiseled body looks kind of feminine to me. We argue a lot back at the apartment, and to be honest there’s nothing I’d like more than to look down on his once smug arrogant face and light eyes as I proceed to skull fuck the shit out of his. He definitely seems alpha to me, but I’m wondering… have you ever heard of an alpha becoming another alpha’s bitch? And if so, do you have any good suggestions on how I can start him on that journey. 

[ This is an archived question from July 5, 2022 ]

Thank you for writing, Sir. If you look on my Hierarchical pyramid that opens the site, you’ll see I’ve created a kind of Hierarchy among Alphas. That is intentional. Alphas have a sort of Hierarchy amongst themselves with lesser Alphas serving more powerful Alphas. How to start that with another Alpha might be a bit trickier, but I think a lesser Alpha (or worse, a faggot disguised as an Alpha) could be baited into submitting, Sir. First of all, you need to be barefoot in the shared living space at all times. Watch your roommate’s eyes. Start walking around naked or nearly naked. Rub your cock/balls within his eye-line, and maybe even talk about how you need to unload. You’ll need to watch carefully for subtle clues (they will be very subtle), and then use any subtle clues to your advantage.  Alpha subjugation is a bit like a wrestling match, which brings me to my next point: wrestling and horseplay can lead to some revealing moments (like accidental boners). If you can, try wrestling around with him and get him in a submissive hold where you can taunt him and tease him as your bitch.  Anything you can do to coax his true nature out of him (if there is anything) must be fairly bold and unapologetic. To get him to submit to you and suck your cock, you will definitely need to overpower him with your own show of Alphahood, Sir. Good luck! Let me know how it goes!  

Have a question? CLICK HERE to ask!

I think I am dating a god alpha and he says that I am an Apex. So we like to know what is your definition of those.

Thank you both for writing, Sirs! I love to hear from Alpha couples! 

I go over the differences in the post pinned to the front of this site (HERE), but I will go over it a little more.

I think Alphas in general are fairly easy to define for the most part. They are Men who are superior to lesser males physically, socially, economically, and romantically. 

Among Alphas, there are certain Alphas who seem to be ones that other Alphas defer to and follow. These ones are Apex Alphas. There are a variety of reasons why they Alphas “submit” to these Apex Alphas … perhaps due to their advanced knowledge, their expertise, their looks and physique, or their social/economic placement. Whatever the reason, these “lesser” Alphas look up to Apex Alphas.

A God Alpha is sort of an “ultimate Alpha” amongst an Alpha Pack, the de facto leader to whom other Apex Alphas “submit” and follow. The God Alphas I’ve known easily take over rooms of other Alphas and are always the natural center of attention. 

I will add this: the fact that your partner (the one you’ve identified as a God Alpha) told you you’re an Apex Alpha tells me he DEFINITELY is a God Alpha. He recognizes that he is your superior and your leader and accepts/embraces that role and is able to clearly identify both roles between you. That is something a self-actualized God Alpha can and will do!   

I hope that makes it clearer, Sirs! 

If you ever want to share your story with me, I’d love to feature it. Alpha couples are rare and mysterious enough that I think it would be good to examine it in detail and have a prototype for how it can work. You can write to me at hierarchyuniversity@gmail.com.

Thank you, Sirs!  

Have a question? CLICK HERE to ask!

I guess strict terms are useless and we are all on a spectrum because seeing your post about faggots not wanting romance from their alphas made me think I’m not really a FULL faggot but merely a beta/boy with faggot tendencies because while I want to be dominated and used by my alpha I also want the romance part too – like when he’s done with me I’m the boy wife/his princess even though he is in control and rules and I am subservient to him.

Thank you for this brother! It’s funny you should mention this, because as I wrote it I thought to myself, “This isn’t completely accurate, because I MYSELF have been the recipient of great love from my Masters … and I loved every second of it! 

Faggots are human beings, too, and we hurt and feel love and want to be loved. And for the devoted service we provide our Masters, we deserve some measure of love. Why an Alpha would be affectionate with a dog but treat his faggot (who does much more than a dog) like garbage is beyond me, but there are Alphas like that out there. 

Anyway, yes, you definitely deserve to be loved by an Alpha! 

Have a question? CLICK HERE to ask!