Hi Sam!

I’ve been coming to terms recently with the fact that I am a faggot. Because of your website, you’ve inspired me and now I’m interested in locking my penis up in a chastity cage to start my fag journey, but I don’t know where to start.

Do you have any recommendations for where I can start looking for a good quality cage? Or do you have any yourself that you personally prefer and would recommend to other fellow fags? Any other tips or tricks for a good- fitting cage?

Thanks so much!

Hi brother! Thank you for the question!

Congratulations on accepting your faghood and for considering chastity! I think you’re on the verge of something wonderful and fulfilling! 

My very best advice for newbies to chastity is that you should find a cheap silicone cage (Amazon has several) in order to find the right size for you (sizing isn’t as easy as it seems) without spending a bunch of money. Theoretically at that price point you could buy a couple of sizes and find the best fit. 

Once you get accustomed to wearing it and you’ve found a good size, you can invest in something sturdier and cleaner, like stainless steel. 

I recommend that you shave the entire area and keep it free of hair; that will make it more comfortable. And you can use talc or something like that to prevent chaffing. 

I hope it goes well with you on your new journey! Chastity will change everything for you, I promise!  

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Hi Sam. I’m 24 years old, I live in Poland, and I’m a trans woman.

I’ve been listening to your podcast since 2021 and I’ve been into hierarchy since I was 15. I’ve always been very feminine and attracted dominant men. At some point, I decided to transition because I wanted to fit in and not be bullied for being a sissy faggot.

But these things still turn me on. I met my Master in 2023 and I’ve been serving him since then.

However, I feel like he was more sexually attracted to me when I was a more effeminate faggot. Now, I’m an attractive woman.

On one hand, I feel good about my femininity, but I miss the adrenaline and the sexual tension.

Sometimes I think about detransitioning so he would use me more intensely again, and so I could feel like a pathetic slut again. I miss that.

But he doesn’t want to be in a relationship with a man. Not even a trans woman. He’s forcing himself to look for a woman, even though he prefers men. He wants to be accepted by our intolerant society.

I’m not really sure what I’m asking you for. Maybe some advice.

Should I leave him, or should I adapt to his needs?

I don’t know what to do.

Thanks for the question!

Your situation is a little confusing, I must say, and I mostly blame your Master for this. Let’s see … your Master DOESN’T want to be in a relationship with a Man, nor a trans woman … but he’s now looking for a relationship with a woman??? Can you hear how ridiculous that sounds?

I don’t see why you should be suffering just because your Master is buried deep in the closet and terrified of living his truth. You already have enough issues to handle just being a trans woman in today’s world! 

So I’m guessing that you haven’t been surgically-altered during this transition (since you said you can detransition)? Since you said you would be happier as a faggot, why not just leave this Master, detransition into a faggot, and live more happily? Why go through all of this complication?

I’m not sure if that really helps. Yours is a complicated situation. I recommend you simply things.   

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Hi Sam,

I wanted to write again because I feel more confused than ever. As of now I know I’m no longer an alpha, since I last wrote, I have served my frat friend and I can’t deny that an alpha would not do these things and it keeps playing on loop in my mind.

Earlier today  we were supposed to hit the gym together but he invited me into his room and told me “How about you just rub and massage my soles, they’re so sore”. This was the first time I’ve ever worshipped feet so I was scared but for some reason I started growing hard feeling up his feet and smelling the stench coming off. Then he took off his shirt and said “God I’m so sweaty my pits and feet are drenched wish I had something to clean it all up” and looked at me in the eyes while I was rubbing his feet but I couldn’t bring myself to make eye contact. He ended up telling me “You’re so obedient because you’re a faggot who wants to be used right” and forced me to look up at him. In that moment I felt so aroused I was fighting my cock from becoming too hard that he somehow read through my masculine facade but also how easy he manhandled me. But when he kept telling me “admit you’re a faggot” and “say yes sir I’m a faggot” and “come fucking faggot just admit who youre a faggot to me” I couldn’t bring myself to do so. I felt so bad for disobeying but even though I was so turned on submitting to him I dont know if I’m a faggot. I think I enjoy submitting to strong men like him but I don’t know if I want to be a faggot or if I am close to just being a beta instead. It feels to much is happening with my identity at once and while I want to keep serving him I don’t know if I can tell him all of this. I’m scared of telling him or admitting I’m a faggot because what if he tells other people and no one ever respects me anymore. I just dont know how to satisfy my cravings as i want ti say for him because I can’t deny I got so much harder in that session worshipping me him than ever without putting my image or myself at risk. If you have any advice Sam on how to proceed I would appreciate it.

This is a second follow-up to THIS INITIAL QUESTION and then the FIRST FOLLOW-UP QUESTION. 

Well, I must tell you that this isn’t as surprising to me as it is to you. You see, this frat Alpha friend of yours knows you’re a faggot (as I said in the previous post) and he’s interested in taking ownership of you. I know how Alphas operate, so this game he’s playing with you is a bit like a cat playing with a rabbit before it eats the rabbit. 

Alphas are excellent hunters – the best on the planet, really – and you’re the most vulnerable prey imaginable … prey that refuses to acknowledge they’re prey.

This Alpha is BOLDLY confronting you about what you are, yet here you are defiantly trying to hold onto something you never had. He’s giving you an opportunity to free yourself – he’s practically BEGGING for you to do it – and you won’t take it. 

I occasionally work with @MasterA_2022 on X-Spaces to help faggots openly admit that they’re faggots, some saying it for the very first time. The results are sometimes dramatic, with faggots WEEPING after they say it to the group! 

I tell you that to let you know that I do understand your struggle. I know it’s not easy to accept. But I also know the freedom that awaits you on the other side of that admission. You’re desperately trying to maintain a façade that was never real.  

Here’s the thing: this Alpha clearly wants to free you from this burden as well. He sees what you are, what your purpose is, and how you’ve trapped yourself in lies. He’s offering a way out, a way to safely become what you were born to be. That is RARE, my friend! 

You mention that you’re afraid he might tell other people. You need to remember that he’s under the same social pressure you are (it’s just different because he’s Alpha). He likely doesn’t want it getting around that he seduced a faggot. 

Look, if you’re ever going to experience true fulfillment in your life, you must eventually trust a Man with your truth. Otherwise, you’re going to spend your life bottled-up and increasingly petrified of trying. 

You’re young now. You’re at your most energetic, vibrant, and beautiful. So is this Alpha. Now is the time to let go of stigmas and the judgments of others, and simply LIVE IN TRUTH! 

This Alpha is banging on your door. It’s time to open that door, and let him in!  

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Hey brother sam, i recently started servicing an Alpha who is straight but he wants to suck on my faggot cock. Like you, i really don’t like the idea of my faggot cock being sucked by an Alpha but he insists. i forwarned Him, that having my cock sucked on gives me no pleasure, and that while i preferred He not suck it, He was free to do so as He is an Alpha and i am a lowly faggot. He asked me if i thought i could cum while He sucks me and i told him that i doubted it. He said He wants to suck my faggot cock anyway. i said that He should do as He pleases, but that i probably wouldn’t cum. His response was, “Then I won’t feel bad if you don’t cum.” i reassured him that it was my issue if i couldn’t cum and that He was in no way responsible for my not cumming. He said he was ok with that and said that He would suck on my faggot cock anyway.

my question brother sam, is whether i handled this correctly. i think that as an Alpha He can do what He pleases and so i decided to let Him suck me even though i wouldn’t be comfortable in letting Him do so. i’m thinking that while He sucks on my faggot cock i will try visualizing myself sucking on Him at the same time, so maybe, i can be erect at least.

Have you ever encountered a straight Alpha that wanted to taste a faggot’s cum? How would you handle this situation?

Thanks in advance brother sam!

Thanks for the question! 

My first question is this: why do you think this guy is a true Alpha? There are a lot of gays out there pretending to be Alpha (or are confused into thinking they’re Alpha) whose true colors come out once they get a faggot alone. 

Even gay Alphas that I know don’t suck dick, get fucked, or do much ass play. Think about that. And even more telling is this “Alpha’s” insistence on sucking your dick. Very strange.

As you mention, I HATE when anyone does anything with my penis. That’s why it’s so nice being caged. I think most faggots agree with us about this, too. We are simply not wired to want that or enjoy it. 

If I were you, I’d lose this guy. I think he’s a fake, and he’s also inconsiderate. There are true Alphas out there to serve. I wouldn’t waste time on this one.   

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I’m a 22 years old college student and quite new to the overall hierarchy and alpha scene I just found it this past couple months and was something I found hot to think about. Personally, I’ve never felt labeled anywhere somewhere between alpha/prealpha and maybe beta-dom as I’m a vers top were I mainly enjoy topping but I have bottomed a few times before.

My interest in hierarchy spiked again around 5 days ago when I saw one of my neighbors from my hometown posed a shirtless pic of himself at the gym. I had not seen him in over 4 years and now he was 18 and he had strong biceps, a wide chest, and what drew me the most was a strong set of 6pack abs.

Seeing his photo reminded me of something that happened a couple years back that I kind of forgot but realized was big to who I am. When I was a junior in high school we used to hang out afterschool because we grew up close to each other since elementary school. That year he got into football and especially wrestling. So he would often ask me to grapple with him which I did and I won just because I was older. However, in my senior year he ended up beating me multiple times despite being 4 years younger than me and the pinnacle moment was when he won and duct taped my hands behind my back and stood on top of my back. We never talked about it much because it was all friendly but after that we never wrestled as he trained with actual wrestlers.

Now looking back at it I’m realizing he was somewhat an alpha or I might not be as unlabeled as I thought. In the days after seeing his gym photo all I’ve been thinking about is his physique to the point where I canceled a hookup to jerk off. I’m starting to realize I definitely fall into the beta to even fag tier now as I’ve constantly thought about and even dreamt about him dominating me. I wanted to share this story because I think that so many moments like this happen to show people their place but I was just oblivious to it. Now I’m not sure how to even proceed with my newfound info especially considering how he’s much younger than me and I want to respect his boundaries. I don’t know if you have any advice on how to go about it especially if we don’t talk anymore?

As a note I am fine with the posting of the story but I’ve left the fields blank just because I don’t feel comfortable revealing my info just for my personal comfort.

Hi, thank you for writing! 

Ah, those high school years are really something else, aren’t they? Before we even know what’s happening to our own bodies we are thrown into a daily petri dish of hormones, awkwardness, impulsiveness, and wild guesswork. The forces at work on us in high school run the gamut, from physical to mental to emotional to social. It’s amazing any of us survive it all.

If we are paying attention to the clues we receive in high school, we can really find out deep truths about ourselves. For instance, when I was 17 (before senior year) I was forced into submission by my straight Alpha friend to become his cocksucker. From there I figured out about my true calling as a faggot, and I never looked back.

For you, there was apparently a lot of information guiding you to believe in your Alphahood. But this one friend showed you something by overtaking you and eventually dominating you. It’s interesting to me that you apparently pushed that memory down and forgot about it … until that pic forced it back into your psyche. 

This tells me that memory meant something more than just a passing feeling, but rather it was something your mind was fighting to suppress. So we shouldn’t try to ignore it.

I had a question like this before, and I advised the faggot to reach out to what was a former bully in high school, and it turned out well enough (they were geographically too far apart). Given that you parted as friends just a few years ago, there’s a great chance he’ll be glad to hear from you. 

More importantly, I’ll bet that incident you mentioned had a tremendous effect on his life as well. That’s a pretty ringing endorsement for his Alphahood, and I’m sure it was a pivotal moment in his development. 

So i recommend that you write to him (you could call too, possibly) and feel him out. Be complimentary about his physique, and toss in some commentary about that incident. Be complimentary about his power, and hint that it was a major turning point in your life. Chances are, he’ll pick up that hint and want to know why. 

At this point, you’ll need to be a little brave and admit that the incident awakened submissive feelings in you. If he’s Alpha (as I suspect), he will pick that up and run with it. 

Just try it. At worst, you’ll lose a friend you already don’t have. But I don’t think that’s what is going to happen.

Please keep me posted!  

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I never thought I would write back so quick but I haven’t been too honest with myself. What I didn’t mention about me thinking I might be a beta/fag instead of an alpha is lately I’ve found myself enjoying the smell of the gym. At first I thought it was just because I’ve loved being at the gym to work out but my friend in my frat left his workout shirt on my bed and I had to stop myself from going up and smelling it. When I first wrote to you I think I knew a bit that I might not be an alpha like I thought, but I guess I was holding out hope you would tell me I just lost my way. After reading a bit though I have to say I don’t think I’m an alpha and it might have been just the hometown I grew up in.

I never gave you any background but I’m Asian, around 5’11 with a six pack and a six inch dick. In my hometown which was more Asians I stood out and I think that’s why I thought I was an alpha but being here now with other guys I feel my confidence of standing out slipping away. The reason I’m writing so soon was today my frat friend asked me to give him a massage because he was sore and called me a “good boy for being obedient.” I tried to ignore it but that phrase has been echoing in my head since then and I can’t lie I’ve been thinking about his bulge all day.
I think just being a more masculine jock is making be hesitant of accepting being inferior that I have to be a top at least. Do you have any tips of overcoming my dignity because my heart is telling me I should try serving to see if I enjoy it but my head is too proud to submit? Or how I could approach my friend ir if you think he already knows? I apologize for the lengthy excerpt but I feel this is a subject I can’t talk to anyone else about.

This is a follow-up to THIS QUESTION.

Thank you for following up on your previous question! Yes, a change in location can often give us a fresh perspective on hierarchy at large, and the wider view of Men and how they interact in other places. Suddenly we see that Men don’t always act the same way in other cultures and environments. 

But let’s get to your pressing issue. Yes, your Alpha frat friend is absolutely pushing buttons with you because he either (a) wants you to be his faggot, or (b) suspects you might be a faggot he can break.

He tried two very effective tests to determine this. First, he commanded that you give him a massage (and you complied). Then, he said, “You’re a good boy for being obedient”, which is a demeaning phrase to an Alpha (but you accepted it).

In other words, you failed both of his tests. Right now he is probably thinking about how to take ownership of you. You already gave him the information he needed through those simple tests, and as far as he’s concerned he has the green light to take whatever he wants.

Let’s get this out of the way: you’re not going to be a Top.

The feelings you’re describing are fundamental aspects of being a faggot. Your true position in hierarchy has been revealed, and you cannot escape it no matter what you try to do. Forget about your so-called dignity as a Man. Your PURPOSE is on the line! 

So the remaining question is this: how do you deal with this Alpha friend who is clearly targeting you? You have two choices, really: (1) wait until he finally forces you into submission, or (2) greet him by kneeling before him and telling him the truth. 

In my opinion, the second option is better because that way you maintain some dignity and agency over your own faghood. That way you’re not a “victim” of Alpha manipulation, but are instead honestly offering yourself him for use and service. 

The clock is ticking now. He’s on to you and he’s pretty sure what you are. Either way, it won’t be long before you’re serving him. All that remains is how YOU want it to happen. 

Good luck, brother. If you need help, you can always write to me at hierarchyuniversity@gmail.com!  

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Hi Sam,

My name is Brandon and I’m a 21yo guy who’s recently become more sexually active. I have a decently muscular body and a pretty big dick(~7.5-8in). I’ve begun to notice a trend with the guys I’m sleeping with. Almost as soon as undress they all start acting more like bottoms? They always start worshipping my body and beg to suck my cock/fuck them.

I’ve never really thought of myself as “Alpha” or had the impulse to don other guys before. But I will say it does feel nice to be worshiped. So my question for you Sam is, do you think I’m an Alpha or is this just benefits of being hung?

Hello, Sir! Thank you very much for writing!

At this point, it’s pretty clear you’re receiving the benefits of being hung, but that’s only a benefit if you’re a total top without any interest in sucking dick or being fucked. Otherwise, that wouldn’t be a benefit, right? Since you didn’t really clarify your interests, I can’t really determine much more than that.

But let’s assume that your statement “benefits of being hung” indicates that you are, indeed, a total top.

The question of whether or not you’re Alpha involves more math than (big dick = Alpha). Alphahood does not depend on dick size. A Man is Alpha because of the qualities he has INSIDE, not outside. 

Despite your nice body, handsome face, and big dick, you have some aspects that make me question your qualifications as an Alpha. For instance, you have a very limited sexual history until now (which would be weird for a well-hung Alpha). You also mention that you’ve never felt the urge to dominate others … again, that’s not typically an Alpha quality.

So I can’t really come to a conclusion on the question of your Alphahood, Sir. I don’t have enough information to do so. However, I’m rooting for you! You seem like you’d make a great Protector Alpha if it ends up fully manifesting in you! Thank you, Sir! 

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Hi man,

I’m a 26yo guy who has a very appealing body and attractive face however I’m very underdeveloped down there.

for me I see it as a non issue but when I try to pick up fags they tend to ignore me due to my small dick. I have never thought about serving a man myself and always have seen myself as an alpha.

so does my small 3.5’ dick make me a faggot and I should accept it?

Sir, thank you for writing! 

I’m sorry you’re feeling insecure about this, Sir. I’m always frustrated by this issue of penis size, because it really doesn’t matter. You’re Alpha based on the qualities you have inside, not outside. 

In other words, you’re not a faggot unless you have a need to serve Men. To submit to them, be owned by them, etc. You clearly don’t have that need at all, so you’re not a faggot. 

Sadly, many faggots are shallow size queens who think way too highly of themselves. They forget that their entire purpose on Earth is to serve superior Men like yourself. So try to keep that mental attitude and remember your actual place in Hierarchy.

I’ll tell you this: I casually served a straight Alpha named Eric for about two years. His dick was not much bigger than mine, and mine is small (he also had a Prince Albert piercing that was incredibly annoying while sucking him off). But there was never any doubt that he was the Alpha and he expected me to serve him. When he fucked me, he’d wrap his muscular arm around my throat and press his massive, muscular body on top of me and hammer me like there was no tomorrow. I loved how animalistic he sounded when he bred me. 

He was the living embodiment of this joke a friend said once when someone was mocking his dick size: “Hey, even three inches hurts when it’s going 100 MPH!”

If this is bothering you too much, focus on other forms of worship like pits, feet, domestic, etc. Get into findom and make faggots worship you with their treasure. Become rich and honored by faggots the world over. I promise, your dick size won’t bother you so much anymore, Sir! 

You were born a King, Sir! So fulfill that destiny! 

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Hey man I wrote to you a couple days ago about trying to figure out the hierarchy with my struggles with my friend I introduced to being an alpha. I appreciate the insights and after reading more I realized that I was questioning my status because I was Asian and physically less appealing than my friend, but now I know that being an alpha often is beyond simple physical traits, but rather a mentality that I lost for a second but regained. Things have reverted back to normal since I talked with Ray and Leo has come back to serving me. While I still need to look through alpha hierarchy I was wondering what role does an alpha/apex alpha play for a god alpha and is it possible to become a good alpha from an alpha? Overall, I know I’m an alpha for sure I’m just struggling how an alpha hierarchy would work if I’m below a bigger alpha.

This is a follow-up to THIS QUESTION.

Master Aiden, welcome back! Thank you so much for writing again! 

I felt bad about my response to your first question, because I thought I was too blunt with you. However, I was concerned because I hate to see Alphas struggling with their place or their worthiness. You’re in the prime of your life and you’re ALPHA! This is the time when you can shine brightest and use your overwhelming power to live your best life! 

I’m so glad to hear that you had a talk with Master Ray! This is what needed to happen. You’re both Alpha, so there needs to be mutual respect between Alpha brothers. Ultimately, you both are part of an earthwide Alpha fraternity that rules our world together, so there needs to be harmony and agreement amongst those rulers! 

Also, I’m sure Leo feels much better back in your service, Master! I would probably reprimand him for his unfaithfulness (although faggots are notorious for this). I’m sure you’ve already dealt with that in your own way.

To your question: I’ll answer in militaristic terms, if I may, for the purpose of illustration. God Alphas are like Generals, Apex Alphas are like Lieutenant-Generals, and Alphas are like Major-Generals. One tier “serves” or obeys/follows the tier above it. You can see this behavior in action when there are a group of Alphas working together (like a sports team, for example). 

God Alphas are the ones all Alphas follow, look to for advice, and receive instruction. The Alphas closest to the God Alpha are typically Apex Alphas, and they keep a pretty tight social circle devoid of even other Alphas because that is how direction is plotted and disseminated to the rest of the pack.

I generally tend to think God Alphas are born that way, but certainly an Alpha or Apex Alpha can try to assert themselves as a God Alpha. Other Alphas will either accept this assertion of power, or reject it … that’s the true test of God Alphahood. 

Hierarchy is a natural process. We can’t usually bend it to our will. It will always tell us what we truly are. 

I hope that helped, Master! I’m so happy to hear that you’re reclaiming your Alphahood and approaching it with a clear, focused vision! Go forth and conquer, Master!  

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Hi Sam! I need your help. I am 26, gay, and I have sent around 10k to Alphas over the last 7 years BUT … I never had the courage to meet one and worship them in person.

I tell myself that maybe I am not a faggot and I did send the money just for fun but if I worshipped an Alpha in person, my place in the hierarchy would be fixed.

Am I lying to myself? The 10k are a lot of money for me and maybe this sum already is a strong sign that I am indeed a faggot.

I think I am not the only one who is struggling with his place. The Alphas are fine with receiving money and I was never asked to meet… so I would love to hear your opninion and what next step you would recommend.

Well, if you’re unsure about whether or not you’re a faggot, I recommend that you buy my book titled “Are You A Faggot?” that contains a final, self-administered test to help you answer that question. You can buy it right here: https://payhip.com/b/o8E9L

I think sending money to Alphas you’ll never meet is largely a dead-end. I understand that it’s “hot” and helps you get off, but you’re learning all sorts of bad habits while also lowering your standards for yourself. I think findom is fine for faggots who simply cannot serve Alphas in real life for whatever reason, but ultimately findom isn’t a proper or beneficial training method.

Your words betray some of this. You mention that you lack the courage to meet and serve in person. Can’t you see that findom is weakening you as a person? 

My recommendation is this: take some time off of findom and instead use that money to buy a few drinks for a local Alpha you know. Or to buy him something of value. Or make yourself useful to him in some way. You will find that experience much more rewarding, and it will make you grow as a person rather than regress.  

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Hi Sam the Faggot

I took your advice and decided not to try and explore further for my own sexual release. And honour Master Karim and be grateful for all he’s given me and what a wonderful life I have now.

I felt I should be open and honest with Master Karim as we have for all our relationship. So I told him my concerns and the conclusion I arrived to. I could not have found a kinder Alpha. It genuinely pained him that I was feeling that way, though he did admit he was glad I decided I didn’t need something more sexual from him as he would’ve had to stick firm to his beliefs and turn me down.

But Master Karim asked me to give him some time to think of things and he came back to me and said I might feel more satisfied if we explored me wanting to drink piss like I used to. So he said he wanted to start using me semi-regularly as his toilet. And said that he was comfortable giving me first dibs to his rubbers, so that way I get to have his cum without gay acts between two men happening in our house.

I haven’t had the chance this week yet to suck down on of his rubbers, but we have tried me drinking his piss. It’s been a little messy to start with but we’re getting better. And exciting to have a new thing to learn. It was a bit gross with the morning piss, but with perseverance and practise I’m looking forward to the day where it lights up my morning.

Thank you so much for helping me avoid temptations cheap and easy path.

Gratefully
Faggot James

This is a follow-up to THIS QUESTION.

Brother, thank you for following up!  I’m so glad to hear that you followed through with my advice and it worked out well! 

It’s truly a testament to what a good faggot you are and what kind of Master your Owner, Karim, is! Good Masters listen to their faggots and consider their feelings. Of course, a faggot’s needs are a distant second to the needs of its Master, but good Masters listen and consider them thoughtfully in order to bring out the best in the faggot. That way, the faggot becomes more useful … and more valuable! 

Even though Master Karim is a straight Alpha, he recognizes how vitally important you’ve become to his own personal power. A straight Alpha who owns faggots is infinitely more  powerful than a typical straight Alpha. Master Karim is really feeling that now! 

As for you, I congratulate you on being patient and submissive! It’s paying off with benefits already, and more to come! Just wait until you taste his seed the first time! You’ll be glad you took this course! 

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Yo I’ve been in the alpha scene for around 2 years and was thinking about making one of my friends serve me. First I wanna say thanks for the page, when the first guy showed me it I was skeptical but since then owning subs has made my college life so much easier. I’ve made a couple guys serve me since then but never tried on a friend. Was wondering if you had any advice to make it chill since he’s my friend but I’ve noticed he always stares at my bulge, grabs my muscles jokingly, and I swear I saw him take one of my used gym tanks before so I feel like I’m correct. I don’t wanna offend him but I think it would be hot to have an athletic looking guy serving me any advice?

Sir, thank you so much for writing to me! Once again, I’m blown away by the long-term effects of my work here! I’m glad to see that you’re experiencing the very real power of hierarchical truth, and all the blessings it holds for Alphas like yourself! 

Congratulations on being able to apply those principles to actually claim a couple of faggots on your own! I love that! It tells me you’re an Alpha who likes to confidently take action, and doesn’t care what others might think about how you conduct your business! Those are all terrific (and vital) qualities for any true Alpha, Sir! 

I’m telling you right now, Sir – if you’re seeing those signs from this friend, he is definitely a faggot. It’s especially true if he did indeed steal articles of soiled clothing from you; faggots are notoriously-compulsive thieves of such items! That’s the sign of a faggot in heat, when its raging hormones are overriding its brain. 

I’ll give you two ways you can get this faggot to submit to you, Sir. One is more direct that the other, but both will involve you getting him to admit he’s a faggot and you telling him that you want to own him. 

SUBTLE APPROACH: Next time you’re with him, take your shoes off and ask him to rub your feet. He might try to playfully object; if he does, then revert to the direct method below. However, I think the faggot won’t be able to resist this offer. Once he is massaging your feet, compliment him and also give him some direction in order to see how he responds. Then say something like, “You like making me feel good, don’t you?” (you’re trying to draw out his ability to express his desire). Then ask: “Why is that?” (No matter what bullshit answer he gives you) you say: “No, it’s because you’re a faggot, right?” Then make him look you in the eye and say: “Yes Sir, I’m a faggot.” Tell him “good boy”, then have him worship your feet before going through the scent training I outline in the direct approach below. 

DIRECT APPROACH: When you’re together, tell him to stand in the middle of the room with you. Then order him to kneel and kiss your feet. He might balk at that, but remain firm. When he does this, tell him “good boy” and talk to him while you take off your shirt. Tell him you knew he was a faggot for a while, and then ask him, “So what are you?” and make him say it loudly “I am a faggot.” Tell him “good boy” when he obeys. Repeat this several times. Then tell him to stand. Lift up an armpit and make him start sniffing and licking your armpit. Repeat this with the other armpit. Tell him “good boy” and even talk dirty and degradingly to him. Then have him kneel so he can be scent trained on your cock/balls as well. Same techniques here. Start by scent training through your underwear, and if you choose, you can pull your underwear down and make him service you directly. By the time you get the faggot to this point, he will do literally anything you command, Sir.

Hopefully you can see how either of these techniques combine verbal commands designed to get into the faggot’s mind while also using the powers of your Alpha body to force the faggot to accept its proper place. 

I’m looking forward to hearing more about how this progresses, Sir! You are welcome to write to me at hierarchyuniversity@gmail.com if you’d like! Thank you, Sir! 

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Hi Sam,

I’m writing today because I feel I am at a crossroads right now. For most of my life I thought I was an alpha especially in my hometown where I was one of the strongest guys and everyone wanted to hook up with me. However, since I’ve been in college I don’t know if that is the case anymore. Despite being quite tall and built I’m still considered one of the weaker guys in my friend group and my journey started  when chicks only talked to me to get with my friends. I began thinking about what made them so much desirable and one of my realization points was seeing how big their bulge was in their boxers. I tried to put it off as admiration but I began having dreams of them and after reading some of your responses I realize if I truly was an alpha I wouldn’t be entertaining these thoughts. I honestly don’t know how to feel since my entire worldview has been flipped but I can’t deny how I feel and I don’t know how to proceed?

Thank you for writing to me! 

I’m sorry you’re struggling with this! Once you get to college, it should ideally be a confirmation of the person you always felt you were, not a derailment. I can appreciate your despondency and disillusionment. Sometimes when we look at ourselves with honest eyes, we are frightened, confused, or horrified by what we see.

I wrote a book that might help you find the path you should take. It’s called “Are You A Faggot?” It’s designed as an overview about faggots and their place in Hierarchy, but the most important part of it is at the end: a quiz designed to help you figure out if you’re actually a faggot, or maybe just a beta. I highly recommend that you buy a copy and try it before proceeding any further.

HERE: https://payhip.com/b/o8E9L

I know you’re probably feeling some apprehension right now, but you don’t need to be frightened. If you are, indeed, a faggot, just embrace it and do your best to fulfill your purpose and good things will come your way. 

I wish you the best!  

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I’ve been following FWA for a couple years now after getting more into kink around sophomore year. It makes so much sense and I was hooked. I’m so glad you’re helping alphas and fags figure out who they are and what their place is. I think high school is a clear example of where the hierarchy is on display every day. I am a basketball and baseball player. 6’2 thick muscular body, 6 pack abs. I’ve always been able to talk to girls but have only ever been with one a few times. I’m gay but only a top. I know I’m an alpha, no question. I’ve noticed the fags at my school staring at me in class or in the hall. I’ve never approached them though. I’m in the “popular crowd” and really could get with any chick I want.

Im 18 now and graduating from high school next week. The other day I ended up messaging one of my coaches from my school on grindr.  He’s 26 and from his profile comes across as a faggot. We started talking about the heirarchy because he had a couple tags in his profile like chastity, sub, kink, etc… That’s when I confirmed he was a faggot. We exchanged pics and I saw the cages he owned. He has some of the smallest cages I’ve seen. Mostly nub cages but has a flat cage for short term wear he said. Hard he’s like 5 inches vs my almost 7. He’s not thick at all wear I am pretty thick.

I was kind of surprised he was a faggot at first since he comes across as a very masculine ex frat boy jock. I know him pretty well since he coached me since freshman year. I have always thought he was hot but never looked at him like a faggot. That made him even hotter ngl.

I think it would be really hot to turn him into my faggot but idk if he would since he was my old coach.

I don’t know if he recognized me from my pics but we never swapped face pics. I figured out it was him because of one of his tats. I used a pic that was on my IG so he may have figured out who I was. I stopped messaging him because I didn’t know what to do.

My question is do you think I should make him my fag this summer? He seemed eager to submit and tbh I don’t blame him. I don’t want it to be weird for him or anything but I really want to turn him into my faggot. What should I do?

Sir, thank you so much for writing to me! I really do love this recent wave of young readers who were following me silently while being underaged and are now reaching out once they attain that magical 18-year-old designation some restrictive moron invented! It just reassures me that I’m having a positive impact with young people, and they stick by me over many years because they recognize the ring of truth. 

Your case seems a bit peculiar to me, Sir. You’re very athletic, popular, good-looking … and in general, your generation is quite accepting of homosexuality. And yet, you’ve had very few sexual experiences despite all of these advantages. 

What that tells me about you is you’re an ethical Alpha, a Protector Alpha at heart who doesn’t want to use the ample female pussy being offered to you because you don’t want to lead them on. If I’m right, I really admire that about you, Sir!

Sadly, you refused to use your growing power to take ownership of the many faggots in your school. I realize this is part of an Alpha practice of “not shitting where you sleep”. In other words, you wanted to keep your school and sex lives separate. I get it.

But now you’re 18 years old, Sir. By law, you’re a Man … and by Nature, you’re a Superior Man. So everything is now possible for you! 

I must give this faggot coach credit for managing to resist trying anything with his Alpha players. Of course, your developing Alpha powers saw right through his façade and saw what he really was. That had to be quite a head-trip for you, knowing at such a young age that you’re superior to him and could basically own this faggot ten years your senior!    

Sir, you asked if I think you should turn this coach into your faggot. My unreserved answer is FUCK YES you should! 

You have admirably waited to satisfy your powerful Alpha needs, but you’re 18 now and there’s no reason to wait! In fact, I think you should find multiple faggots and take ownership of them all, Sir! It’s beyond time for you to truly experience the satisfaction, glory, and worship you were born to receive! 

I do hope you’ll keep in touch with me, Sir! I’m always excited to know how young Alphas progress as they stretch their mighty wings and soar! My email address is hierarchyuniversity@gmail.com! Thank you, Sir! 

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I have a serious question and its hard to ask and get into without explaining a lot of stuff.

I guess my question is – can a fag be in service to a female?

It might sound like a weird question but I guess I’ve been trying to figure out how I identify and exactly what I am.

My situation will probably seem pretty strange and idk maybe it is. I have a girlfriend. We’ve been together for about four years. We both identify as being mostly straight, but both had some same-sex experience when we got together.

We knew we were both open minded and liked to experiment and that’s always been part of our sex life. Even in the first few months we explored other kinks and things, and she started to explore being dominant with me. It was something I enjoyed so was more than happy to do it.

We also involved other people. We went to swinger parties. We found girls and guys online.

She found that she really liked seeing me do stuff with other men, especially taking a submissive role, and I found that I really liked being watched by her when I was in that sort of situation.

We’ve leaned into that more and more heavily. And we now have three regular alphas (two are gay/bi, one is straight) who use me on a pretty regular basis. They use me exclusively, they don’t do anything with her. She usually watches, but not always. But in my head, I’m doing it for her.

It hasn’t become what we do exclusively, but I’d say more than 90% of the sex I have is submitting to alpha men.

You might be thinking that this is some kind of cuck situation, but I really don’t feel like that’s what it is. It’s not like these men are ‘replacing’ me. She just really enjoys the dominance of being totally in control of what happens with my body, and I love serving her – and by extension submitting to men.

I just wondered if you’d come across this before, or if our situation is unique in any way.

Thanks for the unusual question! Tonight I’ve hit a trifecta of peculiar situations! 

I’ve encountered just one or two situations like yours over these ten years of answering questions. In all situations, the male partner is a “beta-sub” (see graphic) whose extreme heterosexual submissiveness actually ranks him below females in dominance hierarchy.

However, unlike the title you chose for your question (“Female Alpha?”), I do not recognize females as Alphas since leadership and power are not natural female attributes. It just so happens that your female partner enjoys watching you get used and humiliated by Alphas … but that doesn’t make her an Alpha. She just happens to have a kink compatible with yours.

I do wonder where this leads, though. How long before one of these Alphas claims you and motions to take you away from her? Are you prepared for that? How much longer before you’re craving the Alpha cum that has been impregnating you, body and mind?

Personally, I think this is a dead-end in the long run. What started out as experimentation has mushroomed into something slightly out-of-control. Be careful what you wish for!

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Hey man, I’m not sure exactly how to start this but to give you a bit of background I found out about the alpha hierarchy last year in college when my roommate, Jack, turned out to be a fag and showed me this page. I really resonated with being a protective alpha and enjoyed owning Jack as a fag especially just having a servant and hole to use whenever I was pent up. This past year I moved into a new apartment with a few random people but my fag couldn’t live with us because he had to live closer to his job. During this time I became close with one of my roomates let’s call him Ray. We got close going to the gym together and going to some of the same cultural clubs. Earlier this year we got drunk and he ranted to me about how girls were so needy to get blowjobs or have sex with and I agreed and told him a bit about owning a fag to just use without worrying about all the needy aspects. We ended up talking about it for a bit before he asked me how it worked and at this point I had 2 fags, Jack & Leo, I owned. I let Ray take Leo once to see if he enjoyed it and he ended up telling me the it was the best head he got and he felt powerful exerting his dominance over another man. Fast forward a bit he had a large stable of fags that he told me about and we always laughed about just having guys at our disposal. For a while everything was the same we worked out at the gym, hung out, and had fags help us with all the other work. But just this past month, Leo and Jack my two fags have been canceling on me saying they were too busy and just ignored me. One night I saw Leo leave Ray’s room at 3AM when I drove back from a party and realized they were serving him instead of me. I got pissed and confronted Ray about it but he just brushed me off saying it was their choice. Lately Ray has been just making comments how he can bench more than me and how good Leo serves him that annoys me that I just brushed off as banter. However, I’ve realized that lately he’s asked me to do a lot of things from getting dinner, driving him around, and last week he told me to give him a massage. I did everything just because we’re bros still but I’m getting the feeling now he’s trying to own me too. I’ve tried to get my mind off it because I don’t think I’m a beta or submissive, but I admire him because he’s smarter and has my goal phisique and I sort of strive to be like him. Now I’m conflicted in what I’m feeling an urge to not serve but help him but at the same time I thought I was a master so now I’m confused. So I’m not sure how to approach this now and I guess in a way figure out who I am?

Master, thank you for writing in with this important question! 

When I made the major revision in my Hierarchy Pyramid (the pinned post at the top) sometime around 2021 to include an Alpha Hierarchy, many people thought I was splitting hairs between Alphas about qualities that they felt made no real difference. However, time and many experiences like yours have only proven how prescient I was to make those distinctions. There are clearly delineated roles among Alphas, and sometimes those come into sharp relief through the battles you’re experiencing right now.

Master Ray is making power moves against you on multiple fronts; He’s poaching your faggots, he’s humiliating you in the gym, and now he’s getting you to obey his commands to serve him as well.  

What Master Ray is doing is akin to a dog or a wolf marking off territory with their urine. Think about it in those terms, Master. He’s pissing all over your life and claiming it for himself, and you’re allowing him to do it.

This doesn’t not make you a faggot or a beta, Master. But your actions are indicating that you are a lower-level Alpha. If you’re being truthful with me, it doesn’t sound like serving him does anything for you. So ultimately you are serving the greater Alpha hierarchy as a lower-tier Alpha. 

If you want more faggots to serve you, then go claim some more. Obviously faggots are responding to your Alphahood. Just keep them away from Master Ray or have strict rules. If you want to reclaim more of your Alphahood, you need to stop serving him (of course) and start standing up to him. 

You’ve been misplaying this so far, Master. In blunt terms, now’s the time to either put up or shut up.  

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Hey! I’m also a faggot named Sam!

I’m reaching out because I’m really struggling and could use your guidance. I’m a faggot with a micropenis, barely 2 inches hard, and I’m honestly so ashamed of it. I love serving straight alpha guys who probably dont care about my size, which should feel like a relief, but my shame keeps holding me back from fully embracing my submissive side. I’m terrified they’ll notice my tiny dick during play and judge me, even if they’re focused on their own pleasure. It makes me second-guess my worth as a sub, and I end up holding back instead of being the devoted, slutty faggot I want to be. I also want to try things like chastity cages to lean into my role, but I’m too embarrassed to even look for gear that fits because it means facing my size head-on. Worst of all, I don’t know how to come clean about my micropenis to new doms. I feel like I need to warn them upfront, but I’m scared it’ll ruin the vibe or make me seem less desirable, even if they’re not focused on my cock. How do you get past this kind of shame to feel confident as a sub? Any advice on how to be honest with straight doms about my size in a way that’s upfront but keeps the dynamic hot and doesn’t make it a big deal? I’d love to hear how you’d handle this or any tips to own my role despite feeling so insecure. Please help!

Thank you for the question, brother! Although, I must admit it’s an extremely odd one …

I was born with a baby boy penis, too (not technically a micropenis, but close enough), and I guess there was some embarrassment in years 15-17 of my life. I knew I was tiny compared to my straight friends I’d seen naked or the other guys in the locker room at school, but my friends never picked on me about it (we had a mutual friend, a fat guy named Nuge, who had a micropenis and he was always walking around naked – so he asked for the razzing from us).  

When I say there was some embarrassment, it was because I was living a lie during those years and having unsatisfying sex with females.

Of course, at age 17 my world was turned upside down when my Alpha best friend forced me into service, and I never used my penis sexually again. No Alpha I’ve ever been with has ever seriously cared about my penis. I’ve never gotten hard while servicing an Alpha. It’s simply been a NON-ISSUE.

But you’re making an issue out of that non-issue, which is definitely weird. If you’re embarrassed about your micropenis, get a flat-front chastity cage and eliminate it altogether. In fact, doing this will actually attract Alphas to you, because I’ve definitely proven that Men (especially straight Alphas) are fascinated and turned-on in some way at the sight of a sub male who has accepted its truth. 

In other words, your psychological issue is getting in the way of actually serving, which then creates a negative-feedback loop. You need to break that loop, brother. Lock up whatever you have, dress it up as nicely as possible, and embrace it!  

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Hii Sam, I am Asher. Few months ago I asked you about my situation with my uncle and my stepdad. Well here is the update.

As you said I started to do the household chores, even started to do his part of chores, he would like that as it would give him more time to relax. Slowly, I started to do all household chores, cooking, cleaning and he did notice that. There were even days, that I skipped college to do his laundry, as cleaning his undies is more important to me than some lectures.

Finally, one Friday evening, when we were watching T.V. , I told him what I felt. At first I just was confused with words, little panicked then , but  somehow kept cool and told him that I am a faggot and looked upto to him as my Alpha. At first he went silent for a minute, then he spoke. “I always felts you were a bit odd. I mean with your dad leaving, then your stepdad, then mom,  know it has been tough on you. And tbh, I kinda knew you were a beta, did not think of you as a fag, but… ya it is quite good you told this to me.”

He knew the hierarchy and he himself told me that he was an Alpha. In fact, even my stepdad is. I asked my uncle then does he have any fags. He said,” Not now, but I did have fags coming and going for many years. I would use them, get bored and tell them to never be seen again.”

Seriously, it felt so good to come out as fag to uncle. I asked him how does my life change after all. He told me that he won’t force me to do anything as it would be my consent, but I told him that I want to be dominated. He just said me to calm for now.

We had a long discussion and he asked me a lot of things , may of which I instantly said yes to. He said me that I must follow house rules as a good fag or I will be brutally punished.

I will remain naked in the house, take care of all the chores and cooking, massage uncle, eat after uncle, sit on floor and  will be sleeping on a mattress in uncle’s bedroom.

After this, I got naked in front of him and had a boner. My dick ain’t that big or thick. So even my boner is like small. My uncle giggled looking at it and asked if I have seen a thick big cock. I told him only in porn. Then he slowly unzipped his pants, and lowered underwear to showcase his monstrous cock. It had all veins on it and thick as a can. I asked him if I could suck or touch it, but he refused. “You have to earn it”, he said.

He noticed I was constantly touching my dick, so he asked me if I would be comfortable wearing it. I said no for now.

What do you think I should do now?

This is a follow-up to THIS QUESTION from January. 

My brother Asher, it is so nice to hear back from you! Thanks for writing!

I’m very impressed by your bravery! I am so tempted to turn this into a proper thread, because your example is just that important. 

I also really proud that you followed my initial instructions, but then took it several steps further on your own! Nice improvisation! 

It’s really awesome that your uncle recognizes hierarchy and your faggot status (and also identifies as Alpha!), which eliminates huge barriers. Things are going to move fast from here. 

Here’s a bit of advice that you might approach your uncle about: going into chastity. The erection you had was embarrassing and should really be under control, and chastity is the way to accomplish that. Think about it.

Keep me posted! 

Love,

sam the faggot

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Hello sam,

my name is Myriad, a 24 year-old man figuring out my place in this crazy world. Through college I horsed around a lot on Grindr and had the most fun using subs—so I have a high affinity for the way you frame a male hierarchy. At the same time, my college classes were always concerned with equity, being inclusive, and not pigeonholing people as one thing or having one nature (like “being an Alpha” or “being a fag”). I tend to think that’s a good way of viewing people, too. How do I square this theory of male hierarchy with my liberal politics?

Sir, thank you very much for writing to me! 

I can certainly appreciate your difficulty in reconciling liberal beliefs with that of Hierarchy, which wouldn’t seem to be compatible. I’m certainly more liberal than conservative as well. 

But I think we agree that Hierarchy is the ultimate truth of our world. It’s really beyond question. And it really doesn’t involve politics in any way. 

Here’s how I reconcile my feelings, Sir: liberal beliefs are ASPIRATIONAL HOPES rather than reality. For instance, as a nature-lover I wish lions wouldn’t kill elk. In a perfect, liberal world, all of nature would be at peace and no harm would come to anything. But that’s simply not how it’s going to be, right?

You were born Alpha. I was born a faggot. There’s no way you and I are equal aside from a shared perspective. Accepting that truth has liberated me in so many ways, and once my eyes were opened to the truth there was no way I was ever going to turn away from it. I suspect it’ll be the same way with you, Sir.

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Hello, my name is Steven

I’m a faggot, and I have a cousin who is two years younger than me, I don’t think he knows it yet, but he’s an alpha, a straight white alpha. I have the biggest crush on him. We didn’t grow up together and we’ve always lived in different states, his family usually comes to visit once or twice a year. So my question is, if the situation ever presents itself, should I be a good sub faggot for me cousin? or should I try to keep our familial relationship strictly familial?

(I got really hard writing this)

The Faggot, Steven

Thanks for the questions! 

I don’t really like recommending that people pursue family members because of the issues that can sometimes arise from it. However, this cousin is far-enough removed that I don’t know if that would pose an issue as much as simply ever having an opportunity to serve him at all. You don’t really have enough contact with him to be able to work on him mentally. 

But if you happen across him again, just feel him out a little bit. You never know.

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