Dear Sam,

your work has changed my life as I’ve come to better understand my role and place as a sub faggot bottom boi, and I’ve had several wonderful opportunities to be my true self and serve a man over the last year. I’m so luckily to have a visit with an Alpha in the Midwest next month. I can’t wait! He emphasizes that I will drink his piss. Thing is I’ve never done it before and have no interest. I know that shouldn’t matter. A previous Alpha made me run his ass, and I came to appreciate how lucky I was to do it and that his pleasure was my focus (it always is).
So, any advice for overcoming my aversion? How should I navigate? FWIW I love manly scents, cum, precum. Please help.
-serv

Brother, thank you for writing to me and those nice things you said! I appreciate it very much!

Piss is a pretty harmless substance, really. It’s mostly just water with some trace elements. It can be tasteless or very strong, and it changes easily with diet. What I’m trying to say is drinking piss is easy if you just do two things:

1. Overcome the mental issue of actually drinking waste water from your Alpha. Some people really freak out over anything that seems unclean (urine is sterile, though). Part of the way you overcome that is by remembering why he’s wanting you to drink his piss – it’s a way to mark you! By doing this, he’s claiming you. By focusing on that, you should be more prepared (maybe even eager) to drink it.

2. Overcome the difficulty of swallowing it without spilling it everywhere. When swallowing it, DO NOT put your mouth on his cock. Keep your mouth open and keep swallowing. Piss comes out much faster than you think it might, so you must keep swallowing once the piss stream begins. Don’t let it pool up in the back of your throat at all. 

Those are my two biggest tips on piss drinking. I don’t know what this Alpha has in mind, but hopefully you’ll be able to integrate what I’ve said here. Good luck! 

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Hey Sam, me again!

To touch on what you said about foot worship I have been doing some massages and mixing some kisses in there while doing so!  He hasn’t reacted badly to it so I’ll keep it up and see how he takes it. I’m glad to hear you definitely think he’s an alpha. I’m just hoping he embraces that role more. Us being together so long I think is his main reason for being slow at embracing this part of himself!  As far as I go I’m full steam ahead haha I’m trying to real myself in and not bother him too much. That’s my fatal flaw impatience. As far as Chasity goes do you have any pointers for dealing with the denial? I went from jacking off whenever I felt like it to only servicing him with releases for myself at this discretion. Which I will say hasn’t been too often. While I’m okay with and want this. It’s definitely a learning curve. Any advice would help I’m new to all of this!

-thanks, fag Alex!

This is a follow-up to THIS QUESTION. 

Thank you for the additional questions brother! 

First of all, I’m glad to hear you’re focusing on foot worship. Trust in this process. I believe you will eventually be able to get him to see the truth and embrace it.

As far as chastity goes, a lot of it is mental. I stopped masturbating years before I went into chastity, and it was purely a mental control thing. I became so deeply ashamed of myself for masturbating like a Man does when I knew deep down that was wrong. So I was already primed for chastity and it proved to be no issue aside from the awkwardness of wearing it. 

Here’s an idea: think about your boyfriend’s cock, the cock that you worship with your whole soul. Deny yourself in honor of that cock, and the Man to whom it belongs. Meditate on that daily. When motivated by deep, meaningful reasons, we can accomplish almost anything. Try it and see. 

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i am a 23 year old faggot who has been in service to my Master Damien for more than two years.  In those two years, my Master has taught me what being a slave to an Alpha Top should be.  He has allowed me to do His laundry, clean His apartment, cook His meals, run is errands, detail His car.  i am sure that you get the idea.. He keeps me satisfied as His fuck puppet also.  He is forceful sexually and insatiable.  He has made my life as His slave joyful.  i can think of nothing i would want to with the rest of my life than to be His servant.

Here’s the problem:  He is being reassigned to a different city for His job and He has made it clear that He is not going to take me with Him.  i cannot understand how He could just brush off my devoted service and my worshipful devotion to Him.  What is a faggot to do?

Brother, thank you for writing! 

I’m so sorry that this is happening! It’s definitely one of the hazards of being a faggot, and if you asked me it’s the worst aspect about it. It’s heartbreaking, but it’s also confusing as well. 

Since I was owned by straight Alphas during my fag “career”, I ended up needing to be dismissed because my Masters fell in love and got married (to females, naturally). It killed me every time, of course, but the first couple of times hurt much more because I was inexperienced with controlling my emotions. I’d come out of being a fag slut and discovered how wonderful (and more fulfilling) it was to be owned and trained by an Alpha, so I was desperate to cling to those Masters (they were incredible Men, too). 

But with my next couple of Masters I had developed myself emotionally to the point that I had a very philosophical, “serve in the moment” focus that helped me remain more detached and accepting of these kinds of losses. 

I guess I’m giving you a long-winded version of a “time and experience heals all wounds” speech, brother. Master Damien gave you the experience of a lifetime, and he shaped you into the wonderful faggot you are today. But he’s far from the only great Alpha Master out there. Your next Master is going to be one lucky Alpha, indeed! 

My thoughts are with you, brother! Love you!   

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hey fag,

So to start of me and my bf have been together since 2013 he’s 32 top and I’m 26 bottom. The last few months since about October, I’ve discovered something about myself through your pod cast and x profile. I believe 100% that I am a faggot. I’ve been talking with my bf a lot about the master/fag dynamic and he seems to be into it. To give a bit about him he’s rather manly while I’m very feminine, long hair high faggy voice haha. I guess my question is this: he’s always been sweet to me. Not a push over he knows how to stand on something when he needs to but it’s been a slow roll on him getting into the idea that he deserves to be waited on hand and foot. Sexually and non sexually. I guess he’s having a bit of a time with calling me a faggot though our daily life. Even though I LOVE IT. And it feels natural to me. Does this mean he isn’t an alpha? I’ve always seen him as such. He’s never bottomed before me or after me not that I desire to. Also I’ve given him permission to find other faggots as I love the idea of him being with other boys. He’s downloaded Grindr but hasn’t used it yet. So any insight on how to handle this or help make him comfortable with all of this would be VERY appreciated!

thanks, fellow fag!

p.s. we also partake in Chastity. He’s taken to that great and keeps me locked 24/7 since November!

Thank you for writing, brother! 

It’s interesting to me how many times I’ve encountered this exact situation over the years. We start off as bottoms, following that natural urge we have, but the truth about what we are – faggots – cannot remain suppressed forever. This discovery is accelerated when we find ourselves in a relationship with a moderately dominant Man (like your boyfriend), because suddenly the possibility of experiencing the fullness of faghood in the safety of a committed relationship becomes real. 

As faggots, we then seek to help our boyfriend unlock the dominance within him that we imagine is there. Sometimes it’s wishful thinking, and other times he absolutely embraces the Alphahood hidden inside and eveything changes.  I’ve seen both outcomes. The story featured here of Zack and his Master Declan is an example of an Alpha embracing his power through the ownership of a faggot.

Having said that, I feel confident in saying that I think your boyfriend IS an Alpha. There are probably reasons why he’s hesitating. Latent Alphas often have traumas in their childhood that causes them to suppress their Alpha urges. Other times, gay Alphas feel the pressure of society (and particularly the gay lifestyle) to treat everyone respectfully and as equals.  

Brother, you’ve done a terrific job of helping your boyfriend embrace some of his power. The fact that he’s calling you a faggot is awesome (this is often a tough hurdle), and it’s really a great sign that he’s kept you in chastity. Clearly, there is something going on within him, but he’s still holding back.

In your letter you didn’t mention anything about foot worship. This can really unlock Alpha urges for actual Alphas. And by foot worship, I don’t just mean massages and licking kissing in a romantic way. I mean when he walks through the door, you’re on your knees to kiss his feet. Honorific foot worship. He’s your King; show him that in every way. 

But I’d like to write something to your boyfriend right here, and you can ask him to read it. 

Sir,

I want to congratulate you on your long-term relationship with your boyfriend, which is definitely a credit to you, Sir. Like you, I want nothing more than to see your relationship blossom and become stronger and more satisfying.

In any successful relationship, adjustments must often be made as we grow together and discover new things about ourselves and our loved ones. Your relationship is going through an adjustment right now, and one that I think is very important and integral to you both because it involves PURPOSE.

Sir, your boyfriend is a faggot, not just a bottom. I’m sure you probably felt like it’s just a fetish or a phase he’s going through, but it’s not. He was really born a faggot, and now that he realizes it he simply can’t let go of the need to worship and serve that all faggots have. 

I commend you for putting him in chastity, Sir. You may not understand it, but chastity helps faggots deepen their need to serve and puts them in a low-level hum of subspace. You’ve probably noticed those effects over the last few months he’s been locked. You can expect even deeper levels of submission as chastity continues.

But in the same way that chastity helps a faggot embrace his true purpose, so too does a faggot help a superior Man embrace his Alphahood. 

You may not believe in Alphas as a real thing, or that some Men are superior to others. But I think any rational examination quickly reveals that Men are not created equal. Some Men simply have the personal power, confidence, genetics, etc., that other Men don’t. Every sports team, military squad, government … all sorted Hierarchically. It’s simply the foundational principle of our world.

I don’t claim to know how you’re feeling Sir, but I do think the power your faggot is offering to you excites you. When you see his useless fag penis locked up and under your control, I’m sure there is a rush of power and pride. I think calling him “faggot” is giving you a thrill as well. 

Ask yourself why it feels good. It’s because within you is an Alpha urge that your faggot’s submission is triggering. Deep down you know you’re superior and deserve to be worshiped and served and obeyed. 

Your faggot wants to be your boyfriend, but he also wants to be your property, your servant, your faggot. Your natural dominance has helped your faggot embrace his truth. Now it might be time for you to embrace yours, Sir.

You were born a King. Become what you were born to be, and see how much more is truly available to you as King.

Thank you, Sir!

sam the faggot 

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Hey Sam,

Thank you very much for your reply, it was a good read and a pleasant surprise to get not just a reply but get it so quickly too!

I have two further questions if you don’t mind

1. How, specifically, would you differentiate a beta sub and a faggot? I’ve read your descriptions for both, but honest the beta sub description sounds very similar to the faggot one but more critical lol.
2. Do you have any advice on how on earth I’d be able to find a dommish partner who is alright with no sex? Feels like an impossible task but I really don’t want to be alone forever. Just want a guy who will rub his sweaty socks on my face in a dom way, have slight control over the reigns in the relationship, AND is okay with no sex. Maybe this question is outside the content of this website though, if so just ignore it if you want.

Thanks again!

This is a follow-up to THIS QUESTION.

Thanks for writing again!

1. The primary difference between a beta-sub and a faggot is the fact that a faggot is more of a slave or object, a possession. A beta-sub is a partner in a relationship, with certain rights and independence and a stake in it. Hopefully that clears it up.

2. I think you will have a hard time finding a partner, honestly. There simply aren’t many Dom Men (even  slightly dominant) who aren’t interested in sex. Frankly, your insistence on these sexualized acts makes me think you aren’t fully asexual. Any asexual people I’ve known want NOTHING to do with sexual acts of ANY kind. So I think you have some soul searching to do on this. 

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The subject of becoming a servant is not a joke, I tried to resist for ten years, but when I weakened, I lost my whole life. The man who controlled me filmed me without my noticing while I was kissing his feet and serving him. Now he threatens me and blackmails me with the video if I disobey him. Now he has access to my Facebook account. He moved to my house and turned me into a real slave and now he took all my salary and I have nothing left and all day after work I serve him and serving him is very difficult because he is a very bad person. Now I lost my life completely… I know that there is no solution and you cannot help me but I just want to tell my story

Brother, I’m very sorry to hear this, and I’m frustrated that you feel there is nothing that can be done. 

You said you were blackmailed into this. Frankly, what he’s done to you and your life seems to be worse than if you’d have just released your information and dealt with those consequences UNLESS you’re in a place like the Middle East (it’s hard to tell from your name). 

Just know you are seen and known now. My heart goes out to you, my dear brother.

Love,

sam the faggot

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Hola Sam,

This is Master Jose Luis from Mexico again. I’ve been using fags online and developed new forms to train sub boys who cannot serve in person and make sure they are fulfilling their purpose in life. I decided that my goal for 2025 will be expand my stable as much as possible to give lonely and depressed boys a purpose. I’ve never been so sure about something in my life.

I will send you a longer email when I have time with updates for my thread, but for now I want you to tell your audience what you think about me as an alpha and advertise my new goal. I want more faggots and I am one click away on jose.luis452@yahoo.com

Master Jose, thank you for writing! I’ve recently updated your thread on the site, so hopefully more faggots will see you and read your story (CLICK HERE).

In the few months I’ve known Master Jose, I’ve watched him embrace the fullness of both his power and purpose as an Alpha Master. He’s a Protector Alpha of the highest order, a true Man who wants to shepherd and protect faggots. Those are RARE qualities to find in an any Alpha. Any faggot who really needs an Alpha who wants to help them deepen their submission should reach out to him!

It’s been a great privilege to know Master Jose and bring his story to the world, and I look forward to continuing to serve his needs! 

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Hi brother Sam ! I hope you’re doing well ,first I wanted to thank you for all the work you do for the community and bringing awareness to fags everywhere and helping them embrace their faghood and serve masters and alpha men as intended ,you’ve spoken before about your time in jail but I was wondering if you could tell us more and elaborate on your time in there and how you served your fellow alpha in mates -what did you do for them ,how did you serve them and how did you approach the topic ? I would love to know and be inspired by your devotion to being a good fag and slave even while in Jail , thank you brother 

Thanks for the question, I guess! LOL

First of all, I was in FEDERAL PRISON, not jail. There is a big difference.

It took me a little while to get acclimated to being in a place like that, a place where I definitely did not fit in. People move differently when incarcerated, and there are all sorts of petty rules and signals one has to learn. For example, I was almost beaten up by one inmate because I couldn’t stop whistling songs in my head (whistling was used to signal when a guard was coming).

But I’m a friendly person and I make friends easily, so I quickly assembled a few allies. None of them were faggots or gay, but they were more playful about it with me.

As far as what I did Hierarchically, well, I cleaned the bathroom for my floor every day. This was something I did voluntarily, and I did such a good job that several of the black Apex Alphas and God Alphas on the floor rallied around me whenever someone threatened me.

There was an Apex Alpha who ran his own little commissary store from his cubicle, and he relied on me to purchase items for him to replenish his store when he was low. I bought items for other Alphas when they were low on funds.

My two biggest faggot-related accomplishments were:

1. I sucked off two straight Alphas, one black and one white. DeAndre (not his real name) was a 40-year-old black Alpha who looked 25 who I sucked off three times before he left. But my proudest accomplishment was my Master Jack, a jacked 32-year-old white Alpha who was totally depressed when I first met him. Then I began to talk to him about his Alphahood, and he brightened up, began furiously working out, and eventually had me suck his dick in the unused band room with the lights off.
2. I started formally interviewing Alphas about their Alphahood and their thoughts on what made them Alpha and why Alphas are important. I talked about Hierarchy so much that I became known for it, and some people started using the language of Hierarchy with each other. It was quite inspiring to see how quickly they embraced the truth of it. In one case, I used Hierarchical principles to help a young black Apex Alpha named “D” understand why he needed to cheat on his longterm girlfriend, and he was so impressed that he told everybody that I solved his issue!

While I never want to be in that situation ever again (obviously), I learned so much from a Hierarchical perspective that it seemed almost inevitable.

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My bf is extremely submissive and I’ve always been dominant, so we are a great match. But I find it weird that he never seems to be horny. If I don’t grab him and give orders for him to suck my dick or put his ass up, we could easily go a whole year without sex. I feel that he doesn’t desire me as much as I desire him, but every time I bring this up he says that he doesn’t like to have any kind of initiative. I would love to have him asking for my dick, waking me up with a blowjob, or simply walking around the house naked to make me horny, but he never does that. Is it normal for faggots to refuse to take any sort of initiative and just wait for their Master orders? My bf NEVER says no, no matter how tired or stressed he is, he always gives me good head and open his hole for me, but since we live together and I own him, I wish he showed more desire and passion.

Master, thank you for writing to me!

It’s a shame that you’re dealing with that, not only from a level of sexual frustration, but also at a basic level of passion and love. You obviously want/need much more heat and excitement than your faggot boyfriend (frankly, Alphas usually outpace faggots in this area anyway).  

It’s odd that you ever got together and stayed together, Master. Was he always this way? Were you able to overlook his lack of initiative at first, but now it’s wearing you down, or was this something that developed after a while in the relationship? Answers to those questions might alter my perception of the issue.

Contrary to how porn portrays us, faggots aren’t uniformly all just absolute cock-whores (only 99.9% of us are). There are some faggots who have been damaged by past relationships or childhood trauma, and that causes them to pull back. In some other cases I’ve known of faggots who so deeply believe they are literally nothing and unworthy of attention that they’re paralyzed to make any kind of move. 

There might be other factors at play here, too. Is your faggot lonely? Is he depressed? Is he struggling with anything personally? Any of these would dampen libido.

Since it sounds like you’ve discussed this issue with him and nothing has changed, let’s look into changing your approach, Master. Are you giving the faggot plenty of aftercare and other forms of reassuring affection? Is the communication warm and lively, or bitter and complaining?

I was trying to think of an exercise that might help, but there are too many unknowns. Maybe give him a night to express what he’d like to do. 

And if you haven’t cunted your faggot, you’ll definitely want to try. You can learn more about that RIGHT HERE, Master. I think it’s almost impossible to imagine that a properly-cunted faggot would ever be indifferent toward sex. 

If nothing else works, you might need to either let this faggot go or supplement it with a second or third faggot to satisfy your needs. I sense you want to avoid that, but ultimately your needs come first. 

Thank you, Master! 

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Sam, I am living a dilemma and my brilliant older brother (you!) will certainly know how to help me.

I am 18 and I have been serving two men, Jack and Harry. Jack is 19 and Harry is 34. Jack is annoying and acts like a high schooler, he only talks about NBA and Marvel movies. I usually suck his dick in his car and that’s it. He acts more like a bully than an actual Man. On the other hand, Harry is a lawyer, extremely fancy, speaks several languages, takes me to dinner in wonderful restaurants, and has a wonderful dominant Alpha energy anywhere he goes.

The decisions seems obvious but the issue is: Jack’s dick is heavy, thick, and has 8 inches, while Harry has a normal girth and is around 4.5 inches. I am still a virgin, but I have been sucking both of them for months. Both want to fuck my virgin hole, but I want to choose only one Man to take my virginity and serve full time.

I’m desperate to finally having a man fucking and breeding me, but at the same time I’m afraid to choose Harry and end up not feeling what I could feel with Jack’s dick in my hole. I love sucking both, but Jack destroys my throat while Harry dominates me because of his presence and energy, not so much because of his dick. Jack doesn’t care if I serve other Men, he just wants a cumdump, but Harry told me that he will only take my virginity if I stop serving other guys.

I am starting my life as a faggot now and I don’t want to make stupid decisions! Can you please help me, brother?

Thank you for writing little brother! It’s an exciting time in your life, and I certainly want you to start it off on the right foot! 

To me, the answer is crystal clear, but I want to first tackle the dick size issue (again). Big dicks don’t make a Man more virile, more powerful, more anything EXCEPT that big dicks are fun to play with. The idea that hung Men are more virile or potent is simply an illusion in our minds that is reinforced by stereotypes in media, etc. 

I have served Alphas with huge dicks (like 11 inches+), and I’ve served Alphas with average dicks. I’ll tell you the truth: one of my best fucks came from a very dominant bodybuilder with a very average dick. It was how he handled himself, handled me, and he just exuded confidence and power. So that’s where I’m coming from on this.

If you’re faced with losing your virginity, do you really want the first time to be an extraordinarily painful experience with a freakshow-sized cock? Is it really that important that you suffer through it just for the thrill-ride aspect of it?

Here’s the other part of it: the huge dick is attached to an Alpha who sounds pretty dumb and doesn’t give a fuck about you. He’s going to take that big dick of his and hurt you with it because he probably enjoys hurting people with it (because he’s dumb and immature). 

Meanwhile, you have an experienced, personally and professionally powerful older Alpha who wants to take your virginity and take ownership of you as his special possession. He cherishes your virginity, and wants to shepherd you and train you to become the best faggot possible.

So again, the choice seems pretty clear to me. The older Alpha should be your focus. He’s going to provide you so much more in every way, and help you become the faggot I know you want to be. 

Good luck little brother! 

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Hi Sam,

I’ll be honest, your philosophy really intrigues me (much to the horror of my heart lol) but I feel like I don’t fit into your hierarchy at all.

Basically, I’m asexual, kind of. I refuse to partake in anything traditionally seen as sex/sexual (anal, bjs, hjs, rimming, etc) because I am sex-repulsed. But, I still get turned on by dominance (and feet/socks lol) and wish to enter a relationship with a slight power imbalance with my partner as the dom.

I wanted to know if you think I still fit into the hierarchy, or if I exist separately from it? Apologies if this is too vague, but I really want to know what you think.

Thanks,

Thank you for writing! 

Believe it or not, I have some personal experience with asexuality. My precious Baby Boy, the kid I rescued from Syria, is also asexual. We sort of discovered this about him over long conversations, and he finally came to accept this about himself. I’m so proud of him (and you) for embracing this unusual aspect of your lives!

As far as asexuality in Hierarchy is concerned, you’re misunderstanding something. Hierarchy is not a SEXUAL structure of societal composition, but rather a way to understand the POWER and SOCIAL INFLUENCE aspects of societal composition. 

Now, sex DOES come into play (due primarily to the power play aspects of sexual encounters), but sexual orientation, sexual position, or sexual preference has nothing to do with where we are Hierarchically. 

If I had to guess without knowing more than what you told me, I’d say you are a “beta-sub” on my chart. That’s a comfortable place to be for a sub-leaning asexual! I hope that helps!  

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I wrote a piss drinking Bible. I read it every time before I’m about to take piss to remain focused. Do you have anything to add?

Piss Drinking Bible

Golden Rule: do not touch his penis with your mouth or hands unless told to do so by the alpha

Swallowing piss is one of those aspects of service that I mysteriously took to, even though I consider myself something of a neat freak. Maybe that’s why I got so good at swallowing a complete stream of piss without missing – I didn’t want to make a mess. LOL 

Funny aside: while I was in prison a couple of black Alphas handed me a tall squirt bottle full of vodka and some orange juice and challenged me to drink some of it … I nearly drained the entire bottle in one long squirt! They asked me repeatedly where I learned to do that, but I played coy. I think they knew, actually. 

Anyway, I think your Piss Bible is pretty complete, actually. It seems a bit too thorough for the simple of act of drinking piss, but hey, as a fellow connoisseur, I like it! 

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I am an Alpha and my boyfriend is my faggot. We’ve been together for almost 2 years and in the last 6 months he’s been obsessed with rimming me. He loves to worship my ass while I’m in the couch sitting on his face, he rubs his tongue on my sweaty hole for hours and hours. Sometimes I jerk off with his tongue in my hole and then I turn to cum in his mouth.

I don’t really care about this to be honest, but I don’t mind it either. He is a good fag so I like to reward him too. Sometimes we’re coming back home in the car and while he drives he already start saying that he wants to worship my ass.

However, I want to know more about this habit. Considering your experience, do you think there is any chance of this habit escalating to him wanting to fuck my ass? There’s no chance this is going to happen. How normal is it for faggots to love rimming a hole that they’ll never own? I have been thinking about cutting this habit, but I know he’ll feel disappointed and consequently will be less obedient.

Master, thank you very much for writing to me! You’ve presented an intriguing issue that I think could use some clarification. 

I want to congratulate you on two years of successful ownership. You honestly must own a good faggot if you’ve kept it around this long. A Master with a good faggot is not just a credit to the faggot, but also the Master. It is through your guidance, training, and use that you have molded your faggot into exactly what you want it to be.

Well, except for the rimming part, I guess.

I was impressed that you’ve indulged your faggot’s desire to lick your ass even though it does little for you. Most Masters would dismiss the faggot before ever capitulating to a faggot’s fetishes, so it’s to your credit that you allow the faggot to lick your ass and satisfy its interest. Ultimately, the faggot licking your ass is pleasure/stimulation/worship for YOU (unless you’re allowing your faggot to jerk off while it does this), so there’s not a lot to complain about, really.

Let me dissuade you right from the start, Master: your faggot has ZERO interest in fucking your ass. True faggots can’t even conceive of fucking anything; they’d have a better chance of translating ancient Sumerian hieroglyphs. Faggots are born to be fucked, and that’s all we understand how to do. 

But many faggots do have a desire to lick their Alpha’s asshole. Why, you ask? Well, the mental/emotional mechanism comes from the same place that causes a faggot’s need for foot worship: a need for humiliation. Licking and kissing a Man’s foot – the lowest, dirtiest part of his body usually – is humiliating and humbling. Most Men would rather die than do that, but for a faggot it’s a need as important as breathing. 

The only place dirtier and more degrading than licking a foot is licking an asshole. It essentially reduces the faggot to something like toilet paper. This type of degradation is important to faggots because faggots have deep feelings of unworthiness and immense gratitude to even be allowed to serve Men at all, so we want to convey to them all the time that they are our entire world and purpose. 

Your faggot feels like it is communicating this to you through this action, Master (or it wants to subconsciously). When you think of a faggot like a dog, you can start to understand these communication signals a bit better. A dog cannot express itself through language, so it communicates its love and appreciation in a variety of physical ways that we can often understand (even if some of them annoy us). Your faggot doesn’t know how to truly express the enormity and depth of its grateful submission to your glory … so licking your ass is a way to convey that.

That said, I think it’s a bad idea to let the faggot indulge in its fetish over your own pleasure, Master. Ultimately, your pleasure and satisfaction is all that matters, and allowing the faggot to use so much of your time “pleasuring itself” through rimming you is bad for the faggot. It needs boundaries, Master. Let it do some of that, but for whatever time you give it for that form of worship, you get reciprocal time devoted to your needs as a Man (or something like that). 

I went deep on this one, Master, like a faggot’s tongue on an Alpha’s asshole LOL. I hope I was able to help you understand this a little better. Frankly, as a faggot that believes sincerely in licking an Alpha’s asshole as a form of glorifying and elevating him, this helped me, too. So I thank you for letting me examine it. 

I do hope this improves, Master. You’re clearly a quality Alpha and Master, and you deserve everything you want!  

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Faggot Sam

How much do you crave man stink? cock, pits, balls, ass, feet, piss ect…?  In your experience how much do other faggots crave their masters scent, taste ect… ?

In my experience all proper faggots seem to naturally be drawn to it. Some scientific papers also show that a sexual orientation can be identified by scent alone with a high probability even if only at a sub conscious level.  I would be curious to know what you anecdotal evidence would support that idea. As a trained biologist, and as an alpha my life experience would certainly seem to support it. My faggot Josh loves to nuzzle up into my armpits and fall asleep. He also loves to lick the sweat from all parts of my body.

Some biologist paper references.

https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/books/NBK200984

https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/16137255

https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/articles/200801/solving-the-mystery-gaydar

Master, 

Thank you for the additional information! I read through it and actually sent it to one of my old Masters! He immediately replied “Yeah, that pretty much explains how easy it was to control you!” HAHA

I can totally relate to your faggot Josh. Armpits are of course a favorite of mine as well, and there’s nothing better than nuzzling in that tight warm space surrounded by Alpha pheromones. It’s hypnotic!

Thanks again for the supplementary materials, Master! I will be producing something useful out of them! 

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I am 19 and I have a roommate who is also 19. I am straight and I thought he was straight too. But after a few weeks living together, he started cooking for me, doing my laundry, cleaning the whole house, doing my homework and he always asks for permission to do anything around the house. We get along very well, so I directly told him that he looks like my housewife doing these things. He just said that he’s straight and just like to keep the house clean, which can be true, but I find it very awkward that every week I bring a different girl to my room and he never has girls around. When I try to talk about fucking girls, he always avoids the topic, and I have a feeling that he’s hiding something from me but also from himself.

My best friend since childhood is gay, he is like my brother and we tell everything to each other. He is extremely dominant, confident, and strong, and when I told him that my roommate was acting like this, he started talking about hierarchy and he told me that he was an Alpha. He said that some Men like him and you are naturally dominant and others are naturally submissive. He even said that he has never sucked a dick before because he likes to fuck and breed, which for me was crazy since I didn’t know some gays don’t like to suck dick.

Long story short, my best friend and brother thinks that it’s not normal for a straight man to serve another straight man like this. He thinks I could get an easy blowjob or even fuck my roommate’s hole eventually. I am straight and I have no doubt about my sexuality, although of course I respect the gays a lot. My brother thinks I should take advantage of this opportunity because it is just a matter of time until the roommate accepts his truth as a faggot. I have never thought about that, but I think it would be nice to have a warm mouth every morning.

Sir, thank you very much for writing to me! I appreciate this critical question, one that has ramifications across the spectrum of Patriarchy! 

First of all, you’re clearly Alpha. Not only do you have close Alpha friends (including a gay Alpha – very nice!), but, more importantly, your hunter instincts detected the submissiveness of your roommate and it’s made you hungry for dominance. This is a CLASSIC sign of Alphahood. All true Alphas have these kinds of instincts. 

I’m in full agreement with your gay Alpha friend – your roommate is a faggot for sure. No doubt of any kind. In fact, the roommate is following the pattern I’ve often prescribed to other faggots who want to offer themselves to straight Alphas like you! These are exactly the things I tell faggots to do … become useful to the straight Alpha you want to serve, offer to do things for him, be submissive.  I tell them this because I know the true Alphas will be triggered by these actions and possibly be moved to take ownership of them! 

You know, kind of like you want to do with this one! 

Here’s what I recommend you do, Sir. Tell your roommate to kneel in front of you. Then tell it to kiss your feet. (It should have no problems doing either one of these things, but if it does, then you need to force it to admit what it is and get it on its knees.) Then ask it what it is. Make it admit that it’s a faggot multiple times, telling it “Good Boy” every time it does. Maybe pet its hair also while saying “Good Boy” to reinforce the difference between the two of you.

Once you get the faggot to this stage, you can do whatever you want with it, Sir. I recommend that you do some scent training with it before feeding it your cock so that the faggot knows obedience to you comes before it receives reward. If you do feed it your cum (either orally or anally), that will do additional brainwashing. 

Most straight Alphas who’ve taken ownership of faggots put their fags in chastity. I do highly recommend this, Sir, but it’s your choice. I do recommend that you put the cage on the faggot, since that reinforces the fag’s inferiority and submission to you and your ownership.

I think you will find owning a faggot will make your life infinitely better, and you will experience power that most 19-year-olds cannot imagine. You’ll also learn a secret – that fucking a faggot doesn’t turn you gay, it just makes you more powerful. 

I hope to hear back from you if you choose to explore this, Sir. My email is hierarchyuniversity@gmail.com. Thank you, Sir!  

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sam, my brother,  i think that the advice you gave mike,the faggot that he should accept the public ceremony of his being put in a chastity device is absolutely the right advice.  i know from my personal experience that my Alpha Eric, publicly outing me to my business partners, His introducing me to His girl friends as His faggot and His publicly marginalizing me has clarified what i am in my own mind and has taught me that there is joy and so much satisfaction in service.  More important, it has freed me (liberated me) from the burden of pretending to the world, and more important, to me, myself, that i am something that i am not.

your friend and brother, sean

Ah, the legendary faggot Sean makes a re-appearance to comment on THIS QUESTION FROM READERS post.

Nice to hear from you, my dear brother! 

Thank you for the compliment about my advice for our fellow faggot. Sadly, the faggot didn’t take my advice, and terrible things resulted from it. I’ll be detailing that soon. 

Why don’t faggots listen to those of us with more experience? Who knows. Maybe faggots are actually just as dumb as many Alphas claim! 

Please don’t be a stranger, brother! 

Love,

sam the faggot

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Sam, I really love you and your site <3

I am 19 and I am 100% sure I am a faggot! I love serving big men, I know my place, and my holes are always ready for real men. I serve a man who is 32. He took me from my parents house and told me to live with him. He’s very masculine, very strong, and hairy. I am weak, skinny, and smooth. I really like the way he uses me, but sometimes he gets very very aggressive. When I don’t cook well enough or if he thinks the house is not clean enough, he usually gets mad and punishes me. He beats me and sometimes I get some bruises.

He’s my first man and he took my virginity so I don’t know if this is normal. Is this the normal treatment if I want to have a real man with me? Do you think I can find a real Alpha who takes care of me or “soft” men will not be dominant? Do you think some men can be naturally dominant alphas but also treating me well? I love him and I love to obey him but I am a little worried because last time he really hurt my two arms. My father really supports me and he’s a real Alpha man as well who NEVER did that with my mother… but I don’t know if a faggot like me deserves a good caring man, sometimes I think that, if I don’t want an aggressive man, I will end up with just another gay who would never fuck and breed me like a man. I am so confused… can you please help me?

Sweetheart, I’m glad to receive your open-hearted letter. 

Congratulations on finding an Alpha at such a young age. Your Master sounds very powerful and aggressive given that he basically yanked you away from your family and took you in as his personal faggot.

But even that move concerns me. It feels very controlling in an unnatural way. And given the more disturbing things you say have been happening now that you live with him, I think my instincts are correct. 

Listen, little brother: you are a faggot, but that doesn’t mean you deserve to be hurt and abused. You’re trying your best to serve this Master faithfully, and you’re not always going to succeed. If this was a true and admirable Master, he would correct you with firm and encouraging guidance. What a shame that he’s choosing violence instead. 

I don’t know if you’re able to have civil conversations with this Master, but if you can I’d ask if you can talk to him. Then you should humbly explain that he is hurting you. Emphasize that your goal is to be the best faggot possible for him and the violence is making you rethink your purpose. Ask him to please help you to be a better, more satisfying faggot by teaching you rather than abusing you. 

If you can’t talk to him like that, then it might be time to rethink staying with him.

I know there are a lot of fetish sites out there and lots of so-called Alphas (and faggots) who say faggots deserve to be beaten and abused. DO NOT LISTEN TO THEM. A faggot doesn’t deserve to be beaten for faithfully serving a Man any more than a faithful dog deserves to be beaten. Most decent people are horrified by animal abuse, and that should be the natural reaction to faggot abuse. 

There is something broken in any Alpha who abuses faggots. These are Destroyer Alphas who never advanced past the bully stage in high school, who never learned how to deal with frustration in any productive way. These Alphas are to be pitied, not worshiped. 

And yes, you deserve better. You may be a faggot, but you’re clearly smart. You obviously observed how your Alpha father treated your mother and those under his control (including you), and that set a pattern of Alpha behavior for you that is righteous and good. It’s not wrong to expect something similar in a Master who owns you. 

You’re young and full of youthful energy and optimism. Don’t allow a bad Master to steal that from you with the darkness of abuse. If he’s unable or unwilling to change, then you need to seek a new Master.

I love you, little brother. I am hoping for the best in this situation. Please feel free to keep in touch with me at hierarchyuniversity@gmail.com or through here. 

Love Always,

sam the faggot

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Hi Sam,

Quick question. I’ve been fucking a very nice fag for 6 months now. He is always available to cook, clean, do the chores and, of course, suck and ride my dick. But he is really obsessed with my feet and armpits, even more than my dick, so sometimes after I cum in his mouth or ass, I let him worship my feet for hours just because he is a good boy.

The thing is, I don’t really care about him kissing my feet or armpits. After I cum, I just want to send him home. However, I feel that if I started doing that, he’ll be less and less obedient with time. Based on your experience as a faggot and mentoring many other fags, do you think my rationale makes sense? If I start just sending him home after I cum (which would be ideal for me), do you think he’ll eventually stop serving me? I’m asking this because right now he is constantly begging to serve me because he knows he’ll get some feet and armpit afterward. While I understand that faggots exist to serve us, I don’t want to take the risk because finding a warm mouth and a tight hole is not always easy.

Master, thank you for writing such an honest letter, one to which I think many Alphas can relate.

First of all, congratulations on finding yourself a true faggot deeply devoted to worship and service! You mention it’s rare to find such a faggot, and I agree! I wish more faggots embraced their truth so completely! 

I kinda chuckled when I read your issue. Men are notorious for wanting to be alone or go to sleep after they cum. The faggot doesn’t mean to be pushy or selfish when it starts worshiping your pits and feet, of course. I think the faggot is just turned on by the loads (and the hormones in the cum) you just pumped into it, and this is a form of thanks. It’s like a cat incessantly rubbing up against an Owner it loves. It’s almost like the faggot is making its own kind of aftercare, which is weird.

But no matter how talented or beloved your faggot is, it has no right to infringe on your needs or wants. After all, you own it. 

So here’s what I propose, Master: allow the faggot to worship your feet and armpits BEFORE it services you. That way the ritual will serve as a kind of foreplay for the fag, which might vastly improve its service for your cock. And who knows, while you’re horny you might like your feet and armpits worshiped more. 

I think it would be good to inform the faggot of the switch AND WHY, so that the faggot understands you want it to go home once it’s finished. 

I’m so grateful you wrote to me about this issue, Master, and I sincerely hope this helps! I want you to have all the pleasure you desire, as well as maintain solid, caring control over your faggot! 

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Hey Sam

I really like your content here and I have a important question

I am 23 and I am straight. Some years ago I really wanted to have a threesome with my gf and another woman. She said that we could do it as long a we had a threesome with another guy too. Of course I said no, I would never let my woman touch another dick. But, surprisingly, she just wanted to see me fucking a faggot.

It took her 8 months to convince me that fucking faggots is not gay at all. She is a ballet dancer and one day she brought home one of her friends from ballet. The guy was really smooth, was wearing some make-up and had amazing legs and ass. At first I thought it wouldn’t work and I almost gave up, but the guy got on his knees and starting calling me Sir.

I am very dominant with women in bed but it’s very rare to find a woman who actually wants to submit to me (nothing against feminists lol). The faggot was smart and felt that I was not attracted to his body but I was attracted to the feeling of POWER that I had with him. They started to give me a double blowjob, and shortly after I was fucking my gf’s pussy and the fag’s ass at the same time. I felt like a king.

We were all 19 when that started to happen and we’ve been fucking from time to time for 4 years now. My gf loves Man-fag porn (she showed me your website), so she’s perfectly happy with this situation and her pussy gets really wet when I fuck the faggot. For me, it’s good to have a nice blowjob a and a tight ass available 24/7.

However, the faggot often refers to us a  throuple and I really don’t want to hurt his feelings. I told him one million times that I AM NOT BISEXUAL. I will not have a boyfriend, I do not have any interest in having a relationship with a man or a faggot. I just want my woman who will be my wife one day, and he’s just a nice cumdump. I like using him and I understand that he’s inferior, but he is still a human being and I respect him a lot. I know very little of fag’s hearts, so I wanna know your opinion.  In my mind, I am a King with a Queen by my side and he’s nothing more than a useful servant. How to keep the fag next to me but convince him that we’re not a throuple? I respect him, I protect him, I take care of him, I like how he’s friends with my girl, but I do not love him as I love my gf.

Master, thank you for writing!  What an amazing testimony to the truth of Hierarchy! 

You really should be quite grateful to your girlfriend, Master. She recognized what you are – at least an Apex Alpha – and knew that you deserved the kind of worship only faggots can truly provide. As you mention, very few females understand how to WORSHIP Men, but faggots are completely devoted servants/slaves of Men like you. She took a big risk introducing you to faggots, but the experience seems to have made a powerful impression on you.

I’m sure you always felt the truth of Hierarchy in your life before you ever discovered the true nature of it, this fact that you, a superior Alpha, deserves to be served and serviced by all inferiors you choose. Tragically, many Alphas refuse this part of their Hierarchical heritage, and they fail to advance in power and standing among Men. What you wrote above shows you’ve peeked through the looking glass and you now see the vast Kingdom and endless possibilities available to you. I cannot tell you how happy I am to hear that! 

It’s also clear that your faggot doesn’t quite understand its purpose yet. It’s still under the mistaken impression that it’s like a second girlfriend or something, and that’s wrong. A faggot is a slave, a loyal dog, a possession. It is to humbly serve as commanded by its Owner. 

So here’s where you (as its Master) must take the faggot and retrain it into a proper servant. First and foremost, I think it would be beneficial to put a chastity cage on the faggot, if not permanently then whenever it’s serving you. This will help the faggot understand it is not the same as you. 

I also recommend that you employ targeted scent training with the faggot, but combined with a call/response exercise to get into the faggot’s head that it is not in a relationship with you, but rather it is your property. Put the faggot on its knees and make it kiss your feet. Then tell it to repeat after you as you tell it to repeat back “I am a faggot” “I am not a Man” “My Master cannot love me” “I exist to serve my Master” etc. As the faggot completes each call/response, have it deeply inhale your crotch or armpits (you can be clothed or naked), and then kiss your feet again. 

I know you mentioned that you don’t want to hurt the faggot, Master, but this is not hurting the faggot. We faggots need to be trained to accept reality through this kind of targeted training. A dog might not like its Master using a choke collar on it during obedience training, but in the end the dog is grateful for its Master’s attention and care. So will your faggot. 

As you mentioned, owning your faggot has made you feel more like a King. That’s good, because that’s exactly what you were born to be. You have every right to have a Kingdom that reflects you, your glory and your standards, Master. If you end up owning 100 faggots, every one of them must be trained by you, and obediently loyal to you. 

I believe you have the power and the insight already within you to become a great Owner and Master of faggots, and you are blessed to have a Queen who is excited to see you exercising such power. Try my suggestions and see if they don’t improve the situation. If they don’t, adjustments can be made or the faggot can be replaced. 

I hope you will be willing to keep in touch with me as this situation develops, Master. I would be humbled and grateful to carry your story and continue a dialogue if possible. my email is HierarchyUniversity@gmail.com. THANK YOU, MASTER! 

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I am 48 years old, married to a woman and have a 16 year old daughter, but I am a fag and cannot deny it anymore. I secretly meet alpha guys to be used and abused. I only get off to real strong, aggressive alpha men.

What can I do?

Thanks for writing, brother. I’m sorry you’re dealing with this. 

One of my motivations for creating FWA was to help faggots accept their truth so they might AVOID situations like yours in their lives. I saw too much of it in my everyday life, and so I desperately wanted to change the narrative and help natural-born faggots from making the mistake of marrying a female and ultimately wasting her time (let’s not even get into the part about the lives of the kids). 

From my standpoint, it isn’t fair for you to keep up this charade of heterosexuality. You should get divorced. It’s the noblest and truest path, no matter how difficult that might be. Your only other choice is to keep doing what you’re doing, and I’ll never advocate for that. 

You already know what’s right.  

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