Hi Sam, my name is Jerome, I’m 19, and I’m from France. I think I am straight but I might be bi because I find femboys really attractive. Since I was 13 I have been attracted to girls. I kissed for the first time when I was 14 and lost my virginity with a girl when I was 16. But last year I started watching femboy porn from a website called Heteroflexible and I can’t stop thinking on how hot and submissive they are. I found your website in January and no need to say that I’ve been jerking off everyday to the videos and stories of submissive faggots.

But I wanna ask your opinion about something else. I have a twin sister who I have always loved and protected with my life, we’re very close to each other. She has been a ballet dancer for 15 years now, so most of her friends are from ballet. And so, our house is always full of gorgeous girls training their steps and a handful of sexy femboys showing their legs and asses while they dance.

She has three really close “male” friends who are always in our house practicing with her. Sometimes they call me to help carry their boxes and suitcases with the costumes of their shows. Last December, one of this guys asked me to help him and while I was carrying his heavy suitcase full of ballet costumes he said that their ballet group only had “the girls and 3 bottoms”, so they were lucky to have me, a real man, around. Then he started to text me more and more and send me videos of him dancing. Here in France ballet is a serious thing so, although I’m not into it, I recognize the amount of effort and energy they put to achieve their goals. Long story short, after sending me his videos for two weeks, I thought it was about time to give the boy what he really wanted, so I asked him if he wanted to hang out after their concert. They performed the Nutcracker and, after the show, he gave me the best blowjob I have ever received in my life. Since then, I have been fucking him at least twice a week. He’s a perfect femboy wearing makeup and very girly clothes.

My question for you is: the other two guys who dance with my sister are also very girly and attractive. I really wanna try their mouths and asses as well, but I love my sister and I know how important this dance company is to her, so I wanna do it in a subtle way. In other words, based on your experience with young fags, do you think they would get jealous and cause a crisis if I try to fuck all of them, or maybe will they get excited and want to serve me together? (that would be a dream coming true). I know it is hard to say since you don’t know them, but they are three fags between 19 and 21 years old, very attractive and sexy. I’m pretty sure I can fuck all of them if I try to approach them, but I don’t know if I could keep a secret from one another. Am I an asshole for thinking like that, or is it normal to want to have three fags for me?

Thanks!

Thank you so much for writing to me, Sir! 

I want to start off by congratulating you on embracing your Alphahood and your power at such a young age! Many straight Alphas hold back from expressing the full strength of their desire for power and dominance for fear of being judged as doing something “wrong”. As you’re discovering, YOU are the one who leads, and everyone else obeys. You’re too superior to ever worry about what lesser people think or expect of you! 

I’d also like to commend you for taking ownership of your first faggot, Sir! What an exciting new world of dominance you opened up the moment you shoved your dick into that faggot’s throat and pumped your cum into it! I’m sure it was incredibly exciting to discover that owning and using a faggot that way didn’t change who you are at all, other than the power you felt within! 

So let’s deal with the first issue: your sister. I doubt very seriously that you’ll need to worry about the faggots causing a problem or ruining your sister’s dance troupe. These three faggots want to succeed and do well in this performance, so whatever “drama” that might result shouldn’t spill over into the dance. This is particularly true if you do your part to firmly take control of these faggots, Sir.

As for whether you should fuck and breed the other two faggots, I think you answered your own question when you said “(that would be a dream coming true)”. You WANT to own them and fuck them, Sir, SO THAT’S EXACTLY WHAT YOU SHOULD DO. Alphas are the gods of our world, and they deserve nothing less than anything they want! 

I have something of an opinion about how you can go about this, Sir. I suggest that you hurry and take ownership of the other two by breeding them. Then, you collect the three of them and put all three of them on their knees as you stand over them. Then you tell them what is happening: that you intend to own all three of them as your personal faggots. Make it clear to them that they are faggot brothers serving you together, and you expect them to cooperate. MAKE THEM AGREE TO THOSE TERMS. Then do some call/response with each of them, demanding that they tell you what they are (“a faggot, Sir”) followed by you telling it “Good Boy”. After that is completed, tell them to worship you together, making them kiss your feet and bulge, and scent training on your crotch and armpits. 

Then I think you should put all three of them in chastity, Sir. This will keep them in line and totally horny to serve you. The best way to cage a faggot (in my opinion) is to make it a ceremony so that it is special to the faggot and leaves an impression. You can lock them yourself (recommended) or supervise them self-locking. 

These are my suggestions, Sir. I hope they please you and give you some inspiration! 

Just always keep in mind that nature made you superior, and you are merely fulfilling that promise. And by owning and using these faggots (same with females), you help them find fulfillment as well in their submission to you! 

Again, I thank you so much for writing to me, Sir! Such an honor! If you want, you can write to me directly at hierarchyuniversity@gmail.com!  

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Hello brother Sam
I love your work and I love everything you do for faggots like us. My husband is my Master and I really love him. He’s 40, I am 25, we’ve been together for 5 years now. He has always been super dominant and I LOVE that about him. I kneel every time he enters the house, I clean, cook, do the dishes, and anything else he needs. The house is always perfectly clean, his clothes are always washed and folded, and my cooking is delicious. In return, he protects me, makes me feel safe, and feeds me his load every single night.

For 4 years and a half I had nothing to complain. However, last October, he said that our relationship was getting boring, and he wanted to spice things up. I immediately agreed with him and said I would be happy to comply with whatever he had in mind. He wanted to bring a third and, although I felt a little uncomfortable at first, I took a deep breath and thought that, before being a husband, I am his faggot, so I should please him no matter what. I told him that I could look for other bottoms on Grindr, he loves smooth twinks and I imagined that was what he had in mind. But for my surprise, he does not want other fags in the house, he wanted to bring his friends over to fuck me! So we started with his best friend, who he has known for decades. He made me knell and serve his friend to show him how great my blowjob is, then his friend fucked me and shot a load deep down in my ass. He only watched and didn’t even touch me, and I felt really weird. More men would come to our house week by week, and I would just serve them without saying a word. Last week one of the guys told me that my husband in charging them to fuck me, and I got really disappointed.

I love my man and I don’t want him to find another fag, but I don’t want multiple men to fuck me. Do you think I should try to convince him to stop doing this, maybe I could work a little more and give him my extra salary so he wouldn’t need to charge for other men to fuck me. Can you please help me?

My dear brother, thank you for writing!

First of all, congratulations on being married to a powerful Alpha who allows you to fully be the faggot you were born to be! It’s such a blessing to have that freedom! And you sound like the perfect faggot for an Alpha like him, totally dedicated to service and willing to bend to accommodate his needs.

I share your disappointment in your Alpha’s shift to essentially becoming your pimp. What a shame. He should know how rare it is to own a younger, trained faggot like you. Sadly, some Alphas lose perspective, forget their blessings, and fall victim to temptations (like money) that cloud their senses.

I think you need to respectfully go to him, ask to speak honestly with him, and then explain to him that you are disappointed in his decision to basically shop you around for a profit. Tell him that you exist in his life both as his faggot as well as his partner, and you’re willing to be a part of helping overcome any financial troubles (that’s where the extra work might come into play). Regardless of how you want to word it, you need to convey to your Master that his actions disappointed you, hurt you, and confused you.

Depending on how he takes this, maybe tell him that you are willing to keep bending in order to spice things up between you. It’s important to an Alpha that he feels like his faggot is still submitting and eager to please regardless of mistakes that are made.

I hope it goes well, brother!

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I’m curious if you have heard of this situation before. I am a fag with an extremely high sex drive- before locking up I would jerk off 2 to 3 times a day minimum. I have quite a few straight male friends-—they know I’m gay but don’t know I’m a caged faggot. They think I’m a top, and I never corrected them. Recently they were talking about sex, and one of them was talking about how dominant he was. I literally had to make an excuse to leave, take off my cage and jerk off, then come back, otherwsie I was going to lose my mind. Every time im with them I just want them to rough fuck me.

How can a fag like me control myself? Should I find more men to suck? Or should I start jerking off more to get it out of my system?

Hi brother! Thanks for the question!

Congrats on the choice to self-lock! It’s an important step in a faggot’s life and the process of molding your mind into perpetual subspace. 

However, chastity does no good if you’re still unlocking two/three times a day to jerk off, or unlocking to jerk off whenever it becomes difficult. The difficulty is part of the journey of chastity, and you’re denying yourself the opportunity to grow every time you unlock and masturbate.

I was able to stop masturbating through the application of my mind. I simply started meditating on how shameful it was that I was using my penis like a Man, how I was bringing shame on other Men by using my penis the way they can. I became embarrassed to use the urinals in bathrooms because those belonged to Men, etc. So start thinking about it that way, and I think eventually you’ll come to the right conclusion.

But I will add this about the little story you told me: you should’ve revealed your chastity to your straight Alpha friends right then and there. They need to know you’re actually a locked faggot. This could solve two issues at once.

There is something triggering to straight Alphas when they see a faggot in chastity. They’re ALWAYS curious about it, but it also turns them on in a bizarre way. It’s almost like the caged faggot is wearing a sign that reads “CUMDUMP”. They understand that a faggot wearing a chastity cage is not a Man and not equal, and oftentimes they want to take control of those faggots. 

Besides that benefit, if/when your Alpha friends use you, you’ll also solve your horniness through increased use. 

I’m always a proponent of being honest with those around oneself. When you are, awesome things happen. When you give dominant straight Alphas permission, they take incredible control and do things you’d never imagine possible. 

So next chance you get, reveal your chastity to them and see what develops! 

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I have found a handsome Man who sees me as a fag and wishes to use me. And that’s awesome. But from the very first (online) conversation, he is wholly uncompromising – doesn’t take “no” for an answer, no matter my concern. He keeps calling me a zero, a filthy floor rag. He also told me I have no rights with him, that his word is a law. That my purpose in life is being flushed in the toilet.

Sounds all hot and fitting to a faggot, alright, but this is a Man I haven’t even met, I know nothing about him and though he is dominant, there is something unhealthy about his demeanor. After all, he’s said he won’t let me go.

It seems he has a great passion for flushing fags’ heads in the toilet, pissing on them, having them lick it and such – and I wouldn’t any problem with it. On the contrary. Except he wants me to film it, over and over and over again with slight variations. And I don’t want to be exposed, for heaven’s sake. I have that right, or do I not? I may be a lowly fag but 24/7 servitude is simply unacceptable. Deference and respect to a Man at all times is different than being essentially a possession for 24/7.

Just what should I do? Thank you.

Hi brother! Thanks for writing! 

In a general sense I’m wary of any online interactions that are not backed up by in-person meets and experiences. Anybody can be anything online. For crying out loud even I could get dominant and write Dom-sounding emails if I wanted to! So just because he’s saying these things online doesn’t mean squat. 

Here’s how you know what you should do: you said that “24/7 is out of the question” and “exposure is not something you want” … but that is EXACTLY what he wants.

So you tell me … what should you do? The answer is clear to me!  

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Hello,

I could use some advice. I am in a company of about 1,000 people and I am a higher level manager. There is one executive above me to which I directly report and then the CEO. I have six direct reports. 

Recently, there was an opening in my area. About a month ago, I interviewed a number of individuals who recently graduated college for the analyst position. While there were many wonderful candidates, I ultimately chose a man who happened to be on his college crew team. I tried not to let looks make my choice, but in the interview, he was wearing tight khakis and a polo that showed him ripped physique. Ugh. When the interview was over, I literally closed my office door and beat off like mad.

Anyway, he has now started and it has been about a week. He is definitely an alpha male and I want him to succeed, which I know he will. I have this strong desire to just suck him off every time I see him. What should I do? I can’t risk my job.

Thanks,

Thanks for the question! 

This is a pretty common situation. I’ve dealt with it numerous, particularly the faggot boss/ Alpha new hire scenario. I wonder why?

As you mentioned, you’re in a sticky situation. The only time I’ve seen someone successfully navigate this and become owned is when Sean the faggot submitted to the new God Alpha his company hired. That is an extraordinary true story with plenty of helpful examples. CLICK HERE to read it! 

Hopefully that provides you with inspiration! 

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Hi, I just found your website this morning and timing couldn’t be better, that’s exactly what I was looking for.

My name is Noah, I am 23, and I am straight. I have always liked girls, I dated several girls in my teenage years and everything was going well until a few years ago when I started watching bisex porn and loved it. At first I felt weird and a little guilty for jerking off to that because I do feel straight, but the more I tried to avoid it, the more I loved it. I went to therapy with a gay therapist specialist in sexuality to discuss my feelings. He was great to me and, after a few months working with me, he helped me to realize that I was indeed straight but I loved the idea of a dominant man fucking a woman and a sub man at the same time. And that’s exactly how I feel. I love the feeling of being in charge of the relationship and dominate both females and males.

I currently have a girlfriend who I love and she is openly bisexual. We have done threesomes with girls sometimes and we both enjoy it a lot. We started to explore having group sex with faggots as well in which I would dominate both her and the fag, and she was really into that. The problem, however, is that I found an amazing cocksucker with a wonderful tight ass who insists to “convert” me. I made it very clear from the beginning that I love my girl and she will be the mother of my children one day, but the faggot keeps saying that I’m not really straight, I’m just in denial, and I should break up with her and take him as my boyfriend.

I have no interest in breaking up with my girl, let along changing her for a male. But this cocksucker doesn’t understand it. I like him and his blowjob is much better than my girl’s, so I wonder if there is a way to make him understand what he is. I have been exploring your website for a few hours and I happy to see that your mindset aligns a lot with mine. I don’t want hurt my faggot’s feelings, but he needs to understand that in these relationship there are one man, one woman, and one faggot with very clear roles.

Any thoughts?

Sir, thank you so much for writing to me about this! 

First of all, I commend you for being honest about your true needs! I think many straight Alphas feel exactly the same way as you do, but they have it in their heads that it is “wrong” to own/use faggots, or that they would be ostracized for doing so. And for those reasons they refuse the calling inside of them, and they fail to grow their power! 

That’s simply insane, isn’t it? That’s why Alphas like you are so important, Sir. There are some straight Alphas who lead the pack, either Apex or God-level Alphas who demonstrate to the rest of their straight Alpha brothers that owning/using faggots doesn’t change sexuality, but only makes them more powerful! 

That’s you, Sir.

I also commend you for taking this issue so seriously that you sought the advice of a mental health professional. This is a first for me (after ten years!). I think it really shows the depth of both your emotional intelligence as well as your undeniable quest for power and worship that you know you deserve.

That said, let’s tackle the issue with your current faggot. You clearly have an affection for the faggot’s feelings, a sure sign that you’re a true Protector Alpha. However, the faggot is making inappropriate and unwelcome suggestions to you. I understand this, as I’ve done the same thing (and paid dearly for the mistake). Here’s the issue: the faggot gets comfortable and starts to think it’s more attractive to you than it is. It forgets that it is not a PARTNER, but a useful and valuable UTILITY. Also: it is EASILY REPLACEABLE.

So you need to redirect the faggot’s mind, Sir.

I always suggest this as a first step: make the faggot kneel before you as you stand over it. Maybe stroke its head while looking at it. Then ask it what it is. The answer needs to be “I’m a faggot.” Have it repeat that multiple times. Say: “Good boy.”

Then ask it: “What is a faggot?” The answer needs to be something like “A faggot is a slave.” Have it repeat that multiple times. Then say: “Good boy”. 

Then ask it: “What am I, faggot?” The answer should be “You’re my straight Master”. It’ll likely say “You’re my Master”, but make it emphasize the word “straight”. Have it repeat that several times. Then tell it “good boy.”

Then tell it some variation of this: “As a straight Master, I will never love you the way I love women. I will never want you the way I want women. You are my faggot, my slave, my possession, and nothing more. Do you understand that?” Wait for an answer.

Then ask it: “Are you willing to serve me as my faggot slave, or do I need to replace you with a different one?” If it agrees, then tell it “good boy” and then allow it to scent train on your crotch for a while. I think I would send it away with the order to think about what it has done to endanger its place at your feet in service to you, and tell it you expect a final decision at another time. This should put the faggot on edge and eager to return to service with a new mindset.

If that fails, there are other, more extreme options, Sir. But since this faggot serves well and just needs correction, I think this approach might be a good starting point.

I really hope my advice pleases you, Sir, and I hope you can put it into action and get good results! Please keep me updated if possible! My email is hierarchyuniversity@gmail.com.

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I’m older. I’ve always looked for a Master with whom to have a true Master-slave relationship. When I was younger, I knew several Masters, but for fear that the relationship would destroy me, I left them. Recently, I found a new Master, bisexual (he lives with his girlfriend). He’s a true God and lives like one. I think he makes a living off social media and the slaves who pay him and buy his videos. From day one, he demands that I come to his house. He locked me in a chastity cage, and with him, I broke my record for days without masturbating (28 miserable days, but a lot for me). The first sessions were incredible, and I couldn’t understand how such a perfect being would want to be with a normal individual like me. But the last few sessions have basically been like domestic slavery; with barely any sleep, I can spend 12 hours cleaning and cleaning. The only exciting thing is that when he needs to urinate, I have to swallow his pee, and when I leave something dirty behind, he spanks me. Nothing more. The truth is, I feel a bit like a cleaning lady. I was supposed to stay all night last night, but after 7 hours of cleaning, I told him I had to go. He got angry, but let me. In the morning, he texted me saying I should be under his feet right now. Like a fool, I came back. After 3 more hours of cleaning, a few mouthfuls of pee, and a few spankings for some mistake, he let me go home.
I don’t know what to do. Should I continue to care for him until I feel more fulfilled, or should I leave?

Hi brother! Thanks for writing! 

I understand your frustration. You probably need to realize that he’s not going to be interested in you as much sexually because of the age difference (although head is a possibility), so if you’re in this situation for that, you’re likely to be severely disappointed. 

There are two aspects making me lean toward staying with him: (1) He seems to be trying to train you into something, but he’s slow in doing it. (2) We don’t know what his endgame is with owning you. 

A Master who seems to have a plan is probably worth it, at least for a while. Let me ask: what other prospects do you have right now? Do you really want to SERVE AN ALPHA, or just have the hot sex part of it? He’s giving you ample opportunities to serve him, but you seem distracted by something.

I will add this: there are A LOT of faggots out there who would love an opportunity to serve this Alpha in this capacity. If I were you, I’d stop complaining and learn to love SERVING.  

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I have a dominant boyfriend but I don’t fully identify as a faggot. I suck his dick every night, he fucks and breeds me at least 3 times a week, but I don’t feel fully submissive in our daily life. Yesterday, we were together on the bus, sitting side by side, his legs were wide open and I didn’t have much space. So he told me to cross my legs “like a girl”. I did it because I didn’t have a lot of space anyway. When we arrived home, he told me that from now on he wants me to cross my legs whenever we are in public, then he said that “my legs should only open for him to fuck my hole.”

I can’t really talk about these details with my friends because everybody thinks I am a masculine gay and I really don’t want people to see me as a faggot. Do you think it is worth it to fight back, or should I just accept that he needs me to be a faggot before he finds another one?

Hi, thanks for writing to me! 

You might not see yourself as a faggot or even his faggot, but it’s clear he views you as his faggot and there is a dominance currently rising inside him. I’m curious about what might have triggered this Alpha Ascension (as I call it). Regardless, it’s clearly happening and he’s fully intent on claiming and subjugating his property (you).

You ask if it’s worth it to fight back. Answer: DON’T BOTHER. You will lose that fight, and probably end up worse off. 

My suggestion is to keep doing what you’re doing – namely, obeying him – and see where it leads. He’s clearly interested in redefining this relationship; see what he really wants. Perhaps the adjustment might lead to something more favorable. You never know! 

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Hi brother Sam,

This is an update one week after I sent my question about how to fully submit to my boyfriend.

Thank you so much for your invaluable advice, focusing on worshiping his feet has worked like a charm!

It’s been only a week after I started subtly massaging and complimenting his feet, and they have already become a central part of his dominance. He now often uses his legs and feet to keep my head in place when I’m giving him a blowjob, and he enjoys making me lick and smell his feet. For example, two days ago he came home all sweaty from the gym, and I immediately could sense that he wanted to fuck. I went to kiss him, but instead he took off one of his socks and put it inside my mouth. He then pushed me against the kitchen counter, pulled down my pants, and started to fuck me roughly while his sock was still in my mouth. After he finished he went to have a shower without saying a word, and left me with my pants down and his cum leaking down my thighs. I think that it was the first time that he did not wait next to me while I made myself come.

Fully submitting to him outside of sex is still a work in progress, but I made some improvements. When he is not home I try to do as much housework as much as I can, and I have noticed that he has started to neglect cleaning, cooking, and washing clothes, assuming that I will do it. Yesterday night, for instance, he started cleaning the kitchen, but when I joined him he immediately sat on the sofa to scroll on his phone and left me doing it alone. I could see that he was looking at pictures of hot twinks on instagram. After I finished, he rewarded fucking me like a toy, and I wondered if he was thinking about the guys on his phone while doing it.

I can’t thank you enough for helping me awaken the alpha inside him a little more, and please let me know if you think there are other things that I could do. Tomorrow he will go on a work trip for two weeks, and I am worried him being away will disrupt the progress I was making.

This is a follow-up for THIS QUESTION. 

One of my favorite things in the world about this “job” I have is giving advice, having the person follow my suggestions, and then hearing that it worked exactly as planned! Brother, you made me so happy with this update! Thank you! 

Some pre-Alphas just need a little coaxing until they feel they feel they have essentially been “given permission” to act out the desires they’ve been suppressing. Far too many pre-Alphas have been lost to being polite and thoughtful and WOKE. Alphas sometimes act (and need to act) selfishly and roughly. Non-PC. This is just how they’re made. 

I knew if your boyfriend had any Alpha in him, the feet trick would trigger it. And sure enough, it did! He responded beautifully to it! You did an excellent job, brother!

As far as your concerns, I wouldn’t worry at all. His engine is now running, and he’s experienced what it felt like to TAKE YOU the way an Alpha takes and uses a faggot. He sees you now as an object of lust, a toy that he owns so he can unload his power and rage. He’s going to return from that trip and practically rape you! 

Nice work, brother!  

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Hello, my husband and I love your content and I would like to share with you our household dynamic because it may be useful for a deeper understanding of hierarchy. I am 38, he is 40. We met 10 years ago at the gym. We were both tops, so at first we would make out and jerk off together, sometimes getting faggots for us to share. After a few months, he convinced me to suck his dick, and I did for the very first time to please him. He has never sucked me, but I started giving him head and enjoying it more and more.

A few years ago, we decided to bring faggots into our house because I didn’t want him to fuck me and we would only fuck random holes from time to time. Long story short, we now live in a nice house with two amazing faggots. However, my husband likes to make it clear that he is the main Alpha of the house. He calls me “manager” because I take care of the boys and make sure that they are always ready to get fucked. I fuck them too, but my husband always has the last word. The boys really respect him as a Master and King.

From time to time, he makes me suck his dick in front of the boys to make sure they understand that, although we are both Men, he is the big Alpha of the pack. I love fucking and breeding our fags, but I understand that my husband has the right to choose first which one he wants to fuck, and if he wants me to please him, I must suck his dick too.

Have you ever seen dynamics like that? I feel like a faggot when he cums in my mouth and makes me swallow it, but the boys treat me like their Master too.

Thank you, Sirs, for this experience and your question! 

You ask if I’ve ever seen dynamics like yours before … Sir, I practically WROTE THE BOOK! After all, my Hierarchy diagram is (in my opinion) the most accurate representation of not only Hierarchy in general, but also Alpha hierarchy specifically. There is nobody who has explored this topic with more relentlessness and accuracy and then documented real-life examples the way I have. 

Alpha couples like yours remain a fascinating subject for me, primarily because I’m a faggot and can only imagine what it’s like to be a superior Man in a loving relationship with another superior Man. It must be amazing to sit at the top of all things with the one you love and know that all of creation exists as your playground! 

Of course, as you pointed out, there is a hierarchy even your loving relationship obeys. Your husband is a God Alpha, and you’re an Apex (most likely). This is very natural, Sirs, and I’ve seen it/written about it multiple times. 

I do love the delicious detail you added about how your God Alpha makes you suck his cock in front of the house faggots! That’s a pure power move that reinforces hierarchy for everyone. It’s genius.

You wanna know another reason why I love Alpha couples? Because they seem to get the functions of faggots much better than almost any other kind of Man. The gay agenda likes to emphasize that the word “faggot” is slanderous and the treatment of faggots as they should be used is cruel and discriminatory. Alpha couples I’ve ever known freely own faggots, call them faggots, and use them like they’re faggots. It’s absolutely perfect. 

So yes, Sirs, I definitely have heard of situations like yours, and I’m grateful for that. Alpha couples have taught me so much and reinforced beliefs I’ve had about Hierarchy. Your faggots are very fortunate to be owned by two powerful Alphas like you both! 

Thank you, Sirs! 

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Hi brother!! I am 19 and I know I am a faggot since I was very very young. My father left my mom when I was 4 and he was a really bad guy for her. My mom is my hero and my best friend. She raised me and has always protected me. She is super liberal and we talk about everything with no fear or embarrassment. I came out to her when I was 15 and she has been super supportive, she knows everything about my sexual life and always gives me great advice.

We have never talked about faggots and alphas using these terms, but she is aware that I am a femboy who loves big man and needs a true Alpha. I have a friend from school who really likes me and treats me really well. My mom knows him and likes him too. He wants to take me as his boyfriend and was very clear to me that he wants to be the dominant part of the relationship. I am a virgin and so far I have only given him blowjobs. He always says that really likes me and he is ready to be part of my life but, before making it official, he demands two things: I need to swallow his cum and he wants to breed me.

Of course he will eventually take my virginity if we become boyfriends and I am okay with him breeding my hole. But I am still a little concerned about taking his cum in my mouth. I don’t know… I suck his dick several times a week and he always shoots his load on the floor. He told me that it is okay that I feel uncomfortable now, but he will only take me as his sub boyfriend if I accept his load on my face, on my chest, in my mouth, and deep inside my ass.

I had a very honest conversation about that with my mom and she said that Men love spreading their seed and, if he is healthy and responsible, there is no reason to be afraid of swallowing his load. She literally told me that he is a great guy and I should take his load in my mouth and in my ass before he finds somebody else who is willing to take it. Then she said, “he’s a gentleman and very hot, trust me, he will find somebody else if you don’t want it.”

So what do you think brother?? Am I being stupid with this fear of taking his load? Do you think that it is realistic to convince him to keep shooting his load on the floor or inside the condom? Could you please talk a little about the importance of cum in a fag-Alpha relationship?

Thank you! I love you Sam!! I love your work!

Hi brother! Thank you for writing to me! 

First of all, your mother is incredible. I love everything about her! What an amazing response she had about swallowing Alpha cum! 

Here’s the other thing: she’s absolutely right. You have nothing to worry about with diseases. First of all, he’s your age and likely extremely clean. And also, your saliva kills most pathogens and your stomach acid definitely does. 

You need to get into the mindset that swallowing Alpha cum is a PRIVILEGE. It is a GIFT an Alpha gives to his faggot. I realize it’s a little weird at first, but you’ll feel more complete as a faggot if you do. 

Breeding is a simpler thing, of course, and should be a no-brainer.

Simply put, you need to get over this resistance to give honor and respect to Alpha cum. It is the most valuable substance on Earth, the essence of an Alpha, and it belongs inside of you rather than on the floor/ground. 

His cum will change you for the better, brother! So listen to your brilliant mother, and serve this powerful Alpha properly! 

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I am a professor in Italy and I would like to know your opinion about one of my students. He is 20, very hard-working, and really attractive. He wears make-up and many straight men, both students and faculty, look at his ass when he passes by. It is very clear that he has a crush on me, he always comes to my office hours and pretends to have questions about the course materials. When I tell him to look for other tutors, he comes up with the most absurd reasons to keep coming to my office when I am by myself. I am married to a submissive guy and my husband thinks that I should just fuck him, but I don’t want to risk my career. I am sure that if I put my pants down he would suck my dick without saying a word, but I do not want to take him as my fag. How do you think I could give him good advise to make sure he will find a Man to take care of him? He is probably hoping that I will eventually fuck him, but that’s not going to happen. I want my student to be happy and have the best Alpha he can find.

Sir, thank you very much for your question! 

Yours is a highly unusual question, because I think a vast majority of Alphas would’ve fucked their faggot student in every part of the college, including the cafeteria at noon. Generally speaking, Alphas love easy holes to fuck and and fresh flesh to feast upon. 

But you’re clearly an Alpha with a conscience, and that’s awesome! You’re even standing with your principles despite even your sub husband giving you his approval! That’s admirable, Sir, and again, quite unusual.

As you probably already know, faggots are highly unreasonable, particularly when they’re “in heat”. A firm “NO” hasn’t worked so far. I’d suggest sitting the faggot down and telling it something like this: “I know what you are and that you have a need to serve. However, I will not do anything with you because it would be wrong, not only to my husband but also to the school that placed its trust in me. It’s time to stop yearning for what you cannot have, and instead look for a Master that can own you and train you the way you deserve.”

I don’t know anything about this faggot, so I’m not sure if that will work, Sir. But something like that needs to be said to it. 

I hope it helps! Thank you, Sir! 

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SIR how does a fag go about finding true verified Alpha’s. So many are on and off, seems like a revolving door SIR

Hi brother. So I assume you’re referring to cashmasters in findom. And that inconsistency (and also lying) in findom is one of the dangers of the scene. I would say that any cashmaster that I repeatedly endorse (through retweets or features) is verified because I do prefer to communicate with the Masters I feature. My main account is @hierarchypcast.

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It’s statistically difficult to find true love in our world today. Something like 60-70% of straight marriages end in divorce, and gay relationships typically fare much worse.

In the Hierarchical world, deep and lasting relationships are almost nonexistent. Sure, it lasts for a while and even burns hotter than any other kind of relationship, but oftentimes one of the two (usually the Alpha) moves onto something more stable and socially-acceptable.

While my efforts on FWA and here (and across my social media) typically don’t deal specifically with finding romance (I’m a realist), I’ve been blessed to be a part of at least four marriages between Alphas and faggots. So I’m saying that love does happen sometimes, even in deeply fetishistic relationships.

I received a remarkable letter from an older faggot named Kevin. He was moved to write to me to share his experience as an exposure faggot for an older Alpha named Dennis after I railed on the worthlessness of exposure faggots. I really wanted to highlight this message, because it should give all faggots hope.

sam the fag,

i recently listened to your podcast deriding exposure fags.  Maybe i can change your mind a bit.  i met my Master in 2007 in the old yahoo chat rooms.  We hit it off immediately and chatted regularly for several months.  Then He ordered me to visit.  He only lived a few hours away so i immediately got in my car.  When i entered His home i immediately dropped to my knees with my head down and it felt better than anything i had done previously in my life.  He ordered me to my feet because HE had other plans

He got out His camera and ordered me to strip, all the while He was taking pictures.  I was nervous having Him document me that way, but i trusted Him.  He then shaved me from the neck down and tied me up using the camera the whole time.  Then I got my reward by sucking His dick

This type of scene happened every time we met.  Eventually he would joke “too bad only the two of us know about these pictures because everyone should know what a faggot you are”.  i would laugh and quickly change the subject.  it made me nervous at the thought of posting my pics to the internet for anyone to see.

One day when i was home and HE texted me one of the photos he took of me and said: “post it faggot”.  i did not hesitate and posted it to my tumblr account.  he texted me “there is my faggot, exposed as it should be”.  That made me so incredibly proud that i pleased Him and that HE wanted to show me off.  This became a regular thing between us.

Master Dennis passed away in 2019 and that devastated me.  Now i am an old faggot in my 60s.  Alphas can have any faggot they want, so why would they want me?  Sometimes i still post pics of me because it makes me feel closer the memory of my Master.  Yes, i want more than that.  I want to serve, and i have not given up my quest to be owned again, but in the meantime exposing keeps me in my fagspace and brings back wonderful memories.

faggot kevin

It’s funny how little memories waft into our lives like a lovingly-remembered scent, and instantly we are back with those we still cherish. This sweet tribute to a long-lost Master felt that way to me.

The Master/faggot dynamic is poorly-understood by most and definitely dismissed, but as Kevin demonstrates here, the dynamic cuts through posturing and exposes the rawness of who we truly are beneath. Masters and faggots share with each other the most primal instincts one can ever reveal, bound by a trust that defies death.

I’m so glad my brother Kevin shared his heartache and longing with me, and now to you. It’s a shared longing, a shared heartache. But ultimately, taking the gamble and exposing ourselves to risk leaves us with tender memories that carry us onward.

Thank you, Kevin.

I don’t know if you ever saw the 2008 BBC TV serie Merlin, a very loose reinterpretation of the Arthurian legends, in which Merlin is Arthur’s manservant and has to keep his magic secret. I saw it again for the first time since I’ve known Hierarchy and it struck me that Merlin is actually Arthur’s faggot. Although he resists it at first, as time passes it becomes clear that he’s hopelessly in love with his Alpha Master. He is devoted to him and worships him, in a one-sided relationship where Arthur treats him like a likeable stooge. Funny how the Hierarchy is even reflected in a popular family TV show!

I did not see that show; I’m not really big on watching a lot of serialized television (or much television in general). I took a glance at a little bit of it due to your question, and it looks kinda chintzy and cheap. 

However, I’m not really surprised that the show reflects Hierarchy as you describe. You’re right – it’s literally everywhere once you’re trained to see it. It’s so ingrained into the very fabric of human society that art constantly and unconsciously reflects it. 

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Sam, not a question, but my second brain kicked in with the question from the fag whose lover is dominant in bed but hasn’t extended it further. Wow, how does he show Him he wants to be used as a slave.

I flashed to him putting himself in a cock cage, then coming to his Dom, kneeling, then holding out the keys and asking Him if He would own and control the keys. That small action would convey all that needed to be said. Respectfully considering the Dom, I’m sure He’s aware His partner is not cumming when He uses him for sex. He probably really enjoys that clear Masculine, Dominant, Superior feeling that comes with it.

I’m so glad he asked the question and you published it. I really enjoyed the side trip it gave me!

This is in response to THIS recent Questions From Readers question.

Yes, I thought about suggesting that, but I thought it might be over-the-top. It’s certainly an excellent “next step” in the process! 

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Hi brother Sam,

Thanks to your informative posts I have finally realized that I am a faggot. Although my boyfriend is not familiar with the hierarchy, when we have sex he naturally senses my submission and adopts an alpha role. It has also become clear for the both of us that his pleasure is the only thing that matters. He regularly fucks me mercilessly and cunts me until he cums inside me. After he finishes, he says that he is exhausted and leaves me touching myself so I can come alone. It feels natural to be used and treated like a fuck toy.

The thing that leaves me unsatisfied is that in our day-to-day lives we have a regular relationship where we behave like equals. He likes to cook for me and does half of the housework, which often frustrates me. I don’t know how to tell him that I want to become his faggot and fully submit to him without scaring him. Lately, I have been trying to do more housework, encouraging him to have a rest while I clean or wash the clothes, but I feel that it is not working.

What are subtle things that I can do to signal that I want to fully submit to him and help him accept his alphahood?

Hi brother, thanks for the question!

This is a pretty common issue among gay couples. Men too often view submission as “kink play” consigned to the bedroom, while believing equality and mutual respect is the “proper” way to be in everyday life. 

But that’s simply not how true faggots are. I think it’s almost impossible for an Alpha to understand that we faggots are actually HURT (and it’s almost like a physical pain!) when our Alphas don’t allow us to serve as their property, their faggot. For true faggots, it’s not a fetish … it’s WHAT WE ARE BORN TO BE.

Tell you what: I want you to read this article I just wrote and then put it into practice: https://hierarchyuniversity.com/the-way-to-an-alphas-heart/ 

Greet him on your knees and kiss his feet when he walks through the door. Sit at his feet while he’s watching TV. 

Start calling him “Sir”. 

You need to fully lean into your true feelings and submit to him completely. If he’s as dominant as you describe in the bedroom, then surely these steps will help him embrace his dominance in all areas of his life!

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There’s an old saying: “The way to a Man’s heart is through his stomach.” And yeah, Men love a great meal.

But if you’re serving an ALPHA (or want to be), the way to his heart is through his FEET.

You see, food satisfies a Man’s physical hunger, but an Alpha hungers for something greater: POWER and WORSHIP. He craves it the way his body craves air. It fuels everything he believes himself to be and everything he intends to become.

Foot worship is the ultimate act of submission and worship in the eyes of an Alpha, particularly if that foot worship comes from a faggot. When an Alpha sees a faggot debase itself entirely, surrender its masculinity, and kiss his feet, the Alpha swells with tremendous power and aggression.

There will always be a reaction to that simple act!

The following experience came in through my Questions From Readers inbox, but it was long enough and pointed enough that I’m turning it into a proper post so that everyone may learn:

I wanna tell you one experience that I remembered other day, it’s pure hierarchy. When I was 21 yo (now I’m 29) and had a vanilla relationship. At that time I had no idea what hierarchy or faggots/Alpha were, but I already knew that feet turned me on so much, and luckily my ex-boyfriend allowed me to worship his feet. Even though our sex dynamic was pretty vanilla, he was only top and I was only bottom, he always fucked me until he comes and then he kept his cock inside me and I wanked till I cum, almost every time it was like that.

But one day everything changed, we figured out together a new way of pleasing each other. We were having our usual dynamic when after had bred me he took his dick out of my hole and just lay by my side, instead of wanking and cum I instinctively went to the end of the bed, on the floor and started worshipping his feet and then massaging them, I was horny as fuck doing it but at anytime I thought about my dick, I was totally focused in give him pleasure and I wanted him to relax, after around 25 minutes of me worshipping him, he told me to join him in the bed and I obeyed, I didn’t know but he was ready for another round (that’s why he wanted me in the bed) we started kissing and a few minutes later his dick was in my hole again, he gave me another load and this time he left his dick inside me and told me to cum, after I came we stayed in the bed for a few minutes exhausted and in bliss about what had happened.

After that it became a thing between us, every time he gave me a load (in any of my holes) I worshipped his feet and kept myself chaste to receive another load afterwards and it wasn’t something he forced me to do, it was so natural for me, I craved to please him so bad, but I have to say he encouraged me to keep chaste because he realised it was good for our relationship, specially good for him (having an eager boyfriend to unload anytime). At some point he started ordering me to worship his feet and trainers as well before AND after fuck me.

After a while I figured out the world of chastity cages and I bought my first cage, it was a medium holy trainer, we already had broken up when I got this cage, but we still had some contact and I ended up telling him about the cage in a text message, the first thing he said was “I wanna fuck you while you are using the cage, and this time you’re not going to cum at all” and that’s exactly what happened, he arrived at my house, made me lick his trainers clean while he ignored me, then I worshipped his socked feet and his bare feet, he unloaded in my hole and ordered me to massage his feet, probably for 40min, after that he fucked me again, I got another load, he told me to grab a butt plug, he plugged me and said “keep my loads safe inside you until tonight at 10pm and keep the cage on as well” it was 5pm when it happened, this said he dressed up and left. I did exactly what he told me to do and it was the best feeling ever, knowing I had pleased a real man and had his seed inside me. Hierarchy is truth! And as soon as we know our place, the happiest we can be brother Sam.

This perfectly illustrates my point! Can you see how foot worship dialed-up the dominance in this Alpha/faggot dynamic?

Here’s the other thing: faggots need to give in to their natural desire to worship Alphas in this way. Don’t be afraid to even start submitting to an Alpha through foot worship. This faggot followed his instinct, and it paid off dramatically well!

Believe me, true Alphas cannot resist foot worship. The ones who don’t need it simply haven’t experienced it yet. Foot worship and service has been a huge tool in my faggot toolbox in order to serve Alphas and be owned by them!

Hello Brother,

About two years ago, I took in my then 14 year old nephew. He’s had a very rough life but has turned out to be an amazing kid. He gets good grades, is a multi sport athlete, and has a lot of friends. At 16, he is already exhibiting alpha traits.

For Christmas, he asked for sessions with a personal trainer because he wanted to max his looks. My partner’s ex-boyfriend is a trainer and was willing to take him on.

And oh my God, it has paid off. At the risk of sounding weird, my nephew is a fucking stud. He was always a cute kid and naturally fit, but now with his new workout routine, he has become a GOD among mortals.

And to add to that, he has had a few girlfriends. We talked about safe sex, of course, and he told us he needs condoms with more room. So apparently he is bigger down there too.

What’s more, he has become pretty popular on TikTok and Snapchat. He doesn’t have to post much and gets a ton of likes. He thinks it’s fun, but I think this sort of attention about to awaken the alpha within.

I told him to put his cash tag on his profile. Already he has had a few guys send him money. He doesn’t quite understand his power yet, but I’m encouraging him to lean into it slowly.

My partner is much more dominant and masculine than me and can speak alpha and sports and masc things with him. Even he has noticed that the kid has potential.

Thank you for providing incredible resources. I will find a way to introduce him to your site.

Thanks for the message!

It’s wonderful to see an Alpha that young start to embrace that natural power within himself! I’m glad your partner has gotten him into physical fitness and weight lifting! While I don’t think huge muscles have much to do with Alphahood in general, I think it’s vital for the Alpha during his developing years. It gives the developing Alpha a sense of his physical superiority over inferior males and gets his mind in the framework of besting others. It also helps that he’s receiving tributes from faggots on TikTok, for obvious reasons. 

I’m really proud of you and your partner for shepherding your nephew toward his destiny! Keep my posted on his progress! 

P.S. I loved it when you said your partner “speaks Alpha”! It really is its own language! 

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Was very intrigued by Master JA’s compelling story and wondered if he is available for contact. Thanks!

Master JA’s letter to the former itineration of this site – fagsworshipalphas.com – came while I was incarcerated. I ended up answering it while still locked up, but when I got free everything had collapsed. He left no email address for me to reach back out to him. The letter was so astonishing that I recreated it here from the archive in the hope that he will someday find it an return!

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