Hi Sam,

My name is Brandon and I’m a 21yo guy who’s recently become more sexually active. I have a decently muscular body and a pretty big dick(~7.5-8in). I’ve begun to notice a trend with the guys I’m sleeping with. Almost as soon as undress they all start acting more like bottoms? They always start worshipping my body and beg to suck my cock/fuck them.

I’ve never really thought of myself as “Alpha” or had the impulse to don other guys before. But I will say it does feel nice to be worshiped. So my question for you Sam is, do you think I’m an Alpha or is this just benefits of being hung?

Hello, Sir! Thank you very much for writing!

At this point, it’s pretty clear you’re receiving the benefits of being hung, but that’s only a benefit if you’re a total top without any interest in sucking dick or being fucked. Otherwise, that wouldn’t be a benefit, right? Since you didn’t really clarify your interests, I can’t really determine much more than that.

But let’s assume that your statement “benefits of being hung” indicates that you are, indeed, a total top.

The question of whether or not you’re Alpha involves more math than (big dick = Alpha). Alphahood does not depend on dick size. A Man is Alpha because of the qualities he has INSIDE, not outside. 

Despite your nice body, handsome face, and big dick, you have some aspects that make me question your qualifications as an Alpha. For instance, you have a very limited sexual history until now (which would be weird for a well-hung Alpha). You also mention that you’ve never felt the urge to dominate others … again, that’s not typically an Alpha quality.

So I can’t really come to a conclusion on the question of your Alphahood, Sir. I don’t have enough information to do so. However, I’m rooting for you! You seem like you’d make a great Protector Alpha if it ends up fully manifesting in you! Thank you, Sir! 

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Hi man,

I’m a 26yo guy who has a very appealing body and attractive face however I’m very underdeveloped down there.

for me I see it as a non issue but when I try to pick up fags they tend to ignore me due to my small dick. I have never thought about serving a man myself and always have seen myself as an alpha.

so does my small 3.5’ dick make me a faggot and I should accept it?

Sir, thank you for writing! 

I’m sorry you’re feeling insecure about this, Sir. I’m always frustrated by this issue of penis size, because it really doesn’t matter. You’re Alpha based on the qualities you have inside, not outside. 

In other words, you’re not a faggot unless you have a need to serve Men. To submit to them, be owned by them, etc. You clearly don’t have that need at all, so you’re not a faggot. 

Sadly, many faggots are shallow size queens who think way too highly of themselves. They forget that their entire purpose on Earth is to serve superior Men like yourself. So try to keep that mental attitude and remember your actual place in Hierarchy.

I’ll tell you this: I casually served a straight Alpha named Eric for about two years. His dick was not much bigger than mine, and mine is small (he also had a Prince Albert piercing that was incredibly annoying while sucking him off). But there was never any doubt that he was the Alpha and he expected me to serve him. When he fucked me, he’d wrap his muscular arm around my throat and press his massive, muscular body on top of me and hammer me like there was no tomorrow. I loved how animalistic he sounded when he bred me. 

He was the living embodiment of this joke a friend said once when someone was mocking his dick size: “Hey, even three inches hurts when it’s going 100 MPH!”

If this is bothering you too much, focus on other forms of worship like pits, feet, domestic, etc. Get into findom and make faggots worship you with their treasure. Become rich and honored by faggots the world over. I promise, your dick size won’t bother you so much anymore, Sir! 

You were born a King, Sir! So fulfill that destiny! 

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Hey man I wrote to you a couple days ago about trying to figure out the hierarchy with my struggles with my friend I introduced to being an alpha. I appreciate the insights and after reading more I realized that I was questioning my status because I was Asian and physically less appealing than my friend, but now I know that being an alpha often is beyond simple physical traits, but rather a mentality that I lost for a second but regained. Things have reverted back to normal since I talked with Ray and Leo has come back to serving me. While I still need to look through alpha hierarchy I was wondering what role does an alpha/apex alpha play for a god alpha and is it possible to become a good alpha from an alpha? Overall, I know I’m an alpha for sure I’m just struggling how an alpha hierarchy would work if I’m below a bigger alpha.

This is a follow-up to THIS QUESTION.

Master Aiden, welcome back! Thank you so much for writing again! 

I felt bad about my response to your first question, because I thought I was too blunt with you. However, I was concerned because I hate to see Alphas struggling with their place or their worthiness. You’re in the prime of your life and you’re ALPHA! This is the time when you can shine brightest and use your overwhelming power to live your best life! 

I’m so glad to hear that you had a talk with Master Ray! This is what needed to happen. You’re both Alpha, so there needs to be mutual respect between Alpha brothers. Ultimately, you both are part of an earthwide Alpha fraternity that rules our world together, so there needs to be harmony and agreement amongst those rulers! 

Also, I’m sure Leo feels much better back in your service, Master! I would probably reprimand him for his unfaithfulness (although faggots are notorious for this). I’m sure you’ve already dealt with that in your own way.

To your question: I’ll answer in militaristic terms, if I may, for the purpose of illustration. God Alphas are like Generals, Apex Alphas are like Lieutenant-Generals, and Alphas are like Major-Generals. One tier “serves” or obeys/follows the tier above it. You can see this behavior in action when there are a group of Alphas working together (like a sports team, for example). 

God Alphas are the ones all Alphas follow, look to for advice, and receive instruction. The Alphas closest to the God Alpha are typically Apex Alphas, and they keep a pretty tight social circle devoid of even other Alphas because that is how direction is plotted and disseminated to the rest of the pack.

I generally tend to think God Alphas are born that way, but certainly an Alpha or Apex Alpha can try to assert themselves as a God Alpha. Other Alphas will either accept this assertion of power, or reject it … that’s the true test of God Alphahood. 

Hierarchy is a natural process. We can’t usually bend it to our will. It will always tell us what we truly are. 

I hope that helped, Master! I’m so happy to hear that you’re reclaiming your Alphahood and approaching it with a clear, focused vision! Go forth and conquer, Master!  

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Hi Sam! I need your help. I am 26, gay, and I have sent around 10k to Alphas over the last 7 years BUT … I never had the courage to meet one and worship them in person.

I tell myself that maybe I am not a faggot and I did send the money just for fun but if I worshipped an Alpha in person, my place in the hierarchy would be fixed.

Am I lying to myself? The 10k are a lot of money for me and maybe this sum already is a strong sign that I am indeed a faggot.

I think I am not the only one who is struggling with his place. The Alphas are fine with receiving money and I was never asked to meet… so I would love to hear your opninion and what next step you would recommend.

Well, if you’re unsure about whether or not you’re a faggot, I recommend that you buy my book titled “Are You A Faggot?” that contains a final, self-administered test to help you answer that question. You can buy it right here: https://payhip.com/b/o8E9L

I think sending money to Alphas you’ll never meet is largely a dead-end. I understand that it’s “hot” and helps you get off, but you’re learning all sorts of bad habits while also lowering your standards for yourself. I think findom is fine for faggots who simply cannot serve Alphas in real life for whatever reason, but ultimately findom isn’t a proper or beneficial training method.

Your words betray some of this. You mention that you lack the courage to meet and serve in person. Can’t you see that findom is weakening you as a person? 

My recommendation is this: take some time off of findom and instead use that money to buy a few drinks for a local Alpha you know. Or to buy him something of value. Or make yourself useful to him in some way. You will find that experience much more rewarding, and it will make you grow as a person rather than regress.  

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Hi Sam the Faggot

I took your advice and decided not to try and explore further for my own sexual release. And honour Master Karim and be grateful for all he’s given me and what a wonderful life I have now.

I felt I should be open and honest with Master Karim as we have for all our relationship. So I told him my concerns and the conclusion I arrived to. I could not have found a kinder Alpha. It genuinely pained him that I was feeling that way, though he did admit he was glad I decided I didn’t need something more sexual from him as he would’ve had to stick firm to his beliefs and turn me down.

But Master Karim asked me to give him some time to think of things and he came back to me and said I might feel more satisfied if we explored me wanting to drink piss like I used to. So he said he wanted to start using me semi-regularly as his toilet. And said that he was comfortable giving me first dibs to his rubbers, so that way I get to have his cum without gay acts between two men happening in our house.

I haven’t had the chance this week yet to suck down on of his rubbers, but we have tried me drinking his piss. It’s been a little messy to start with but we’re getting better. And exciting to have a new thing to learn. It was a bit gross with the morning piss, but with perseverance and practise I’m looking forward to the day where it lights up my morning.

Thank you so much for helping me avoid temptations cheap and easy path.

Gratefully
Faggot James

This is a follow-up to THIS QUESTION.

Brother, thank you for following up!  I’m so glad to hear that you followed through with my advice and it worked out well! 

It’s truly a testament to what a good faggot you are and what kind of Master your Owner, Karim, is! Good Masters listen to their faggots and consider their feelings. Of course, a faggot’s needs are a distant second to the needs of its Master, but good Masters listen and consider them thoughtfully in order to bring out the best in the faggot. That way, the faggot becomes more useful … and more valuable! 

Even though Master Karim is a straight Alpha, he recognizes how vitally important you’ve become to his own personal power. A straight Alpha who owns faggots is infinitely more  powerful than a typical straight Alpha. Master Karim is really feeling that now! 

As for you, I congratulate you on being patient and submissive! It’s paying off with benefits already, and more to come! Just wait until you taste his seed the first time! You’ll be glad you took this course! 

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Hi Sam,

I’m writing today because I feel I am at a crossroads right now. For most of my life I thought I was an alpha especially in my hometown where I was one of the strongest guys and everyone wanted to hook up with me. However, since I’ve been in college I don’t know if that is the case anymore. Despite being quite tall and built I’m still considered one of the weaker guys in my friend group and my journey started  when chicks only talked to me to get with my friends. I began thinking about what made them so much desirable and one of my realization points was seeing how big their bulge was in their boxers. I tried to put it off as admiration but I began having dreams of them and after reading some of your responses I realize if I truly was an alpha I wouldn’t be entertaining these thoughts. I honestly don’t know how to feel since my entire worldview has been flipped but I can’t deny how I feel and I don’t know how to proceed?

Thank you for writing to me! 

I’m sorry you’re struggling with this! Once you get to college, it should ideally be a confirmation of the person you always felt you were, not a derailment. I can appreciate your despondency and disillusionment. Sometimes when we look at ourselves with honest eyes, we are frightened, confused, or horrified by what we see.

I wrote a book that might help you find the path you should take. It’s called “Are You A Faggot?” It’s designed as an overview about faggots and their place in Hierarchy, but the most important part of it is at the end: a quiz designed to help you figure out if you’re actually a faggot, or maybe just a beta. I highly recommend that you buy a copy and try it before proceeding any further.

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I know you’re probably feeling some apprehension right now, but you don’t need to be frightened. If you are, indeed, a faggot, just embrace it and do your best to fulfill your purpose and good things will come your way. 

I wish you the best!  

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I’ve been following FWA for a couple years now after getting more into kink around sophomore year. It makes so much sense and I was hooked. I’m so glad you’re helping alphas and fags figure out who they are and what their place is. I think high school is a clear example of where the hierarchy is on display every day. I am a basketball and baseball player. 6’2 thick muscular body, 6 pack abs. I’ve always been able to talk to girls but have only ever been with one a few times. I’m gay but only a top. I know I’m an alpha, no question. I’ve noticed the fags at my school staring at me in class or in the hall. I’ve never approached them though. I’m in the “popular crowd” and really could get with any chick I want.

Im 18 now and graduating from high school next week. The other day I ended up messaging one of my coaches from my school on grindr.  He’s 26 and from his profile comes across as a faggot. We started talking about the heirarchy because he had a couple tags in his profile like chastity, sub, kink, etc… That’s when I confirmed he was a faggot. We exchanged pics and I saw the cages he owned. He has some of the smallest cages I’ve seen. Mostly nub cages but has a flat cage for short term wear he said. Hard he’s like 5 inches vs my almost 7. He’s not thick at all wear I am pretty thick.

I was kind of surprised he was a faggot at first since he comes across as a very masculine ex frat boy jock. I know him pretty well since he coached me since freshman year. I have always thought he was hot but never looked at him like a faggot. That made him even hotter ngl.

I think it would be really hot to turn him into my faggot but idk if he would since he was my old coach.

I don’t know if he recognized me from my pics but we never swapped face pics. I figured out it was him because of one of his tats. I used a pic that was on my IG so he may have figured out who I was. I stopped messaging him because I didn’t know what to do.

My question is do you think I should make him my fag this summer? He seemed eager to submit and tbh I don’t blame him. I don’t want it to be weird for him or anything but I really want to turn him into my faggot. What should I do?

Sir, thank you so much for writing to me! I really do love this recent wave of young readers who were following me silently while being underaged and are now reaching out once they attain that magical 18-year-old designation some restrictive moron invented! It just reassures me that I’m having a positive impact with young people, and they stick by me over many years because they recognize the ring of truth. 

Your case seems a bit peculiar to me, Sir. You’re very athletic, popular, good-looking … and in general, your generation is quite accepting of homosexuality. And yet, you’ve had very few sexual experiences despite all of these advantages. 

What that tells me about you is you’re an ethical Alpha, a Protector Alpha at heart who doesn’t want to use the ample female pussy being offered to you because you don’t want to lead them on. If I’m right, I really admire that about you, Sir!

Sadly, you refused to use your growing power to take ownership of the many faggots in your school. I realize this is part of an Alpha practice of “not shitting where you sleep”. In other words, you wanted to keep your school and sex lives separate. I get it.

But now you’re 18 years old, Sir. By law, you’re a Man … and by Nature, you’re a Superior Man. So everything is now possible for you! 

I must give this faggot coach credit for managing to resist trying anything with his Alpha players. Of course, your developing Alpha powers saw right through his façade and saw what he really was. That had to be quite a head-trip for you, knowing at such a young age that you’re superior to him and could basically own this faggot ten years your senior!    

Sir, you asked if I think you should turn this coach into your faggot. My unreserved answer is FUCK YES you should! 

You have admirably waited to satisfy your powerful Alpha needs, but you’re 18 now and there’s no reason to wait! In fact, I think you should find multiple faggots and take ownership of them all, Sir! It’s beyond time for you to truly experience the satisfaction, glory, and worship you were born to receive! 

I do hope you’ll keep in touch with me, Sir! I’m always excited to know how young Alphas progress as they stretch their mighty wings and soar! My email address is hi*****************@***il.com! Thank you, Sir! 

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I have a serious question and its hard to ask and get into without explaining a lot of stuff.

I guess my question is – can a fag be in service to a female?

It might sound like a weird question but I guess I’ve been trying to figure out how I identify and exactly what I am.

My situation will probably seem pretty strange and idk maybe it is. I have a girlfriend. We’ve been together for about four years. We both identify as being mostly straight, but both had some same-sex experience when we got together.

We knew we were both open minded and liked to experiment and that’s always been part of our sex life. Even in the first few months we explored other kinks and things, and she started to explore being dominant with me. It was something I enjoyed so was more than happy to do it.

We also involved other people. We went to swinger parties. We found girls and guys online.

She found that she really liked seeing me do stuff with other men, especially taking a submissive role, and I found that I really liked being watched by her when I was in that sort of situation.

We’ve leaned into that more and more heavily. And we now have three regular alphas (two are gay/bi, one is straight) who use me on a pretty regular basis. They use me exclusively, they don’t do anything with her. She usually watches, but not always. But in my head, I’m doing it for her.

It hasn’t become what we do exclusively, but I’d say more than 90% of the sex I have is submitting to alpha men.

You might be thinking that this is some kind of cuck situation, but I really don’t feel like that’s what it is. It’s not like these men are ‘replacing’ me. She just really enjoys the dominance of being totally in control of what happens with my body, and I love serving her – and by extension submitting to men.

I just wondered if you’d come across this before, or if our situation is unique in any way.

Thanks for the unusual question! Tonight I’ve hit a trifecta of peculiar situations! 

I’ve encountered just one or two situations like yours over these ten years of answering questions. In all situations, the male partner is a “beta-sub” (see graphic) whose extreme heterosexual submissiveness actually ranks him below females in dominance hierarchy.

However, unlike the title you chose for your question (“Female Alpha?”), I do not recognize females as Alphas since leadership and power are not natural female attributes. It just so happens that your female partner enjoys watching you get used and humiliated by Alphas … but that doesn’t make her an Alpha. She just happens to have a kink compatible with yours.

I do wonder where this leads, though. How long before one of these Alphas claims you and motions to take you away from her? Are you prepared for that? How much longer before you’re craving the Alpha cum that has been impregnating you, body and mind?

Personally, I think this is a dead-end in the long run. What started out as experimentation has mushroomed into something slightly out-of-control. Be careful what you wish for!

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Hey man, I’m not sure exactly how to start this but to give you a bit of background I found out about the alpha hierarchy last year in college when my roommate, Jack, turned out to be a fag and showed me this page. I really resonated with being a protective alpha and enjoyed owning Jack as a fag especially just having a servant and hole to use whenever I was pent up. This past year I moved into a new apartment with a few random people but my fag couldn’t live with us because he had to live closer to his job. During this time I became close with one of my roomates let’s call him Ray. We got close going to the gym together and going to some of the same cultural clubs. Earlier this year we got drunk and he ranted to me about how girls were so needy to get blowjobs or have sex with and I agreed and told him a bit about owning a fag to just use without worrying about all the needy aspects. We ended up talking about it for a bit before he asked me how it worked and at this point I had 2 fags, Jack & Leo, I owned. I let Ray take Leo once to see if he enjoyed it and he ended up telling me the it was the best head he got and he felt powerful exerting his dominance over another man. Fast forward a bit he had a large stable of fags that he told me about and we always laughed about just having guys at our disposal. For a while everything was the same we worked out at the gym, hung out, and had fags help us with all the other work. But just this past month, Leo and Jack my two fags have been canceling on me saying they were too busy and just ignored me. One night I saw Leo leave Ray’s room at 3AM when I drove back from a party and realized they were serving him instead of me. I got pissed and confronted Ray about it but he just brushed me off saying it was their choice. Lately Ray has been just making comments how he can bench more than me and how good Leo serves him that annoys me that I just brushed off as banter. However, I’ve realized that lately he’s asked me to do a lot of things from getting dinner, driving him around, and last week he told me to give him a massage. I did everything just because we’re bros still but I’m getting the feeling now he’s trying to own me too. I’ve tried to get my mind off it because I don’t think I’m a beta or submissive, but I admire him because he’s smarter and has my goal phisique and I sort of strive to be like him. Now I’m conflicted in what I’m feeling an urge to not serve but help him but at the same time I thought I was a master so now I’m confused. So I’m not sure how to approach this now and I guess in a way figure out who I am?

Master, thank you for writing in with this important question! 

When I made the major revision in my Hierarchy Pyramid (the pinned post at the top) sometime around 2021 to include an Alpha Hierarchy, many people thought I was splitting hairs between Alphas about qualities that they felt made no real difference. However, time and many experiences like yours have only proven how prescient I was to make those distinctions. There are clearly delineated roles among Alphas, and sometimes those come into sharp relief through the battles you’re experiencing right now.

Master Ray is making power moves against you on multiple fronts; He’s poaching your faggots, he’s humiliating you in the gym, and now he’s getting you to obey his commands to serve him as well.  

What Master Ray is doing is akin to a dog or a wolf marking off territory with their urine. Think about it in those terms, Master. He’s pissing all over your life and claiming it for himself, and you’re allowing him to do it.

This doesn’t not make you a faggot or a beta, Master. But your actions are indicating that you are a lower-level Alpha. If you’re being truthful with me, it doesn’t sound like serving him does anything for you. So ultimately you are serving the greater Alpha hierarchy as a lower-tier Alpha. 

If you want more faggots to serve you, then go claim some more. Obviously faggots are responding to your Alphahood. Just keep them away from Master Ray or have strict rules. If you want to reclaim more of your Alphahood, you need to stop serving him (of course) and start standing up to him. 

You’ve been misplaying this so far, Master. In blunt terms, now’s the time to either put up or shut up.  

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Hey! I’m also a faggot named Sam!

I’m reaching out because I’m really struggling and could use your guidance. I’m a faggot with a micropenis, barely 2 inches hard, and I’m honestly so ashamed of it. I love serving straight alpha guys who probably dont care about my size, which should feel like a relief, but my shame keeps holding me back from fully embracing my submissive side. I’m terrified they’ll notice my tiny dick during play and judge me, even if they’re focused on their own pleasure. It makes me second-guess my worth as a sub, and I end up holding back instead of being the devoted, slutty faggot I want to be. I also want to try things like chastity cages to lean into my role, but I’m too embarrassed to even look for gear that fits because it means facing my size head-on. Worst of all, I don’t know how to come clean about my micropenis to new doms. I feel like I need to warn them upfront, but I’m scared it’ll ruin the vibe or make me seem less desirable, even if they’re not focused on my cock. How do you get past this kind of shame to feel confident as a sub? Any advice on how to be honest with straight doms about my size in a way that’s upfront but keeps the dynamic hot and doesn’t make it a big deal? I’d love to hear how you’d handle this or any tips to own my role despite feeling so insecure. Please help!

Thank you for the question, brother! Although, I must admit it’s an extremely odd one …

I was born with a baby boy penis, too (not technically a micropenis, but close enough), and I guess there was some embarrassment in years 15-17 of my life. I knew I was tiny compared to my straight friends I’d seen naked or the other guys in the locker room at school, but my friends never picked on me about it (we had a mutual friend, a fat guy named Nuge, who had a micropenis and he was always walking around naked – so he asked for the razzing from us).  

When I say there was some embarrassment, it was because I was living a lie during those years and having unsatisfying sex with females.

Of course, at age 17 my world was turned upside down when my Alpha best friend forced me into service, and I never used my penis sexually again. No Alpha I’ve ever been with has ever seriously cared about my penis. I’ve never gotten hard while servicing an Alpha. It’s simply been a NON-ISSUE.

But you’re making an issue out of that non-issue, which is definitely weird. If you’re embarrassed about your micropenis, get a flat-front chastity cage and eliminate it altogether. In fact, doing this will actually attract Alphas to you, because I’ve definitely proven that Men (especially straight Alphas) are fascinated and turned-on in some way at the sight of a sub male who has accepted its truth. 

In other words, your psychological issue is getting in the way of actually serving, which then creates a negative-feedback loop. You need to break that loop, brother. Lock up whatever you have, dress it up as nicely as possible, and embrace it!  

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Hii Sam, I am Asher. Few months ago I asked you about my situation with my uncle and my stepdad. Well here is the update.

As you said I started to do the household chores, even started to do his part of chores, he would like that as it would give him more time to relax. Slowly, I started to do all household chores, cooking, cleaning and he did notice that. There were even days, that I skipped college to do his laundry, as cleaning his undies is more important to me than some lectures.

Finally, one Friday evening, when we were watching T.V. , I told him what I felt. At first I just was confused with words, little panicked then , but  somehow kept cool and told him that I am a faggot and looked upto to him as my Alpha. At first he went silent for a minute, then he spoke. “I always felts you were a bit odd. I mean with your dad leaving, then your stepdad, then mom,  know it has been tough on you. And tbh, I kinda knew you were a beta, did not think of you as a fag, but… ya it is quite good you told this to me.”

He knew the hierarchy and he himself told me that he was an Alpha. In fact, even my stepdad is. I asked my uncle then does he have any fags. He said,” Not now, but I did have fags coming and going for many years. I would use them, get bored and tell them to never be seen again.”

Seriously, it felt so good to come out as fag to uncle. I asked him how does my life change after all. He told me that he won’t force me to do anything as it would be my consent, but I told him that I want to be dominated. He just said me to calm for now.

We had a long discussion and he asked me a lot of things , may of which I instantly said yes to. He said me that I must follow house rules as a good fag or I will be brutally punished.

I will remain naked in the house, take care of all the chores and cooking, massage uncle, eat after uncle, sit on floor and  will be sleeping on a mattress in uncle’s bedroom.

After this, I got naked in front of him and had a boner. My dick ain’t that big or thick. So even my boner is like small. My uncle giggled looking at it and asked if I have seen a thick big cock. I told him only in porn. Then he slowly unzipped his pants, and lowered underwear to showcase his monstrous cock. It had all veins on it and thick as a can. I asked him if I could suck or touch it, but he refused. “You have to earn it”, he said.

He noticed I was constantly touching my dick, so he asked me if I would be comfortable wearing it. I said no for now.

What do you think I should do now?

This is a follow-up to THIS QUESTION from January. 

My brother Asher, it is so nice to hear back from you! Thanks for writing!

I’m very impressed by your bravery! I am so tempted to turn this into a proper thread, because your example is just that important. 

I also really proud that you followed my initial instructions, but then took it several steps further on your own! Nice improvisation! 

It’s really awesome that your uncle recognizes hierarchy and your faggot status (and also identifies as Alpha!), which eliminates huge barriers. Things are going to move fast from here. 

Here’s a bit of advice that you might approach your uncle about: going into chastity. The erection you had was embarrassing and should really be under control, and chastity is the way to accomplish that. Think about it.

Keep me posted! 

Love,

sam the faggot

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Hello sam,

my name is Myriad, a 24 year-old man figuring out my place in this crazy world. Through college I horsed around a lot on Grindr and had the most fun using subs—so I have a high affinity for the way you frame a male hierarchy. At the same time, my college classes were always concerned with equity, being inclusive, and not pigeonholing people as one thing or having one nature (like “being an Alpha” or “being a fag”). I tend to think that’s a good way of viewing people, too. How do I square this theory of male hierarchy with my liberal politics?

Sir, thank you very much for writing to me! 

I can certainly appreciate your difficulty in reconciling liberal beliefs with that of Hierarchy, which wouldn’t seem to be compatible. I’m certainly more liberal than conservative as well. 

But I think we agree that Hierarchy is the ultimate truth of our world. It’s really beyond question. And it really doesn’t involve politics in any way. 

Here’s how I reconcile my feelings, Sir: liberal beliefs are ASPIRATIONAL HOPES rather than reality. For instance, as a nature-lover I wish lions wouldn’t kill elk. In a perfect, liberal world, all of nature would be at peace and no harm would come to anything. But that’s simply not how it’s going to be, right?

You were born Alpha. I was born a faggot. There’s no way you and I are equal aside from a shared perspective. Accepting that truth has liberated me in so many ways, and once my eyes were opened to the truth there was no way I was ever going to turn away from it. I suspect it’ll be the same way with you, Sir.

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Hello, my name is Steven

I’m a faggot, and I have a cousin who is two years younger than me, I don’t think he knows it yet, but he’s an alpha, a straight white alpha. I have the biggest crush on him. We didn’t grow up together and we’ve always lived in different states, his family usually comes to visit once or twice a year. So my question is, if the situation ever presents itself, should I be a good sub faggot for me cousin? or should I try to keep our familial relationship strictly familial?

(I got really hard writing this)

The Faggot, Steven

Thanks for the questions! 

I don’t really like recommending that people pursue family members because of the issues that can sometimes arise from it. However, this cousin is far-enough removed that I don’t know if that would pose an issue as much as simply ever having an opportunity to serve him at all. You don’t really have enough contact with him to be able to work on him mentally. 

But if you happen across him again, just feel him out a little bit. You never know.

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I’m a 24 year old faggot, and I have a slight dilemma.

So I’ve been servicing this Alpha for nearly 2 years now. He likes to take charge both in bed and in  just our daily lives. He keeps the key to my chastity cage and only lets me out every so often for the occasional cleaning while in the shower. I cook for Him, clean for Him and service His needs whenever he wants. He lets me drink His piss, swallow His cum, and He usually will dump a load or two in my ass on the regular in return. He made me get a PA piercing a while back to keep the cage more secure (after a few escape attempts). He doesn’t like it when I ejaculate. He prefers I stay locked and horny so that I can better service Him and make sure He gets to cum a couple times a day. I’ve gotten used to having a constant, underlying feeling of horniness.

The other day He told me that he wants to pay for me to get a vasectomy. He said that the idea of knowing that I’ve lost the ability to reproduce (even though I never would have, otherwise) really turns Him on. He wants me to get a permanent vasectomy so that it can’t be reversed. He says that my libido wouldn’t be affected and that I would still stay as horny as I always do because I would still have my balls producing enough testosterone hormones, but that I simply would not be able to ejaculate sperm. I would become an even more non-man than I already am and would simply reinforce the power dynamics even further. He’s right that I don’t need the ability to reproduce anyway. I guess I’m conflicted. Do I go through with it and let them snip me? Apparently, the procedure is pretty quick and painless and recovery isn’t too difficult. Should I do it, Sam?

Thanks for writing to me, brother! 

Hmmm … I didn’t know there even was such a thing as an irreversible vasectomy. That’s interesting. 

You sound resigned to the fact that you were not born to create and father children, so I don’t really see why you couldn’t go through with the vasectomy. It really just depends on how firmly you believe that truth about yourself. 

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Hi Sam!

My name is Theo and I’ve been reading your blog/page since 2020. I figured out I was gay two years before that and slowly started figuring out my kinks and fetishes and that’s how I came across all of this.

Back then I treated hierarchy as more of a kink really, using it to jerk off to it and just get off. However, slowly I started realizing it’s actually a lot more than just a kink (shocker, I know). I have pretty much struggled with the idea of it for the past few years.

Now, I am 18 and also fresh out of a vanilla leaning, slightly sub/dom relationship. I met the guy through grindr and we hit it off and managed having a really nice relationship, until I started losing feelings. I now realize that me losing feelings was due to the fact that he wasn’t an alpha male. I practically had to beg (to the point of being annoying) for him to dominate me, and even then it was just some low level getting rough during sex. I loved him, truly, but ended up hurting him because I had to end things. We never had the whole fag/hierarchy talk because he was clear that he thought nothing of the whole alpha male concept. There were other indicators that he was pretty beta, but that isn’t too important now.

My issue now is, how do I move from here? I’m almost done with high school, and live in a rather regressive European country. I am planning to move away to Germany in a bit more than a year, for college. During a short recent vacation I found this guy (also on grindr) who I’ve been chatting to. He’s from Berlin. We met up a few times in a short period and parted ways, staying in contact. He is much more dominant than my ex, open to the idea of me being a fag and using me like one. Now the issue still is that I also have quite some romantic tension with him, and I believe he’s into me outside of the alpha/fag dynamic.

I guess my problem would be that I feel like I have to choose, or compartmentalize these aspects of a relationship. I am looking for love and a boyfriend, but I also feel the undeniable fire of faggotry burning in my heart.

Please help me figure this out. I have not always been certain about your teachings and ideas being true, or at least this serious/deep, but I’ve recently realized that they are, so I come to you to ask for guidance.

Keep up this amazing work that you’re doing, you really are showing people things about their own selves that would normally take ages to figure out.

My baby brother, thank you so much for your heartfelt letter! I really think your question is at the heart of many faggots, so there’s no doubt it will help many people! 

First of all – yikes! You were just 13 years old when you started reading my material! I’m keenly aware of the young people traipsing through my websites. I’m grateful that most of them limit their contact with me until they’re of legal age. Contrary to what some dumbfucks in the scene think, I’m not sexually attracted to children and I’m not trying to “corrupt” children. I simply report the truth. 

That said, I know the kids are coming here and there’s nothing I can do to stop them (short of shutting down or putting a paywall around it). So I take my responsibility to teach young people the truth about hierarchy VERY SERIOUSLY and with some amount of gratitude. I’m very grateful to be meeting you finally after all of these years, little brother! 

Now, let’s talk about your issue.

I’m pretty impressed by the number of experiences you’ve packed into your life before age 18. You’ve really been doing a good job exploring both your romantic side and your faggot side, and it’s clear you’ve done a lot of serious thinking about it.

I want you to understand that it is entirely possible to be in a good, affectionate, committed relationship with a Master that owns you as a faggot. I’ve been in them, I’ve covered them here, and I follow them on social media. They do exist. 

I wouldn’t put a lot of pressure on yourself to find a Master/boyfriend right now. You’re very young, and you have plenty of time to explore. It might be a good time to really try to serve strictly as a faggot for a time period so that you can experience that side of yourself. After all, it’s not going away. The relationship is the easy part of this issue … being a good faggot requires discipline and training and focus. Now might be a good time to experiment with chastity and dildo play. Get in touch with your needs as a faggot, so that you’ll be ready when that right Master shows up to take ownership of you and love you. 

I know what I’m saying sounds basic, but really there isn’t much to this. You have a long life ahead, and so many opportunities right in front of you. Be patient, be hopeful, and be wise. You’ll be just fine, I’m sure of it! 

Thank you again for introducing yourself and for the lovely things you wrote, little brother! 

Love,

sam the faggot

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i’m an older faggot that has written you a few times. i’m recently divorced and girlfriend-free and ready to live my real life as a freed faggot. i’ve recently hooked up with a dominant top man, who is bi-sexual, and i like His style of verbal agressiveness when He tells me to suck His cock. He’s got a large cock, and shoots lots of cum…so i like servicing His penis. my question to you, is that i have a chastity cage, currently no key holder, and i’m wondering if i should offer it to Him. i long to be an owned faggot and love the idea of keeping Him stasified, especially since He shoots a large load. He’s got a submissive transsexual m to f who presently serves Him, but she doesn’t like degradation or urine. What are your thoughts about me giving this Alpha Man my chastity? He likes his unclean ass licked and loves to have His piss swallowed, which i will gladly do.

Hi brother! Thanks for the questions!

First of all, congratulations on finally getting free of your  mistaken previous life and embracing the truth! I know it must be liberating for you! 

As far as your question about your Master, OF COURSE you should offer your key to him! I mean, he controls it right now anyway, so why wouldn’t you do that? By giving him the key, your chastity will be more meaningful even if it is only symbolic. 

Do it now!  

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i’m a beta or as you call it, a fag. No doubt about it. A Man mainly uses me for His chores, as sort of a domestic slave. He also makes me pay to do His chores. He also demands me to pay more if i do not do a good enough job at cleaning His place, which tends to be difficult, cause He always finds something and this is draining me financially. Another thing is He once kicked me in the balls and found that so funny, he does so regularly and sometimes even has me hurt my own balls for Him to laugh about. i do worry about this, like, it might hurt them? i also do not particularly like the pain myself, but He seems to love it and i once told him it was not a hard limit. He loves it ever since. But the pain is a lot sometimes. What should i do?

Thanks for your question!

I honestly cannot stand Men like this guy you’re submitting to. They think violence, deception, cruelty, and hate equal dominance or Alphahood. He’s a prototypical Destroyer Alpha. 

I’ve already made my position quite clear: Men like him don’t deserve worship or service. Antisocial misbehavior like his shouldn’t be rewarded with obedience and devoted service. He deserves to be treated like the pig he is. 

You seem like a good faggot. I think you should value yourself and your service more and offer them to better, more deserving Alphas.

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Is it ever to early for a faggot to be put in it’s place? I was 13 when my friends dad started using me. He constantly said that I was faggot and that serving real men was my purpose in life. I accepted my place and love serving superior Men. I personally wouldn’t change a thing but some say that I was to young. My question is was I to young to be shown my place as a faggot?

Thanks for the question! 

Here’s where I get into trouble. You see, humans today have drawn an arbitrary and ever-changing line making ages 17 and under illegal. I abide by that in my own life because I follow the law (as long as I’m not tricked into something illegal). 

But here’s the rub: I’m a student and teacher of hierarchical truth. I can’t ignore that these kinds of situations you describe happen in our world no matter what arbitrary human law says. And there is a hierarchical basis for what happened. 

This friend of your Dad’s recognized what you were at that age. You likely were starting to figure it out, too. As an Alpha, he decided to start your hierarchical training early. And, as you said, you don’t regret it at all. 

I know what I’m saying above sounds bad to the pearl-clutching drama queens out there, but I’m speaking about HIERARCHICAL TRUTH here. That truth doesn’t bow or succumb to the arbitrary laws of temporary human societies. It’s beyond the questions of “right” and “wrong” from our lowly and relatively-stupid standpoints. 

The only question that concerns hierarchical truth is this: does it achieve the desired outcome? In your case, that answer is “yes”. 

So case closed. 

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Hi Sam!

I know you’ve briefly mentioned in some of your podcasts and elsewhere about your experience in prison, but I’ve always been curious to hear more depth to what your lived experience was like inside, especially being a faggot. I haven’t been able to find anything else where you talk about it. If you don’t mind me asking, could I ask how things were for you during that season of your life and how being a faggot either advantaged or potentially disadvantaged you? The following are some questions that usually pop into my head:

1) Did you have to stop wearing a chastity cage? If so, was that hard for you?
2) Did you jerk off at all?
3) Did you service many alpha men while inside? In what ways?
4) Was it common for you to give blowjobs to other guys or let other men breed you for their own release?

5) In your experience, are most men in prison sexually fluid? Straight? Gay? Bi-curious?

6) How did you let other men know you were a sub fag?

I hope you don’t mind me asking those questions. I’ve always wanted to ask them ever since I found out about your time in prison. I would absolutely love to listen to a future podcast about you talking about your experiences. I’d find that fascinating.

Thank you, Sam the fag!

Hi, brother! Thanks for the question! 

It’s funny that you mention this, because I’ve been meaning to flesh out more of my thoughts and experiences from prison/jail. I really just spoke about the experience in large brushstrokes on the podcast, and there’s really so much to say (some of it difficult) that it’s hard to really want to try. But maybe your questions could be a springboard to that.

1. Yes, I had to come out of my chastity cage before reporting to prison. I thought I’d be happy about that, but I was, in fact, quite depressed about it. I felt completely uncomfortable without it on. When I was finally released, one of the first things I did was hurry and find my cage and put it back on! 

2. I did not jerk off at all. 

3. I didn’t service many, just two (as I said in the podcast). I guess I could’ve tried to service more, but I was quite terrified for the longest time because guys move differently in those situations and can be quite dangerous. I was less concerned about getting dick than surviving. But regardless, dick found me and I ended up sucking off two straight Alphas a couple of times.

4. It wasn’t common for anybody in that situation and in minimum security (“prison camp”). Oddly enough, it’s much easier to get regular dick in higher security prisons.

5. They’re almost always straight or straight-presenting. Anyone who wasn’t was a faggot, and there were few of them other than me. My saving grace is my personality and my ability to ingratiate myself wherever I am. 

6. I’m an incorrigible and relentless flirt, always making suggestive comments to “test the waters”. But everybody pretty much knew from the jump that I was a faggot. One of the black Alphas in my “cube” starting calling me a faggot within the first 24 hours I was there (we ended up on fine terms, though). 

I hope I answered your questions well enough! This was kind of fun! 

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Hello Hierarchy Podcast,

my straight Findom (MasterJon15) has asked me to stay chaste and never cum again. I understand that he does not mean involuntary ejaculations f.e. wet dreams.

I know that by controlling my orgasms, my Findom controls my mind. He knows I will beg him to be drained, the hornier I get. He himself has restraint. He will not drain me past a certain limit he sees fit, but he finds it funny when I start sending money against his wishes. When I myself excede my monetary limits, I feel like he starts ignoring me.

Other things apart from Findom he wants me to do, are regular habbits such as Sport, Cleaning, Fasting on Saturdays etc.

I can normaly manage 2weeks without cumming, but after that… My mental restraint isn’t strong enough. I will run to my Findom, he will drain and tease me for hours… he will have me fuck myself the entire time with a dildo… and then send me to bed. He has told me not to cum, while I am fucking myself infront of him. If I manage to fall asleep, the days after that are pure agony. All I can think about is being used. When he ignores me, I send money.

So I end up playing with my cage and cumming.

I want to be a realistic Sub. If my bankaccount ends up in the minus, Im not fit to serve. Thats on me, I need to show more controll.

When I cum inside my cage, I am embarassed and feel shame.

My question is: Should I stay in chasity, but cum inside my cage? Or should I ask my Findom to specify when I am aloud to cum?

Hi brother. Thanks for writing.

I follow MasterJon15 on X, and he’s a pretty abusive straight Master. And from your description of how he’s manipulating you, it sounds like he’s a very clever and talented findom Master. 

My concern is you’ve already disobeyed your Master multiple times, leading to your intense feelings of worthlessness and shame. This becomes a cycle that gets reinforced by masturbation.

Honestly, you need to stop masturbating and stay in chastity. I know that’s not what you want to hear, and I’m sure Master doesn’t want it to change because your addictions mean money for him. 

If I’m answering your direct questions, then I think you should remain caged and cum in the cage.  

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