Hi I think this site is perfect to what this site stands for but it isn’t easy. I’m in my 20s but seem to be attracted to these young muscular frat guys, pretty much only str8 guys thought. Any suggestions, should I become a sissy to seduce them to use me. Any approaches, apps are not my superpower as they are full of older gays, bottoms, and others fems.

*Maybe becoming a cumdump, but it’s not 100% my goal if I service horny guys that are my type,

Thank you for the question!

You can definitely serve younger Alphas! Typically, Alphas discover the service of faggots during one of two phases in their lives: ages 18-22, when they’re young and horny and only care about getting serviced/worshiped …. and in their early thirties, when they finally realize they are not meant to be tied down to one female. So you have two primary targets.

You DON’T seduce straight Alphas by dressing up as a female to fool them. That’s a great way to get your ass kicked completely in.

You seduce them by being submissive, plain-spoken about your purpose (and, alternately, theirs), and making yourself useful in some way. How that happens depends on the circumstances or level of involvement.

Go where these Alphas are. Bars, sporting events, GYMS, etc. And start making yourself useful to them.

I have a book coming that goes into greater detail entitled “How To Seduce Straight Alphas”. It’s currently on pre-order. But regardless, the above outlines the general plan.

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Hi Sam!

I’m an asian faggot who’s new to serving alphas. I started serving this white alpha every few days who really enjoys raceplay. Some of the basic things he’ll make me do include:

• Calling me a chinky fag, both during service and while texting
• Write humiliating things on my body with marker
• Make me verbally proclaim why white men are superior

Now I don’t accept racism, but raceplay with him has been so hot and has made me feel even less important as a faggot, that I feel like I’m better at serving him. I’m thinking of only his wants and needs. He’s told me how both asian girls and fags alike are always so submissive to white men and I just wanted to know what you think about alphas using raceplay to train faggots and why asians are so drawn to raceplay from white men. Thanks Sam!

Thank you for writing, brother!

First of all, I’m very much like you. I’m not racist at all (in fact, I pretty much trend quite anti-racist), but when black Alphas first got me into race play I found it to be exhilarating. I think that feeling comes from both the taboo nature of it, as well as the fact that those black Alphas made me do something against my natural will. I suspect it’s the same for you.

That’s also why I think race play can be an effective tool to train faggots. It forces the faggot to think of itself in relation to other degraded or dismissive minorities, and also forces the faggot to do/say despicable things to further shame it. That said, I really have a love/hate relationship with race play. It just reduces all people to stereotypes that often don’t fit at all.

As far as the attitude of Asians for race play, I probably can’t adequately answer that given I am not Asian. My guess is that Asians do tend to be submissive because of their naturally short, skinny, hairless frames and their falsely-stereotyped tiny penises. There is an insecurity bred into Asians for that reason, and race play pings those insecurities they have.

Ultimately, it’s nonsense. There’s nobody who can make Asian race play jokes around a powerful Asian God Alpha like Master Jace and live to tell about it. Sadly, we humans are broken in myriads of ways.

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brother, new faggot here, after living a lie for years with a woman, I am now 26 and finally embrace my truth and couldn’t be happier. I lost my virginity two weeks ago with my neighbor. He is married to a woman, but he is a really good guy and a powerful Alpha. He does not want any love from me, just my virgin ass when he needs to unload. He treats me really well and it was magic to give him my virginity. but when he cums inside me I keep feeling his cum for hours, sometimes days, last time I farted the next morning after his visit and I could feel cum leaking from my ass. I guess that’s normal, but I wonder if I should douche after he fucks me to clean my hole from his cum again? I don’t want to overdouche, so I don’t know… sorry if that’s a stupid question brother, but I don’t feel comfortable asking this to my doctor who thinks I am straight. Thanks! I love your work and you taught me a lot!

Brother, welcome to the site and thank you for the question!

Congratulations on being claimed by your first Alpha and finding your purpose! I’m proud of you for submitting yourself and admitting to yourself the real truth you’ve been hiding! You sound exhilarated!

Leakage after breeding is, of course, quite normal. Much of it gets absorbed into your bloodstream through the walls of your colon where it does its magic on you. However, some seminal fluid will leak out (especially with large or multiple loads) and that’s perfectly natural. If you want to make sure more of it is absorbed, you can wear a buttplug for a few hours afterward so it doesn’t leak.

I don’t recommend douching after breeding because that defeats part of the purpose of being bred. Also, too much douching can upset the flora and fauna of your intestines. You just want to douche prior to being fucked so that you’re clean for your Alpha, but after he gifts you with his seed you want to keep as much of it inside you as possible. Faggots should treat an Alpha’s cumshot as practically holy, a most intimate gift of superior DNA.

I think you will find that you’ll crave his cum more and more as he continues to breed you. That’s the magical effect of cum on the minds of fucked faggots!

I hope that answers your question! Again, welcome to the site and thanks for reaching out!

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Sam, I sent you a message a month ago about my Jamaican Alpha… do u remember me??

I respectfully asked him if he could prepare my hole and he was very nice to me. He told me to buy three dildos (small, medium, and large). The biggest one had 18 cm, but his cock is 22 cm. He said that he did that on purpose because he wanted me nice and tight for him. I trained for around 10 days, following step by step what he told me. Then I went to his apartment, wearing a big plug, and I was really scared, brother. I sucked him for a long time, and when he said “I’m gonna fuck you now”, I almost tried to run away, but I remained there to fulfill my destiny. He has so much experience, it was really great to be manhandled by such an experienced Alpha. He held me with his hands positioned me on his lap and told me to go down as much as I could. I only took one third of his cock. But he was really good to me when I said I couldn’t go deeper than that. He just held my hips and banged me with the tip of his cock (which is already a lot lol). He came, bred me, and I relaxed my hole for two days before he banged me again. And what matters the most: he said that I am really good boy and he’s proud of me!

I also want to say that I read the message of the Alpha with a 5-inch girthy dick and I want to say to him: MASTER, I DON’T KNOW YOU BUT YOU ARE A LUCKY MAN!! Really, I wish my Alpha had a 5-inch dick, my life would be soooo much easier. Specially if he wants to fuck and breed virgin faggots, this cock size is just great. But that’s alright, I am a fag, and my duty is to accept whatever my Man has to me, I just wanna say that my poor virgin ass would’ve suffered so much less if my master had a dick this size. And by the way, I have just seen one cock my whole life, but 5 inches with 6 inches of girth is huge! I couldn’t be able to close my right hand holding his cock. I know you already said that my brother Sam, but I just wanted to give my opinion as a young faggot who has just been fucked and bred by a enormous cock.

I love you brother!! <3 I am happy with my Man and thanks to you I am working hard to become a better fag for him.

This is a follow-up to THIS QUESTION.

Yes, little brother … of course I remember you!

I’m glad that your giant-dicked Master had some mercy on you and helped you to develop your ability to please him! It really speaks to the quality of your Master as well as your true desire to be a successful faggot! An Alpha’s reaction to challenging circumstances reveals what’s in his heart, so when your Master didn’t just shove his dick into you and force you to take it all, it demonstrates a wisdom and benevolence on his part! He is definitely an Alpha worth serving!

But your dedication to training in order to please him to the best of your ability reveals what a good faggot you are, too! Your Master sees that, and that’s why he reassured you with commendation by calling you a “good boy”. He’s pleased by what he sees in you as a prized, valuable possession. He sees the desperation in your face as you struggle to please him, and that satisfies him in a way that can’t be measured in orgasms, if you understand what I mean.

I’m really proud of you, little brother! Keep up the good work! Love you!

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Hey Sam, this is the thick cock alpha again, you can call me just Thick Alpha if you want.

I wanna thank you for your message. I guess I was a little nervous because I heard a woman saying that girls like thick cocks, but gays like  thinner long cocks, because when it’s thick it’s good for pussies, but painful for the ass. I am sure I will fuck and breed girls at college, but I really wanna fuck faggots too. But your opinion made me feel better. To be honest, I have no contact with fags at all, just a few I met online, but still I have never had the chance to actually talk to a fag about how you guys like to be fucked, what feels good, etc. I guess I just have this internal fear of finally going to college, finding a sweet twink for me to breed, and the the fag looks at my cock and 1) finds it too short, or 2) even worse, doesn’t mind the length but is scared of taking my cock balls deep because of my girth. You know, my city doesn’t even have a supermarket, everything I know about sex comes from porn and now from your website. I might be just overthinking… I’ll focus on getting lots of lube and hopefully in a few months I will be opening up the holes of all the fags and the girls I have been dreaming of.

I am just rambling now, sorry. But I’d really appreciate if I could keep sending you updates. Thank you very much, Sam.

Thick Alpha

This is a follow-up to THIS QUESTION.

Thank you for writing back! I’m glad you feel better about things now, Sir!

You have much to be proud of, Sir. You’re a natural-born Alpha, you’re intelligent, dominant, and eager to explore! Your Alpha buddies consider you to be Alpha and follow you, so they obviously sense the truth of it!

I think it’s just going to take practice to learn how to properly handle the girth of your endowment and how best to satisfy your own needs while making it somewhat pleasurable for the females/fags you claim. It’s all a matter of getting in there and trying. Thank goodness you’re getting away from that tiny little town and getting a chance to fly!

And yes, I hope you do write back, Sir! Thank you!

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Hi, Sam,

I’ve been lurking for a few years, but I thought I’d finally send something in.  The link (below) from The New York Times made me think of what you’ve been preaching:  The bird Bruce overcoming his “disability” and taking his rightful place as the alpha among his fellow keas: getting to eat first, for example. No matter what, an alpha will show his true colors, I guess!

I was struck by this passage:

After enjoying a meal, Bruce permits lower-ranked males to preen his feathers and clean his bottom beak. “And when Bruce is done, he’ll give a kick or a little joust to say, ‘Right, that’s it, I’m done,’”

I know I’m certainly not an alpha, and seeing the description of even a bird’s alpha-ness aroused me.

Keep up the good work,

Tony

Thank you for writing to me!

Tony is referring to THIS ARTICLE about Bruce the parrot that appeared in The New York Times. It’s a pretty fascinating article, honestly, and it really demonstrates a truth about hierarchy that encompasses all of nature.

One thing we can say about nature, it is incredibly organized. We humans are often too arrogant or too idiotic to notice, but from the microscopic to the macroscopic, everything has order. One only has to look at the building-block constructions of RNA molecules to the tireless, scent-controlled activities of ant colonies to the graceful wheeling of distant galaxies to appreciate that harmonious order.

Hierarchy is the ultimate form of order, the First Law of all natural societies.

The story of Bruce the parrot exerting his natural Alphahood despite his disability demonstrates how ingrained these roles are in our DNA. Bruce has a brain the size of a sunflower kernel, but he still recognizes that he rules the roost – and so do the other parrot challengers to his throne (perch?).

I laughed a little when the article discusses how the other parrots groomed Bruce and served his needs until he dismissed them, much like faggots serving their Alphas or beta males attempting to curry favors from their superiors. These roles are ingrained in them, and cannot ever be changed.

But the hierarchy the story describes is more important than individual roles. It defines our society. It provides a framework for purpose, just the way a worker bee ceaselessly toils at his gifted role until he finally collapses. It’s all part of a machinery much larger and more complex than our minds – caught within its Matrix – can ever comprehend!

Thank you, Tony, for sharing such a wonderful article with me!

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Hi Sam,

I remember seeing more than one version of the “What is Cunting” video a while ago. I was wondering if you still have that or if you could point me in the direction of where I could find it.

Also, do you have any plans for more instructional videos like that one or the “What is a Faggot” video? I love them. So informative and helpful for us fags.

Thank you!!!

Thank you for writing in!

Very good memory! There was an original version of the “What Is Cunting” video! The only difference between it and the final version is the concluding bit of video showing the aftermath of a faggot being cunted that I found after the fact.

Here is that video, which I’ve incorporated into the right sidebar as well.

I’ve always had plans (and even scripts written) for videos like “What Is An Alpha?” and “What Is Hierarchy?”, but TIME is the constant enemy. It’s especially true these days as I attempt to build my own large company.

For fun, here is the “What Is A Faggot?” video as well:

Thanks again for writing!

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Hi, I’m 18 and haven’t fucked yet. I live in a small town, but I am going to college in a major capital full of nightclubs, parties, and thousands of whores and faggots. I am not sure if I am bisexual but I do love fags and love to jerk off to fag/femboys porn. I found your site 2 days ago and I just spent hours and hours learning about hierarchy. You have one more reader now, fag.

My hard cock is 5.2-inch long and 6.2-inch thick. I have two best friends and their cocks are longer than mine, but mine is WAY thicker than theirs. But I have only seen 3 cocks in my whole life, including mine. Looking online, I learned that 5.2 is unfortunately slightly below the average, but 6.2 seems to be thicker than the average. My first question for you is: is my cock really thicker than the average?

My second question for you is: does a thick cock feel good when a man is pounding you? I know that fags are not supposed to feel pleasure, but I want my future fags to feel good when I breed them, so I wanna know if girth feels better than length, or if it’s just painful. Most importantly, I wanna fuck virgin fags around my age when I get to college, but I will be in competition with other Alphas with bigger, but probably thinner, cocks. Is my girth a good atribute to attract girls and fags?

I would be happy to hear anything you have say about this. I don’t have a lot of self-esteem issues and in general I am pretty confident, but I guess that watching Alpha cocks in porn does not help. Thank you.

Sir, thank you so much for writing to me!

What an exciting time for you, Sir! You’re finally going to be free of the small-town lifestyle and experience the wide world destined to be yours! I think you’ll be truly stunned by your power and the breadth of what’s available to you!

As far as cock size is concerned, I’ve always maintained the same stance: cock size does NOT determine Alphahood. Anybody who judges you or any Man for the size of their dick simply has no real understanding of power.

Technically, your dick might be imperceptibly shorter than average. That means nothing. Length is not that important. I guarantee you that I could stick the entire length of a broom handle in my ass and it wouldn’t affect me the same as a simple beer can.

But to answer the other part of that question, yes, your dick is MUCH thicker than average and is guaranteed to open up females and faggots in ways they will never forget! You should be proud of the battering ram between your legs, Sir!

As far as pleasing partners, of course you will please them, Sir! Just be sure to use a lot of good lube (probably silicone-based unless you’re using condoms). Go slow until you get them accommodated to your girth. Your thick cock will probably be perfect for cunting faggots, too, because you’re likely to hit the prostate more consistently.

Your journey reminds me of an Alpha virgin who was graduating high school and concerned about the size of his cock. He reached out to me on social media and I gave him similar advice to what I’ve said above. A year later I heard from him and he owns multiple faggots in college and doing very well. I think you’ll be exactly the same, Sir!

Keep me posted!

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Hi Sam, it’s been a while. I started dating this guy named Sani Real name he’s this really nice big black guy and I love him to death dearly and I know he loves me too, but every other alpha top I’ve been with you know what at least they were open and willing to suck my dick, but this guy just won’t and I’m getting really depressed and their times when I want to hurt him and times when I wanna hurt myself I fell through the ice a long time ago I got permit shrinkage on my cock. I went from 6 1/2 nice an average down to a three and it fucking pisses me off.

I know he’s my alpha. I know that OK it’s not his job, but you know what I would like to feel fucking respected for once and not having to ask you know just once I’m sure a lot of us would love it if our alpha would actually if they actually genuinely loved us actually would love to suck our dick because you know what sometimes I think you’re hierarchy bullshit is a whole well that’s just it. I think it’s bullshit sometimes.

I’m sorry I don’t mean to take it out on you, but it’s the God’s honest truth and my antidepressants make me really fucking blunt just once I would like to encounter a top that likes to suck dick as well whatever happened to those guys

Thank you for the question/rant!

I don’t know who this is, but congratulations on the new relationship! I’m sorry it doesn’t sound totally fulfilling for you, though. But the problem isn’t with him … it’s with YOU.

It all comes down to unrealistic and/or selfish expectations.

Everybody wants to be with an Alpha, but Alphas are NOT like other Men. They almost always want completely submissive people (females and faggots) who cater to them and/or worship them. Subs they can train. Subs they can use.

Alphas are rarely interested in things like sucking a faggot’s dick, especially if they’re bisexual and leaning straight. No amount of whining or demands will make him change his NATURE. You’re going to get dismissed before that ever works.

And frankly, I think he should dismiss you. I’m mortified by your attitude. No faggot should EVER have such a self-serving perspective, nor should they ever throw such childish fits like this.

Let me tell you the truth: Hierarchy is very real. It’s not a joke, It’s not “bullshit”. And no matter how many hissy fits you throw, nothing is going to change it. Hierarchy is inescapable.

So either get your mind focused, or find a new direction in life.

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“He stood up right next to me, positioned Gio on his knees right next to Mario, and Gio started sucking him just like Mario was doing on my cock. But then Lorenzo grabbed my ass, kissed my neck, touched my hole with his fingers and said “enjoy it brother, but don’t forget who is the King here”. Fuck, I almost came in Mario’s mouth listening to Lorenzo’s deep voice while he touched my hole and his boyfriend gave me such a nice head. And I am not embarrassed to admit it. I wonder what it might mean from a hierarchical standpoint… “

Sam, when an Alpha touches another Alpha’s hole, as Lorenzo did to Jose is it a dominant role they’re establishing? I am an older Alpha and I have had this work for me in the past. A young Alpha who always wanted a locker close to mine at the gym was always getting in my way. Finally one day I had had enough and I put my hand on his bare ass to move him out of the way. As I was guiding him over my finger slipped into his crack and came to rest on his hole. At first he was bristling but when my finger touched his hole he melted into a submissive respectful person and has shown proper respect since.

Have you noticed this with other Alphas over the years?

Thank you.

KJ

Thank you for writing to me, Sir!

The passage you quoted came from the most recent update from Master Jose after his latest visit with Master Lorenzo in Brazil. That post can be found RIGHT HERE.

Your experience is most interesting Sir, mainly because I think it’s telling how you had an instinct to do that with one of your Alpha brothers, and then he responded properly as a lesser Alpha. Ordinarily Alphas show some amount of deference and respect to the other members of their Alpha fraternity. But, in this case, you felt the need to “discipline” him slightly by refocusing his mind on his proper place!

The incident also reveals just where you are in my Alpha pyramid, Sir! It must’ve made you feel great to be subsconsciously obeyed in that manner! I’m glad it registered with you, because that means you’ve been paying attention to the way Alphas move beneath you for many years! You’re an Alpha who reads my descriptions of Alpha hierarchy and you get it because you live it.

I have definitely chronicled similar behaviors among Alphas in the past, but most notably with God Alpha Master Lorenzo and Master Chad. I’m sure Master Jose will be comforted and encouraged when/if he reads your account, Sir. A lesser Alpha is still Alpha, and born superior to faggots like me. These kinds of moments merely serve as hierarchically-defining triggers, and not a definition of a whole Man.

I must tell you that I’ve been running this site daily for almost eleven years now, and I still discover new facets of Alpha behavior and psychology!

Thank you so much for sharing this experience with me, Sir!

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I have this memory of a podcast episode where the Alpha goes up to piss and you can hear it all I’ve been looking for for awhile but I can’t find it does it exist?

Thank you for the question!

I was sure I had a podcast episode dedicated to piss … but upon searching the archives not only on the site, but also in my personal data vault, I can’t find one anywhere! I’m honestly baffled by this. I have a lot to say about the importance and power of piss, so it seems impossible after all this time that I haven’t dedicated at least one episode to piss!

Believe me, I’m rectifying that! Next episode is hereby dedicated to piss!!

Thank you for helping me discover this egregious error!

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Hey Sam,

I saw the recent post an Alpha made about domestic service and I wanted to share my own experiences. I don’t know how much of this is fully applicable, but when I was in college I was doing homework for some Alphas– one of them even let me do his laundry sometimes.

I’ve since had to find some online Alphas to help with work. I’ve taken notes on lectures, written essays, made presentations, and just generally have made myself available to Alphas who need a break from work or maybe a free tutor to help with some assignments. I try to help them learn too, so they can still get something out of the assignment beyond the grade, but it feels really good to just make a man’s life easier.

Sure it can be kind of boring sometimes, especially when they just drop an assignment on me and move on, but it feels good to work on something, especially for my betters.

Thank you for writing!

I love how my audience immediately responded after that Master wrote in about the lack of domestic fag content here! I’ve been approached by multiple fags about their experiences since just last night!

Whenever fags tell me they can’t find any Alphas to serve, there’s a part of me that rolls my eyes and I think, “You’re either not trying, or you have the wrong attitude about your purpose.” Fags that complain about that simply mean they couldn’t find an Alpha to serve SEXUALLY, but there are other, possibly less glamorous ways to serve.

Domestic service is a primary one fags overlook. Look, cleaning floors and toilets might not be as thrilling as getting throat fucked or bred, but the sense of accomplishment can be similarly orgasmic! I really love the way you stated it, brother: “it feels really good to just make a man’s life easier.” EXACTLY!

True submission requires us to place our own comforts, hopes, desires, and even needs aside in favor of serving those of a superior Man. You epitomize that ethos, my brother! I’m proud of you!

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You need to spend more time talking and espousing the importance of domestic faggotry. I had two domestic faggots during my college years and they were helpful in keeping my apartment clean getting general shit done for me. As I have aged (30s now), I’m finding that the fags I encounter are less likely to be interested in domestic faggotry. I’m inspired by the story of Josh and his wife pursuing this avenue as it’s very useful in life. It would certainly save me money if I could stop paying my cleaning lady and get a fag to do it instead. Sam, you need to push this aspect of faggotry more in order to enhance our lives to the fullest extent possible.

Master, thank you for writing to me!

Domestic service is something I preach often here on the site. No, I don’t cover it more than sexual service, but that’s mainly because there is so much more sexual content to use for teaching than domestic service.

I LOVE serving as a domestic faggot. Of course, my times as a domestic faggot typically came as a live-in for straight Masters who were also using me sexually (and occasionally financially). There’s something so emotionally satisfying about taking care of an Alpha’s personal life and affairs. I took great pride in my work, whether it was changing bedsheets every day, creating satisfying meals, or even making sure my Master’s toilets were immaculate. Domestic service is the one function of a faggot that is completely selfless, because the faggot expends itself completely without any hope of physical pleasure or reward.

I know the faggots reading this site come here mostly for selfishly masturbatory reasons, and that’s a problem. But I do know that some of the domestic faggots I’ve covered here have received high praise and lots of curiosity. One such faggot is Chadwick, an older faggot who never stopped trying to be useful to Alphas. You can read about Chadwick’s inspirational story by CLICKING HERE!

In the short instructional video I made entitled “What is a faggot?” I discuss domestic faggots to some degree as well.

So I assure you, Master, I am covering it and want to cover it more. I appreciate the reminders and encouragement!

Thank you for writing, Master!

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Hi sam,

Bit of a messy situation. I’ve been with my straight alpha for 4 years. We met on Instagram, but I fly out to see him a few times a year.

For the first 2 years, we messaged pretty much every day and I became something of an emotional pillar for him. We agreed on exclusivity, and I’ve been his fag ever since. I’m only allowed to serve and talk to him. It’s VERY intense, but being long-distance comes with challenges.

In recent years, his career has taken off and he only messages me maybe 3 times a week. I’ve brought this up, and he says he cares about me, but he’s busy and this is just how things are.

Truth is, I’m having a very difficult time. Ownership has made me dependent on him. I feel like my emotional needs aren’t being met, and most of my time is spent isolated and alone. Any tips on how to resolve this? Or should I ask to end exclusivity?

I REALLY like him, and he’s even indicated he wants to keep me after he marries his girl. I just with things could go back to how they used to be.

Thanks.

Thank you for writing to me, brother!

Congratulations for serving a straight Master for four years, especially given that it’s been almost an entirely remote relationship. It’s commendable, and it certainly speaks well of both you and your Master that you’re both loyal, genuine people!

I’m afraid you’ll need to accept the situation as it is unless there is a radical shift in the life of one of you. He’s a straight Alpha who is now focusing on his new career, and likely doing a fair amount of fucking and partying as well. Meanwhile, you are far away. Friends online don’t last for four years, let alone a straight Alpha and a faggot.

You seem very loyal, brother, and I feel for you. Most fags (including me in my younger days) would’ve just found someone else to serve by now and just lie to their Masters. However, I’ve seen straight Alphas become very attached and even choose their fags over females simply because of their fag’s loyalty and self-sacrifice. Which one is your Master? I have no idea.

I think it might be beneficial to talk to your Master in the most humble and submissive way about how you need training and guidance that he doesn’t have the time for, and ask him if he thinks you should find a local Alpha to serve and train you. Emphasize that you want to do this so you might be a better faggot in the future for him.

By doing that, you’re showcasing two things I’m sure he’s not considering (or even understanding):

1. Faggots need constant training and use to improve

2. Faggots want this training. It’s like water to a plant.

I’m sure at this point your Master just looks at this like a fetish, but by telling him these things he might understand that faggots are real and valuable and, like any other valuable thing in an Alpha’s life a faggot needs to be tended to.

I’d try that and see how he responds.

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I’m curious why you don’t recommend random cocksucking for younger unowned faggots. Isn’t that part of a faggot’s purpose? I feel like it’s great practice for the faggot, and also a great way for men to get used to the ease and pleasure of using a faggot. Kneeling for a man, or a group of men, can be such a wonderful experience too.

Thank you for writing!

I’ve never discouraged faggots from having their slutty periods during which they suck everything they can. After all, I did that for a few years myself. I definitely learned a lot about my purpose from indiscriminately sucking dick randomly week after week, but in my heart I eventually yearned to be owned. Fortunately that happened, and I received deep personal training to make me a better faggot. Random cocksuckers don’t receive this. I think that’s why I always want to recommend true service to a Master, because the training I received was invaluable.

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Hi Sam. I hope you’re having a wonderful day/evening. I wanted to ask how do I make my straight alpha friend become my master? Me and him have been friends for a few years now and I really want him to my master. He’s not fully aware I’m a faggot, but he knows I like kinky things. I’ve been trying to gauge how he feels about these certain things by making “jokes,” like paying to smell his feet, but I don’t know how to further push it without just admitting it to him. I’m just scared it would drive him away if I came on too strong, but I’d really like him to be my master. What is the best way to get the point across? Thank you for your help in advance!

Thank you for writing!

First of all, there is no way to “make” your straight Alpha friend do anything. There are techniques you can try to arouse his dominance, but to my knowledge there is no hypnosis technique for this! Believe me, I wish there was!

So let me get this straight: you’ve made jokes about paying him to smell his feet, and it didn’t register at all? That’s odd, although I suspect that he’s started to turn questions over in his mind.

Given that I don’t know how old you both are, or what your situation is (do you spend a lot of time together alone, etc.), my advice is limited. But my primary recommendation is to print out my “Letter To An Alpha” and humbly, submissively give it to him to read. It’s designed to gently bridge the gap between a straight Alpha and a faggot. Or, you can do something I often recommend, which is to ask him if he considers himself to be Alpha. Depending on his answer, you can lead him to a discussion of Hierarchy. You could even tell him you came across this site and it made you curious about his thoughts on hierarchy.

You obviously need to engage him more specifically. These are the steps I think you should take, brother.

Keep me informed!

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Hello Sam,

I hope you are doing well! After being a cocksucker for an alpha throughout my Senior Year, I’ve accepted I’m a faggot now at 18. However, I’m really sad. My alpha, Adam, has basically thrown me away after getting a new girlfriend. He was the first guy I ever sent to, and the only guy I ever sucked too. I’m really depressed now cause I really liked him, and none of the other guys at my high school know I’m a faggot. I’m wondering should I try to convince him to let me his faggot again, or should look for a new guy to serve? I don’t want to be disloyal to him, but I don’t think he wants me anymore. I really don’t know what to do anymore.

Sincerely,
Mark

Brother, thank you for writing!

I’m so sorry to hear about what happened with you and your first Alpha! I know exactly what you’re going through, because your story is EXACTLY what happened between me and my first Alpha, Roger. He turned me into his cocksucker for our final year of high school, but then he fell in love with the girl he would eventually marry, so he dismissed me.

I didn’t handle it well at all. I embarrassed myself a couple of times after my dismissal. I remember one humiliating night when I tracked him down at his girlfriend’s family’s BBQ to confront him and tearfully begged to speak with him, completely confusing everyone except Master Roger, who was enraged.

I’m sure that kind of behavior sounds unbelievable from me now given what you know about me and my principled approach to my faghood these days, but I was just a fresh new faggot suddenly alone with a fresh new purpose that I didn’t know how to apply in my life. I was scared, deeply sad, and hopelessly adrift.

You might recognize your own feelings in what I wrote above, baby brother. If so, then you’re on the right track.

It’s okay to feel panicked, run over, and crumpled up like trash. As faggots, we have those kinds of moments as we fulfill our purpose. The sad emptiness you’re experiencing now steels you and trains your heart so you can become stronger and more purposeful.

I resented Master Roger for years after it happened, but I was wrong. As a straight Alpha, he was merely following instinct. Owning a faggot was simply too much to handle while trying to navigate a serious other relationship with his future wife. It’s the same with your former Master, too.

My lowest point in this entire episode of my life came when I tearfully confronted him outside his house late one night. He was trying to explain that he loved her and wanted to be with her. “But what about ME??” I cried.

Then came a response I didn’t expect from him: “What about you?”

In that moment, my entire purpose as a faggot crystallized. I realized that faggots are ultimately expendable and replaceable. We don’t fit neatly or cleanly into the lives of straight Alphas. And if we are going to serve them, then we must be prepared to have our hearts torn apart, too.

In other words, the pain you feel is justified and real, but it’s serving a purpose within your heart.

After my dismissal, I went on a wild 3/4 year tear of hard partying and lots and lots of random cocksucking. I don’t recommend that path, brother, but I understand it if you do. We all react to pain in different ways. I chose to numb it with alcohol/drugs/casual sex. I hope you choose a different, kinder path for yourself, because you deserve it, sweetheart.

In the end, everybody gets their heart broken at some point. Eventually, we get back up and go find new adventures. As a faggot, you get to have wilder adventures than others, a life enriched by living entirely with purpose as a guiding light!

Don’t be afraid. Be excited by what can happen now!

But most of all, be grateful to your first Master, Adam. He taught you about your purpose … and by saying goodbye he’s giving you a chance to live it.

I love you, little brother!

Always,

sam the faggot

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Hi Sam,

I came across your profile recently on X when researching about alphas and have been reading a bit about how hierarchy works and your posts, but still have a lot to learn about it as I just started looking into it. Recently, I had a meetup with a DL guy for a quick hookup to give him head and let him nut in me. When we met up he asked if it was okay to do some roleplay saying he liked went he was in control and I agreed since I liked being more submissive anyway. It started off simple just him telling me to appreciate his body and muscles before facefucking me which I really enjoyed. However, it took a turn when I tried to move my mouth away from his dick he grabbed me by the hair and said something like “did I tell you to stop faggot?” and slapped me on the face. I was really shocked for a moment but realized it got me hard when he forced me down. I’m guessing since I didn’t say anything he just went with it and eventually had me kneeling, saying I could only call him sir, making me say thank you every time I touched him, and even giving me a wedgie when I wasn’t listening to him. I’ve never had this experience before but I can’t deny I was aroused and at the end he asked if I was okay saying he gets caught up in it, but only continued since I seem to enjoy it. I agreed and said I never had this happen to me but for some reason I enjoyed it and like being told what to do.  I ended up driving him back to his place and we had a really nice conversation just about what we study and what we like, which was so different than his dynamic earlier. It was honestly just a very wholesome talk that I wasn’t expecting and since all. of that happened I’ve been looking into more hierarchal aspects and that’s how I found you? My main thing currently is things are moving really fast as he said he wants to meet up again and while I enjoyed it 100% and have thought about it a lot, it’s a big step forward and Idk how to really approach it ig? Just trying to figure out everything has been a whirlwind of emotions and Idk if you just have any advice on just how to approach literally any part of this bc I just have so many unknowns right now that Idk what to ask.

Thank you for writing!

Yes, it’s a huge moment when one discovers they are, in fact, a faggot! Your experience mirrors mine in some ways. My first Alpha pushed me down and throat fucked me before claiming me. And, like you, I had something of an “Alice in Wonderland” moment where everything I thought I knew about my life was flipped upside-down. I wasn’t just a gay boy, or even a submissive gay boy. I am a faggot.

And that made all the difference.

The first way you approach this is to fully commit to serving Men, and this new Alpha in particular. He’s making a claim of ownership on you and wants to keep using you, so you should be obedient to that. It sounds to me like this Alpha knows more than you do about hierarchy, and obviously understands what you’re supposed to do. He’s already taught you some valuable truths about yourself, and I think he wants to keep training you. These are all very good things.

The reason why you 100% enjoyed everything you experienced with him is because you ARE a faggot, so there’s no reason to question it any longer. The only real task before you is how quickly you can assimilate your new purpose into your refashioned old lifestyle.

I’d start going through the vast resources on this site, particularly the “Advice for faggots” section.

Just know you are far from alone. You’re going through something every faggot goes through … just be glad you have the information that many faggots in the past never did!

I also advise you to join the Hierarchy University Discord (CLICK HERE). The fellowship of other faggots and the many resources within will help you as well!

I hope it helps!

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Hi, I love your blog and reading about all of the masters and fags in the world.
I am a 35 year old gay man who is happily married to a 35 year old gay man. We are monogamous and have been married for 10 years, together for 15.
I want your advice. I am naturally submissive in the bedroom and want to serve my husband more sexually. He is very reluctant and is very focussed on mutual sexual satisfaction whereas I want him to not care about me and just focus on him getting off.
he is a bit of a prude and won’t really talk about sex stuff so I am hoping that you have some advice on how I can start to subtly support him to become more of a master than a husband.
any advice you can give would be greatly appreciated. Thanks in advance.
Daniel

Daniel, my brother … thank you for the question!

I’ve had some success helping faggots with this very issue, but there are usually only three solutions:

1. You follow my advice and it eventually works to bring out an inner dominance in the partner, or

2. The fag partner is allowed to find a Master outside the relationship to serve, or

3. The fag partner just accepts that his partner is not dominant and this is the life it must lead.

From what you described about your partner, I don’t have much confidence that my advice will work. He sounds quite beta to me, but even worse is the fact that he’s fallen for the false, politically-correct doctrine of equality. He seems like he’s comfortable having a polite little gay relationship with you.

Regardless, my advice for this is the same. Start calling him “Sir”. Start serving him like a faggot, taking care of the house, the meals, serving him the meals, bringing him drinks and snacks, and generally being very submissive. Rub his feet. Kiss his feet. Sit at his feet. Compliment him often. During sex, it must be altered to cater only to his pleasure. Beg him not to suck your penis. Become a ravenous, submissive slut for him.

You need a quantum shift in the current dynamics, and this is what I’m suggesting. You need to crack open that safe cocoon he’s wrapped himself in, and find out if there’s anything else inside.

If there isn’t, then I’m afraid you’re essentially left with the other two options.

The sad truth is that most Men are not Alphas, and getting bogged down in a relationship with a beta male is suffocating for faggots.

I really hope there’s a better outcome here, brother!

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Hi Sam!

thank for all that you do for the hierarchy and helping us fellow faggots be at our best in service to the incredible Men in the world.

To that point, I’ve recently been serving this very beefy and strong Alpha from the gym. He, of course, noticed my clit cage (thanks for the recommendation to shamelessly put it on display in the locker room!) and has been fucking my pussy about twice a week. It’s all a faggot could ask for except he refuses to use any lube other than what I coat his dick with from him face fucking me or the spit he adds along the way (very little). He does have me suck his dick multiple times while breeding my pussy (gladly!) but it really leaves my cunt sore for days after.

I basically never feel like it fully recovers before he’s balls deep in my pussy again with just a bit of spit to pound away almost instantly (he pistons in and out so hard and fast that the spit seemingly disappears in seconds).

I’ve asked, even begged for him to use some lube but the only thing accepts is more spit and throat slime from me gagging on his 8-9” cock.

Am I being too demanding or selfish, Sam? Or should I try another approach like pre-lubing? Think he might get pissed if he finds out though.

all thoughts appreciated!

thanks,

houston

Thank you for the question!

I just had a very similar question recently … what’s the deal with these Alphas not using lube? I mean, I get not liking condoms, but lube just makes things easier.

But I think that’s really the point. These Alphas (like yours) WANT it to hurt you. It makes them feel more powerful when your pussy is stretched and fucked raw. They like the screams and the writhing.

This is just a reality we faggots must handle if we are to fulfill our duties.

However, I think you should try pre-lubing in the hope that he will not mind too much. Do whatever you can to deal with it, unless you think you can approach him and beg him to allow the use of lube. There just aren’t many easy solutions to this issue, brother.

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