Hi Sam, I’m a 25 y/o fag from Vancouver, Canada.

I listened to your podcast episode on BNWO, and have been messaging with a few black doms.

One sent me a link to a club with a $250 membership. Is this real or a scam? Most ask for a $100 tribute. Idk help pls.

Thanks for writing!

Well, like I said in the podcast episode you mention, I warned against these BNWO groups. They seem to be organized solely to cash rape faggots and maybe do something harmful to them. I have yet to get a good feeling from any of them. Each one that has approached me comes on like a clumsy salesman, only to then pivot to the pitch for these clubs.

Within the last couple of weeks I got into a DM discussion with one of the black Alphas running one of those BNWO groups, and he really didn’t like my accusations against them. Even more concerning is the fact that I have yet to hear anything positive about these groups from any fags that have experienced it.

I highly recommend that you stay away from them.

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Sam as a fag that’s new had this question. As far as sexually can a slave get fucked daily and more then once with no days breaks. A Master it’s considering submitting to was told that when its collared property and living with Master that is one of Masters expectations as a live in owned slave. Is that possible to become that used daily ? There’s on thimg to resonate with it and living it and it. Is Master jerking off is this more fantasy then can be a reality sexually ?

Thank you for writing, brother!

This is a pretty exciting development for you! I’m happy that this is happening, even though I can sense your nervousness!

What this Master is suggesting is quite normal. Alphas are natural-born breeders, and they want their holes available whenever they need it. Of course, a hole needs recuperation time, too, so you should ask your Master for rest periods when you can service him orally. Any Master worth serving will have the wisdom and empathy to take this into consideration. I would be concerned about any Alpha who refuses that request or doesn’t care about the health of his faggot.

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Pozdrav svima,

imam 52 godine, dolazim iz Hrvatske i trenutno nisam u vezi. Zainteresiran sam za pronalazak pravog dominantnog gazde s kojim bih mogao uspostaviti iskren, dugoročan i intenzivan BDSM odnos temeljen na povjerenju i mojoj potpunoj podložnosti.

Budući da sam stariji i dolazim iz zemlje gdje takve zajednice nisu toliko razvijene, volio bih dobiti savjete ili iskustva kako i gdje najefikasnije pronaći dominantnog muškarca koji cijeni i traži submisivnog, feminiziranog muškarca poput mene.

Koji su najbolji pristupi, platforme ili strategije za upoznavanje i izgradnju takvog odnosa?

Unaprijed hvala na svim savjetima!

Hello everyone,

I am 52 years old, I come from Croatia and I am currently single. I am interested in finding a real dominant boss with whom I could establish a sincere, long-term and intense BDSM relationship based on trust and my complete submission.

Since I am older and come from a country where such communities are not so developed, I would like to get advice or experiences on how and where to most effectively find a dominant man who appreciates and seeks a submissive, feminized man like me.

What are the best approaches, platforms or strategies for meeting and building such a relationship?

Thanks in advance for all the advice!

Thank you for writing!

I assume you’re in Croatia, and Croatia is not exactly gay-friendly. So I think you have an uphill battle to find someone to serve unless you happen to know a dominant Man in your personal life.

I don’t know if you access to Grindr, Recon, or TheBlowers.com in your country. Those are good resources to find someone looking around in secret.

I wish I had more knowledge of your part of the world so I could advise you better! Just don’t give up!

Hvala što si napisao/la!

Pretpostavljam da si u Hrvatskoj, a Hrvatska nije baš prijateljski nastrojena prema homoseksualcima. Dakle, mislim da imaš tešku bitku pronaći nekoga kome ćeš služiti, osim ako slučajno ne poznaješ dominantnog muškarca u svom privatnom životu.

Ne znam imaš li pristup Grindru, Reconu ili TheBlowers.com u svojoj zemlji. To su dobri resursi za pronalazak nekoga tko se tajno raspituje.

Volio/la bih da imam više znanja o tvom dijelu svijeta kako bih te mogao/la bolje savjetovati! Samo nemoj odustati!

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Hi Sam, a fan from Brazil here. You said some time ago that you were planning a new interview with Alpha Aesthetic, but he made his accounts private and decided not to be such a public Alpha. So I’m asking if there’s still a chance of an interview with him? I’d also like to ask if there’s any chance of new interviews with masters Diesel Derrick, Alpha Lewis, or AlphaGodAlex? I’d also like to suggest an interview with FindomPedro, a very famous master here in Brazil. This Brazilian fan of yours sends you a big hug and wishes you continued excellent work.

Thank you for the question, brother! Love my peeps from Brazil!

Yes, the plan was for another interview with Master @AlphaAesthetic8, but Master’s plans then changed. So there won’t be another interview with him, sadly.

Also, Master DieselDerrick has left the scene. Masters Lewis and AlphaGodAlex will not happen again. I have talked with Master FindomPedro about doing an interview, but he’s an elite Alpha who seems hard to pin down. I’ll reach out again just for you.

Thanks again!

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Hi Sam, listen have you heard about this new show? I started watching it at the bar with some straight friends and everyone was all for it but then I have some friends who’ve been asking me questions afterwards like you know is it just like that when you fuck a guy, is it just like that when you suck a dick and I tell them no but it’s a good imitation in a way. I got shut off by a straight guy in a club. Didn’t even know him all he saw was me stroking it and he crawled over and he sucked it.

Anyway, I’m getting off topic my question is do you think this is now starting to make straight guys realize that having sex with a gay guy is a lot more fun or are they just really curious?

Thanks for the question!

I think we are seeing an tidal shift in how straight Men react to and interact with homosexuality and their own lustful interests in it. To straight Men it appears that “the gays” have the kind of primal, unrestrained sex that most of them cannot get with women. In fact, I think that has always been the motivator for straight Men to seek out and use faggots.

But the tidal shift has become more pronounced thanks to the internet and the proliferation of sites like this one. It’s spread like a virus, altering every form of media. The latest sensational manifestation of this is the new gay porn series “Heated Rivalry” (and yeah, we might as well call it porn). I’ve been shocked at the number of straight guys watching the show and commenting on it. Hell, it was even featured on Saturday Night Live last weekend.

I think we’re going to see more and more straight Men (particularly young Men) seeking out some sort of side thing with gays and faggots going forward.

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Hey Sam,

Master Emir here . I am based in Germany and have been following the discussions and experiences shared here for some time now. Engaging with this material has been genuinely grounding for me; it feels as though I have reconnected with an essential part of myself.

By nature, I have always carried a strong, commanding presence. Leadership and influence come naturally to me, and when I speak, people tend to respond. This is not something I consciously force; it is simply how I move through the world.

I am 28 years old and have had several experiences with fags who expressed a desire to serve and devote themselves to me sexually. While I am comfortable with that dynamic, my deeper interest lies less in explicit sexual activity and more in power, service, and reverence as lived experiences.

Lately, I have found myself more drawn to younger fags who show submissive inclinations. However, I often sense confusion or uncertainty when I speak with them about service, hierarchy, and worship. I am mindful of not wanting to overwhelm or mislead anyone, yet I also want to remain authentic in how I express myself.

I would value your perspective on how to approach these dynamics more effectively—particularly when engaging with younger fags (+18 ofc ) who may still be forming their understanding of themselves and their desires.

Thank you for your time and for the insight you bring to this space. I look forward to hearing your thoughts.

Best regards,
Master Emir

Master, thank you very much for your question!

First of all, congratulations on a successful start to your life and for having the wisdom and insight to recognize your Alphahood! Too many young Alphas fail to acknowledge their Alphahood, and it gets wasted!

I’m guessing you’re largely a straight Alpha, Master. It doesn’t necessarily matter overall, but that impression might influence how I answer you.

Young faggots are especially tricky because most of them have been conditioned to believe they’re equal to Men or have some magical desirability that they think gives them power. Coupled with a young person’s natural rebelliousness and distracted nature, that makes young faggots hard to teach and hard to train.

The one thing an Alpha like you has in your favor is the truth of hierarchy. A true faggot of any age cannot escape the pull of purpose in inside it. So when a Master, armed with knowledge, talks to a young faggot with hierarchical authority, the young faggot is mesmerized by that truth the way a moth is mesmerized by a porchlight.

I have plenty of resources on this site to use with young fags, Master. Direct these young ones to this site, help them reason out what they’re feeling in comparison to what they read here. The truth will connect with faggots seeking it.

I have a full Discord community designed to help faggots (and Alphas) learn deeper truth and flex their muscles. You would be a welcome teacher there, Master, and your faggots would benefit from association. You can join that Discord by CLICKING HERE.

Master, thank you for writing to me! It was an extraordinary privilege to meet you and hopefully help!

Yours,

sam the faggot

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Sam– what happened to the pussy-hounder. He was Str8 Apex Alpha Supreme. Any word./news from him? He’s seems to have completely disappeared.

Thanks for writing!

It’s been a couple of years since I’ve talked to him. The last time we talked, I passionately encouraged him to write a column on this site. He said he’d think about it, but I guess his final answer was “no”.

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Hi Sam!! This is Loic again

I am training so hard to be prepared for Jerome… he sent me a message today with the screenshot of a 7-day timer and just wrote “ready?” I’m so excited!! But a little afraid…

I am using my plug every night and I leave it there for at least 3 hours. What I should do or say when he starts fucking me Sam?? Maybe thanking him, right? I wanna be good for him! Thank you, Sam!! 🙂

My dear brother Loic, thank you for writing to me!

I’m glad to hear you’re excited! You should be excited, because you’re about to have your virginity taken by one of the most wonderful straight Alphas I’ve ever met through this site! The things he’s already done as a 19-year-old are literally mind-blowing in every way. He owns three phenomenal faggots already, and he’s about to add you to his collection of cherished fags!

And I wouldn’t worry about anything. Master Jerome has fucked plenty of females and faggots already, and he’s an empathetic, tender lover. I mean, you’ll know an Alpha is inside you, no doubt, but you’ll never feel more safe!

I’m glad you’re taking the training of your hole seriously! Keep up the good work!

As far as talking to him, I’d mostly leave that to whatever comes out in the moment; Master Jerome wants your honest expressions as he fucks you. But when he’s getting ready to enter you, you could say something like, “please take my virginity, Master.” And when you get to that overwhelming point when you just need his seed, you could say, “Master, please breed me!” or “Master, please give me your babies!”

And, of course, always thank him before, during, and after!

I love you, Loic!

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Hi sam–I’ve been owned by a straight alpha for several years now. He doesn’t allow sexual service, but he allows other forms + muscle and foot worship.

It’s long distance, so I usually fly out and we meet up for a day or two. Recently, we got back to my hotel late and he decided to stay over for the first time. 2 things happened:

-He refused to share the bed. Said he wasn’t comfortable with it.
-He insisted on sleeping on the couch.

I went along with it, but should I have done something different? Is there any way to help him get more comfortable sleeping together (nothing sexual, just sleep). I feel like this could be a problem if we ever start going on trips together.

Thank you for writing, brother!

I’m so intrigued by your story. I have so many questions about your relationship with this straight Alpha! I’d love it if you would write to me at hierarchyuniversity@gmail.com so I can learn more about it!

One of the great aspects of your story is the fact that it demonstrates how straight Alphas have a deep-seated need to be worshiped. Once they discover the worship of faggots, they almost always want more of it even if it’s non-sexual. There is something about seeing a faggot submit to his power that triggers a straight Alpha in a primal way that is different from what he gets from females. Your straight Alpha loves having you fly out to him to worship him. It gives him a sense of peace and complete power.

I can understand why your Master doesn’t want to share a bed with a faggot, no matter how long you have served him. Straight Alphas like space, and like their own space. Straight Alphas are very territorial. They only allow females in their bed because they need to do that to entice these females to open their legs and let them fuck.

I was a little horrified that your Master chose to sleep on the couch (I’m assuming you slept in the bed). This should have been reversed, obviously. There’s NO WAY a straight Alpha should sleep on a couch while his faggot sleeps in the bed. You said that he “insisted” that he sleep on the couch. Seriously?

I think I would’ve made it a point with my Master that I refuse to use the bed as long as he is in the room. I would refuse to disrespect an Alpha in that way. I’d sleep on the floor. Such a dramatic demonstration may be needed to help your Master understand the depth of submission faggots are programmed to display.

As far as getting him more comfortable with sleeping together, that may not be possible. Some straight Alphas have real hang-ups with that. But you need to start with what I already discussed, and see how that newfound appreciation of faggot affects him. Knowledge leads to action.

Please write to me!

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I am deeply committed to serving my dominant man on Snapchat, and his pleasure is my primary focus. He derives great amusement from watching me perform acts of humiliation, and I take pride in pushing my limits to keep his interest. We’ve explored a wide range of activities together, from creative role-play scenarios where I’ve embodied various animals, to more intense physical tasks like forced feminization, giving myself swirlies, and even burning off my pubic hair at his command. One of his favorite requests involved me using a toothbrush to thoroughly brush my ass before using it to clean my teeth. I am now reaching a point where I need to escalate things to continue captivating him. I would be incredibly appreciative if you could provide me with some new, creative, and deeply degrading ideas that would demonstrate my utter devotion and entertain him

Thanks for the question.

I’m glad you have a Master online, and you seem to be happy with the arrangement. I’m just not the person to ask about this. I serve in-person, and I really don’t find online games to be very interesting or productive.

I recommend you join the Hierarchy University Discord community. You’ll probably find some who might be able to help you enhance your online games.

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I have been chatting online with an alpha on a cruiser type website and we are hitting it off and are to meet so he can determine if to take me on.  He says he’s married and I’ve accepted his need for breeding and saying he’s clean but worry he may be just using me and not honest about his situation. Also wants to meet me at a ABS as first time. Can I ask anything else or just do as told?

Thank you for the question!

I’m not sure how to advise you about this. On one hand, the Alpha claims he’s married, so he’s probably clean. But can you trust him about being married? This is definitely going to be a one-time thing, so you really need to weigh your needs with the risk.

For me, married Men who are creeping around gay cruising apps are just unappealing. You’d be much better off trying to offer yourself to Alphas you know.

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Hello , I want to let a man try dick trampling ( use me dick like a carpet a footstool, kick it, and more)

I fear to damage me dick.

What ideas and recommendations can you have me ?

Thanks for the question!

I really don’t have much to say about this except: don’t do it. I don’t understand this fetish, honestly. I mean, there’s not much to it. Alphas love kicking faggots in the nuts. Just go find one.

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Hey Sam! Hope you’re doing well in these crazy times.
I’ve been following your page for a pretty long tome now, discovered it in my early teens while I was still trying to figure myself out. It’s been a weird journey of identity crises and questioning but I think I have come to a pretty nice conclusion, at least for now.
at 17 I met my boyfriend, we dated until I was 18 and I broke up with him. I was unsure of what I wanted and how I wanted to live my life and I didn’t want to lead him on only to break his heart down the line after years of relationship. Only a few months after the breakup we started seeing eachother as friends with benefits, as I still wanted to be of service to him, and one thing lead to another, we’re back together and honestly stronger than ever. In the time spent apart I had a little slutty moment but quickly learned that I did in fact want to be in a monogamous relationship with one man, and that turns out to be him. He is perfect, deeply caring and in love with me but also quite dominant with a sadistic streak. Slowly we’ve been working on power dynamic in which he is the leader. I have been locked for two months after which he has decided to make me cum, but I am back in my cage now. We have had some serious conversations about our relationship and the way we want to move forward. We want to work on me becoming his slave and him my master. I feel a deep need to give up all control to him and become his property.

Now, we know that doesn’t happen overnight and we want to take small but steady steps in the direction of total power exchange. My question would be how to do that. I would be really happy if you could give me some sources, books or just general advice.

I have read the posts here and I’ve found that most of them focus on something a bit different, but I am not sure where to look for something more specific to our situation. We are still boyfriends and in a very loving relationship, but we do not wish to be equals. I want him to be my absolute leader and he wants me to be completely obedient to him.
I honestly just need some serious advice, that goes beyond just sexy role playing and encompasses power exchange as a life style.

Thank you for the great work you’ve been doing helping boys and men like us find our true place in the male hierarchy. I’m really looking forward to your response!

Brother, thank you for writing!

Congratulations on finding a complementary Master who has compatible interests with you in the TPE (Total Power Exchange) subgenre! That’s often the hardest part!

While it’s true that this site doesn’t deal with extreme versions of TPE, there have certainly been examples featured here. Most notably, the column fag Zack writes about his enslavement to Master Declan (who definitely love each other). You can read that by following the link in the right sidebar. Occasionally I’ll come across an extreme case of deep slavery, like the faggot slave Tim from the days of FWA.

TPE is featured here on occasion. You just need to know where to look!

Hi brother sam, i recently wrote you how i found a dominant straight Alpha. i found Him via Silverdaddies website. i am an older fag, late 50s, who was married to a female for 26 years. After my divorce, i returned to my desire to serve Men. Initially, while i was still married, i was cunted by a real estate broker in an empty house that was on the market. That experience left me with a void that i desperately needed to fill, as you know. i ended up getting a divorce and started to search for Alpha men who could satisfy my cravings. i will tell you more about what led to that later, but after recently placing an ad in Silverdaddies, i found a straight Alpha man, who is married to a woman, but isn’t satisfied sexually. i wrote to you about that.

Well, sam, i have met this Alpha Man, and His wife,  and i am now His concubine.  i was extremely nervous when i met His wife, but she was very supportive. She said that as long as i was willing to satisfy Her Man, She was “OK” with me servicing Him regularly. i wrote you sam about my misgivings, since He seemed to be a bit of a predator. He stalked me, found out my address and phone number, and began bombarding me with demands to service Him. You intuitively suggested that i practice caution, which i did. But He continued relentlessly. i caved, and met Him, and His wife. She was looking for a way to preserve Her family, as they had two children, but keep Him satisfied. i decided to fill that void sam. He has started to demand sexual service from me every other day. He aggressively takes me, making me suck His cock, lick His ass, and fucks me, until He shoots a big load in my ass. i can’t begin to tell you sam, how this makes me feel, especially after meeting His beautiful wife. We have been together since this started, and she has thanked me for satisfying her Alpha Husband’s needs, so she can focus on their children. i am in ecstasy but feel like a whore. Do you think i am doing the right thing?

What makes matters even more important, is that He and i are both hunters. i am not so much of a hunter as i was when i was younger (i’m now in my late 50s), but He, in His late 50s is an enthusiastic hunter who has land and hunting shacks. He wants me to be His sexual slave when we go out to His lands, so He can be satisfied, multiple times, while we are there. His wife is very excited about this and wants me to “drain him sexually” so He is ready to spend time with her and their children when He returns. sam, i am amazed and humbled by this experience, an older faggot realizing his life’s ambitions. But i trust your judgement, and want to be assured that what i am embarking on is a good thing. i spent a better part of my life chasing women, but have found a Man who loves to have sex with me as His ‘sex slave.’ His wife assures me that this is what she also wants. It seems almost too good to be true. He is very demanding, showing up at my home without warning, and taking me for His sexual release. There is part of me that loves this, but part of me that makes me fearful. i do love sucking His cock, and being fucked by Him, and am encouraged by His wife’s support. What are your thoughts on this satisfying but challenging relationship?

Thankyou,

fag brother mark

This is a follow-up to THIS QUESTION from a faggot named “Marco” then.

Hi brother! Thank you for writing back!

I’m so glad to be wrong about this situation! I was thinking you should get away from him, honestly. But back then I didn’t know all of these details, either.

You need to completely submit to this Alpha and do everything you can to satisfy him. You’re in your late fifties, brother – you may not have another opportunity as golden as this one. And he literally sounds like a perfect Alpha breeder who is also learning how to be a Master of a faggot. What else could you even want or expect?

Submit to him and give him whatever he wants. I think it will be a life-changing experience!

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Hey Sam, happy new year. I hope things are going good for you. They’re going great for me.

Now to my problem recently I had a friend named Jose he Kept flirting with me and flirting with me, but in a jokingly way, and I got tired of it, and I actually took him up on that offer and he didn’t back down he Thought I was still kidding and he said can we get Colton and William in on this? Jose and William are 25 each and Colton is a fresh 20 year-old and he’s actually homophobic but he’s kind of coming around and I think he’s curious

They all thought I was serious until I got down on my knees and said unzipping Jose‘s pants and I pulled out this beautiful sits inches beautiful foreskin with a big thick vein running right through the middle. I took his dick in my mouth and from what I’ve heard from his past girlfriends is that his cum tasted horrible because he used to smoke. He tasted pretty good and we had a Safe word put up if they say stop I stop and I started with the dirty talk each time I deep throat in him I felt him get harder and harder in my throat.

I can feel him struggling not to blow early and I didn’t want him to so I pulled off and told him sit down. Let yourself go limp and then I’ll come back and I’ll suck you again. William tap me on the shoulder and I looked over and I see this beautiful hairy muscular man just all he said was do you like what you see and I under my pants and my cock came out and he said obviously yes, and as I started to suck on William, I ran my hand through his chest hair played with his balls. I was really into him because you know that feeling you get when you’re tasting this guy and you can’t explain it, but there’s something drawing you back to him he had a nice 8 inches and a thing I noticed about William even more is that he was the most aggressive.

When I felt another cock pushed me in the side of the mouth I thought it was Jose left over. There’s Colton this skinniest a twig 20 year-old with an average dick 5.5. I don’t judge I don’t care and I sucked him off. It’s obvious it was his first time he blew within like two minutes and he kept saying I’m sorry I’m sorry and I stood up so fast pulled him into a hug and then I kissed him swapping my load back into his mouth and I actually felt him swallow. I told him it’s OK. It’s your first time I get it.

I go back to William, but I see him eyeing my ass I asked him if you want to get really freaky now you wanna fuck your faggot He told me to get down on my hands and knees. I was expecting a nice thick cock head, but I felt his tongue In me and it’s obvious he knew what he was doing. I won’t lie. He had me moaning riding around. I’ve never felt that for a long time. Jose got back up and said there’s always something I wanted to do, but I’ve never trusted anyone else two dicks one ass and as I climbed on top of William, I felt him into me and I actually started shuddering It’s like electricity was flying and I know he could feel it. I did too and when Jose started fucking me in the ass just like William I went from soft the hard in seconds flat they reduced me to have oh my God, even though I’m older than them. I start calling out for William to fuck me harder, daddy and he did. Worst part is he called me son and I don’t know why that did it for me, but I blew even harder seconds before they did. Jose passed out on top of me. I was barely keeping my strength didn’t want to flatten William by accident and as they all pulled out of me, just making sure that I’m not bleeding. I felt another dick inside me I look down and I saw Colton.

He asked me if I could, and I said go for it again he didn’t last too long, but I held onto him and wrapped my legs around his ass, so he couldn’t pull out and he deposited a healthy load kept asking me. How did he do and each time he asked, I kissed him like a lot

after Colton and Jose left, but I noticed Jose had his hand on Colton‘s ass. I think I sparked something there with them and I’m now laying here typing this out while Just looking at William sleep I think I found a new alpha but the problem is he’s 10 years younger than me and my inner guilt is getting to me. How do I get it to stop?

Sorry about going on I just wanted you to know the Full context

Thank you for that entire story!

Your basic question is whether or not this Alpha is too young for you because he’s 10 years younger than you? I guess it’s a matter of taste, but a Man can be young and be Alpha. I’ve known 15-year-olds more Alpha than Men three times their age. Age is meaningless when it comes to hierarchy. If you’re a faggot, then you should kneel and respect any Alpha regardless of their age.

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Hi Sam! I am a faggot that served a Brazilian Alpha for some months named Thiago. He has a huge cock that I found challenging to take at first, but over time He managed to shape my insides to his cock. Last month, I noticed that my hole had become looser due to all the stretching and it now looked like a slit with swollen edges, mimicking a vagina. I got very excited because I immediately recognised it as the boy pussy that you talk about in your website. However, I noticed that Thiago gradually called me less and less to fuck me and when I asked him if something was wrong, he confessed that my pussy was not satisfying him anymore. He assured me that he was very attracted to my boy pussy externally, but that it was not tight enough for him anymore. He told me that he is known by other faggots as the “Pussy Maker” and that most slaves served him to get it. I respected his wishes, of course, but I feel sad. I am scared that other Alphas will see me as “used” or “broken” and that my pussy will not be as tight as they expect. Do you have any advice for me?

Thank you for the question, brother!

Wow, it sounds like Master Thiago had one monstrous cock! Was it really called the “Pussy Maker” or the “Pussy SPLITTER”? I’ve heard about the giant cocks in Brazil, but your letter has caused me to book a flight there.

But yes, proper fucking by larger Alpha cocks can cause our holes to transform into vagina-like openings that I call “Boy Pussy”. It’s pretty amazing, honestly. It’s like our bodies know to do this.

I’m sorry Master Thiago acted that way, but it’s pretty common for Alpha breeders like him to move on after a while. I’m sure his blunt assessment of your pussy hurt you, which is a shame given the fact that it was his cock that loosened it!

As an advice, I want to introduce you to Kegels for faggots: “anal breathing”. This creepy gay doctor from the ’90s named Joe Kramer pushed this method for strengthening the muscles of the anus. I was doing a form of this naturally after I started getting fucked, and then I saw this video and realized I was doing it right.

The anus has a web of muscle surrounding our hole to control what goes in or out. Like any muscle, it can be worked out and strengthened.

Here is the video I’ve had stored on my computer for ages. It teaches several exercises that should help to tighten your sphincter:

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Hi sam hope you are having a good day. I’m just reaching out to you as i want to have my first experience with a Man but im not too sure in what way.

I do believe in hierarchy and i do feel like i am a faggot. I often fantasize about serving a Man in ways that a standard sexual partner wouldnt. The idea of a Man enjoying having his feet licked and piss drank feels so alien to me but feels so inspiring at the same time because it must require a level of pure cockiness and understanding they have the power to make someone do that, which i know is something i definitely dont possess.

The thing is i am yet to have any sexual experience at all. Im early 20s so im perhaps a little late to the game compared to most gay guys haha. I have just always been nervous about sex and struggled a bit with shame due to religious trauma. Over the years, ive explored fantasies online but i used to be much more vanilla. I dont know if itd be wise to jump straight into the deep end and find a master to serve or whether it would be better to try more vanilla experiences instead. I want to be well prepared for a master/slave dynamic and wouldnt want to disappoint him as a newbie. But im also a bit scared of the impact it would do to the work ive done to combat the shame ive felt about being gay as being a slave to a Man kinda adds another layer of complexity to it. I also dont know if i will end up enjoying being more vanilla and a typical sub bottom rather than a faggot. I guess i am just unsure if i am thinking wisely to go from not having done anything with a Man to worshipping his feet, doing his laundry and wearing a cage for him all at once lol. I know hierarchy is reality but im not too sure if i am thinking of too much fantasy. Im not sure if im overthinking or not. I would really appreciate some guidance from you sam as i love reading your stuff and coming here has definitely helped me realise the importance of knowing your place within the hierarchy.

Thank you for writing!

I understand your fears and the programming you’re fighting against. Many faggots are so nervous and timid that they struggle to make any headway with their purpose as you’re experiencing.

But here’s the thing: if you continue on this course, you’ll never experience anything you truly desire. You don’t want that. There’s nothing worse than looking back in regret.

Just go on TheBlowers.com or Grindr and find a Man to service. You need to just get started. From there you can build with more confidence.

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I’ve been here before ages ago confessing I was craving to serve this Alpha, which with much courage I did a few times. But it’s been a couple of years now I’ve become top and come to realise I’m a proper switch, love to dominate when I fuck, and serve when I’m a bottom. So the other day I was in bed with my husband and this huge urge to dominate him surged over me and started fucking his mouth. Seeing him so eager and feeling him only as a hole to be filled. It was so amazing how submissive he was for my cock and it felt amazing cumming on his face. Felt like a real Alpha this time like all these dominant Alphas I used to love to serve.

Thank you for the experience!

The situation you describe makes you sound like a good candidate for “Alpha latency”. Many times due to trauma or childhood conditioning a gay Male will think he’s supposed to be a bottom to be gay (or they’re mimicking what they learned from abuse).

In most cases of Alpha latency, the subject is unhappy or unfulfilled as a bottom. This is their true Alpha nature trying to assert itself.

Now, you sound like you enjoy being a bottom, so perhaps you’re not dealing with Alpha latency. In any event, I have plenty of resources on the subject. You can CLICK HERE to examine it.

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How publicly exposed and to what detail should a faggot be? Is being out as openly gay enough? Or should it be known to friends, relatives even, exactly how gay they really are? How they are totally passive bottom submissive for all and any Men? Should a faggot expose itself or trust a Real Man to expose them properly?

Thanks for writing!

I don’t think a faggot necessarily needs to come out as a faggot. Coming out as gay is more than enough. I have found it useful to openly admit my faghood, but I’m a different breed and I would never insist on that course for everyone.

Now, some Masters like to push their faggots to come out as a faggot. I don’t really agree with that. But I’m not a Master, and I don’t expect Masters to listen to me.

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I want to become an obedient servant to my neighbor Steve! I’ve sent messages to him asking for his help in getting his cock into my throat and his balls on my face. He doesn’t respond but when we run into each other he’s pleasant and friendly. I can’t help staring at his crotch and I want to suck him so bad. What else can I do?

Thank you for writing, brother.

First of all, please STOP what you’re doing immediately. You’re doing it completely wrong. You think you’re being sexy for him by acting like a complete whore. Guess what, sweetheart? HE’S STRAIGHT. He’s not attracted to you physically.

That’s why we faggots must use our complete submission to fly under the radar. I always advise fags to offer services like domestic service or monetary service or gifts. I advise having conversations where you unlock his mind to think about hierarchy and his power. Get him to talk about himself. That’s why I advise fags use physical cues for submission (like getting physically/visually lower).

But you’ve blown all of that with your ridiculous actions.

I want you to go to him and humbly apologize for acting that way. Actually say “Sir, I wanted to apologize to you for disrespecting you and your Alphahood. I’m sorry that I offended you. I simply want to be useful to you.” This might get his attention.

But I think you’ve significantly fucked this opportunity.

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