Hi brother Sam, i am in need of your advice. i am an older faggot, in pretty good shape, and have been searching for a real Alpha Man for a couple of years. All of the men i met at that time were NOT Alpha Men. One of them I wrote to you about, after He said He wanted to suck my faggot cock. You called it like it was; he was not an Alpha. Now i have encountered what appears to be a real Alpha, who is married to a woman, and wants me to service him orally and wants to fuck me as a “regular.” He lives only five miles away, so the Alpha/fag relationship would be ideal if it worked out. my only concern, is the fact that when we started connecting via email, His emails were unrelenting…meaning they were coming at me fast & furious. He wants a fags pussy real bad. I have not met this Alpha in person, but the multitude of emails He has sent has raised some red flags for me (real or imaginary). Then, this morning, i received another email from Him, and He obviously searched for me on the internet and now knows my address and phone number. While i am tempted to respond to the text He just sent me, i am concerned that He is a bit of a stalker. We’ve only been emailing back and forth for a week, and He has sent me 23 messages. i am concerned about whether He would turn out to be an abuser Alpha. What should i do? What would you do?
faggot marco
Marco, thank you for the urgent question!
That does seem like a lot of stalker energy. I might’ve overlooked the 23 messages, but the fact that he triangulated your position and has gained that much information about you seems a bit much.
I would say this in his defense: straight Alphas who have limited/no experience using faggots are often so desperate for relief that their eagerness gets mistaken for something more sinister. It’s like when you need to pee really so badly that you’d almost knock over your mother to get to a toilet. These Alphas are often trapped in loveless relationships, and they’re desperate for relief and worship.
I have no idea if that’s actually the case with this Alpha, but I’m just putting this out there because I have encountered and serviced such straight Alphas in the past.
I would meet him in a public place. I would voice my concerns about his behavior, and ask that he please respect some boundaries until he decides to take ownership properly.
I have just started a new job and one of the guys I work with and will in future work closely with is so hot and I’d love to worship him I just don’t know how to do it any advice?
Thanks for the question!
Well, I don’t have very much to go on … but you’ll need to get to know him a little bit first, obviously. Be kind, submissive, genuinely complimentary. Then I would introduce the concept of hierarchy by asking him if he considers himself to be Alpha. This question almost always elicits a response. With whatever he tells you, direct his attention to hierarchy by reasoning with him about his place in hierarchy and the truth of inferior males.
If you show him my hierarchy pyramid, it might open up his mind even more to that and a conversation.
Hola soy un joven mexicano de 17 años, llevo tiempo consumiendo este contenido y estoy d encuerado con la jerarquía es perfecta porque le da un sentido de utilidad a los hombres inferiores
Pero aun no descubro donde encajo en la jerarquía, soy un maricon porque disfruto de servir a otros o soy un amo porque también disfruto de tener a gente a mi servicio. Aun no se que es lo que realmente ¿soy seré un falso amo o acaso estoy en un punto medio?
Me gustaría tu ayuda para aclarar las cosas, porque a su vez deseo ser encerrado y humillado por otros hombres
Translation:
Hi, I’m a 17-year-old Mexican guy. I’ve been consuming this content for a while now, and I’m completely absorbed by the hierarchy. It’s perfect because it gives a sense of purpose to inferior men.
But I still haven’t figured out where I fit into the hierarchy. Am I a faggot because I enjoy serving others, or am I a master because I also enjoy having people at my service? I still don’t know what I really am. Am I a fake master, or am I somewhere in between?
I’d like your help to clarify things because, at the same time, I want to be locked up and humiliated by other men.
Thank you for the question! I hope the translation was accurate, because I don’t speak Spanish!
I’m glad you’re discovering your truth and exploring it! This is so important as a young person!
I would say that your interest in being “locked up and humiliated by other men” indicates something. It probably means you’re not Alpha. You might not be a faggot, though. You could be a beta male.
One way to figure it out is my book “Are You A Faggot?” which can be downloaded by CLICKING HERE. I don’t have a Spanish version, but you obviously read English if you’ve been reading this site. The end of the book has a quiz to help you figure things out.
I hope this helps!
translation:
¡Gracias por la pregunta! Espero que la traducción haya sido precisa, porque no hablo español.
¡Me alegra que estés descubriendo tu verdad y explorándola! ¡Esto es muy importante para los jóvenes!
Diría que tu interés en ser "encerrado y humillado por otros hombres" indica algo. Probablemente significa que no eres alfa. Aunque puede que no seas maricón. Podrías ser un macho beta.
Una forma de averiguarlo es mi libro "¿Eres maricón?", que puedes descargar haciendo CLIC AQUÍ. No tengo una versión en español, pero obviamente lees inglés si has estado leyendo este sitio. Al final del libro hay un cuestionario para ayudarte a entenderlo.
Is it wrong to enjoy paying tribute? The need to tribute builds up in me until I have to pay someone, anyone. It doesn’t matter who. When I pay the tribute, I feel an enormous rush of pleasure and release. The cashmasters I deal with seem to want me to feel used and ashamed. They expect the payment to hurt. But it doesn’t. The more I give, the better I feel. And the abuse and demeaning remarks the cashmasters send my way just bore me. Am I really a cashfag, or am I using the cashmasters to get off while sending them “tribute”? Is there a better term to describe someone who gets pleasure from paying tribute?
Thanks for the question!
I think you hit on a point that I’ve occasionally hit on from time and time, only to receive pushback from cash fags. Still, I believe it’s true: cash fags are largely selfish, and findom is built on two forms of selfishness caught together in some sort of death spiral.
Why do I say that cash fags are selfish? Because they’re giving money to Alphas online so that they can get off to it. Essentially, they’re using the Alpha and their money the same way a gross Man uses a stripper in a nightclub with his dollar bills.
Ultimately, cash faggotry is a fake form of submission. A fag pretends to submit while an Alpha waves his feet at it, barks some orders, and takes cash while the fag squirts his useless dribble on the carpet, and then ghosts the Alpha. That’s not submission. That’s a carnival peep show.
If I sound bitter about cash fags, it’s because of my own unique perspective as a mentor faggot running a massive, multi-pronged, and expensive teaching platform on hierarchy. I have a lot of cash fags visit my platforms every day, whacking off to my stuff (because, well, it is hot), but none of them ever think to donate even one dollar to maintain any of this. They have no issue giving thousands to an Alpha who doesn’t care about them at all, but I’m somebody they can use for free.
I had a cash fag once directly say to me: “I’d send some money to you, but you’re a faggot so that doesn’t make any sense.” Let’s just say my response was, um, LESS THAN KIND … and then the fag blocked me (of course).
Hell, there’s a faggot on my Discord right now who was tasked by an Alpha to pay me a weekly stipend (which then became a monthly one). The faggot still hasn’t paid it. Why? Because it is SELFISH. I’m not a priority to the faggot because it doesn’t get off to ME. Pathetic waste.
So yeah, cash fags are inherently selfish, and useful only as cattle. They’re almost entirely unteachable, and very rarely ever produce an inspirational story because they are black holes of inspiration.
I had a confusion regarding the terms slave and fag and other related things,
like what is the difference between a fag and a slave
how is a master different from an alpha
and what is difference between alpha-fag and master-slave relationship?
Thank you for the question!
The terms “faggot” and “slave” are nearly interchangeable. A slave might be even a bit more restricted than a faggot (possibly tortured/abused or turned into an object), but generally speaking both faggots and slaves are simply property owned by Men and serve them.
The difference between an Alpha and a Master is more apparent. An Alpha is a superior Man, a Man with great charisma and leadership and power. A Master is an Alpha who actually owns inferiors (faggots, slaves, females) to serve him.
There’s generally little difference between those relationships.
Hi! First time writing here, after reading a lot for almost half a year, I’ve come to the conclusion that I am a faggot.
A few years back I was raped, and while I’m not ready to delve deeper in that subject for now, I admit he was the first person to cunt me, and so I must say it has defined a lot my sexual relationships.
It’s a more recent event (around a year) that in sex, I’ve come to enjoy far rougher sex, to serve a man as his sexual toy, to forget my pleasure for his.
And so I’ve come to the decision that I’m a faggot, but still my mind has that voice in my head that questions if I’m truly sane for enjoying things that were so similar to that past event.
That said, I’ve never truly been with an alpha, or at least not since then… So any tips you could have are recommended and deeply appreciated!
Thanks for listening to me and have a great day to those who read it!
Thank you for writing!
What you’re experiencing is quite common among rape victims, particularly faggot rape victims. I was raped around 19/20 years old (my first time being fucked), and after the initial shock and shame wore off I began to crave him again. Even now, so many years later, I would definitely kneel and submit to him and his violence if he ever showed up again. I’ve written a song about him, in fact, titled “Kenny”. (No, it’s not available at the moment.)
I think what we’re experiencing is a form of Stockholm Syndrome that causes us to yearn for those powerful Men who brutalized and scarred us.
Some would benefit from getting counseling for it, I’m sure. I never did. I made my own peace with it, and writing about it on this site has helped me, too. You might have resources to help you, or you are welcome to join the rapidly-growing Hierarchy University Discord community (link on the LINKS page).
The following post is part of a thread detailing the struggle of a 19-year-old Argentinian faggot named Nick as he tries to serve Alphas despite a crippling fear of sexually transmitted diseases. CLICK HERE to read all posts in this thread in chronological order!
The recent letter from young Argentinian faggot Nick that expressed his reasonable fear of STI’s really struck a chord across my site and social media. It’s rare that a Question From Reader post gets that kind of attention. It really blew up when Master Albert (a real-life doctor) stepped in with some researched advice for the young fag.
A lot of times this happens and I never heard back from the person again, but Nick has already returned with a truly uplifting update and a refreshed, exuberant new outlook! Listen to this!
Hi brother Sam! This is Nick from Argentina again.
I cannot express how happy I am now that I read Master Albert’s words! It is so amazing to see a powerful Man giving me good advice. It was a big honor!
Something great happened this afternoon, brother! The guy from Grindr who fucked me last time and came inside the condom texted me again and said that he wanted a blowjob. I was happy when I saw it because it means that he liked it! I told him that I was happy to serve him but I didn’t want to swallow his cum yet. And he was a good guy, brother! He said that it was okay as long as I made him cum. I went to his place and it was so much better than our first time. I sucked his cock and his balls as soon as I arrived, and I had prepared my pussy for him just in case although he said that he just wanted a blowjob. When he was really hard and his cock was all wet, he took me to his bedroom, and there were already condoms and lube on his bed. What a relief!! He is a strong Alpha, so it hurt a little bit at first, but he wore a condom and used a lot of lube in my hole and on his cock as well, so it felt so good. He was fucking me nice and hard and hitting me so deep, it was the 5th time I was fucked and the best fuck so far! So I thought about Master Albert’s words and said “Master, can you please cum on my back? I wanna feel your cum this time”
Sam, he LOVED it! He started rutting me so much faster when I said this, then he quickly took his cock out of my ass, took the condom out and shoot all his load on my back. It was so nice and warm, brother! Then he started to rub his fingers on my back, like a body lotion on my skin, on my cheeks as well. I was enjoying so much, brother… but I looked back and said in a very sexy way “please Sir, do not rub it inside my hole” in the most submissive voice I could make for him, and it worked well! He said “yeah baby, no worries”. We fell asleep and I was literally covered in cum and it felt AMAZING. I took a shower at his place and came back home with a big smile on my face and my parent will never imagine why I am so happy.
It is getting late here and tomorrow I will have a long day, but I really wanted to tell my big brother Sam that I served this Alpha well in a safe way! I could relax and my pussy opened for him and then he shot so much cum on me but without exposing me to unnecessary risks. Just like Master Albert taught us!
I often feel lost, lonely, and confused, but I feel like a happy faggot tonight thanks to you! I really love you, big brother!
AMAZING!!
Isn’t it incredible what a little encouragement and some accurate information can do for someone?? This is one of my greatest sources of pride in this site and everything I’ve tried to build here: it’s a safe harbor that isn’t just some silly fetish hellhole, but rather a place of education and inspiration that protects privacy and tells true stories of success and failure. I’ve always wanted a place of honesty, a lighthouse in the storm of disinformation that cut through the lies of PC media bias to tell the true history and purpose of hierarchy. I think I’ve accomplished that, and I’ve changed a lot of lives in the process.
In this instance, this site was able to bring a great mind like Master Albert to bear on little Nick’s problem with reassuring and accurate medical information, and armed with that knowledge Nick was finally able to find fulfillment as a successful faggot! He gained courage through knowledge, and that made all the difference!
I found it somewhat amusing that once Nick was able to relax, his inner slut naturally emerged! Suddenly he found himself purring seductively to the Alpha, who happily played along! All faggots have gifts we can use to make ourselves more appealing to Alphas, but it’s simply a matter of letting go and getting in touch with those gifts! Nick did that wonderfully!
So I guess the lesson here is this: let go of the blocks in your life through information, practice, and meditation! You can do amazing things when you’re informed and inspired!
That’s why I’m here, trying to teach the truth! A dear faggot brother like Nick trusted me and the resources of this site, and I will never fail that trust!
Hello, I’m 28 and still a virgin. Mainly because I’m a demisexual while being a faggot and those two sides contradict each other often. Usually the demisexual side wins out. How do I get my faggot side to win out so that I can serve alphas? This is a deep struggle I have felt with for a long while.
Thanks for the question!
First, a definition: Demisexual describes a sexual orientation where a person only experiences sexual attraction after developing a strong emotional bond or connection with someone, often within a close friendship or romantic relationship, rather than from initial physical or superficial cues.
Personally, I don’t see your dilemma. You can still develop sexual attraction (and therefore serve as an effective faggot) if you get to know an Alpha. I’ve always recommended that faggots start their search with Alphas they know personally, and that’s particularly true in your case.
Don’t let your unusual sexual quirk stop you from fulfilling your purpose, brother!
I know this is a very typical question, but I feel helpless here. I’m a faggot, living in a homophobic country and studying at a university (I’m 19). I haven’t been able to get this guy out of my head for a year or so.
He is a real alpha. He’s so charismatic, confident, a little arrogant. He can sometimes be embarrassed and shy, depending on the situation, but more often he behaves like a king and like everything is under his control.
I’m not sure if he’s protective or destructive alpha tho. I heard, that he is caring in relationship, but anyway, he thinks he is better in some way than others. He can hit, if you cross the line. He and his friends even often fight with each other just for fun.
I always stared at him in the locker room and imagined how I could serve him. But the fact is that we barely talk to each other. We only say “hello” when we see each other. And.. I already tried to test the waters.
I asked one person to send him a message, so to speak, a “letter” from me with a confession. But so that I remain anonymous. This guy, the alpha, just laughed and said that he definitely did not need this. After some time I heard him and his friends discussing who it could be. And he clearly thought the situation was ridiculous and absurd. But, I think, he was a bit proud of himself, that he can attract boys too, haha.
I made a mistake. I confessed my feelings. I expected something more like a relationship. Something romantic. But I don’t know if this could ever be possible. No one’s know that it was me, who confessed. And I feel scared to do any more steps. I feel scared, even terrified, that someone will find out and start to bully me or something… The chances are high.
What should I do? Confess, that I’m okay with just being an obedient fag, not expecting anything romantic? Or just leave it behind, because my safety is a priority 1? I really need an advice, even if it’s a stupid question.
My brother, thank you for writing to me! And it’s not a stupid question at all!
One of the most heartbreaking aspects of my time running this site are the many cries for help I’ve received from faggots trapped in homophobic countries. It’s especially hard to hear this from gays in the Middle East, because as long-term readers know, I rescued an 18-year-old Syrian boy from there after he reached out to me through this site. So I have all the empathy in the world for that situation, believe me.
I realize that my message of “be brave and offer yourself” can actually be quite dangerous to people in your situation. It can also be cruel; it’s like demanding that a paralyzed person get up and walk. I never want to add any further burden to anyone.
My first advice is my most urgent: do whatever you need to do to escape your country and start a new life in freedom. Get into a school and learn a valuable skill that can get you out of there (a lot of times schools on the outside will sponsor students to move). If you have anyone on the outside, start reaching out to them and find a pathway. This isn’t going to be an overnight process, but start steering your life in that direction and fight for it like your life depends on it (because it does!).
Now, if you really want to approach this Alpha, you must do it very carefully. Either try to befriend him somehow and start offering to do things for him. Be respectful, complimentary, attentive. Once he trusts you enough, give him the “Letter To An Alpha” that I have linked in the sidebar (I’m guessing that is not the letter you already gave him). Hopefully he will see it in a different light if he cares enough about you.
That’s probably the only way you’re going to do this and still remain safe. I can’t recommend more because I don’t know the situation very well and I don’t want to give you harmful advice.
Just know that you’re in my thoughts and in my heart, little one. I love you!
Hi Sam, I have a friend who is such an Alpha stud, he is literally amazing. I have been obsessed with him for years now, and always have been drooling over him and his beauty. Since recently I have started doing something some people might think is weird, as we all know AI is growing every day, so I find out about this amazing AI that lets you create very realistic pictures of people. And I have been obsessed with creating pictures of my Alpha friend. Is it too weird to make AI pictures of him?
Thanks for writing, brother!
I hope you aren’t wanting me to tell you this isn’t weird, because I’ll tell you the truth: it’s a little weird! I saw one of the pics you made that you sent to me, and it looks pretty generic. Like, it could literally be any guy’s real-life body. Now, I don’t know if that’s what your friend’s body looks like, but still … I don’t understand the point of the exercise.
Here’s an idea: show these pics to him and tell him you were practicing your AI skills and that you created those AI pics of him and/or his body. He’ll probably be flattered, but, more importantly, it’ll clue him in as to what you are. It might lead to a fruitful conversation.
That would be a way to turn this into something more productive than just whacking off to AI generations of your friend.
How can I know if an Alpha is a destroyer? My Master loves fucking and breeding me, in general he treats me well, he has never done anything that would hurt me or cause harm, but there is something that I can’t stop thinking about.
My ass is very tight and his cock is thick, so it is not always easy to take it the way he likes it. Sometimes I say “I can’t take it anymore” while he is pounding my ass and he NEVER stops banging, he just slows down, then he says something like “I can stop now baby, but I will be so disappointed, and if I finish I will be so proud of you” Then every time after he says this, I end up saying “please, keep fucking me”
I am sure that if I insist to stop he will, he is a good Man and he would never force me to take his cock if I were in serious pain. However, he never stops when I first say it, he just tries to calm me down and keep banging me in a slower pace until he finishes inside my ass.
I am new to hierarchy and to gay sex in general (I am 20 and only dated girls until last year). My best friend knows everything about my life and she says that if he does not take his cock out of my hole as soon as I tell him to stop, he is toxic, violent, etc. She basically thinks that he is a monster and has been trying to convince me to break up with him. I know she wants me to be safe and happy, but I think an opinion of another fag would be essential before I take such a decision.
He is a good Man and I like when fucks me, but I am afraid this is a red flag for potential worse behaviors. So please Sam, could you please give me your opinion and, if possible, give some examples of Destroyer Alphas? Is my Man a Destroyer? 🙁
Thank you for writing, brother!
First of all, let me define Destroyer Alpha tendencies: they go out of their way to harm others, they manipulate, they entrap, they steal they blackmail, they sadistically torture people, etc. We are talking about truly despicable Alphas, Men who use their power to destroy the lives and the self-esteem of inferiors.
Clearly, that doesn’t sound anything like your Master, does it?
Your Master is the average dominant Alpha, and he fucks exactly like one. Here’s the problem: he knows it hurts (and he likes that it hurts), but he also knows you need it to hurt. Let me explain that: Faggots respond submissively to being fucked by their Owner, and their desire kicks in to fight through the pain in order to please him. Yes, you asked him to stop, but your Master knows you really need to be pushed through it. Think of his actions like a trainer who pushes his trainee in the gym beyond what he thinks he can handle.
Your female friend is totally wrong. She’s looking at things from the woke female perspective that is currently destroying all engagement between males and females. Men are afraid to even touch a female because they start crying rape. It’s stupid.
Your friend doesn’t understand what faggots need, nor does she understand what it means to be owned by an Alpha. I cannot emphasize this enough: DO NOT listen to this friend. She’s going to ruin something special you have with your Master.
You said it repeatedly yourself: he’s a good Man. He’s a good Master. He’s not ever going to destroy you. He wants to own you and keep you and push you to become the best faggot you can be.
Why? Because he’s more of a Protector Alpha than you realize.
Hi Sam, my name is Nick, a fag from Argentina, and I am 19, I love your work and I have been reading your website for 3 months now every single day. I jerked off countless times to the videos and stories here. And I want to start by saying thank you for your effort to put this together. I do not have any fag friends and your work has been really important to understand who I am.
I lost my virginity this year in March and it was weird at first, but I guess first times are always weird. It was with a random guy from Grindr and he didn’t care very much about me, but he was gentle, didn’t hurt me at all, and tried to be kind, although he just wanted to fuck my hole. He wore a condom and came inside the condom, and I left his hole with my virgin hole fucked but without a drop of his cum. Since then, I have been fucked 3 times more. All of them random guys from Grindr, and all of them wore condoms. That’s why I am writing to you.
I have seen many posts about cum here. Your posts with cumshot videos, Master Lorenzo’s complaints about the fag who didn’t swallow him cum, Master Arturo’s desire to cum on the fag’s face, etc. I am new to this world and I have only seen 4 dicks in my whole life, and have never been bred or even tasted cum. I met a fag from Spain online and we have been talking about being a sub fag and he said that “if I haven’t been bred by a Man, I am still a virgin.” I think he is exaggerating, but could you please tell me more about that?
First, is it that different to feel in our holes a cock if it is bareback, or the feeling is about the same? Also, does being bred feel that good? I see that many fags love cum and love being bred. I would never spit Master Lorenzo’s on the floor or refuse to take facial, because I really want to improve my skills and be a good fag for my Master in the future. However, I am so afraid of SITs… I literally panic when I think about the risks of taking cum in my hole, so I can’t relax, enjoy, and serve my Man as I should.
The only solution I envision right now is finding a good Master who will take care of me, take me as his boyfriend, do all the tests regularly, and then I will allow him to breed me whenever he wants. But I don’t know how realistic this is, since most of the Men I know, gay, bisexual, and straight, do not fuck just one hole, they love having many holes for them, so I cannot see a safe way to take cum in my fag pussy.
Sorry if this is a stupid question, Sam. Am I a bad faggot for having these thoughts? I am just so afraid… I know that if I come home with a SIT my father would beat me up for being a faggot.
I really admire you, respect your work, and I hope to be smart and clever like you are one day.
Thank you, Sam! I don’t know if you will be able to read and answer this, but if you ever read this message, please know that there is young twink in a small town in Argentina who loves you!
My sweet little Argentinian angel … of course I would read and respond to your question! After all, I made this website ten years ago for wonderful boys JUST LIKE YOU!
First of all, congratulations on losing your virginity, as well as serving four Alphas in total this year! Good boy! Those are big steps, but you sound like an intelligent young brother!
Ignore what your idiot friend said about how “if you haven’t been bred by a Man then you’re still a virgin”. You still felt the Man’s dick in your ass, didn’t you? You definitely are no longer a virgin! Silly stuff! LOL
I understand why you feel uncomfortable about cum. However, it’s an important issue for Alphas, and they definitely want faggots who love and respect their cum. So what can we do to handle that? First of all, I recommend that you serve Alphas your own age, because they will (most likely) be disease-free (STI’s, not SIT’s) and just as off-balance as you are.
But if you’re serving older Alphas, you must be okay asking them to get tested first. It is your right to protect yourself, even if you are a faggot. Older Alphas are more likely to maybe have something, especially if they’re promiscuous. That doesn’t mean they do, just more likely. Respectfully ask them to get tested.
If you follow these sensible guidelines, you’ll be able to relax and enjoy serving with your whole body, heart, and mind!
And by the way, you’re not being a bad faggot AT ALL. In fact, you’re demonstrating the kind of cautious-yet-eager attitude toward service that any Alpha loves to find in a faggot. You WILL find the right Master as long as you continue to grow in your submission and remain humble!
I love you very much, baby brother! Thank you for writing to me, and I hope I was able to ease your mind, little one!
My boyfriend and I have been in a relationship for the past six years. Recently he had to move in a different country for some months so we are experiencing long distance for the first time.
I refer to us as “boyfriends” because that’s how we’re publicly viewed but as a matter of fact I’m a faggot and he’s my master.
To spice things up, since we won’t be able to see each other for another two months, he decided to revoke any permission to touch myself, so that I could “enjoy it more when we are together”, as he said. Naturally I accepted his will without any doubt that it is the best thing that I could do, but now, two weeks in, I’m really struggling. I don’t have a cage, so I feel “it” yearning to be touched in a way. I never did chastity before but i really don’t want to disappoint my master in any way so I’m refraining to do anything that he wouldn’t want me to do.
What I’m asking is if there’s anything that could make this easier??
also I’m curious if don’t touching myself for so long will make cumming from being fucked easier in some ways.
Brother, thank you for writing!
I really admire you for trying so hard (no pun intended) to remain faithful to your Master’s command to refrain from masturbating! It’s definitely not easy, especially if you’re new to it and are accustomed to jerking off all the time. I know too many faggots who would just masturbate anyway, their unfaithful and disobedient minds reasoning that their Master would never know for sure. You’re clearly different!
I don’t have any surefire method for this … I only know what worked for me. I had largely masturbated at least once every day since I started puberty, even while being owned. None of my Masters ever knew anything about it, nor did any of them ever demand anything regarding masturbation with me because I was never hard while serving.
When I started this site in 2015, I was still masturbating constantly (all the amazing porn I was uploading didn’t help!). However, as I really came to deeply know and respect some powerful God Alphas, I began to feel shame that I was using my penis like other Men, Men like them. That shame led me to slowly lose an interest in masturbating until I stopped.
By then, I was discovering the pride these Masters felt when their faggots accepted chastity in order to honor them, and my path toward chastity began. I finally understood that chastity isn’t a fetish (which is what I previously thought), but it is a profound way that faggots can show complete respect and devotion to both Alphas and to service. Finally I could no longer take it, so I caged myself (I was without an Owner at the time). The wonders I’ve discovered since being caged far outweigh the desire to masturbate, I assure you.
So I guess this is long way of telling you that you need to develop a disgust and shame for the practice, just the same way longterm smokers finally get sick of it and put them down forever. It’s really that, plus the fact that you love your Master more than you love yourself. There really isn’t more magic than that.
I wrote in early August asking about Black fags. You will probably not remember me. My name is Girard, 40 year old Alpha from France. I have been fucking subs for 20 years now, but 90% of them are white or Asian.
I currently have two white fags serving me, both are really sexy, tight holes, great cocksuckers. I introduced them to each other and the two fags are friends now. We have awesome threesomes together.
I told my boys that I wanna have some Black pussy to fuck, I keep thinking about their asses up with a Black ass in the middle of them, it turns me on to see the contrast between white ass, Black ass, then my big Black cock pounding both. Don’t ask me why, but this thought makes me really horny.
My fags are Remi and Jean. Remi said that, as long as I am happy, he will be happy to serve me alongside whoever I want. But Jean cut me off and said that he doesn’t feel comfortable kneeling and serving me besides a Black fag. Wtf? He literally takes my thick Black cock in his white ass several times a week. I am a dark skin man, a real son of Africa, the only white thing in my body is my cumshot. How does this fag serve me so well but doesn’t feel comfortable having a fag brother next to him?
I really don’t understand the mind of this fag. So I’d like to ask your opinion about it, Sam. Maybe I could keep Remi, dismiss Jean, find a Black fag and make my interracial stable come true.
Any thoughts?
Thank you for writing to me again, Master Girard! Yes, Master, I definitely remember you. HERE is the question you asked in August! (I’m a very good faggot, Master!)
Racism is such a plague in our world. It’s currently (and finally) destroying America, and it’s deeply dividing Europe as well.
But there is no room for racism from faggots. We faggots are essentially slaves, the lowest on the pecking order, so we don’t have any cause or place to take such an attitude against someone of another race, and especially not against a fellow faggot!
And here’s the other troubling aspect: Jean is supposed to be serving you as your personal fag, and its life is supposed to be devoted to and satisfying your desires … but then Jean won’t agree to helping you satisfy this deeply-held desire of yours? That makes no sense, and it makes me wonder why Jean was ever serving you in the first place.
So yes, Master, I think Jean needs to go immediately. You can replace a white faggot pretty easily in France.
Black faggots might be harder to find there, though, but I’m sure you have your methods.
I hope that helped, Master. You’re a great Alpha, and you deserve the best! Thank you for writing, Master!
Sam, I saw your post about Heated Rivalry and how the hierarchical truth is becoming more and more popular. I wanted to let you know about another recent example, the movie Pillion.
The movie openly shows a straight alpha owning a sub, converting it into a domestic faggot and forcing him to sleep on the floor.
And yet, the movie premiered in this year’s Cannes Film Festival and it is being publicised in billboards around my city.
It is only a matter of time hierarchy becomes the new normal in gay dynamics!
Dean
Thanks for the insight, brother!
It’s pretty hilarious that you bring that up, because about six hours before you wrote this I wrote the following on X:
Thanks for answering my question about the movie, which I gleaned just from this clip:
like most fags, I have always know my place is to service real men with alpha cocks. My problem is I’m not a twink or smooth. I’m a rougher looking blue collar guy in Wisconsin. I’m wondering how to more embrace the fag I am and how to find more alpha cock to service and cum to swallow.
Hi brother, thank you for writing!
It’s always difficult to fulfill your purpose when you don’t fit the stereotype Men think of when they think of a faggot. Over the years, I’ve encountered faggots of all types. I’ve met obese fags, muscular bodybuilding fags, twink fags, and blue collar “dude” fags like you.
And here’s the truth: there’s an Alpha out there for every faggot body type. What matters much more is a faggot’s attitude. Being submissive and service-oriented will go much farther than looks with Alphas.
Finding those Alphas for someone like you probably involves either searching through the Alphas you personally know, or going to places like gyms, sporting events, bars, etc. and making yourself useful. There’s no magic formula to this. It’s just a matter of making yourself available and being brave.
Just know that any useful faggot can (and will) be used. You can do this, brother!
Sam, question for ya. bi alpha here. There’s a fag (H)in my life I am pretty sweet on, or was. He’s been serving for about 10 months. Always horny like me, cute AF and seemingly a good person but our relationship isn’t what i’d call love. out of the blue two weeks ago he asked me to loan him out to someone he thought I knew. I didn’t know him but know of him and have a basic dislike of the dude. He’s a lobbyist and a Trumplican. So I said no. A few weeks passed and a mutual friend of mine and H’s let me know that H has been hanging around the guy’s office and apparently going out with him. I should just blow it off but it really got me angry. Knowing the lobbyist I’m sure he’s manipulating H into service. It’s who he is. I’ve treated H like a princess, always footing the bill, paying for his taxi rides and clothes, etc. i’m gonna confront H tomorrow but trying to find the right words. And in fact though we haven’t made any commitment, we have had an understanding about service and even ownership. Im kicking myself too for not being clearer and for caring as much as I do for this fag and for not trusting my gut a few times about his loyalty. Trying to figure out whether to just let it go and cede H to this loser who will just toss him in the ditch when he’s through with him. Or to correct H in such a way that gets my point across…in my anger right now my plan is to buy H a nice dinner tomorrow then afterward two rough cum injections then tell him to get dressed and never darken my door again. I will probably be nicer than that though, like try to explain why he’s making a bad choice. thoughts?
Sir, thank you so much for writing to me!
I’m always grateful to meet incredible straight/bisexual fag Owners, Sir! Alphas like you lead the way hierarchically, and you deserve unending respect and honor.
Which is why I’m mortified by what this faggot H is doing to you. What’s wrong with these stupid faggots?? Nature itself tells us our role and the proper way to submit, but too many faggots ignore it. They get this delusion that their pussies shit Skittles and gold, which is literally insane. Plus, lots of fags fall into the same trap many women do, namely, that the grass is greener on the other side.
Let me just say that the grass is NEVER greener on the other side for a faggot.
I agree with you that H is going to suffer from and regret choosing this Trumplican douchebag. You can’t trust a Trumplican to keep his word that he’s going to take another breath, let alone any tangible promise. It’s tempting to simply let H go off and get hurt.
However, that probably isn’t going to teach the faggot a proper lesson. And I’m of the mindset that this faggot needs to be broken.
You could do as you suggested and take the fag out to dinner, breed it, and then dismiss it. That’s probably the nicer way to do it (I sense you’re a Protector Alpha, so I understand why you lean toward this solution). My main issues with this plan are (1) the faggot gets a free meal and a breeding, and (2) the faggot’s comeuppance is still delayed.
But I’m more sadistic when it comes to faggot discipline (I swear I would’ve made a terrific Alpha Master! LOL), mainly because I’m so offended by the bad behaviors of my brothers. So I’m going to suggest a modification of a discipline that was effectively used on me when I was a younger faggot, a training I’ve called “The Nuclear Option”. Essentially, this involves restraining a faggot and forcing it to watch its Master use someone else (female or faggot) before being dismissed. It’s brutal, and inflicts the one thing faggots can’t handle: DENIAL.
In this modified version, you’d pull up to your faggot’s place to pick it up, and have it come out to the car. But when the faggot gets to the car, it will see a faggot sucking your dick. The faggot will be surprised, and in that moment you ask it if it went to see that Trumplican asshole. If it denies it, present it with proof.
And then you tell it you don’t want it or need it anymore (obviously), and drive away. Take the cocksucker out to a nice meal instead, and spend your night enjoying breeding a good boy rather than a hateful, selfish pseudo-faggot.
Hopefully you understand what I’m suggesting, Sir. I know it would destroy me if you did that to me!
Regardless of what you choose, I do think you need a clean break from this dumb fag. You’re far too good for it, and there are countless other fags and females who would love to serve you. Never surrender your pride and glory – your Alphahood – for any faggot, Sir!
Thank you so very much for reaching out to me, Sir. Please feel free to update me on how it goes, Sir!
P.S. How fucking pathetically hypocritical is it that a Trumptard is using a faggot? And how pathetically self-loathing is it that the faggot lowers itself even more (if that’s even possible!) by serving a hypocrite who is programmed by the cult to hate it?? It would be hilarious if it wasn’t so revolting!
The following post is part of a thread following an Alpha father named Jim who has discovered his 16-year-old son Brandon is a faggot. CLICK HERE to read all of these posts in chronological order!
One of the greatest unexpected missions of this website has been the surprising influx of straight fathers (both Alphas and betas) coming here for help with their faggot sons. I cannot fully express how humbled and honored I am every time I meet one of these great, loving fathers and hear their desperate pleas for help in reaching their sons. Every father/son story I’ve assisted over the years remains on display both here on the site and in my heart. In some ways, it’s my most cherished accomplishment with this site.
I feel sorry for these fathers because the world doesn’t even acknowledge hierarchy exists, let alone provide information on how to manage it as a parent with growing children. I’m sure it must be terrifying for a father to watch his son deviating off course from the rest of his peers and not knowing what to do to help him!
Fortunately this site acts as a safety net for all of the good fathers out there frantically searching for help. And when they land here, they find an overwhelming wealth of information about hierarchy, and the ring of truth in it spurs them to ask for help. It’s happened so many times now that it’s no longer an accident, but rather evidence of hierarchical truth … as well as the powerful love of a father for his son.
A straight Alpha father named Jim left a long message in my Questions From Readers inbox yesterday asking for help with his 16-year-old son Brandon. Sir Jim recently discovered his son is a faggot, but he didn’t understand what that meant or might mean for his son’s life. Here’s Sir Jim’s full letter to me:
Hi there Fag Sam, I am writing today to ask for your help and advice, it involves my 16 year old fag son Brandon, I Recently discovered he is a faggot and my whole world has been shattered-let me be clear I Love my son and will support him no matter what but I consider myself to be an alpha, I’m masculine, drink beer, go to the gym and lift weights, drive a truck,work a construction job, good with my hands, good sex drive, dominant by nature and I dominate and assert control over women and beta males, it comes natural to me, I know my son is not like that and I wish he was and had hoped he would be but that is not the case, i was googling about fags as truthfully I Haven’t given them much thought, i’ll admit i laughed at them in school, gave them the odd wedgie and took their lunch money and made them do my homework every now and then but beyond that never gave them much thought
my son Brandon was caught making out behind the school science building last week with a boy, the teacher called me in to say it was unacceptable for him to be missing class, I had no idea my son was a fag and was caught off guard, I spoke to Brandon afterwards where he confessed he was indeed a fag and had known all along, he broke down in tears and I reassured him I loved him and all was fine, but I Can’t help thinking about the life he will lead as a fag, i began googling lige as a faggot and stumbled across your website-what you say about Hierarchy and fags submitting and being submissive to Alpha men really resonated with me, I am wondering how do I approach this topic with my son and get him to understand that this is now the life he has ahead of him and to embrace his fag instincts and submit to Alpha men,i want him to understand his purpose in life and not feel shame and understand how the world and his world as a fag will work , I feel its my duty as a father to prepare and educate him and to honour all the alpha men out there who will use a fag like him, I would appreciate your advice
I confided in a friend of mine at work who is also an Alpha, Alpha Chris, he’s 54 and even more Alpha than me, we smoked at a lunch break last week and were just shooting shit and chatting the way guys do and I told him about Brandon, he told me he wasn’t surprised and had always known Brandon was a fag and thinks Brandon has a crush on him, he explained how he caught him staring at him multiple times over the years, particularly one 4th of July when our families celebrated together on a local beach and Chris was shirtless in swim trunks, this blew my mind the fact Chris could know and not me, we began talking and I Confided in him what I am confiding in you , Chris feels it is only right and natural for Brandon to submit and embrace his inner faghood and submit to Alpha men and take his place in the hierarchy system and learn his role as a fag the sooner the better, Chris told me he has used faggots before in college and all through his adult life for many things-laundry, chores, foot massage, making dinner, even to get his cock sucked when his wife wouldnt and even as a urinal, I was stunned but moved, Chris made a bold suggestion and suggested that Brandon come over the first weekend in December to serve him- a simple foot massage and chores and build from there, I have to say Sam I am considering it as Brandon is comfortable around Chris, I trust Chris the most and I want him to get the best care and training as a faggot and be happy in his new life.
Your website and Chris have helped me accept who my son is immensely. Should I take Chris up on his offer and have him train my boy next weekend, I want the best for him but am conflicted on what to do and who to talk to, I know you will understand and give me the best and most honest advice, I have been intrigued to learn how it all works and have been reading about Chastity and cock cages, i totally agree Fag cocks should be caged and locked up, they are not men, I bought one off Amazon a few days ago for Brandon and am considering giving it to Chris to give to Brandon to enforce that he wears it and start his training the right way in chastity, do you believe it will help him? am I doing the right thing, what are my next steps? any and all advice would be appreciated Fag Sam, appreciate it- a concerned and learning the ropes about Fags Father Jim, Alabama
That is possibly one of the most open-hearted letters any parent has ever shared with me. How on earth could I ever ignore such a request?? I only wish more fathers had this level of concern for their sons!
I want to just give a shout-out to Alpha Chris! Thank goodness he was there for his Alpha brother to confide in and advise! One again, it proves something I’ve insisted since Day #1: straight Alphas own and use faggots! The fact that Alpha Chris is willing to use his knowledge and expertise to train Brandon and give him a safe space it explore is amazing, and something I think most faggots wish would’ve happened for them!
Anyway, here’s how I responded to Sir Jim:
Sir, thank you so much for writing to me! Your letter deeply moved me, and I definitely empathize with your situation! However, I want to encourage you at the outset that this is not necessarily a time of sadness and despair. Instead, it could very possibly be a moment of transformation and freedom for your son. And the best part is this: YOU can be a huge part of that positive impact, and make that connection with your son you know you’ve been missing!
First let me just say that I’ve dealt with this exact situation many times before. CLICK HERE to read one such account. Also, THIS STORY was a hugely influential thread that ended up getting me a lot of hate from people accusing me of child porn or something. When I publish your letter on the site, I will also include a short video of an interview I had with a powerful God Alpha who has a faggot son that I think will touch you, Sir.
Let me start off by congratulating you on your willingness to help your son even though you probably don’t understand faggots that much (as you indicated) and you might even have a negative view of faggots. It’s okay to have those feelings, Sir. Don’t beat yourself up over it now that you’re probably dealing with your son’s status as a developing faggot. There’s no doubt your son looks up to you as the first and primary Alpha he’s ever known, and he’s desperate to be accepted by you. I know because I was that faggot years ago, and my Dad rejected me. I already know you would never do that to your boy.
I’m always so overwhelmed when Alpha fathers find there way to this site and to me in their search for answers to their son’s issues (Alpha or faggot). It’s wonderful that you took the time and effort to deeply search and reach out a trusting hand to a stranger on a website like this one just for a little help. Sir, I take that responsibility as seriously as anything else in my life, and I’m so grateful when I meet caring fathers like you.
I want to make one thing clear: not all gay males are faggots, Sir. Brandon kissing a boy might mean he’s gay, and not necessarily a faggot. A faggot is a type of gay male that functions as a slave or as property to serve the needs and desires of Men. I wrote a little book titled “Are You A Faggot?” that helps uncertain ones find out definitively if they are a faggot or simply a gay male. I’m willing to send you a free copy of it so you can use it with your son to determine where he is, but I don’t have your email address. You can write to me at hierarchyuniversity@gmail.com and I will send a copy directly to you, Sir.
I love that you confided in Alpha Chris, Sir! You see, you recognize hierarchy quite easily! And I think Alpha Chris is exactly right, honestly. I think it would be great for Alpha Chris to give Brandon a place to explore his purpose in a safe way while providing some useful training. I also really love that Alpha Chris confided in you about his use and ownership of faggots in the past despite being a straight Alpha, which I’m sure surprised you. As you know, however, straight Alphas keep lots of secrets that nobody would ever suspect.
Your plan to provide Brandon with a chastity cage is magnificent and honestly breathtaking. I’m glad you agree that faggots should be locked in chastity. Chastity will help Brandon focus on his purpose to serve, honor, and submit to Male authority. It will also (eventually) put him in a state of “perpetual subspace”, which is the optimum state for any faggot. I’m quite excited for the possibilities of this happening under the direction of you and Alpha Chris. I think you will be pleasantly surprised by the outcome of that, Sir.
I will admit that the fact that you live in Alabama gives me a bit of a cause for concern. Faggots aren’t treated particularly well in that part of the country, so being OUT-out might not be a great idea. There are plenty of Alphas in Alabama, though, and if Men like Alpha Chris exist there, then there are other Alphas either Brandon’s age or older who can be a good Master to him. I think I would just keep a close eye on that, though.
As far as other advice I might offer, just keep an open mind and an open channel of communication between you and your son. If Brandon ends up serving Alpha Chris for a weekend, Brandon will be quite excited when he returns. Be open to talking to him about what he liked or didn’t like, even if it makes you uncomfortable. You’re giving Brandon an unprecedented opportunity to finally be what he was born to be, and it will be lifechanging. Make it a positive one, Sir.
This website isn’t necessarily for minors, of course, but there are plenty of terrific resources here to explore together. In the right sidebar are links to many trainings as well as some dramatic true stories. Perhaps you can find some that you can share with Brandon, Sir.
Most of all, just remember that you are Alpha, and so is your friend Alpha Chris. More importantly, you’re both Protector Alphas. As leaders of hierarchy, part of your purpose is to protect and shepherd the weak. Brandon is that weaker vessel in need of shepherding so he can find his purpose in hierarchy as well. I have complete confidence in both of you. Brandon is very fortunate to be a faggot with Alphas like you guiding his life!
If you ever need anything, Sir, feel free to reach out to me! I would also love updates on Brandon’s progress!
Yours,
sam the faggot
In conclusion, all I can say to the fathers and sons out there is this: the love you have for each other is greater and more important than all other considerations. An Alpha father can watch his faggot son become the faithful and obedient property of a great Alpha brother, see the fulfilled joy and peace in his son’s eyes, and know that the struggle to understand and help him was worth it.
It is always worth it.
I cannot commend Sir Jim enough for taking his first steps to understand and help Brandon become the most fulfilled version of himself. His open-mindedness, curiosity, trust, and empathy will save his son!
It will also save his relationship with Brandon!
I’m so proud to assist, as well as carry this uplifting, inspirational story of love and purpose to the world! So many other fathers will be helped by Sir Jim’s radiant example!
What do I do when I realize at 65 years old and married that I am actually a faggot?
Thank you for the question, brother!
I’m sorry you’re realizing/accepting that so late in life! You have a complicated situation that is going to make things difficult as well.
Generally-speaking, sexual service is likely not going to happen unless you’re in incredibly great shape or you’re lucky. You might be able to find an Alpha who can use you as a domestic faggot (put out an ad on more conventional sites like Grindr offering such service). And of course, many older faggots find satisfaction serving Alphas financially fin findom.
Those are likely your options, brother. Thank you and good luck!
