Hi Sam! This is Nick again from Argentina. We talked about my fear of STIs and condoms in the past… I hope you are having a wonderful week! 🙂

I have a BIG QUESTION now, brother Sam. I am going out with an Alpha and he has fucked me five times. He is great and he respects me a lot. But something crazy happened. It sounds like a crazy porn movie, but it is true and I really need your help… This Alpha has a job and he really wants to be promoted. His boss is an older guy and the son of his boss is the manager who supervises him. The thing is that we all know each other although we are not close to each other. His boss’s son (the manager) is a gay Alpha with a very dominant personality and told him that he finds me hot. To be short, he basically said that, if my Alpha helps him to fuck my ass, he will talk to his father to promote him. It is my ass in exchange to his promotion.

To be honest, this guy is hot and I wouldn’t mind him fucking me if it would benefit my Man, but I am afraid that he will just fuck me and not help my Man at all. My Alpha talked to me and said that I don’t need to do it, but I know how much he wants this promotion… so I think it would be a good way to please him. Do you think it’s a bad idea, brother??

This is a follow-up to THIS QUESTION!

Nick, thank you for the follow-up question! It sounds like you’re progressing very well! Congrats on the new Master!

This is a pretty exciting predicament you’re in (it DOES sound like a porn movie!), and holds a lot of possibilities for you to be of service to two Alpha Masters! I don’t think this is a very hard decision to make, brother: you absolutely need to serve this gay Master. Even if your current Master doesn’t get the promotion, you’ll have shown yourself to be an exceptional faggot who is willing to do whatever it takes to full serve! There really isn’t a downside to this for you!

So go get the blessing of your Master, and then go service this gay Master!

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Hi, I recently started serving an 18 year old alpha who’s really hot and i want to talk to him more and learn more about his likes etc to better service him but he literally only sees me as an on call cum dump / ass Rimmer. I’ve met up with him twice and both times he just puts me under his desk and makes me suck him off while he works and ignores me. i find it hot but also sad that thats the only thing he wants from me. He never messages apart from the are you free now i need my cock sucked messages. Any ideas on how i can increase my service or should i just be happy he’s choosing me to drain his balls in even tho its kinda depressing.

Thank you for writing!

Well, you’re currently living every faggot’s dream, brother. I don’t know how else to put it. I guess I understand why you feel depressed? But on the other hand, I don’t understand AT ALL.

This Alpha is only 18 years old. He’s not interested in developing a relationship with a faggot. He’s using you to discover his own power and what he likes or wants. You get that, right?

If you want to do more for him, try this: “Sir, I was wondering if there are other ways I might be of service.” I mean, you get on your knees and suck his dick … surely you can end such an encounter with a simple question like that, right? He’s not going to get upset, trust me.

In the meantime, don’t overthink this. He’s young, horny, and naturally thoughtless. You’re a convenient hole for a young King that every faggot on planet Earth would love to service. Be grateful, not greedy.

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Im alex and 16 years old and in two weeks im going to the gym for tge first time and i want to get jaked but at the same time i want to suck a alphas cock but I can’t just walk to someone and ask him “ can i suck your cock” so i need ways to let alphas know that im a faggot and i want to suck there cock

Alex thank you for writing!

I appreciate the question, but I can’t be advising you on how to submit to Alphas over the age of 18 given that you are a minor. I suggest that you start submitting to Alphas in school who are your age and are therefore legal. There are plenty of ways to do this by making yourself useful to them, being respectful and complimentary, and by just your general demeanor. There are resources on this site you could use to offer yourself to them as well.

Good luck!

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Hey Sam, I really want your opinion about something

I’m a bisexual Alpha, I spent 18 years in a wonderful marriage with a lovely woman, we had 2 children who I love We got a divorce a few years ago, but everything eas very peaceful and we are still friends. She has a new boyfriend who treats my childre very well and I have nothing to complain about it.

I have a new boyfriend, a sweet and submissive 19-year-old faggot who loves calling me his Daddy. I introduced him to my children and, although it was a little awkward at first, they get along really well.

As you can see, everything seems to be great in my life, except for one detail: my fag boyfriend is the hungriest cocksucker slut you can imagine. I am 42, he is 19, so I get it, we have different levels of libido. But this has become an actual problem for our relationship. He is at college, I am a lawyer with a really stressful routine. While I deal with dozens of demanding clients everyday, he only needs to worry about looking sexy, going to the gym, and getting good grades. And so, sometimes I am too tired or stressed to fuck him, and he doesn’t accept it easily.

To be more clear: I would be happy fucking him every other day, maybe twice or three times a week. But he wants cum in his mouth every morning and hard cock in his ass every night. It’s simply impossible for me and I don’t intend to take pills just to get hard for him every night.

My wife and I used to have sex once a week. It’s been impossible to follow his pace and please him. Last night, when I told I wouldn’t fuck him, he got mad and said that if I keep refusing to fuck him he will need to “find a random jock at college and ride his cock”. It really hurt my feelings and he ended up apologizing, but I can’t stop thinking about it now.

I already fuck him good at least twice a week and I know I have a nice body and a good cock. I can make him moan very loud when I am banging him doggy or missionary, so it’s not like I refuse to fuck him, I just can’t keep up to his pace.

For two decades I felt like a King fucking my wife, protecting her, providing for her and my children. But now tis whole situation is affecting my masculinity a lot. It’s not easy to take a faggot as a boyfriend after 20 years in heterosexual relationships, but I do love him and want to have a good life by his side. I thought about opening our relationship and letting other younger guys fuck him, but I really don’t like the idea of other Men touching my boy.

I know very little about gay relationships or hierarchy, it’s a whole new world for me. Am I a pathetic Man for having this issue? I’d really appreciate your opinion.

Thank you,

Jacob

Sir, thank you very much for writing to me!

Welcome to the wonderful world of faggot ownership! It’s much different from any other type of relationship you might have had before, Sir, but I think you will find that it will satisfy certain primal needs almost all Alphas like you have.

One huge problem I see most straight Alphas encounter is the issue of reciprocity/equality with a faggot. Straight Alphas are conditioned by females and society to believe that inferiors (females or faggots) are on an equal footing with a Man. But THEY ARE NOT EQUAL. A Man (especially an Alpha) is superior, and is born to lead and be served/pleased/obeyed.

This is especially true with faggots. A faggot cannot be allowed to throw hissy fits or toss out insulting threats (like yours did), because once it gets away with that behavior it loses respect for the Alpha. That is catastrophic, because then the faggot mistakenly believes it has power over its Alpha, and the entire hierarchical foundation crumbles.

As a straight Alpha, you’re likely familiar with the term “pussy whipped”. Men invented that bullying term to mock Men who are led around (through emotional manipulation) by their females. No true Alpha should ever be pussy whipped, because pussy is always available to them. They don’t need to compromise their core being as an Alpha just to be pleased by one female.

Now replace the female in that scenario with a FAGGOT. There’s no way an Alpha should ever take orders from a faggot or spend his time worrying about the pleasure/needs of a faggot.

A faggot is a possession of an Alpha, not a partner, Sir. It’s not a boyfriend, it’s a faggot.

A large part of the issue here is you chose a much younger faggot. Young fags need to be trained, and it doesn’t seem like you have the time or stomach to train it. Young fags need to understand that their pussies aren’t magic, they don’t shit Skittles, and theirs isn’t the only fuckable asshole on the planet.

How can the tables be turned on your faggot? I strongly suggest putting a chastity cage on it, Sir. Make it into a ceremony if you’d like. But one thing must be emphasized: your faggot will start learning the power of DENIAL. It needs to learn that it exists for YOUR pleasure, not the other way around.

If it refuses this, then it needs to be dismissed.

Your faggot should be kneeling and kissing your feet when you return home. It should be doing domestic service, including cooking, etc. (I’m guessing it’s not currently doing these things). It needs to find fulfillment in SERVICE, since that is how true faggots are truly fulfilled.

Again, if it refuses, it needs to be dismissed.

If you dismiss the fag, seek an older replacement (in their 30s) who more deeply embraces its purpose. You could take ownership of a couple of fags, with a younger one to satisfy your Alpha “sweet tooth”.

You didn’t start using faggots because you wanted to replace your wife with a male version of your wife, Sir. You started owning faggots because you know you were born a King, and you wanted your life to reflect that. Until now, you’ve allowed this faggot to act like a wife.

But you’re a lawyer, Sir … so start laying down the law! Reclaim your rightful place at the top of hierarchy, and enjoy the fruits of Alphahood as nature intended for you!

Thank you again for writing, Sir! Please keep in touch!

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Hello, Sam

My name is Angel, I am a faggot from Mexico. Sorry by English, it is not very good.

I am 22 years, and am a really proud faggot. I love to be a faggot and I wanna be a faggot forever. I have been exploring hierarchy since I turned 19 in 2023, and so far have sucked 14 Alphas and have been fucked in the ass by 6 of them. I think it’s a good number for a faggot my age, right? I do my best to please them.

I work at a hair saloon cutting hair and doing make-up. All our clients are women and the employees there are 4 girls and me.  We have a security guard there who takes care of me and the girls. His name is Garcia and he is the perfect Latino Alpha, brother. Strong, tall, handsome, big arms, big hands, hairy chest. He is a God among Men. Since we are the only men working there, he feels more comfortable talking to me than with the girls, even though I am just a faggot. His wife is REALLY toxic and jealous and tells him not be friends with any of the girls, so I am the only person he can talk with no stress. He is not very progressive and quite conservative in some topics, but he has always been respectful with me although I am a real fag and femboy.

After a few months and with our friendship developing more and more, he confessed me that his wife is really toxic but he has 4 children with her and don’t want to divorce. I admit that for a second I thought he would want to have me as his faggot and that would be such a dream, but no. He asked me if he could use my house to fuck other women without his wife suspecting anything. So since last October he tells his wife that he’s gonna play soccer with the guys, come to my apartment and fuck his affairs in my bedroom while I wait in the kitchen cooking dinner for him. To have a perfect disguise, I usually text his wife telling that we are playing soccer, etc

So I really want to ask you 2 questions and would be really have if you could answer them: 1) should I stop giving him my house and cook for him while he cheats on his wife? They have a beautiful family together and every time I hear him banging random sluts in my bedroom I feel guilty and afraid of destroying such a nice family with four innocent kids; 2) I am desperate to serve him, I can’t stop thinking about his arms, chest, legs, and imagine how big his cock must be. But he is not at all like the straight Masters you feature here… He does not give me any hints that he would accept a blowjob from me, quite the contrary. He talks about his masculinity all the time and how much he loves pussy. But he always accepts me doing his laundry, cooking for him, and giving him my bedroom for him to fuck other girls. Do you have any tips of how to approach him in a subtle way showing how much I am begging to worship him? I have tried kissing his feet one day as a joke to see how he would react, but he immediately told me to stop with “gay shit”.

Please help me, brother! Thank you so much for everything you do for young faggots like me.

Dear brother, thank you for this letter!

What an exciting opportunity you have here! Alpha Garcia is clearly an incredibly powerful straight Alpha, and you’ve done a great job slipping into his trust and working your way into a position to serve him! I’m proud of you!

I’m also proud (and very impressed) that you’ve tried to kiss his feet! It’s a bummer he didn’t allow it, but Alphas usually don’t have a problem with a faggot massaging their feet. There would be nothing wrong with offering that service rather than kissing (which is a bit more intimate). I would also make sure you’re referring to him as “Sir” (I guess it would be “Señor”) so he is glorified.

It’s telling that he’s using you for laundry, cooking, and your house. It’s obvious that he knows exactly what you are and what your purpose is in the life of an Alpha like him. He’s not even shy about using you … he expects it. These are excellent signs, brother!

Let me answer your questions:

1. I realize that allowing him to use your place to fuck random women is upsetting you morally. It’s normal to worry about his family. However, you should look at it this way: he’s going to fuck whomever he wants because he’s Alpha. You refusing to allow him to use your house (a) limits what you can do in his service, and (b) puts him in greater danger of getting in trouble. So I think you should just focus on the privilege you have to serve him in this way.

2. You’re already doing a lot to serve this great straight Alpha. You should be grateful that he’s using you at all. Sadly, some straight Alphas will never come around to using a faggot sexually … and he might be one of them. But it might be a good idea to print out my “Letter To An Alpha” (in the right sidebar) and ask him to read it and give his opinion on it. I think that brief letter outlines hierarchy and purpose quite well, and many faggots have used it successfully. Try it, and see what happens. Otherwise, just be happy in his service in whatever way he allows!

You have a tremendous opportunity to find fulfillment serving such a powerful Alpha King! Just be submissive, grateful, and awe-struck as you faithfully submit to him! By our proper conduct as faggots we win over many straight Alphas! Always remember that!

I love you, brother! Keep me updated!

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I want to become a faggot for people but im only 15 and i just get hornier and hornier, yet i cannot act upon it, i really need help :C

Thank you for the question, little brother!

I know how you feel. Just know you’re not alone, okay?

You’re in high school, which means you have plenty of ways to be of service to Alpha classmates. Offer to do homework, or buy them food, or whatever else you can. Just be kind, respectful, and submissive. It will work out!

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I live in a country where no cages or dildos can be sold and the urge to lock my cock is killing me and i want to find alternative ways to lock my cock what should i do ?

Thank you for the question, brother!

I’m sorry you’re dealing with this situation. Don’t get disheartened. Situations can change if you work at it, so don’t give up!

As for the alternatives to chastity cages, there aren’t many natural options. You could wear an athletic cup as a reminder of your place and use your mind to to remember the importance of why you’re wearing it. But in terms of actually locking down, there isn’t a non-manufactured method.

I wish I could be of more help, brother!

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Hey brother, I wanna start by saying that I love and admire your work. Thus, I hope you don’t mind me respectfully disagreeing with you for the first time.

I am a 40-year-old faggot and have been following your work for years. I am in love with the powerful young Alphas whose stories I can learn about thanks to you. That being said, did you seriously use words like “unacceptable” and “disappointing” to describe the glorious and powerful King Lorenzo? He saved the life of a fag and his mother, he takes care of two boys and one trans boyfriend, he is a successful Man and a powerful big dick Alpha, he mentored his brother Jose and made him embrace his Alphahood… but now you are disappointed because he wants to cum on his brother’s face? We both know that our opinions and thoughts don’t actually change the life of a King like him, but I truly think that most fags on Earth would not react as you did. Again, I profoundly respect you and your work here, but don’t you think you are overreacting a little bit this time? To me, it seems to me just two Alphas in a healthy and very natural competition of Alphahood since they both know that Lorenzo has the big dick (literally and figuratively).

And it also makes me think about the effect of cum: I understand your point about the humiliation of taking a facial. But Jose has been bred several times before. Is it really that worse to take his brother’s cum on his face?

Since the young and wonderful Master Jose felt comfortable to share this issue with you, I would like to say something about it to.

I love you, my brother Sam! And I love your work! Please don’t get me wrong, ok? I am disagreeing with you here out of the deep respect I have for you.

Take care,
Fag Jeff.

*** This is in response to THIS POST. ***

Brother, thank you for the nice feedback!

I can definitely understand why you might feel that way. After all, I’m a faggot, and technically don’t have much of a right to criticize Master Lorenzo.

On the other hand, I’m sort of in a peculiar position in that I’m a mentor faggot who has advised both Master Lorenzo and Master Jose. In fact, they met through he (and this site), and my advice was instrumental in Master Jose’s embracing his Alphahood. So this situation is very personal to me.

I think I see this situation the way a lot of people do.

Master Lorenzo breeding Master Jose is NOT a humiliation for Master Jose. It was a sharing of power and intimacy. As Master Jose said, he felt incredibly powerful after being bred by his superior. This effect between Alphas has been confirmed multiple times on this site when Master Chad bred Master Cal and others. I can’t explain the phenomenon entirely since I’m a fag, but something quite powerful occurs hierarchically when a superior Alpha breeds an inferior Alpha.

But there is no way to see having an Alpha cum on another Alpha’s face as anything except humiliation. Alphas cum on our faces to humiliate us, don’t they? How could it be anything except humiliating for an Alpha to receive a facial? In fact, it would be VASTLY MORE HUMILIATING for an Alpha to receive a facial!

I think the most important piece of evidence to support my position is Master Jose’s gut reaction to that idea. He’s humiliated by even the suggestion from an Alpha he deeply admires! That ALONE should be the reason why Master Lorenzo should never do such a thing. Master Lorenzo has helped Master Jose become the very real Alpha he is today. Why would he want to cum on Master Jose’s face, humiliate him, and destroy Master Jose’s confidence that way??

So I do hear what you’re saying, but I’m still firmly against this and I’m still profoundly disappointed in Master Lorenzo’s selfish insistence on such a course without even considering his brother’s very real feelings.

I care about both of these powerful and superior Men. I’m trying to shepherd them from my vantage point as a faggot devoted to both of them and their respective Kingdoms (of which I’ve been blessed to be a part). Despite being a faggot, I cannot stand idly by while one of my Masters ruins the confidence of another.

No way.

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Hello Sam. I just found you and would love to connect and get access to some of your archive. Knee deep into podcast and so Thankful for your courage and representation.

Well, I’m glad you found me, too! There are a million ways to connect to me; check out my “LINKS” page in the menu. As far as the archive, most necessary information is in the right sidebar, including links to most of the incredible true story threads this site has cultivated over the years! It’s a lot of information, it’s updated daily, and it’s your free sandbox … so go explore!

Thank you for reaching out!

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This is a link to my bdsmlr blogpost but i will copy my experience here. I dont wanna take your time dear Sam but I always think of you in these moments because you helped me a lot with understanding how I am. This is nothing new for you but it still fascinates me how nature works and what we know now about it.

So i met this alpha guy on Romeo. He doesnt live in my town but 2.5h drive. He was sexy muscular blonde bully type with a thick cock. And i dont have sex often ,I pick my guys I need to be attracted to the in order to have sex and this is my type. So when he offered to come ,i said yes to this happening with appreciation . Usually for these type of guys that I consider straight ,I always cross dress and lock up in chastity for them . I dont mind the contrast between us and they love it and most of the time demand it. So because Im picky I dont have sex very often and I am a lazy fagboi ,and I dont train my pussy ever with a dildo just due to laziness of needing to douche before toyplay. I did prep for this guy with a smaller dildo before he came. And here is what happened – he fucked me 3 times in 1h ,i cleaned his dick after every anal penetration and he was expecting me to ,but he treated my ass as any girls pussy . He just sticked it in and start fucking like he would fuck a girls pussy. And the pain wasnt too crazy even though it was a lot and I just let him use me as he wants.  I had one ibuprofen to take the pain edge off but it hurt so bad ,at the beginning especially and after a bit of fucking i got used it.  The thing is – this happened 1.2 2026. and now is 3.5.2026 that im writing this post and it STILL HURTS. He obviously did some damage but nothing too serious ,no infections ,even though periodically I had a bit of blood on the toilet paper and there would be some lingering pain after bowel movements. Its getting better and healing slowly because of the nature of that area being used for bowel movements. I cant fuck anyone else until it passes and this is the part that is interesting to me ,each time my ass hurts I think of him ,and I somewhat enjoy it and I would do it all again. Fag brains fascinate me ! We let men abuse and damage our bodies and we thank them and crave more. I am proud that I took that like a champ that being I let another male use and degrade me for his own pleasure. How crazy is that??  And it seems like no amount of post nut clarity or psychological workarounds can cure me from wanting more. I dont like pain ,i dont crave being destroyed by an alpha but the fact I am willing to put up with my body being damaged to a certain degree for just a bit of HIS temporary pleasure fascinates me. He doesnt give a shit about me ,maybe we will never meet up again ,god knows he hasnt called me and yet I would let him do it all over again. Arent we so cute as fags hehe . It really makes sense to me that we are a special kind of being,created my nature to serve these alpha kings. It just resonates and it feels like truth not some acquired fetish taste.  And i know this because I sucked a boy when I was 6 years old and he didnt want to suck me back (i didnt mind even back then) and later on he had only girlfriends and I remained a fag. Nature is so fascinating ,cant wait to have more revelations about this subject . Thank you for reading .

Thank you for writing!

I think a lot of faggots will relate to your feelings, brother. I know I still have “phantom pain” from my rape many years ago. I think back to bleeding for days afterward with a mixture of horror, pride, and, morbidly, some excitement. That pain was excruciating, as were some of the larger black Alphas who’ve fucked me. My pussy still tingles at just the memories!

But you’re right: faggots are a special type of creation. We are very much like dogs in that, no matter how badly one might treat a dog, it’ll still come back, trying to please. We derive so much pleasure emotionally from serving that it glosses over the pain we endure (or makes it more bearable).

Smart Alphas understand that about faggots!

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Hi sam,

In your experience, what’s it been like when you’re serving a straight alpha and he takes a woman? My alpha recently met a girl, and they’ve been all over each other (constant hugs, etc). I always knew this would happen someday, but I didn’t realize it’d be this difficult to watch.

I’ve really sacrificed for this guy in the past, and every piece of his affection was something I fought to earn. This girl just shows up, jiggles her tits, and in 2 weeks he’s drowning her in attention. I understand my place, but it still hurts. Should I talk to him about it? What should I say?

Thank you for the question!

Serving straight Alphas is one of the most difficult situations a faggot will ever encounter. Heartache and heartbreak are baked into it from the moment he takes ownership until the moment he dismisses you because he’s getting married.

And I know this because I’ve had it happen to me multiple times.

The best solution to this situation is to become even more submissive and appreciative.

Yes, I know that’s not what your heart wants right now. You want to have some dramatic “me or her” ultimatum showdown, or some teary-eyed “what about me?” moment that you think will move the needle.

It won’t. That’s what I did, and every time it only made things worse. In the case of my greatest Master, Aaron, he looked at me and calmly said, “Sam, I know what you want, but I can’t give that to you.” It still hurts me after all these years later.

The best course is the one Alberto chose when dealing with Master Andre’s straight love life. Rather than complain and cry and demand “rights”, Alberto just made himself even more useful and submissive. This won over Master Andre’s heart, and he chose to keep Alberto over the females.

And that’s because faggots don’t really have any bargaining power with a straight Alpha. Jiggling tits will always be more attractive to straight Alphas than a fag’s ass. So we need to become an even more submissive stress reliever for our straight Masters, not a source for more.

I hope you get this and start applying it immediately.

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This post is part of a thread following a faggot named Giovanni who is owned by Master Lorenzo. CLICK HERE to read all of these posts in chronological order!

When I answered THIS QUESTION from a reader regarding Master Lorenzo’s desire for a transsexual mate despite owning two amazing faggots, I just knew I would hear from Master Lorenzo’s fag Giovanni. I was pretty annoyed by the criticism, so I knew my distant brother and faithful, fully-bred faggot Gio would have a few curt things to say about it.

Here is what Gio wrote in response to this reader:

Hello brother Sam!!

I just read the question of a fag saying rude things about my Master and King Lorenzo. Thank you for saying that he is a God and a Master who deserves everything he wants!!

And let me be very honest here: some friends of mine do not understand why I have an open relationship with him if I love him so much. But loving him is exactly the reason why I don’t mind him fucking Rafa and Mario. I understand his needs and I am happy if he is happy. Sorry to say that, but some faggots seem to be brainwashed by monogamy and they forget to enjoy life by the side of fantastic Men like Lorenzo!!

He has NEVER hit me, offended me, cursed me, or disrespected me in any way. Quite the contrary, he literally saved my mom and I, even paid my mom’s rent for several months when she was unemployed. So how can someone possibly think that he is toxic just because he needs to breeds other holes? He bathes me with his own hand and puts  ointment inside my hole with his own fingers. He treats me like his princess. If that’s the life of a mere cumdump, 95% of my female friends wish their boyfriends treated them as a cumdump.

Lastly, I got a fissure for taking part of his loads. Imagine what would happen if I took all his loads! Having Mario and Rafa is an act of love to preserve my hole as well.

Anyway, I know he doesn’t need us protecting him online because he is a King. But I wanted to share this message to thank you for saving the right thing and, most importantly, tell our fag brothers: don’t be selfish! If a good Master wants to take care of you like Lorenzo does with me, embrace the opportunity!

This is a much better defense of Master Lorenzo than I could ever muster! Giovanni has experienced the tenderness and gentle care Master Lorenzo lavishes on all of his boys, so he knows better than I do and certainly better than an anonymous reader!

Thank you, Giovanni, for adding your voice to Master Lorenzo’s chorus of praise!

Love,

sam the faggot

i am an 81 year old sub. i have been privileged to serve 2 alphas in my life.

i have been searching for a new alpha and have no been successful

where can i find an alpha at my age

i still have a lot to give

Thank you for your question!

I just had a similar question yesterday. I encourage you to read my answer there, since it will be very similar: https://hierarchyuniversity.com/questions-from-readers-598/

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Hi, I have been reading your work for years, Sam. And Master Lorenzo is my favorite one of all the magnificent Alphas featured on this page.

But I used to admire him more before this whole Mario situation. I mean, he already has Gio and Rafael but still he needs an “official boyfriend”? WTF be honest, my brother: isn’t it a little toxic of him? Would you accept to serve a Master who needs to have an “official” partner while you are just a cumdump? I know I would never accept that. I get it having multiple faggots or having a wife to have chidlren, but what is the point of having a trans boyfriend while he already has 2 loyal fags by his side?

Thank you for your question!

I’ll admit I was a bit disappointed when I first heard about Mario, and my first reaction was similar to yours. However, you must remember that Master Lorenzo is technically a bisexual Alpha; he still likes females and pussy.

Of course, the natural fag reaction would be: “Well, I have a hole he can use!” True, but fags all need to remember that a female pussy is specifically designed to accommodate a penis. The impermeable lining of the vagina, the muscles running along its length, all of it is designed to pleasure the Man and cause him to ejaculate. It feels good to a Man, so they crave that snugness and warmth all the time.

So I don’t resent Master Lorenzo for being interested in taking Mario’s vagina when the opportunity presented itself, and you shouldn’t either.

Ultimately, Master Lorenzo is a God Alpha. It would be a privilege to be owned by him as his personal toilet scrubber. As a faggot, it is inappropriate to tell him how he can live his life. I assure you that both Giovanni and Rafael don’t feel like they’re only cumdumps, because Master Lorenzo is a truly great King. He doesn’t treat them like that. You’re wrong to categorize their situation this way.

If you couldn’t do it, fine. But I guarantee you that a life spent as Master Lorenzo’s cumdump faggot is better than a life spent with any other Man.

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I have been a slave since I was 23 and my 19 yr old alpha roommate dominated me. I am now in my 60s and sexually have always been submissive. Lately, I realized that I have wasted my whole life, because I have only been sexually submissive, and I have not given my whole life to the Alpha men who used me. I always thought it was a sexual fantasy. But lately, I realized that I’m not only sexually inferior, but I am completely inferior. I am sad that it’s taken me 62 years to understand that. Now I am craving life is to find a man who is willing to take on an older inferior. But am I past my prime?  What can an older slave like me do to improve the lives of Alpha men.  I want to spend the rest of my life in servitude.  I just don’t know where to begin.

Thank you for the heartfelt question, brother!

It’s always heartbreaking to hear from faggots like you (and I’ve heard from a lot of them). Your generation and older didn’t have the internet, nor did you have the more widespread acceptance of homosexuality that many cultures have today. Most gay males spent their lives in frustration, hiding in the closet and rarely getting the opportunity to experience fulfillment of any kind.

The one group of gay males that often DID find fulfillment (at least fleeting tastes of it) were faggots. You see, faggots have always been around, and Men have always been using us. So these faggots were able to serve quite often, albeit in secret.

You are an example of this. At 23 years old your 19-year-old Alpha roommate recognized what you are and took ownership of you. That is pure hierarchy in action. My straight best friend did that to me at age 17. We all have stories like that.

The difference between us occurred after that first service opportunity stopped. I turned around and became a super-faggot, whereas you bottled it up and hid it away.

Believe me, I feel for you, brother. However, all is not lost. Older faggots have a longer shelf life if they convert to becoming domestic faggots. I have a wonderful and inspiring thread here on the site of a wonderful older faggot named Chadwick who still wanted fulfillment so badly that he began offering domestic service to Alphas on apps like Grindr and such, and before you could blink twice he had a bunch of Alphas using him that way! The thread is in the right sidebar.

So don’t give up. Anyone who submits and embraces their truth as a faggot can be useful to Men!

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Hello sam! As a faggot who enjoys my small penis to be humiliated by Alphas, i was curious to know if it’s possible for an Alpha to have a Micro Penis, or a small than average Penis. So i suppose my question is, can an Alpha have a Small Penis, and does Alpha Penis size matter?

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Thank you for writing!

In a general sense, penis size doesn’t matter when it comes to Alphas. HOWEVER, I think it’s virtually impossible for an Alpha to have a micropenis, which is why I refuse to acknowledge so-called transsexual Alphas as true Alphas. I say this because being dominant requires penetration. I will never come off that position.

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Hello, I have this one guy who I’ve had sex with, he says he is straight but like the way guys give blowjobs and are okay with being fucked, his entire attitude and demeanor reminds of alpha men, but he seems to not fully realize it, j as a faggot sent him this page and asked him to go through it, is there any ways I can help him realize it faster?

Thank you for the question!

Sometimes despite all of the obvious evidence some Alphas don’t fully understand or accept what they are. Some are disproportionately modest, too. Through your submission and worship, many will generally start to embrace their truth.

If you want to help the process along, you might send him my “Letter To An Alpha” (or link him to it). There I spell out the basics of hierarchy, including his role as an Alpha. This might cause him to view you in a different light, as well as his own motivations.

Just keep serving him and worshiping him. Kiss his feet. Call him “Sir”. Thank him for using you. He’ll get the point.

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Hi Sam, 23 year old muscular jock here who loves to wrestle. But I’m a bitch to big Asian cock, especially my Sir Grant’s. Whoever says Asians can’t be kings are lying. Sir Grant is 20 years old and has been using me as his personal fuck toy for the past five years. He’s so unbelievably dominant that I sometimes am just awestruck at how he commands and controls, during fucks and outside of fucks.

I used to bully him when he joined the high school wrestling team at 14, I was 17. I teased him, kicked him around, even called him pathetic. But the next year, Sir Grant’s skinny body was gone, he was a jacked hunk. He absolutely destroyed me, pinned me, slammed me around, made me tap out.

I never felt so useless, but I was also so hard. Sir Grant made me strip, and laughed at my little nub, when he pulled out an 8″ monster cock, even at 15 years old. He made me suck him, destroyed my throat, and made it my pleasure to worship his big Asian cock from a superior real male.

I learnt how good his thick cock felt choking me of all breath. He fucked my head repeatedly, and drowned me in his seed. The next time we wrestled, and after owning me like the superior he was, Sir Grant made me suck his cock wet, then turned me around and began forcing his cock into my white pussy. He didn’t stop as his massive cock plunged in and out of me, and I was transformed. I loved the pain and pleasure from his cock, so thick and so commanding and so good in me, especially when he finally came inside my ruined pussy.

Sir Grant has only gotten stronger and bigger. He’s shorter, but so much more built, and feels ten times stronger than I am. His cock, last we measured, was almost 11 inches. Huge and uncut, and he likes to slap my face around with it.

Just yesterday, Sir Grant fucked me hard in front of some of his friends. Wrestled me and threw me around, picked me up like a feather, and slam me down before fucking me. Stretched my jaw around his cockhead, tasting his sweat and scent, before he flipped me, stuffed my face with his jock, and pounded me for hours.

I still struggle to take all 11 massive thick inches of Sir Grant, but he keeps training me to be his perfect cock sleeve. He talks down to me, calling me his “pathetic white cumdump”, how I use his “superior Asian cum to bulk up”. I passed out from cumming so much from his cock in me and woke up to him still fucking me. Sir Grant has fucked me for a whole day without showing tiredness. And his loads are so massive.

Today, I’m so sore, but I can still feel my pussy muscles trying to clench around his phantom cock inside me. He’s fucking a girl so loud in his room, and I wish it was me taking his powerful cock and vigorous fucking.

I’m addicted to him, Sam. You can probably tell how much I love Sir Grant and his big Asian cock. He fucks me crazy, but my white pussy always needs days of rest after he fucks and breeds me. He constantly fucks other guys and girls, but I’m his longest serving bitch. I’m his roommate officially, but his house bitch in reality, so I am always open for him.

Wrestling is our shared hobby, we have a whole set-up in our basement, and he loves to dominate me hard before he destroys my pussy for hours in our home gym. I’ve become his domestic servant and bitch, such as letting him use me as a footstool, sniffing his pits, cleaning his room, even Sir Grant asking me to wash his hair. He seems to like it, and pets me and compliments me before fucking me stupid.

My question to you, Sam, is that is it normal of me to want more? A fantasy I have is for him to bully-fuck me, like I used to bully him. Kicking me around. Treat me like dirt. Bash my body. Sir Grant is brutal, but he has never completely let loose on me, I can feel it. I can feel my Sir is far stronger than he shows. How can I get him to unleash that power on me? I want him to humiliate me even more. I want him to degrade me harder. Use me on his large cock even more brutally. Amplify the difference between his Asian supremacy over my white wrestler bitch body. I’m building my body up for Sir Grant alone so he can use me even harder. Fuck me longer and rougher, even after I’ve passed out. What can I do to devote myself to Sir Grant and show him that I’m ready for more?

Thank you for the question!

Actually, it’s not really much of a question. After all, what else can you possibly do to devote yourself more to the needs of your Master, Sir Grant?? You’re essentially doing everything and anything he demands of you without question. He’s clearly at least an Apex Alpha, if not fully a God Alpha. He’s not holding back from using you at all.

Things seem perfect, honestly.

If you want him to beat you up more, then I suggest you kneel before him and make that request. I’m sure he won’t have any problem getting revenge on the way you treated him when you were younger.

But I will say this to everybody out there: stop stereotyping Asian Men. Many of them do not fit that stereotype at all, and your prejudice is likely to end up with you pulverized and left for dead. Sir Grant is yet another example this site has recently published of the phenomenon of powerful God-level Asian Alphas with big dicks totally ravaging faggots and females. Don’t sleep on Asian Alphas!

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Hi! Ive tried sending you this question before but I don’t think it worked so im sending it again!

Im a faggot who’s been serving Alphas for 5 years now. Ive served a few different alphas and I’ve noticed that close to all of them had a big dick. Now, im not saying they were all 12+ inches, but definitely bigger than average. I know that Alphas have penises of all sizes, and I also know that faggots can have big dicks too (though they should never use it), but do you think there is a correlation between penis size and being an alpha? Is a man with a big dick more prone to being an Alpha? Does it have something to do with hormones and testosterone? Id love to hear your perspective on this!

Thank you for the question five times over two days! I try to work in order so I don’t miss anything, but I’m jumping out of order to respond to your “urgent” question so that you’ll stop asking it. LOL

Think the issue you’re talking about really relates to a sense of confidence gained because of having a large dick. Certainly, any Man with a large package is going to feel some sort of way about it. He has extra swagger in his step from knowing what he has between his legs. This is only natural.

It doesn’t necessarily mean he’s truly Alpha.

I know a couple of “pre-Alphas” with big dicks, and much of their Alpha-like swagger comes from their cock size. However, they are not fully Alpha, just non-submissive straight Men.

So generally speaking, unless the male is fully a beta or faggot, a big dick will make any Man feel more Alpha-like.

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Hi Sam! I’m a fag in my late 30s living in the northeast US, and the straight alpha I’m longing to serve lives in the Midwest. I had a crush on the guy in college, but I moved on from wanting a romantic connection with him by the time we were done with school (almost 20 years ago). I found out after college that he’d been fucking guys all through college, but he was keeping it on the DL because he was concerned about hurting my feelings. I’m pretty sure he and another one of our close friends were also banging on the regular, and in retrospect, there were a few opportunities for the three of us to play that I was too chicken to pursue.

A few years ago, I brought it up, and he said, “Yeah, everyone needs a big cock up their ass sometimes.” It wasn’t what I was expecting, but I was glad that bringing it up didn’t mess with our friendship. In 2022, I visited him for a week, and he flirted with me the whole time! In front of his girlfriend (now wife), he suggested that I might want to suck a load out of his cock—she looked mildly scandalized, but I got the impression he found a woman who lets him fly his freak flag. At another point in the visit, we were in the back patio of a bar and he was telling me a story about going to a strip club with friends, and he grabbed my crotch playfully at one point to make a point. My partner (male) and I went to his wedding last year, and though we didn’t make out (like we did at a mutual friend’s wedding a few years prior), we danced together and I felt the charge still there. I also met a friend of his during that visit, who he does a naked bike ride with every year; I also felt a charge with that guy.

It’s obvious he was testing and provoking me when I visited, but at the time, I was too scared to jump on the opportunities he presented. We catch up on the phone occasionally, and the guy is still my best friend, but we don’t see each other in person very often.

I fantasize constantly about serving him and his friend, giving them my holes and my hands and my mouth, letting them dominate me and in all ways treat me like the fag I am. He and his wife might be heading my way at some point this year—do you have any suggestions about how I can find and engineer opportunities, both now and when he’s here, to communicate my eagerness to please without going overboard? I feel confident that our friendship can withstand some stretching of the boundaries that have been there for close to two decades, but I get the feeling the onus is on me to make the next move. What do you think?

Thank you for the question!

Your situation is incredibly disappointing, You’ve had TWO DECADES of this straight Alpha signaling that he wants to use you, and you’ve pushed him back or stalled out of fear. What else needs to happen? Does he need to hire a sky-writer to write “SUCK MY DICK” in the air? Maybe take out a full-page ad in a newspaper?? It makes no sense.

Now here we are and you’re asking me what to do to encourage him to use you. It’s crazy. I literally think you just need to get up enough courage to kneel before him and apologize for not being brave enough to submit to him. Better yet, copy my “Letter To An Alpha” (link in the right sidebar) and send it to him. See what he says.

Look, I’m not trying to hurt you … but you need to understand how insane it is that you’ve been this constipated all of these years while this Alpha has been practically demanding service from you. There are so many faggots who would KILL to have such an opportunity handed over to them on a platter.

You’ve done the exact wrong things with this Alpha to this point. Time to start doing the right things before it’s too late. Shit or get off the pot!

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