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April 4, 2026 No Comments

Hi sam–do you have any unconventional service ideas for a straight alpha? The usual massages + financial and domestic work are feeling a bit stale. I want to do something that will wow him and make him think: “Damn, that’s my faggot!”


Thank you so much for the interesting question!

I hope you’re having success with those other methods, because they do work! But I get it … there’s only so many times you can rub a straight Alpha’s feet before he wonders why he has you around.

Depending on the situation, you could pay for a wonderful date night for an Alpha and his girlfriend/wife, offer to chauffeur them to and from the event, and perhaps do other things (like flowers, etc.) to make it extra special. Alternatively, if you can cook, you could make an extravagant meal for them and serve it to them, then clean up afterward. If you’re an in-house faggot, you could also serve them breakfast in bed. Why am I suggesting these things? Because honoring a straight Alpha’s romantic relationship and making him look good in her eyes increases the value of the faggot doing it!

Another thing straight Alphas love are their cars. I used to surprise my Master Aaron with deluxe detailing or I’d buy him new rims or whatever, especially if he had some big event. You can try that. It worked for me.

Gift giving in general is always good, but especially when it’s tailored to a particular interest. One of my Alphas loved Michael Jordan shoes, so I’d surprise him with a latest pair that I knew he wanted. Things like that show a straight Alpha that he’s important enough to especially cater to.

I also took classes on massage and pedicures, so I was able to increase my value for straight Alphas as well. This is extra training I took on so that I might be able to offer that at any time.

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April 3, 2026 2 Comments

My Alpha has requested for me to build myself a shrine of Him in my room and I’m not sure how to, what would be the best advice for building it just pictures? Or is there anything special I can do to show my devotion to Him with this shrine?


Thank you for writing!

First of all, I doubt he “requested” it … more like commanded it.

A shrine dedicated to an Alpha would of course have pictures, maybe personal effects if they’re available, etc. It might also include a mantra or a poem or some other writing/drawning dedicated to him. A shrine should be something from the heart that encompasses the feelings of worship the faggot has for its Owner.

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April 3, 2026 1 Comment

Hey Sam — have you had any contact with Alpha Dally?  he’s on twitter as : @alpha_dal   Only 18 and looks/seems incredible. Any info about him?


I haven’t had much conversation with him. He doesn’t seem very talkative, which isn’t surprising for a young straight Alpha who’s likely unaccustomed to so much faggot attention. I’d like to be able to publish something about him, because he is quite spectacular to look at!

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April 3, 2026 No Comments

It seems like we are missing out exploring the other categories. Especially Beta alpha and Beta sub. Is the pyramid still valid or has it become basically only 2 categories; Alpha and fag?

What makes a beta alpha lower than regular alphas?
What distinguishes a beta sub from a fag?

Thanks.


Thanks for the question!

I have written about betas on this site. I don’t generally write about them outside of this Questions channel because they’re pretty generic and boring. I mean, what would I need to discuss about males who are the human equivalent of a shrug?

By the way, it’s “beta-dom” not “beta-Alpha”. Beta-doms are generally straight or gay betas who are not Alpha enough to rise to be classed as “pre-Alpha”, but are not submissive.

Beta-sub males are mainly straight males who are pushed around by and submissive to women (and of course Men). We all know the type, hunched-over pussies who can’t stand up their wives.

They are not faggots because they are not slaves that serve Men.

Hope that clears it up some.

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March 31, 2026 No Comments

Hey, this is my first time writing to you, but I have been reading your site for a while. I am 42 and I own 3 very profitable companies. I live in a big house, travel abroad multiple time a year, etc. I can’t complain about the little empire I built to myself. I have a personal driver who became a good friend. He is 42 as well and he has been working for me since we were 35. He knows I am single and he knows I am bisexual, and even though we have never talked about hierarchy, it’s not difficult to notice that I am an Alpha. He has picked me up several times in nightclubs with hot girls and hot twinks going home with me. He has been married for almost 20 years in a very traditional and conservative lifestyle. He goes to the church with his wife every week, etc. However, after his son turned 21 in January, he started with very weird jokes. We are very close to each other and he has liberty to make dirty jokes with me, but he started saying things like “my son looks a lot like the guys you pick up at nightclubs” and “it won’t surprise me if one day he wakes up here after one of your parties”. I’m not gonna lie, his son is a hot twink with a bubble butt and I’d fuck and breed him without a second thought. But isn’t it weird that his own father is throwing him to the wolves like that? He’s teasing me with fresh meat and I will feast in this banquet soon.

My best friend thinks that my chauffer just wants to give it a try and see if I’ll end up marrying his son, making his whole family rich as well. But I think he knows me well enough to understand that I would never lose one penny for one more twink after the hundreds of fags who have already lost their virgin holes in my cock. Maybe he just wants his son to have a good time and, if he is good enough, I might give him a raise. I don’t know, I’m trying to understand what is in his mind, but his fag son must have a really nice hole if he really wants a raise.

I’d love to hear your thought about that, faggot.


Sir, thank you very much for writing to me!

What a wild situation, Sir! I agree with you that it’s only a matter of time before you mount and breed your friend’s faggot son, especially since the father is playing the bizarro role of his faggot son’s wingman! I think it’s fair to say the father is open to you taking his son, Sir.

But I want to touch on something else. I think the father (and your friend) is secretly craving you as well. The reason why I say this is because I had a similar situation happen in which the Alpha was fucking a younger faggot and then he also claimed the faggot’s closeted father. The father was submitted because he walked in on his son being fucked by the Alpha and his reaction to it reminds me a lot of your friend’s attitude.

For whatever reason, conservative, religious males often turn out to be closet fags (or are at least curious). I wouldn’t be surprised at all if your claiming of his son causes your friend to submit to you as well if you pushed him.

I realize it might seem impossible, Sir, but really isn’t if you study hierarchical mechanics. There are invisible hierarchical forces at work on every male all the time. When we subconsciously recognize certain universally-recognized hierarchical triggers, we all react in the same fashion. One of those triggers involves the sight of an Alpha taking what he wants from an inferior. We never fight it, because we all recognize it is the Alpha’s right to take it.

I think your friend recognizes that it’s your right to take his faggot son, Sir. But deep down, I’d bet anything your friend also recognizes it’s your right to take HIM, too.

All that’s left to decide is whether or not you want them, Sir!

Thank you so much for writing, Sir! Contact me anytime!

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March 31, 2026 No Comments

hey sam!

i had a question about friendship, i saw one time that you said you have straight Male friends who know that youre a faggot, and i’m curious how They feel about it. Is it a topic you talk about with Them, does it go unspoken? And do you have any advice on how a faggot can find straight friends?


Thank you for the great question!

Anybody who has listened to the Hierarchy Podcast and heard me speak knows how I am about being a faggot. I’m neither shy nor ashamed of the fact that I’m a faggot. In fact, I’m proud of it. Because of my faghood, I understand the true meaning of Alphahood and have the undeniable privilege of serving our greatest of Men!

Virtually all of my straight friends know of my faggot status. Most of them find it amusing (they especially love the fact that they can use the word “faggot” around me because they love the word and think it’s hilarious (I agree!). Some of them have asked me pointed questions about why I consider myself to be a faggot, which of course leads into a reasoned discussion of hierarchy. After that, they seem to understand and accept what I am.

I realize I’m the exception, though. I’m a pretty fearless communicator and I have a sharp-enough wit to handle myself. I understand that most people can’t go that far with it.

But I look at it this way: my pride and fearlessness has put me into a mentor faggot role, and I’m leading a movement to strengthen my fellow faggots. I want to be strong for my brothers and help them become strong, too!

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March 28, 2026 No Comments

Do you know if @AlphaGodAtlas is actually straight? I seem to remember he got exposed for having a boyfriend a while back (who was also a findom master). So many liars in the findom space. Makes it impossible to trust anyone.


I honestly have no idea. I’m not much of a fan of him; something about his attitude rubs me wrong. I would take the claims of a cashmaster being straight with several grains of salt.

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March 26, 2026 1 Comment

I have been serving an extraordinary Jamaican Alpha for 4 months now. I can barely fit the tip of his cock in my mouth, but I use both hands and my tongue to make him cum and he calls me a good boy. Last night after he came in my mouth he said that he wants to fuck and breed me. I am 19 and I’m a virgin. I don’t know what to, brother.

I playfully asked him if he would hurt me, but he just said “I will, but it’s inevitable” with a straight face. He is a nice guy, but his cock is enormous, huge, gigantic, and he is very honest when he says that it’ll hurt.

I am about to turn 20 and I feel ready to lose my virginity. But I wonder if I should look for a smaller dick to be my first. What would you do, brother?


Thank you for the question!

Congratulations on the new Alpha! He seems to fit the stereotype of Jamaican Alphas I’ve heard about in the past! I love that he’s straightforward and honest about the size of his cock and what it will do to a faggot pussy. I’m sure he’s fucked plenty of faggots (and probably females) and already knows what his cock does to people.

It sounds like this Alpha is pretty interested in you, so maybe he might be willing to help you train for taking his dick. Respectfully ask him if he will help you prepare.

I’ve recommended two particular methods of anal stretching:

1. DILATORS – These medical devices are plastic cones of gradually-increasing sizes that help to open up and loosen the anus. I’ve written about them HERE.

2. THE CHOPSTICK METHOD – Famous chastity cage faggot CagedJock invented the method of stretching by using plastic chopsticks and inserting one at a time into the anus until it is slowly stretched open. You can see a video about this method HERE.

You can, of course, use a series of dildos to prepare yourself as well.

Just try these methods, then relax, use tons of lube, and enjoy fulfilling your purpose!

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March 26, 2026 No Comments

I got into this space a while ago around a year or so and have been trying to serve alphas somehow monetarily and I’ve always gone for the straight muscular jock alphas to serve because they deserve it. However recently I met an Asian gay guy my age online who’s more on the skinnier side but still has a good physique like abs and have felt conflicted. Since meeting him all I can think about now is serving him rather than the straight alphas I used to online. I’m not sure how to feel since it’s so different and strange that I want to serve someone who seems weaker in terms of being skinnier and shorter than me. How do you suggest navigating this and is it possible to serve someone who isn’t like the complete masculine jock.


Thank you for writing!

First of all, I think it’s a mistake to consider a shorter, skinnier Alpha to be less Alpha or less of a Man. Alphahood is an INNER quality that a Man possesses. It has little to do with outward appearances.

Clearly, you’re responding to something within him. Why not just stop questioning that and explore it? You might discover something below the surface that will answer your question of why you’re obsessed with serving him.

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March 26, 2026 No Comments

Hello Sam, I hope you are doing well.

I’m reaching out because I’m trying to better understand my situation.

I was in a relationship with my ex-partner who, while sometimes gentle, was also emotionally and physically abusive. We never had a Dom/Sub relationship, he was just mainly interested in anal sex, and barely kisses and hugs. After we broke up, I had to continue living in his apartment for about a year, sleeping in a separate room. During that time, he often treated me in a degrading way, expecting me to clean after him, leaving messes for me (dirty plates on table etc), and generally acting as if I didn’t matter.

A few months later, he started a relationship with his long-time female friend, and I was still living there when this happened. I could hear them having sex sometimes, and although it made me feel humiliated and hurt, I later found myself thinking about those moments during masturbation. They also excluded me socially and barely acknowledged my presence in the apartment.

On a side note: He was never in a relationship with a female before and I still see him watching gay porn while taking a bath.

What confused me the most was that when I finally decided that I wanted to leave, he asked me not to go, which created a lot of emotional contradiction for me. His exact words were “No, please don’t go”.

Recently, I’ve noticed that I feel drawn to Dom/Sub and Alpha/F*ggot dynamics in a sexual context, and I’m wondering if these desires are somehow linked to what I experienced during that period of my life.

My question is: Should I keep living with him and just empty my life? Or is it better to find a healthier Alpha/Sub relationship?

Thank you in advance for your guidance.


Thank you for writing!

Over the years of writing this site I’ve noticed a common theme among people who do not fully understand/accept their natural hierarchical roles: BAD RELATIONSHIPS. When we don’t understand hierarchical dynamics, we fall clumsily into natural roles, but we are not equipped to handle them because we don’t understand or accept them fully. I think that’s what happened to you AND this ex-boyfriend (?).

I’m pretty sure you’re a faggot, but it’s hard to tell at this point because your actions are murky and unfocused. I’m not sure if this ex is Alpha or just a jerk, but he’s doing some things an Alpha might do with a faggot.

Again, it’s murky because you both wander around in roles like blind guys in a funhouse. Neither of you have fully embraced a purpose, so you’re clashing because you have no idea what goes where. Imagine trying to plug something into a socket with your eyes closed. You might get it close, but it’s virtually impossible to make a connection until you open your eyes.

That’s what I honestly suggest: you both need to open your eyes. There are plenty of resources on this site to study and consider. I have a book called “Are You A Faggot?” (link in the BOOK STORE page) that helps fags determine if they’re actually a faggot. There’s also a book there for Masters who own faggots.

I do think there’s a fundamental lack of knowledge or appreciation of hierarchical truth happening here. Not sure if it’ll fix everything between you, but it’ll help each of you individually.

In the meantime, yes, I think you need to move out. What’s happening is borderline ridiculous, and you should’ve been done with it a long time ago.

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March 26, 2026 No Comments

brother sam, why are we teased on the Podcast Videos page to check out interviews of amazing Alphas only to be told, “Page not found?”


Well, that page should’ve been deleted. I originally made that page to link to a paid feature on gumroad, but gumroad cancelled my account, so … the videos are on my free YouTube page located here: https://www.youtube.com/@Hierarchy_University

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March 22, 2026 No Comments

Hey, how’s it going?

I am Henry, 20 yo, and i am going through something and what’s better than asking advice online, am i right? Firstly i want to apologize for typos in advance, english isn’t my first language.

It has been a few months since i started at the gym and figured out i am just a weak boy desperate for some male muscular attention, i have to control myself so hard when i am working out because those beefy men make me so fucking weak. I have no sexual experience, actually not even social skills at all, so i find very hard to interact with men in real life, and we can say where i live it’s not a very homosexual friendly place.

All of that lead me to try to find someone interesting in the internet. Going through some forums i actually met a very interesting guy in a masculinity topics. Our initial conversation were about gym and other typical manly stuff, i love letting men talk about that it. But pretty quickly our conversation turned into him actually showing off to me and boy… i dream about those muscles every day and night. I said to him how i had the desire of a homoerotic friendship with a straight man and he actually liked the idea and started talking freely about sexual topics and showing off to me, and always asked if his body made me horny. It did, it really did. Not only his body was amazing but i loved how he guided the conversations, how he were such an alpha in the way he chatted and i loved raising his ego. It was so good being in that place that nothing else would make me sexually excited. Soon he started been even more incisive (is that the right word?) and began to be a real alpha, he said things like “i am sure i am all you ever wanted to be”, said he knew he would have control over me easily and played saying i should get on my knees, that gave me actual chills even though it was just a text. 

Things got even more intense when he started sending pictures specifically based in what i said were some of my interests (armpit, flexing after workout, …) and asked if i jerk off thinking about his body. I didn’t confess to him at first because i thought it was a bit weird, but after some time he really insisted and sent me so many hot pictures that i couldn’t resist and i did it and confessed to him. He said it made him feel very good and even more comfortable to talk to me and i also felt very good of being in that position.

But ever since, we barely talked anymore. We talked about some other stuff but sexual topics were never brought back again. It has been almost a month and i am feeling so sad about that, i really need his attention and it’s killing me not being put in my place once again. I hate feeling like i might have done something wrong and i know that sometimes people just change their interests, but i had to come here and ask for some advice, i can’t stop thinking about that.


Thank you for the question!

I understand your frustration, brother. However, your situation is a perfect example of why I discourage online flirting and Alpha-seeking. You must understand that straight Alphas love the attention of faggots because they love attention in general. However, to them it’s just a game. They get so much attention that their lives are just merry-go-rounds of worship and adulation.

It’s all meaningless to them, even though it meant everything to you.

You simply cannot invest much into any online foolishness, because almost all of it is smoke and mirrors. This is another reason why I’m so skeptical and critical of online findom. It’s just not REAL.

You’re much better off talking to Alphas at your gym or in other parts of your life. As you do, you’ll gain more confidence and knowledge how to speak to these superior Men face-to-face. It’ll be a much better pursuit, I promise.

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March 20, 2026 No Comments

Hey sam, i had a question for you about Alpha Personalities and Body Types, i know typically in an Alpha we see Confident, Cocky, Typically Masculine, personality types, and Large, Muscular, Dominating, body types. So my question to you is, do you think Alphas can come with different personalities and shapes and sizes? Short Alphas, Thin non-muscular Alphas, Chubby Alphas, or even an Alpha with a feminine personality?

sincerely,
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Thank you for the question, brother!

I’ve written about this a few times in the past, so I guess it would be good to reiterate this point. Alphas have stereotypes just like every classification within hierarchy, but stereotypes are often misleading. Alphas absolutely come in all different shapes and sizes. They don’t all have gigantic dicks. They aren’t all tall and not all muscular. There are twink Alphas. And yes, there are even fem Alphas (although not many).

For example, cashmaster @ServeElRey on X is definitely a twink Alpha with very feminine mannerisms (also a giant dick). Looking at him, you’d never immediately think “ALPHA”. But he has dominated males of all ages for something like 15 years now, made a fortune, and is a strict top who is served online and real life.

So yes, they come in all shapes and sizes!

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March 20, 2026 No Comments

Hello, my name is Max and I would like to respectfully ask for your help. I am 22 years old, my little brother Joseph is 19. I am straight as an arrow and have no curiosity or interest for trying anything with a male, but Joseph has always been very gay and flamboyant. When we were in high school I tried to “convert” him while he would cry almost every night trying to “pray the gay away.” I went to college, I made friends with gay guys, I even dated a bisexuality girl, and I am not that stupid anymore. I would do anything to see him happy. He has always been very obedient and submissive, a gay friend from college keeps telling me my brother needs a dominant Man and he told me about your work here and on Twitter.

So I guess my question is: what is the best way for me to support my little brother and make sure he won’t get hurt? I heard scary things about grindr and gay apps and I really want to keep Joseph say. He is still a virgin and he has always looked up to me, even when I wrongly insisted that he should try with a girl, and I am not proud of that. Our parents and friends from church are really conservative, so things are not easy at all. But again, I would do anything to see my little brother happy.

We binge watched Heartstopper and Heated Rivalry and he cried on every single episode. In fact, when he sees any form of gay representation he starts crying. I often buy him gay novels and comics, I took him to pride events without my parents knowing, and bought him books about queer history. I really want him to understand that he’s not alone. But as I said before, this friend of mine insists that Joseph needs something that I can’t not give him and it goes beyond sex, he needs a “dominant man”, whatever this means.

I know nothing about the gay world, but I understand that pride flags and gay books are not enough for him to have a happy life. I would really appreciate if you could share some thoughts about this issue. My apologies if this message is too long or inappropriate for the nature of your work, which I believe focuses more on erotic accounts. I just don’t know who I should talk to and my only gay friend told me you could help.

Thank you,

Max.


Sir, thank you SO MUCH for this incredible question!

First of all, I want to commend you with all of my heart for the way you are lovingly caring for your brother! It’s powerful to hear your own personal story of growth in understanding despite your conservative upbringing. No doubt the influence of your effeminate brother had something to do with that!

Sir, I’m not sure if you consider yourself to be Alpha, but there is a term I use for Men like you: Protector Alpha. These are superior Men who take it upon themselves to safeguard the vulnerable, damaged, and weak ones among us. They’re real-life superheroes, and they are incredibly important in our world!

Surely you understand that males are not created equally. You can simply look around at the males you know and see that some get all of the attention, have the most charisma, are more appealing physically or more athletic, smarter, etc. Every sports team, military unit, and government is arranged according to a fundamental power-based structure known as Hierarchy. Superior Men (Alphas)

From everything you’ve told me, I’m pretty sure your little brother is a faggot. I know that sounds derogatory, but I assure you it’s not meant that way. Faggots like me and your brother are born to serve superior Men. We are also important in society, because through our service Men are kept satisfied and empowered through our worship.

Your gay friend is right: your brother needs a Master. He needs a Man who will train him and use him properly and care for him. When a faggot is owned, there is a deep peace that comes from that arrangement, because the faggot gains purpose. Right now your brother cries because he feels alone and useless and unsure of what to do. A Master would clarify that for him.

He needs to find one, and hopefully one close to his age so they could grow together in their purpose. I’m bummed that he didn’t find an Alpha in high school (where there are a lot of Alphas) and I’m guessing he’s not in college (where there are also a lot of Alphas). There are apps like Grindr to find dating, and sites like TheBlowers.com to find service to dominant Alphas. I would think your gay friend should be able to also help your brother find a gay Alpha.

I honestly suggest that you point your brother to this site as well, Sir. This isn’t a site full of erotica. It’s a site that teaches hierarchical truth and purpose. He will learn a lot here. He can also join my free Discord group (link on the LINKS page) to communicate with me and other faggots and Alphas for advice.

Sir, I truly admire what you’re doing for your brother! I’m deeply moved by the depth of love and compassion you’ve shown here! Please feel free to contact me if you have further questions, or just need to chat about things. My email address is hierarchyuniversity@gmail.com.

THANK YOU, SIR!

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March 17, 2026 No Comments

Hi Sam,

This is the first time I’m asking a question so hopefully this question reaches you well.

I’m an extremely horny voluntarily celibate sub, and the reason for that is that I’m in a situation which would destroy me if my tendencies were to be found out.

I’ve had many men who want me to be a good little fag for them, but I fear for the consequences. How do I navigate this situation as a fag who wishes to be stuffed daily and be in the service of horny hairy men?


Thank you for the question, brother!

I understand what you’re going through, honestly. I don’t know if you know this, but in 2016 I met an 18-year-old Syrian boy through this site whose life was in danger for being gay, so I rescued him and eventually got him to safety. It was one of the most terrifying and (eventually) beautiful things to ever happen to me.

I hate places like the Middle East because of the intolerance and hate there, a place that almost cost me the life of the most important person I’ve ever loved. I don’t know if that’s where you’re from, but it sounds like you are.

In your case, you have Men wanting to use you, which is good. That’s half the battle. Here’s the thing: if you were to serve them despite your life being in danger for doing so, well their lives are in danger, too. So it’s highly unlikely that they will ever snitch on you.

Unless you’re willing to remain unfulfilled until you can finally get out of there, I suggest you try to serve these interested Men. You have to try to live as much as you can!

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March 17, 2026 No Comments

Hello sam,

My name is rick and I’m a Scottish faggot – well, kinda! Which is the question!

I love being a faggot a serving Doms, domesticatally, sexually, as a taxi, however I can, but, sometimes I get exhausted with it all and need a “break”. These can last a few days or a few weeks, and I always come back to it, and there’s a few Dom/Alpha guys I know who are pretty understanding and are happy to let me return, but I guess I am asking a) is this normal, and b) how can I avoid “faggot burnout” if that’s a thing?!


Thank you for the excellent question!

Faggot burnout is absolutely a thing, and it’s something I had planned for a post on this site … but you beat me to it! Anyway, this might be a good way to start that conversation.

It’s only natural to be overwhelmed when you have an Alpha (or Alphas) you’re serving consistently. Life is difficult enough as it is without an Alpha always demanding service of some kind. I remember there was an Alpha I was serving regularly several years ago as his on-call cocksucker. He would show up at my place at odd hours of the day unexpectedly and demand a few hours of oral service. My schedule at that time simply didn’t accommodate that arrangement easily. I felt worn-out and constantly in dread of his surprise mouth inspections.

But do you want to know when I didn’t experience “faggot burnout”? When I was OWNED as an in-house faggot! In that situation, a faggot slips into what I’ve called “perpetual subspace”. In perpetual subspace, a faggot loses itself in the constant work of service and worship, receiving in return the fulfillment of purpose so profound that it makes everything else disappear. I liken it to the joy a mother feels when she’s finally delivered her baby, the pain and struggle of the previous nine months and the pain of childbirth instantly disappearing.

I realize that being owned as an in-house faggot isn’t always possible, but it should always be the goal in order to experience that bliss.

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March 17, 2026 No Comments

Hi Sam, I am 18 years old and cannot find and alpha masters in my area how do I find some?


Thank you for the question!

You mean to tell me you just went through high school and couldn’t find an Alpha there?? High schools are jam-packed with horny Alphas eager to do anything just to pump a load into something. Same with college Alphas.

You need to start and end there in school. They’re swimming all around you … put some bait in the water and catch them!

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Hi sam,

During your lifetime of service, how much variance have you encountered in alpha scent? I’ve only served 2 straight alphas, and the first had a scent that was like heroin. It was a rich, deep fragrance that punched you in the face. My current alpha smells incredible, but it’s a much cleaner, lighter fragrance. It’s like something that runs in the background and slowly pulls you in and gets you drunk.

Are these differences normal? Are they just random biological quirks, or have you found that certain scents correlate with certain personality traits or levels in hierarchy? Tell me everything.


Thank you so much for this question!

Alpha scents is one of my very favorite topics, and it’s something I’ve delved into deeply and with much gusto. The reason why I’m so fascinated by Alpha pheromones is because I’ve been hypnotized by them most of my life!

There are certainly some variables affecting Alpha pheromones. Health, age, and diet are three obvious ones. But all things being equal, every Alpha has a unique pheromone “signature” that is a natural aphrodisiac to submissives (who have the receptors for those pheromones) like female and faggots. Science seems remarkably confused and splintered over the importance of Alpha pheromones, yet in my studies I’ve found plenty of information strongly indicating that these pheromones have tremendous power over these subs.

Just like you, I noticed very distinct differences between the Alphas I’ve served. For instance, black Alphas have an earthier, bitter (in a good way) scent. The Masters who owned me each had their own distinct scents; Master Aaron’s was the sweetest, a clean, almost fruity smell, while Master Chris had a sweet scent, but sharper and piercing. Master Steve (who was a bit older) was gym-like, but warm like good cigar smoke.

Each and every one imprinted on me. When I smell pheromones in a group of Men, I’m constantly flashing back to my former Owners. It’s almost tormenting. These Alphas are gone from my life, yet they still own me in a sadly hollow way.

But I wouldn’t change a thing, except one: to sniff their armpits just one more time!

Thanks for indulging me these memories!

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Hi Sam, I’m turning to you with a question because I don’t know who else to turn to. I’m 25 years old and from the Czech Republic (Ostrava, the third largest city). I’m looking for a dominant Alpha man (preferably heterosexual) to serve. I love foot fetish so I’d rather serve an Alpha at his feet, but I also want to serve him in general. Unfortunately, I haven’t been able to find an Alpha for several years. I’ve tried erotic dating sites, classifieds, Grindr, Recon, Reddit. Lately I’ve been desperate and I’ve even tried Tinder where I tried (under fake settings) to find a dominant hetero Alpha. That was unsuccessful. Then I tried to think about who I know from my surroundings who could be an Alpha and then I approached him via Instagram (my anonymous foot fetish Instagram. And that’s because I’m not out at home). This strategy eventually backfired and I tried approaching random guys based on what I thought might be Alphas (I know it’s a bad and rude thing to do). As a result, I got banned from Instagram and I couldn’t find an Alpha.
So I’m asking you, is there any way to find an Alpha that I could serve?


Brother, thank you for the question!

I know this is a common issue for faggots, but it really sounds like you’ve exhausted every angle. I feel your frustration!

It doesn’t sound like you’ve actually tried to approach an Alpha you know in real life for service. Yes, you said you approached an real life Alpha, but through Instagram. However, there’s a lot of suspicion about people offering service without money involved. I think if you just engaged with an Alpha in real life and explained hierarchy in plain terms, you might have better success. Also, you can use my “Letter To An Alpha” in the right sidebar to assist you with that.

Also, you might think about joining my free Discord (link on the LINKS page) and searching the Czech Republic channel.

I know it’s frustrating, but if you remain alert in your day-to-day life, I know you will find success!

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March 14, 2026 No Comments

Hello Sam, this is Angel from Mexico again. Sorry if this message is inconvenient for you. I just want to tell you that Garcia is coming here on Sunday and he told me that he will bring 2 women to fuck them in my house. I am of course happy to give my house to him but I am desperate to try to serve him in other ways… he did not allow me to kiss his feet, but I am trying to think about something different to try to show him how much I want to serve and to be touched by me. I am thinking about wearing makeup and a wig but maybe he will find me ridiculous, or maybe waiting him with a skirt… I really don’t know. He will come with two women so I really don’t want to embarrass him in front of them. I will follow what you told me and translate the Letter to the Alpha and give to him, but I want to catch his attention

Sorry again if I am annoying too much you but you are the only person I trust to talk about his
I love you a lot, brother Sam


This is a follow-up to THIS QUESTION.

Angel, I’m glad to hear that you’re continuing to serve this powerful straight Alpha! You’re a good boy!

I know you desperately want to touch his body and serve him sexually – this is natural to all faggots. However, not every straight Alpha is willing to cross over the line and allow fags to serve them sexually. You at least get to serve him in a variety of other ways, and I’m sure that’s fulfilling!

I beg you: please DO NOT dress up like a woman, especially if there are going to be real women around. You’re going to embarrass him, and that’ll piss him off.

Let’s just try the Letter To An Alpha and see how he responds!

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