Prepping – does anyone have any good recs on prepping and almost always being ready to give your pussy up? Either fiber intake supplements or douching or something? I feel like it normally takes me a long time.
i usually try to have my last meal 3 hours before douching in order to have my belly empty again, but it clearly depends on every body. try to do it with 3, then go to the toilet, then douch, the douching should be clear within 5 minutes usually.
With douching i usually cound to 5 while putting in the water, then count again to 5 while keeping it in, then push it out till it runds clear.
i also try to eat some greens with my food the same day.
this should cover you for the whole night. it it takes longer i take a suplement like imodium to be clean till the next lunch time š
if you need more advice or tips, text me and we can discuss it (by @kamuj)
Hi I think this site is perfect to what this site stands for but it isnāt easy. Iām in my 20s but seem to be attracted to these young muscular frat guys, pretty much only str8 guys thought. Any suggestions, should I become a sissy to seduce them to use me. Any approaches, apps are not my superpower as they are full of older gays, bottoms, and others fems.
*Maybe becoming a cumdump, but itās not 100% my goal if I service horny guys that are my type,
Thank you for the question!
You can definitely serve younger Alphas! Typically, Alphas discover the service of faggots during one of two phases in their lives: ages 18-22, when they’re young and horny and only care about getting serviced/worshiped …. and in their early thirties, when they finally realize they are not meant to be tied down to one female. So you have two primary targets.
You DON’T seduce straight Alphas by dressing up as a female to fool them. That’s a great way to get your ass kicked completely in.
You seduce them by being submissive, plain-spoken about your purpose (and, alternately, theirs), and making yourself useful in some way. How that happens depends on the circumstances or level of involvement.
Go where these Alphas are. Bars, sporting events, GYMS, etc. And start making yourself useful to them.
I have a book coming that goes into greater detail entitled “How To Seduce Straight Alphas”. It’s currently on pre-order. But regardless, the above outlines the general plan.
The following post is part of a thread following the story of Titouan, an 18-year-old French faggot currently owned by an older Alpha.Ā CLICK HEREĀ to read all of these posts in chronological order!
Many younger faggots have Daddy complexes (which older Alphas are quite grateful for!) for whatever reason. It’s common, and I think a lot of these faggots tend to be better disciplined and devoted fags. They really embrace the truth of hierarchy and their place in it as embodied by older, stronger Alphas.
Ever since I first met Titouan he’s had a predilection to serve older straight Alphas. He’s always been very obedient to all Alphas, but these straight Alphas in particular responded to Titouan’s gentle obedience.
He’s currently owned by a straight Alpha, and it seems to be a more involved Master/fag relationship than any he’s had before. Titouan gave me a little update on his service relationship:
Hi from Titouan french boy. As I told you, for a few weeks I am the young fag of a straight Daddy who loves twinks like me. He wants to keep it secret to preserve his family man image, makes me comeĀ not to his main apartment but in a smaller one he has in another area of Paris. I feel it’s really my place to serve such a straight Alpha. Few days ago he shows me a video, says he wants to do same way as the Daddy and the boy in this video.
I feel such a twink/Daddy relationship is what I need and is so good for both, hope you agree.Ā And oh yes I feel I should buy some gift for my Alpha Daddy… He demands that as twink and young fag I wear only boyish traditional white briefs, humiliating but seems fair and I obey, then I wonder, wouldn’t buy for him other sexy very virile underwear be a good idea?
First of all, it’s revealing that Titouan’s Master owns a second, “secret” apartment in Paris in order to use Titouan (and presumably others) away from his family. This is a very common trait of straight Alphas who have been exposed to the use of faggots. Once they’ve used fags, they don’t typically want to stop, so a secret apartment or house is usually he answer. It just shows the lengths to which his Master will go to be serviced and worshiped, and it also shows the importance of this for Alphas in general.
As for sweet Titouan, his loyalty and desire for fulfillment in service is so admirable. He wants to find underwear for his Master so he can be as hot as possible and make him feel like even more of a Man. His desire to glorify his Master is a chief function of a faggot. We should always do this for Men, because they face a lot of challenges to their throne. Giving them such esteem and power makes them even more formidable warriors and conquerors!
Collaring faggots isn’t something that comes up often here on the site. I remember covering straight Masters Nick and Matt when they collared their faggots back in the days of FWA. More recently, Master Anthony collared his special faggot Fabien with a pendant that read “Anthony” to clearly mark Fabien as his property. It’s simply not something that is done as often as you’d think.
Whenever a Master asks me about presenting a faggot with either a chastity cage or a collar, I always advise them to turn it into a ceremony. Make it a special, solemn moment between a Man and his faggot. These are, after all, the “wedding rings” of hierarchy. Masters Nick and Matt loved to make caging and collaring their faggots into a day-long event that led up to the moment when they were locked in place. I loved that so much, and so did their faggots!
The subject of collaring came up on the Hierarchy University Discord (JOIN NOW) recently, and one of the older Alphas on the server, a wise, no-nonsense Alpha named Master V, chimed in with some terrific information that I wanted to share.
To set it up, a faggot named @joshfaglondon asked: “Just wondering if anyone has had, or been to, a formalized collaring ceremony? As a worshipful faggot who dreams about being a full-time boy wife, I fantasize a lot about professing my love and loyalty, making lasting promises, and handing over my rights to Sir in front of a supportive congregation. Do these events really happen? Do any Alphas share this fantasy, or is it just wannabe fagbrides like me?”
Here’s what Master V said in response:
Yes, they happen. They are a semi-formal affair, considering the topic. It’s not really a wedding ceremony thing where you declare vows and some Entity standing between you now declares you connected. It’s more intimate, or inter-personal, where the dominant and the submissive acknowledge the collar and commitment between themselves in front of a couple witnesses.
There can also be the confusing situation where this same process is split in to two or three parts/stages and goes deeper into the formalities and protocols. (Think of “the old days” when you started with the courtship, then ask dad for permission followed by the engagement, and finally the wedding.)
To make it even more confusing the order they happen can be reversed.
Basically you have the ‘collaring’ ceremony, and a ‘signing’ ceremony. (Usually in that order. And if 3 staged, the middle one a mix of the two.)
The collar represents the bonding ring .. In the first, more common usage, it is the wedding ring. Once it’s on , you’re part and parcel with the owner’s household.
In the split format, you get the probationary collar. (Or household collar or tempā¦or whatever collar. [It comes with an adjective.]) Think of that like an engagement ring. And to make matters even more confusing, this might be the promissory ring if you live in separate towns for example. Until one moves to the other’s town, then it might work up to be an engagement.
Then there’s the signing ceremony — this is that indenture contract, the BDSM or Slave contract you hear about. This ceremony is the one with the more formal pomp and circumstance, for good reason. That document is the prenup, the wedding vows, the license and certificate all rolled into one. Treat it with that respect and be serious with the terms.
And for the collars themselvesā¦ Each ceremony may come with a new collarā¦ or maybe the first is the one you’ll always wearā¦.. with adjustments.
Ever noticed how some are small thin things with one ring, while others are heavy things with rings all around and usually come with some specialized locking mechanism? There’s your different levels of the collaring ceremony on full display.
** for some of you, you’re not going to be able to see your elders in the same light hereā¦
That small thin, no rings collar used to be called a choker. A tight leather ribbon necklace. Back before the 70s that was free and unowned, but looking to settle down. In the late 60s it became a fashion statement, much like how the leather jacket went from something you earned to something you bought at Walmart.
Then you have the more sturdy, buckled collar – usually with a single D-ring on the front. There’s that promissory collar. Sometimes you’ll even here of a Notice of Intent being put out by the dominant, which is basically a formal notice to other dominants you’re looking at – or courting – this submissive, so hands off. (Just remember, it also lets those others know to report issues they may see or know of to him as well.)
This is followed by the more heavy leather collar versions, with an odd number of rings. Still buckled, but maybe able to take a paddle lock to show more permanence, to represent that engagement. If the dominant puts out a Letter of Intent here, it may come with terms for the submissive like a “starter” contract which would require the submissive to agree and sign. At this point, whether living in the dominant’s home or not, you are to be his and his alone.
And finally comes the signing ceremony. That pseudo-formal contract protocol. The wedding, where your collar stops being symbolic. The buckles might be removed and it riveted on. Or maybe the leather band is replaced for a solid metal one. Or the chain collar went from a small key lock, to a medium combo lock, to now welded closed.
I must admit there was a lot here I’d never heard expressed in such linear terms before, but much of it makes sense. These sequential steps Master V outlines here really highlights the layers of depth that exists in the Master/faggot dynamic!
I do wonder why Alphas have gotten away from collaring their faggots. Part of me thinks it has to do with the new freedom gays enjoy in the Western world, where many feel collaring faggots “dehumanizes” them.
But every faggot I’ve ever known who has been collared was deeply moved by the experience and cherish their collar. So the act and ceremony of collaring isn’t dehumanizing, but rather empowering. Wearing it honors both the faggot and its Owner. It’s something deserving of ceremony and celebration!
I thank Master V for describing these traditional collaring ceremonies, acts that deepen the commitment between Masters and their faggots and emphasize the purpose of each!
The following post is part of a column written by a 40-something experienced faggot who calls himself āMr. Fagā. CLICK HERE to read all of these posts in chronological order!
Hi Sam,
This is Mister Fag. I saw your response regarding the limp dick and just wanted to point out that a cage may not be practical for various reasons (hello, TSA!). However, a faggot should know that being limpāwhether naturally or educated by a cageāis essential to understanding our biology.
I have been traveling a lot recently for business. I wanted to share a little story that occurred during one of those trips. After a full day of meetings, I decided to get a couple of drinks at the hotel bar. Curiously, the only seat available was next to a man who was clearly good-looking and whom I initially thought was straight.
Maybe it was the loneliness, or maybe the vibe, but I started making small talk. I must admit, he was charming. At our second round, he whispered, “So, tell me, are you a fag?” I felt scared for an instant, but after I said “yes,” he replied, “I knew it.” That felt safe.
Later that night, after paying for his drinks, I followed him to his room where I obeyed and let him decide how I should please him.
During the week, I met him a couple more times. I always took care of him (paid for his dinner and serviced his needs). On the last night, he told me he wanted to try ball torture because “you have no real use.” I let him do itāand yes, it is painful during and after.
I donāt want to dwell on the physical specifics, but the experience forced me to realize how vital the bridge of trust is between a fag and an alpha. In the vacuum of a hotel room, far from the social scripts of the daytime world, the hierarchy becomes a living thing that requires communication to function. Over the years, I have learned that a true fag doesnāt just obey orders; he finds his purpose in them. Yet, there is a recurring shadow: fear. It is a specific, sharp kind of fearānot necessarily of the act itself, but of the sheer, uncompromising scale of the alphaās power. It is the vertigo one feels standing at the edge of a cliff; itās not that the cliff is “mean,” itās simply that its nature is absolute and yours is fragile.
And that fear is okay. In fact, it is necessary. It is the recognition of the weight of the man standing above fags. The key, Iāve found, is to communicate that feeling to the alpha. You aren’t “complaining” or “safe-wording” out of the experience; you are clarifying your position within it. You are telling him that your hesitation isn’t a sign of disrespect toward the natural order, nor is it a rejection of his nature. Rather, it is an admission that you are being movedātruly, deeply movedāby the gravity of his power. When an alpha understands that your fear is actually a form of worship, the dynamic reaches its most honest state.
Maybe I am romanticizing, but I thought it was worth sharing.
Respectfully,
Mister Fag
Well done, brother!
My first question: why do you think the Alpha at bar was not straight? Did he say he wasnāt? Straight Alphas are quite clued in to the use of fags sexually, and when they sense a wild fag in an appropriate moment, they will often make a move. In fact, the ball torture makes me think he was straighter than you imagine.
That aside, I thought this was an exceptional entry in your series, Mister Fag! Your central thesis that Alphas carry a weight that inspires respect, awe, and fear in inferiors like fags is spot-on. Iāve actually heard Alphas say how much it turns them on to see how intimidated faggots and females are in their presence!
The Alpha in the bar probably sensed your nervousness right away and read it correctly. As Iāve said many times, Alphas are extraordinary hunters and possess the ability to read their prey. They see nervous eye contact and instinctively know the person can be controlled and used by them.
But your point about how āfear is a form of worshipā is particularly fascinating to me. Even when we arenāt intentionally worshiping an Alpha, our natural instinct of fearful respect is also registered as worship in the eyes of Alphas!
Again, that is why I always encourage faggots to TRY to talk to Alphas and offer service. Yes, I know it can be intimidating, but Alphas read it correctly and hierarchically.
Thank you so much for such an insightful post, brother!
brother, new faggot here, after living a lie for years with a woman, I am now 26 and finally embrace my truth and couldn’t be happier. I lost my virginity two weeks ago with my neighbor. He is married to a woman, but he is a really good guy and a powerful Alpha. He does not want any love from me, just my virgin ass when he needs to unload. He treats me really well and it was magic to give him my virginity. but when he cums inside me I keep feeling his cum for hours, sometimes days, last time I farted the next morning after his visit and I could feel cum leaking from my ass. I guess that’s normal, but I wonder if I should douche after he fucks me to clean my hole from his cum again? I don’t want to overdouche, so I don’t knowā¦ sorry if that’s a stupid question brother, but I don’t feel comfortable asking this to my doctor who thinks I am straight. Thanks! I love your work and you taught me a lot!
Brother, welcome to the site and thank you for the question!
Congratulations on being claimed by your first Alpha and finding your purpose! I’m proud of you for submitting yourself and admitting to yourself the real truth you’ve been hiding! You sound exhilarated!
Leakage after breeding is, of course, quite normal. Much of it gets absorbed into your bloodstream through the walls of your colon where it does its magic on you. However, some seminal fluid will leak out (especially with large or multiple loads) and that’s perfectly natural. If you want to make sure more of it is absorbed, you can wear a buttplug for a few hours afterward so it doesn’t leak.
I don’t recommend douching after breeding because that defeats part of the purpose of being bred. Also, too much douching can upset the flora and fauna of your intestines. You just want to douche prior to being fucked so that you’re clean for your Alpha, but after he gifts you with his seed you want to keep as much of it inside you as possible. Faggots should treat an Alpha’s cumshot as practically holy, a most intimate gift of superior DNA.
I think you will find that you’ll crave his cum more and more as he continues to breed you. That’s the magical effect of cum on the minds of fucked faggots!
I hope that answers your question! Again, welcome to the site and thanks for reaching out!
Alphas are always going to do whatever they want with faqqots. They have little empathy for creatures for which they feel nothing but disgust, pity, and shame.
I’ve been lurking for a few years, but I thought I’d finally send something in. The link (below) from The New York Times made me think of what you’ve been preaching: The bird Bruce overcoming his “disability” and taking his rightful place as the alpha among his fellow keas: getting to eat first, for example. No matter what, an alpha will show his true colors, I guess!
I was struck by this passage:
After enjoying a meal, Bruce permits lower-ranked males to preen his feathers and clean his bottom beak. āAnd when Bruce is done, heāll give a kick or a little joust to say, āRight, thatās it, Iām done,āā
I know I’m certainly not an alpha, and seeing the description of even a bird’s alpha-ness aroused me.
Keep up the good work,
Tony
Thank you for writing to me!
Tony is referring to THIS ARTICLE about Bruce the parrot that appeared in The New York Times. It’s a pretty fascinating article, honestly, and it really demonstrates a truth about hierarchy that encompasses all of nature.
One thing we can say about nature, it is incredibly organized. We humans are often too arrogant or too idiotic to notice, but from the microscopic to the macroscopic, everything has order. One only has to look at the building-block constructions of RNA molecules to the tireless, scent-controlled activities of ant colonies to the graceful wheeling of distant galaxies to appreciate that harmonious order.
Hierarchy is the ultimate form of order, the First Law of all natural societies.
The story of Bruce the parrot exerting his natural Alphahood despite his disability demonstrates how ingrained these roles are in our DNA. Bruce has a brain the size of a sunflower kernel, but he still recognizes that he rules the roost – and so do the other parrot challengers to his throne (perch?).
I laughed a little when the article discusses how the other parrots groomed Bruce and served his needs until he dismissed them, much like faggots serving their Alphas or beta males attempting to curry favors from their superiors. These roles are ingrained in them, and cannot ever be changed.
But the hierarchy the story describes is more important than individual roles. It defines our society. It provides a framework for purpose, just the way a worker bee ceaselessly toils at his gifted role until he finally collapses. It’s all part of a machinery much larger and more complex than our minds – caught within its Matrix – can ever comprehend!
Thank you, Tony, for sharing such a wonderful article with me!
The following post is part of a column written by a 40-something experienced faggot who calls himself āMr. Fagā.Ā CLICK HEREĀ to read all of these posts in chronological order!
Dear Sam,
This is Mr. Fag. In the grand scheme of things of Alpha-fag dynamics, where raw dominance meets yielding surrender, one truth stands eternal: the limp cock is the fag’s crown. Too many eager holes chase the illusion of hardness, thrusting their pathetic stubs forward like beggars at a feast. Alphas recoilāand rightly so. A fagās cock, rigid and insistent, screams “equality,” shattering the sacred asymmetry of the room. Limpness? That is poetry. It is the visual hymn to your role: soft, dangling, and utterly irrelevant. Watch an Alphaās eyes light up when your meat hangs slack, a silent vow that this hole is his altar, not a rival shaft.
Limpness isn’t mere opticsāitās physiological gospel for fag’s greedy guts. Pleasure should cascade from the hole upward, a prostate symphony that floods the fag’s system with bliss without demanding the crude machinery of an erection.
True ecstasy is found in the Sacred Circuit:
The P-Spot Pulse: Anal stimulation hijacks the pudendal nerve, spiking dopamine and oxytocin.
Blood Flow Prioritization: When the fag remains flaccid, their body directs blood flow to the internal erogenous zones rather than the superficial swell of the shaft.
The Tension Trap: Forcing a boner chokes the pipeline. Tension builds in the corpora cavernosa, diverting neural energy away from your core and toward a distracting, masculine urgency.
Stay soft, and every thrust becomes a full-body wave. Fag’s glans will tingle passively, the balls will churn surplus seed, and the fag will remain an open vessel for hours rather than a ticking clock.
Alphas sense this instinctively. To them, a hard fag is a distractionāa mechanical competitor in a space that requires a vacuum. A limp one, however, is a pure invitation: “Ruin me, Sir.” It signals that the fag has successfully surrendered their own agency to prioritize his manhood.
We must cultivate this state. It is a discipline, not an accident.
Edging via the Rear: Practice solo with plugs, breathing through the urge to touch yourself.
Mirror Affirmations: Look at your softness. Recognize that the power is not in what stands up, but in what opens up.
Wellness through Yielding: Reduced erectile strain means healthier vessels and the elimination of the “refractory blues.” Ā The fag becomes an evergreen resource for Alpha’s pleasure.
Limpness isn’t weakness; it is the fagās superpower. Embrace the hang, brothers. Let it swing free while the real work happens behind the scenes.
Respectfully,
Mr. Fag
I’m not sure what to make of this entry, brother. I tend to agree that Alphas hate seeing fags with hard dicks, but I believe fags should be caged rather than “flopping around”. That’s just my opinion, though.
Hi Sam, itās been a while. I started dating this guy named Sani Real name heās this really nice big black guy and I love him to death dearly and I know he loves me too, but every other alpha top Iāve been with you know what at least they were open and willing to suck my dick, but this guy just wonāt and Iām getting really depressed and their times when I want to hurt him and times when I wanna hurt myself I fell through the ice a long time ago I got permit shrinkage on my cock. I went from 6 1/2 nice an average down to a three and it fucking pisses me off.
I know heās my alpha. I know that OK itās not his job, but you know what I would like to feel fucking respected for once and not having to ask you know just once Iām sure a lot of us would love it if our alpha would actually if they actually genuinely loved us actually would love to suck our dick because you know what sometimes I think youāre hierarchy bullshit is a whole well thatās just it. I think itās bullshit sometimes.
Iām sorry I donāt mean to take it out on you, but itās the Godās honest truth and my antidepressants make me really fucking blunt just once I would like to encounter a top that likes to suck dick as well whatever happened to those guys
Thank you for the question/rant!
I don’t know who this is, but congratulations on the new relationship! I’m sorry it doesn’t sound totally fulfilling for you, though. But the problem isn’t with him … it’s with YOU.
It all comes down to unrealistic and/or selfish expectations.
Everybody wants to be with an Alpha, but Alphas are NOT like other Men. They almost always want completely submissive people (females and faggots) who cater to them and/or worship them. Subs they can train. Subs they can use.
Alphas are rarely interested in things like sucking a faggot’s dick, especially if they’re bisexual and leaning straight. No amount of whining or demands will make him change his NATURE. You’re going to get dismissed before that ever works.
And frankly, I think he should dismiss you. I’m mortified by your attitude. No faggot should EVER have such a self-serving perspective, nor should they ever throw such childish fits like this.
Let me tell you the truth: Hierarchy is very real. It’s not a joke, It’s not “bullshit”. And no matter how many hissy fits you throw, nothing is going to change it. Hierarchy is inescapable.
So either get your mind focused, or find a new direction in life.
I saw the recent post an Alpha made about domestic service and I wanted to share my own experiences. I don’t know how much of this is fully applicable, but when I was in college I was doing homework for some Alphas– one of them even let me do his laundry sometimes.
I’ve since had to find some online Alphas to help with work. I’ve taken notes on lectures, written essays, made presentations, and just generally have made myself available to Alphas who need a break from work or maybe a free tutor to help with some assignments. I try to help them learn too, so they can still get something out of the assignment beyond the grade, but it feels really good to just make a man’s life easier.
Sure it can be kind of boring sometimes, especially when they just drop an assignment on me and move on, but it feels good to work on something, especially for my betters.
Thank you for writing!
I love how my audience immediately responded after that Master wrote in about the lack of domestic fag content here! I’ve been approached by multiple fags about their experiences since just last night!
Whenever fags tell me they can’t find any Alphas to serve, there’s a part of me that rolls my eyes and I think, “You’re either not trying, or you have the wrong attitude about your purpose.” Fags that complain about that simply mean they couldn’t find an Alpha to serve SEXUALLY, but there are other, possibly less glamorous ways to serve.
Domestic service is a primary one fags overlook. Look, cleaning floors and toilets might not be as thrilling as getting throat fucked or bred, but the sense of accomplishment can be similarly orgasmic! I really love the way you stated it, brother: “it feels really good to just make a man’s life easier.” EXACTLY!
True submission requires us to place our own comforts, hopes, desires, and even needs aside in favor of serving those of a superior Man. You epitomize that ethos, my brother! I’m proud of you!
You need to spend more time talking and espousing the importance of domestic faggotry. I had two domestic faggots during my college years and they were helpful in keeping my apartment clean getting general shit done for me. As I have aged (30s now), I’m finding that the fags I encounter are less likely to be interested in domestic faggotry. I’m inspired by the story of Josh and his wife pursuing this avenue as it’s very useful in life. It would certainly save me money if I could stop paying my cleaning lady and get a fag to do it instead. Sam, you need to push this aspect of faggotry more in order to enhance our lives to the fullest extent possible.
Master, thank you for writing to me!
Domestic service is something I preach often here on the site. No, I don’t cover it more than sexual service, but that’s mainly because there is so much more sexual content to use for teaching than domestic service.
I LOVE serving as a domestic faggot. Of course, my times as a domestic faggot typically came as a live-in for straight Masters who were also using me sexually (and occasionally financially). There’s something so emotionally satisfying about taking care of an Alpha’s personal life and affairs. I took great pride in my work, whether it was changing bedsheets every day, creating satisfying meals, or even making sure my Master’s toilets were immaculate. Domestic service is the one function of a faggot that is completely selfless, because the faggot expends itself completely without any hope of physical pleasure or reward.
I know the faggots reading this site come here mostly for selfishly masturbatory reasons, and that’s a problem. But I do know that some of the domestic faggots I’ve covered here have received high praise and lots of curiosity. One such faggot is Chadwick, an older faggot who never stopped trying to be useful to Alphas. You can read about Chadwick’s inspirational story by CLICKING HERE!
In the short instructional video I made entitled “What is a faggot?” I discuss domestic faggots to some degree as well.
So I assure you, Master, I am covering it and want to cover it more. I appreciate the reminders and encouragement!
Bit of a messy situation. I’ve been with my straight alpha for 4 years. We met on Instagram, but I fly out to see him a few times a year.
For the first 2 years, we messaged pretty much every day and I became something of an emotional pillar for him. We agreed on exclusivity, and I’ve been his fag ever since. I’m only allowed to serve and talk to him. It’s VERY intense, but being long-distance comes with challenges.
In recent years, his career has taken off and he only messages me maybe 3 times a week. I’ve brought this up, and he says he cares about me, but he’s busy and this is just how things are.
Truth is, I’m having a very difficult time. Ownership has made me dependent on him. I feel like my emotional needs aren’t being met, and most of my time is spent isolated and alone. Any tips on how to resolve this? Or should I ask to end exclusivity?
I REALLY like him, and he’s even indicated he wants to keep me after he marries his girl. I just with things could go back to how they used to be.
Thanks.
Thank you for writing to me, brother!
Congratulations for serving a straight Master for four years, especially given that it’s been almost an entirely remote relationship. It’s commendable, and it certainly speaks well of both you and your Master that you’re both loyal, genuine people!
I’m afraid you’ll need to accept the situation as it is unless there is a radical shift in the life of one of you. He’s a straight Alpha who is now focusing on his new career, and likely doing a fair amount of fucking and partying as well. Meanwhile, you are far away. Friends online don’t last for four years, let alone a straight Alpha and a faggot.
You seem very loyal, brother, and I feel for you. Most fags (including me in my younger days) would’ve just found someone else to serve by now and just lie to their Masters. However, I’ve seen straight Alphas become very attached and even choose their fags over females simply because of their fag’s loyalty and self-sacrifice. Which one is your Master? I have no idea.
I think it might be beneficial to talk to your Master in the most humble and submissive way about how you need training and guidance that he doesn’t have the time for, and ask him if he thinks you should find a local Alpha to serve and train you. Emphasize that you want to do this so you might be a better faggot in the future for him.
By doing that, you’re showcasing two things I’m sure he’s not considering (or even understanding):
1. Faggots need constant training and use to improve
2. Faggots want this training. It’s like water to a plant.
I’m sure at this point your Master just looks at this like a fetish, but by telling him these things he might understand that faggots are real and valuable and, like any other valuable thing in an Alpha’s life a faggot needs to be tended to.
I’m curious why you don’t recommend random cocksucking for younger unowned faggots. Isn’t that part of a faggot’s purpose? I feel like it’s great practice for the faggot, and also a great way for men to get used to the ease and pleasure of using a faggot. Kneeling for a man, or a group of men, can be such a wonderful experience too.
Thank you for writing!
I’ve never discouraged faggots from having their slutty periods during which they suck everything they can. After all, I did that for a few years myself. I definitely learned a lot about my purpose from indiscriminately sucking dick randomly week after week, but in my heart I eventually yearned to be owned. Fortunately that happened, and I received deep personal training to make me a better faggot. Random cocksuckers don’t receive this. I think that’s why I always want to recommend true service to a Master, because the training I received was invaluable.
