Ive known that I am a faggot for about a year now. Always been submissive and like to please men but findom has its pull on me. Every time I go to send to an alpha, I cant help but think the money would be better in my cousins hands. He is a typical 18/19 yr old gym rat. Hes incredibly sexy and straight. He deserves to be worshipped. I just dont know how to introduce it to him. Should I message him? Should a friend do it? Any advice on what to say or not say?

Thanks for the question! 

Congrats on accepting your true nature, brother! It makes life so much clearer to know the truth!

I’m always curious about why faggots are “drawn” to findom. I understand that findom is a part of a faggot’s overall service, but to be drawn to that aspect particularly odd to me. 

But I tend to agree with you: the money belongs in your cousin’s hands. You have an Alpha right there in your family, and you’re even considering giving your money to strangers instead?? Nah, that shouldn’t happen.

As far as introducing it to him, I have resources on this site to do exactly that. In the sidebar is a link to my “Letter To An Alpha”, designed as a brief introduction to hierarchy and the use of faggots. Then, I have my book “May I Serve You, Sir?” that is a longer, more in-depth version of that aforementioned letter. Both have worked spectacularly well in the past. Whatever else you try to do, it must come from YOU. Your cousin needs to understand that you are expressing this need to serve, not your friend. 

Keep me posted! 

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Recently a top I’ve been seeing has been using breath control on me. At first this involved only pinching my nose shut while thrusting his cock down my throat or putting a rubber hood without a mouth opening over my head and then closing off the nose holes. Last night he put a plastic bag over my head while I was tied up and held it closed until I passed out. When I expressed alarm about this activity, he assured me that he was in control and even said that next time he would introduce me to garrotting. I’m nervous about this. The guy is a great top, and I want to go on seeing him, but how do I get him to stop this?

Brother, thank you for your question!

I was horrified to read what you wrote. Simply put: your life is in danger. I don’t care if this Alpha is a cardiologist with a Nobel prize in medicine – there is NO guarantees when you cause another person to lose oxygen, stop breathing, or pass out. The plastic bag on the head should’ve been the end of it, but he wants to keep experimenting. 

EDIT: a very experienced Alpha on the HU Discord named Master Hadrian added this important information:

Absolutely the right answer. There is NO safe way to do breath control, and the main danger isn’t, as most people assume, asphyxiation. That danger can be managed to some extent. The real danger is a heart attack—lack of oxygen caused your body to send erratic electrical signals to your heart, trying to get oxygen moving to your organs. If one of these random signals hits at the moment your heart should beat normally, the two signals can essentially cancel each other out and trigger ventricular fibrillation, which causes the heart to stop beating and just quiver in effectively—in laymen’s terms, you have a heart attack.

There are basically two types of heart attack. Atrial fibrillation is where you have chest pain, shortness of breath, etc—if you get treatment there’s a good chance you survive. Ventricular fibrillation is when you clutch your chest and drop dead. If a defibrillator is applied immediately, you’ve got maybe a 50% chance to surviving; if not survival rates can be as low as 2%. And you’ve only got a couple minutes to get defibrillated before it’s too late.

With garroting, there’s a host of other risks—damage to the windpipe, damage to the nerves in the neck, brain damage, damage to the spinal cord…

This ‘alpha’ is a fucking idiot

The answer needs to be the firmest possible “no”, and if he doesn’t accept that, then it needs to be “goodbye”. I don’t care if he’s Dr. Fucking Frankenstein and he reanimates dead people every single day – the answer needs to be NO.

Honestly, your refusal is as much a protection for HIM as it is for you. By refusing, you’re preventing him from any chance of becoming a murderer. 

I cannot stress this enough. Your life is in danger. Take action immediately. 

Love,

sam the faggot 

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I am straight and I wanna start using cashfags.  But I am not sure what kind of app I must use to receive money. I want something secure and discrete with no chargeback. Any ideas fag?

Sir, thank you for the question!

I’m glad you’ve decided to start an account in findom, Sir! Straight Alphas like you are learning that being worshiped by faggots can be beneficial in many ways, including financially. I’d be curious to know how you came to know about findom, hierarchy, and the use/ownership of faggots, Sir, so hopefully you’ll be inclined to share that with me at some point.

As far as apps for findom … you’ll definitely want to set up accounts on X and Onlyfans. There’s also a site called RealAdult.fans that was created by a gay Alpha and promises secure payment  processing. 

So OnlyFans and RAF process tributes. So does Throne.com (you’ll want to have an account there). Create an Amazon wishlist so fags can send you gifts to your unlisted address. There’s also JustFor.Fans,

Then there are the typical payment systems. CashApp, PayPal, Venmo. It can be tricky using these apps, because they are widely considered to be trouble and can cancel you in a heartbeat if they think something’s wrong. Once you get in good with a whale faggot, you can start using TeamViewer to get into the fag’s computer and Zelle yourself money. 

I hope this helps, Sir! I wrote a bit more than you asked for, but I wanted you to have the best possible start! Please let me know how you’re doing Sir. If you’re on X, I’m @hierarchyuni. I can push you. Thank you, Sir! 

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Hi Sam, so recently I reconnected with my ex brother-in-law Kendall and when my friends and his friends left, we were talking getting drunk and he said you said you missed me right and I said yeah I did a lot

Said I missed you too, and he got up, walked around, grabbed a hold of my chin and kissed me and without him realizing it, I said undo his pants and I pulled out his wonderfully beautiful 8 1/2 inches just just a smooth and beautiful as I remember and just as hard I made love to his cock he fucked my throat a lot. I worshipped his balls. I truly became the faggots you think that we all should be, and just as he was about to nut

he pulled his dick out of my throat and said you really want my load you little faggot I got on my back push down my pants and he said I want you facing the Back of the couch

When he entered my ass, I was using all the muscle controls. I was using before each time he pulled back. I tried to suck him back in, and then he went to town and he bit down on my neck, grabbed my dick and gave me a Reach around end I know it’s gonna sound weird, but I truly believe that we came at the same time

But now here comes the problem. I truly fell in love with him and now I don’t know how to tell him considering he’s now married to another woman who I adoringly call my sister. What do I do?

Thank you for the question, brother! 

I’m sure this situation with your brother-in-law took you by surprise, but I think you handled it very well. One can never predict the sudden storms of straight Alpha desire or how/when they will arrive. One can only be flexible, yielding, and discreet when they do.

I understand how you feel about Kendall, but you need to understand that he’s highly unlikely to return such intense feelings. I’m sure he wants to keep the family together and keep his own situation with your sister. He’s probably wanting you to be his personal faggot on the side. 

Now that might not be as appealing as having a love affair with him. However, look at it this way: the only way that happens is if you tear your family apart by stealing Kendall away from your sister. Even if that were to happen, it’ll likely only lead to a negative outcome.

It’s better to focus your mind on the real opportunity in front of you: to serve as Kendall’s personal side faggot and cumdump. There are plenty of real benefits to that kind of situation. Just remember that your purpose is to PLEASE ALPHAS FIRST. Kendall wants/needs this outlet, and he’s chosen you. Embrace that, and be content. 

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In latest video. “re: #10-CasterDom”.  Is there any other mention of HIM on hierarchy university site.  My search came up empty.

HiS personna seems extremely similar to Alpha who commands fags to “stay”.

This is in response to THIS QUESTION.

I used to have quite a few videos of “CasterDom” (also known as “CashMasterTroy”) on the site, as I collaborated with him quite a few times during his reign atop findom. I dearly loved him. But when he decided to leave findom, he wrote me a rather long, lovely email and asked me to take down his videos. I’ve kept them to myself as a way to remember his huge contribution to hierarchy.

Who are your top ten alphas? I love masteralphachris, alpharodrigofine,KMJ

Thanks for the question!

So I guess you’re only referring to cashmasters? Frankly, I’ve known so many great Alphas personally who crush these cashmaster pretenders … but I definitely have opinions on cashmasters, too.

My list (which isn’t entirely ranked in order of importance) looks like this:

1. Master @AlphaAesthetic8 – There’s simply no other that even comes close to the perfection and professionalism of this King. I’m devoted to him for the rest of my life in this world.
2. Master @AlphaSepanta – Stunningly gorgeous, erotic, and flawless.
3. Master @AlphaGodAdonis – Sexy, playful, and a perfect mindfucker.
4. Master @Soccerbro619 – The perfect athletic body, sexy Latino dance moves, and a delicious voice.
5. Master @MasterA_2022 – The greatest fag trainer in the findom scene, a hot Irish Alpha who owns faggots in person.
6. Master @IAMFINDOMSAM – No Master gets as many RT games as he does. Built, sexy, and thoughtful.
7. Master @ServeElRey – An OG in the online findom space, this Latino twink Alpha with the huge dick and elite attitude goes way back with me.
8. Master @MasterChad17 – He’s built like a sexy model and has developed a real knack for training faggots.
9. Master @DieselDerrick – Not active anymore, but he’ll always be the sexiest young muscle Alpha. Nobody says the word “faggot” like he did!

10. Master @CasterDom – Long gone, but not forgotten. This bodybuilding straight God Alpha truly defined Alphahood as his reality and was not shy in expressing it. I’ll love him always.

The show in your Naked Men In Repose post is Elite on Netflix. It is Spanish and dubbed in English

This is in response to THIS POST.

Thank you very much for taking a moment to provide an answer to my question about that awesome video! Several people across my social media web also told me that, so I’m guessing the show is pretty popular! Haven’t seen it (I never watch TV), so I’m grateful for people like you who are more clued in! Thanks again! 

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Love that you brought back to life these stories – an unbelievable reminder of the stories that inspired many of us. I still remember reading his words passionately wondering if it’s real and being shocked when it faded away with Tumblr….

Any chance as part of your amazing time machine you got hold of the pictures and prompts/descriptions He put on? They were so honest, sincere and inspiring – I wonder if they are at any way recoverable as well…

Thank you for the question! 

I’m glad you appreciate Master Jake’s short blog as much as I do! I consider it to be the holy grail of hierarchy, and I feel a profound sense of humility and gratitude to be its guardian.

I didn’t transfer the images because, even though his occasional captions were good, they paled to the meat of his blog. I didn’t want to detract from the message. I think it’s recoverable, but after everything I just went through I don’t want to devote more time to something that is of limited value. 

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I like to wrestle, mainly for the love of the sport but a few times with stakes involved when the stars align. As the latter go I’m happy to say I remain undefeated. When I look at my opponent in the end of a match (and punishment) I find it hard to believe that guy will go on and continue being the dominant force he was before the fight, and yet life goes on.

I guess my question is, how do you reconcile those innate feelings of dominance and superiority, with the fact that there will always be bigger fish? That you may be the top dog in your circle, but one day you might find yourself being someone else’s inferior? Would a faggot lose its admiration for his alpha, if it witnessed him failing to assert his superiority to another man? Be it at a fight, a random altercation or just a minor interaction.

Sir, thank you very much for the interesting question! 

What you’ve described is part of the real mechanics of hierarchy. This fight for dominance propels Alphas like yourself, and you all enjoy it in a primal way that faggots like me can barely understand. Superior Men like you need this competition, this bloodlust, this power struggle. It makes you feel alive, tests your mettle, and refines you in subtle and unsubtle ways. And to the victor of these struggles goes the spoils, namely, power and glory. 

Going into these contests you must know that there will always be a loser. So it makes sense that there exists the possibility that you might end up losing at some point (although you so far remain undefeated). I don’t think a loss should make you feel like less of a Man or less of an Alpha, Sir. If you look at my Hierarchy pyramid, you’ll see that I outline four levels of Alpha hierarchy. That means there are some Alphas lower than others, right? 

But ask yourself: imagine you were an Alpha, which is lower than a God Alpha. Can you really feel bad about that?? You’re still Alpha, and far superior to betas and faggots. Just continue to be the best Alpha possible and lead from your heart, and those seeking to serve will find you, Sir!

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Hello. I don’t consider myself a faggot, because althought I act like one during sessions once I’m not horny I don’t feel any impulse to be subservent, I don’t like doing house chores neither I would ever pay another man, even an alpha, etc etc. I know an alpha that sometimes I serve, and I know a faggot that is very clearly a total faggot and also serves him. One time the alpha was traveling, and the fag (who things I’m pretty) started coming up on me. I ended up using him. Now, that’s not my thing, but I was horny and it seemed so…right? Like, even though I’m obviously not an alpha he seemed to be very clearly below me in the hierarchy, and I could never imagine myself submiting to him. Is this normal? You talk a lot here about alphas and faggots so I’m not sure how the “middle of the pyramid” interacts with itself.

Thanks for the question!

That’s an interesting situation! It sounds like your Alpha owns a diverse stable of servants he uses! Impressive! 

Yes, it’s quite normal for the lower levels of the hierarchy pyramid to interact this way. in fact, they all interact with each other this way, from top to bottom (hence the diagram!). 

So just like the Alpha hierarchy interacts from the top-down (God Alphas using Apex Alphas, Apex Alphas using Alphas, etc.), betas will sometimes use faggots. You’re higher than a faggot hierarchically, so it really shouldn’t cause you any alarm. I’m sure your Master would approve of the situation, and probably find it kind of funny.  

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Hello Sam

Do you know what happened to AlphaAesthetics8? There is no more content of him on onlyfans and it looks like he disappeared from everywhere? I thought you may know something about what had happened. Thank you!

Thanks for writing!

Yes, Master AlphaAesthetic8 has revised his public-facing profile because he has gotten involved in business dealings and doesn’t want his past to interfere with any of it. He’s now very successful; there’s too much at stake to risk it on findom. Now, he is still owning/draining faggots, just not publicly anymore. 

To respect my Master’s wishes, I have obediently removed all content across my platform that promoted him. I ask that all faggots respect his life plan going forward as well. 

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Hi Sam, last time I message you me and my master Damien split and I need some time to get away so me and some friends went to comicon to just ensure ourselves and spend five days at the hotel so just to recharge our batteries

My friend, let’s call him John. He was asking me so many questions about what it’s like to be gay because he got framed for rape by his last girlfriend and it scarred him for a long time.

Anyway, he asked me if I would suck his dick and that’s how I knew he wasn’t an alpha. He asked because a real alpha was just pull his dick out and say suck it faggot

I made him wear cocking because I didn’t want him to come too fast. I want to work for it you know and or about seven minutes in and I’m going right down to the base. I’m massaging everything with my tongue and he starts to get cold feet and I got annoyed. I put in all this work though I literally held him in place and continued my work and that’s when he unloaded in my mouth he was passed out, blissfully for the rest of the night.

So I go to bed oh, and by the way, his load was not very good. He may be skinny, but he’s not taking good care of himself you know as we all know if you don’t take care of yourself, your cum won’t taste good. It wasn’t salty or bitter It was just bland

anyway, I go to sleep and I wake up and I can feel something hitting against me in my ass. I look over my shoulder and there’s John balls deep inside me, and I won’t lie. He felt amazing when he saw me stare at him. He froze and I said please continue. He didn’t last too long maybe about Two minutes I don’t know. I really couldn’t tell it was so short

anyway, John said, I know, pronounce myself your master I’m your alpha and you’re my faggot and I said no, I’m not and no, you’re not He was confused and I said John you’re a beta and Alpha doesn’t have to announce that he’s an alpha

it’s not like we ruined our friendship we were just being honest with each other and before we left the hotel I let him fuck me hard in the bathtub like really hard no condom no nothing and on the way home. I gave him road head because I don’t know, I thought I thought I should be nice.

so tell me, Sam do you think he was a beta or is he actually an alpha just one of the lesser ones because if he is an alpha and he’s already my friend maybe I should start submitting to him because I honestly feel safe when he’s inside me, not like when I was with Damien

This is a follow-up to THIS QUESTION.

Thank you for the question, brother! 

I think you made a terrible mistake with John. You called him “beta” and essentially demeaned him, but let me ask you this: what makes you the judge of his Alphahood or what he is?

I’ve written many times about “Alpha latency”. There are Alphas out there who, for whatever reason, live as betas or faggots because they’ve been confused by past experiences or trauma. You don’t know what John has been through in his life that might be affecting him.

I posit that John very well might be a latent Alpha who was attempting to break out of his false beta exterior by dominating you, and you degraded him and shot him down. That’s very bad, brother.

It’s notable that, even though you called him a beta and dismissed his Alpha potential, he still mounted you multiple times, fucked you hard, and fucked your throat multiple times. In other words, I think you are wrong about John.

You owe him an apology for treating him that way. You need to learn to stop trying to be a bossy bottom and start submitting with insight when a Man exhibits the signs John did. This is crucial, because we faggots have the opportunity to help Men become their true selves AS LONG AS WE DON’T GET IN THE WAY.

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Hi Sam. I am 38 years old and openly gay all my adult life. I got married to my husband 20 years ago and we adopted a child. I did all the “American dream” things. Married, career, home, children etc. etc. while I am openly gay, I have suppressed my faggot nature. A few years ago I told my husband I needed to submit and worship Alphas. My husband’s NOT an Alpha so he gave me permission to serve others and I have done so very well for 3 years now. My problem is, I have to give most of my time to my family and career and I’ve struggled to find an alpha that doesn’t want ALL of me all the time. So my question is, can I be a faggot even though most of my time is spent in service to my family and career? Or should I accept that I can’t serve enough and retire my faggothood?

Thank you for the question, brother! 

First of all, congratulations on the relationship and family! Most faggots (like me) remain free of long-term romantic relationships and raising children, so it’s nice that you have that.

I think it’s telling that, despite having that comfortable family life, your heart is still needing to serve Alphas. Here’s what it tells us: faggots are BORN TO SERVE. It’s not a choice, it’s not a kink, it’s not a mental illness. We are simply born into that function.

So when you ask “Can I still be a faggot if the majority of my time is spent with my family?”, it’s sort of misdirection. You will ALWAYS be a faggot regardless of what you’re doing in life. And you will ALWAYS have a need to serve. 

Now, you might be classed as a non-functioning or  low-functioning faggot given your circumstances, and there’s nothing wrong with that. This is your life today, and you have important responsibilities to care for. I’m in a similar boat with you right now, so I feel your frustration. 

Your desire to serve is admirable, brother, and I respect you completely. Your willingness to reach out and TRY is better than many faggots who never try at all. You deserve praise, not judgement. Live the best life you can, brother! 

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Hi Sam, before I knew I was a faggot and locked myself, when I would jerk off my balls would always retreat inwards like that knew it was wrong to be using my dick. Does this have anything to do with the genetic predisposition to faggotry? Every alpha who I’ve discussed it with looked at me like I was crazy when I described it. My balls are obviously significantly smaller than theres but idk just curious. Thanks

Thank you for the question, brother! 

That is a very interesting problem that I’ve never heard of before. The movement of the scrotum is largely considered to be an unconscious function of the human body, one not affected by emotions or thoughts (it involves heat distribution within the scrotum). 

Now, could there be some kind of mind-body wiring inside of you that causes your body to mistake/link your shame with colder body temperature? That might be possible, but again, I’m only speculating. I’d be curious to know if there is anyone else who has experienced this. 

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Hi Sam, I hope you’re doing OK. Listen recently. I’m having a bit of a hard time. I’m trying to make my alpha relationship work, but we kinda ended on a fight and it was over him not wanting me to see my dad. Long story short my dad has terminal pancreatic cancer and he doesn’t have long to live and he’s been trying to control me to not go and see him And after several days of fighting I told Damien to go Pound sand he left and after I was done visiting my dad I got a text message from a friend saying that he caught Damien fucking some slut in the bathroom

what do I do? Do I forgive him or do I stand up for myself and tell him to get the fuck lost because this hurts Because I love him dearly, but he’s making me choose between him and my dying dad did I make the right call?

PS I saw that video You know the one of how the girl said she was gonna give that guy a blowjob and she started biting down with her teeth. I was just like are you stupid? You’re just showing him why He should dump your ass and go find the nearest fag and dump a load down his throat

Brother,

Thank you very much for writing!

First of all, I’m so sorry that you’re going through this awful moment with your father. I have yet to lose my parents (came close with Mom many years ago), so I cannot imagine what you’re going through. I hope your family can come together for support!

I must tell you I’m pretty disgusted by the selfish, pig-like behavior of your “Alpha”, Damien. Yeah, I put quotes around it because, while he may have been born Alpha, it’s clear he has no idea what that word actually means. Calling him Alpha denigrates the truly great Alphas in that fraternity who have done incredible feats of selfless courage and generous benevolence to benefit us all without anything for themselves. Our world is the astounding miracle it is because of great Alphas, and Damien doesn’t have the intelligence, depth, or imagination to even conceive of that let alone live up to it.

Please go be with your Dad and your family. They’ve been there long before Damien, and will be long after. Forget him. He’s not worthy of being served by you, my brother.

Love,

sam the faggot

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I am a faggot by nature.

I like when powerful men dominant me. I like the smell of their feet. I get turned on by the sound of their piss . I enjoy submitting to men.

However, I DONT want to be a faggot. Can I retire my brain to just be gay

Thank you for your question! 

I get this question every so often, and I understand how you feel. It’s hard to accept a life destined to cravenly serving Men and Alphas or being owned by them as a servant or slave. 

But as you might know, I firmly believe we are born into our Hierarchical place. I say this because I have seen the disastrous examples of faggots trying to live straight lives or trying to be a sub boyfriend in an equal relationship. It never works. Ultimately the faggot ends up unhappy and unfulfilled.

Rather than looking at your faghood as a negative, look at it as a positive. Faggots have a very specific, important, and irreplaceable function in Hierarchy. We get the opportunity to serve our greatest Men and inspire them to even greater levels of power. We are gifted with the chance to be a part of making Alphas more successful, focused, and pleased.

But most of all, we fulfill ourselves and our true purpose! 

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Hi Sam, thx for all the work here. I’m wondering if you have any insights into young footballers being Alphas. I’m thinking about Lucas Bergvall or Gavi. Do you think they’re naturally dominant? Do you think they show it in bedroom? May secretly use faggots?

I guess they also have people working for them. Probably people in their midage cooking, cleaning, doing loundry for those young Alphas that have more money that those people will ever earn. Do you think Lucas or Gavi may get a power rush from that? Do you think they show their domination in some way? Also, it sounds like a perfect job for a faggot… do you think there are any serving them as employees?

Thanks for the question!

Most athletes – especially those approaching pro-level – are dominant and Alpha to one degree or another. It’s the nature of competition itself, which is very much an hierarchical behavior. Sports teams (like the military, fraternities, politics, etc.) are hierarchically structured and very much centered around a winner-takes-all philosophy.

And what do we see so often when dealing with powerful Alphas in the heat of competition and battle? We see faggots in service to some degree or another. There’s a reason why I’ve covered faggots being used and shared among teammates and fraternity brothers so often on this site. Owning and using faggots is part of Alpha life and their expression of dominance.

I didn’t know the two players you mentioned, but they’re pretty hot!

As for your question about them using faggots, it’s impossible for me to know that. But I can confidently say this: they’ve been exposed to information about the service of faggots. The secret is out now, and young Alphas in today’s world (particularly high-profile sports Alphas) are well aware of the use of faggots.

Whether or not they have used them, I’m sure we won’t ever know for sure given how Alphas lie about such things.

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Hi Sam. I’ve tried listening to the podcast on Targeted Bullying, which sounds like one of quite enjoy. But the link keeps bringing up a podcast on Straight Alphas, Women, And Hierarchy. Just wondering if this is a technical issue?

It was a weird glitch. I’m not sure why it was doing that. It’s fixed now, though. Here’s the link as well: https://hierarchypodcast.com/hierarchy-290-targeted-bullying/

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Hey Sam, wondering if you have any thoughts on this. I’ve started going to this inexpensive Chinese massage place in the West Village in NYC. It’s got 10 super plush oversized leather lounge chairs along two facing walls – so about 20 people can get foot massages at the same time. The first time I went I was the only one there. I closed my eyes and got a great hour foot massage. I heard people coming in while I was getting my massage but when I opened my eyes – I couldn’t believe the place was filled with these hot studs getting their feet massaged. They were all in their 30’s / 40’s –  clearly finance/tech bros – all in T shirts and shorts – really built — meaty thighs/legs spread while a small masseur kneeled before them at their feet.  ALL were looking at their phones during the massage, or watching the masseur work. None had their eyes closed.  They exuded such testosterone and a cockiness, like “yeah, kneel before me and massage my feet.”  One particularly hot dude kept telling the masseur he wanted it harder – and he’d bark and order how and where he wanted his feet touched. All I could think of was here was perfect hunting ground to meet an alpha. But how?! There had to be some dudes there that would welcome a FREE foot massage.. But how to approach about that? Every scenario I think of sounds creepy. I keep going back and seeing all these hot dudes getting their feet massaged is driving me crazy thinking that here is an opportunity.  Would love any thoughts/advice.

Thank you for the intriguing question, brother! 

All of the places where straight Alphas congregate to get body work done – gyms, saunas, massage parlors, barber shops, etc. – are great places to offer service. Why? Because these Alphas are the ones who recognize their Alphahood through their body and are seeking elite ways to pamper and enhance both the look of their bodies and their social standing. They’re typically well aware and quite conscious of Hierarchy on some instinctual level. You were right to pick this juicy spot! 

Massage parlors (particularly foot massage) are especially great targets because of the inherent power dynamic involved, as well as the Alpha’s built-in desire to have his feet touched and pampered. 

There are a couple of ways to approach this. I’ll outline them all and you can choose which one suits you and the situation best.

1. You could ask the staff when a certain Alpha typically makes his appointments and arrange yours around the same time in order to hopefully end up in a waiting room together. In that moment you could ask him if he considers himself to be Alpha (this is a go-to that works amazingly well). He will likely have an answer. Be ready for him to ask you WHY … you’ll need to have that answer. You might be able to direct him to this site and the Hierarchy pyramid (depending on how the conversation goes).

2. You could wait for him outside and attempt to talk to him after his massage. You could use the approach above, or possibly ask him if he would like free massages and/or domestic service. You’d be surprised at how curious that makes straight Alphas. 

3. Offer to buy him a drink or lunch or something like that (depending on the time of day, etc.). Alternatively, you could buy him something if you notice an opportunity (“Sir, I saw this tie and I thought it would look great with that one suit” or something like that).

4. Print out my “Letter To An Alpha”, write “thank you for your consideration, Sir” and leave contact information on it, and leave it on his car for him to find after his session.

5. Buy a hard copy of my book “May I Serve You, Sir?”, fill in your contact info, and give it to him.  

These are all viable options. You might be inspired by these suggestions to try something else, or a combination approach. But trust me, these work more often than you think.

Let me know what happens!! Happy hunting!  

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So, i get that my place as a faggot is to be a hole for men anytime/anywhere etc. but what if the guy wanting sex isn’t an alpha at all. They just maybe don’t know their correct place in the hierachy. At the same time i second guess myself and i probably shouldn’t be the one to judge anyone and i should just let them do what they want to be safe. What do you think? Is it required that i let these other faggots fuck me anytime they want too?

Thank you for the question, brother!

This is an interesting issue, honestly. Your choice really depends on how much you’re willing to bend your own standards.

I’ll give you an example from my own life. I was once friends with a black faggot named Michael (we bonded over filmmaking), and Michael was in a relationship with a black pre-Alpha named DeMarkus. I wasn’t particularly attracted to either of them because I knew neither of them were truly Alpha (and both were GAY gay, if you know what I mean). 

But unbeknownst to me, they both wanted to have sex with me. So they conspired to get me drunk at this bar, then we went back to their place and had a threesome. Dee fucked me while Michael and I kissed. It was okay (Dee had a big dick), but I didn’t come away feeling great about it. I knew I had just lowered my standards somewhat (even though I was quite drunk). 

Ultimately you need to make this decision for yourself. I just don’t think you’re going to feel right submitting to inferior males. Like it or not, Hierarchy colors these choices more than we realize! 

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