This post is part of a thread following a faggot named Giovanni who is owned by Master Lorenzo. CLICK HERE to read all of these posts in chronological order!

When I answered THIS QUESTION from a reader regarding Master Lorenzo’s desire for a transsexual mate despite owning two amazing faggots, I just knew I would hear from Master Lorenzo’s fag Giovanni. I was pretty annoyed by the criticism, so I knew my distant brother and faithful, fully-bred faggot Gio would have a few curt things to say about it.

Here is what Gio wrote in response to this reader:

Hello brother Sam!!

I just read the question of a fag saying rude things about my Master and King Lorenzo. Thank you for saying that he is a God and a Master who deserves everything he wants!!

And let me be very honest here: some friends of mine do not understand why I have an open relationship with him if I love him so much. But loving him is exactly the reason why I don’t mind him fucking Rafa and Mario. I understand his needs and I am happy if he is happy. Sorry to say that, but some faggots seem to be brainwashed by monogamy and they forget to enjoy life by the side of fantastic Men like Lorenzo!!

He has NEVER hit me, offended me, cursed me, or disrespected me in any way. Quite the contrary, he literally saved my mom and I, even paid my mom’s rent for several months when she was unemployed. So how can someone possibly think that he is toxic just because he needs to breeds other holes? He bathes me with his own hand and puts  ointment inside my hole with his own fingers. He treats me like his princess. If that’s the life of a mere cumdump, 95% of my female friends wish their boyfriends treated them as a cumdump.

Lastly, I got a fissure for taking part of his loads. Imagine what would happen if I took all his loads! Having Mario and Rafa is an act of love to preserve my hole as well.

Anyway, I know he doesn’t need us protecting him online because he is a King. But I wanted to share this message to thank you for saving the right thing and, most importantly, tell our fag brothers: don’t be selfish! If a good Master wants to take care of you like Lorenzo does with me, embrace the opportunity!

This is a much better defense of Master Lorenzo than I could ever muster! Giovanni has experienced the tenderness and gentle care Master Lorenzo lavishes on all of his boys, so he knows better than I do and certainly better than an anonymous reader!

Thank you, Giovanni, for adding your voice to Master Lorenzo’s chorus of praise!

Love,

sam the faggot

i am an 81 year old sub. i have been privileged to serve 2 alphas in my life.

i have been searching for a new alpha and have no been successful

where can i find an alpha at my age

i still have a lot to give

Thank you for your question!

I just had a similar question yesterday. I encourage you to read my answer there, since it will be very similar: https://hierarchyuniversity.com/questions-from-readers-598/

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Hi, I have been reading your work for years, Sam. And Master Lorenzo is my favorite one of all the magnificent Alphas featured on this page.

But I used to admire him more before this whole Mario situation. I mean, he already has Gio and Rafael but still he needs an “official boyfriend”? WTF be honest, my brother: isn’t it a little toxic of him? Would you accept to serve a Master who needs to have an “official” partner while you are just a cumdump? I know I would never accept that. I get it having multiple faggots or having a wife to have chidlren, but what is the point of having a trans boyfriend while he already has 2 loyal fags by his side?

Thank you for your question!

I’ll admit I was a bit disappointed when I first heard about Mario, and my first reaction was similar to yours. However, you must remember that Master Lorenzo is technically a bisexual Alpha; he still likes females and pussy.

Of course, the natural fag reaction would be: “Well, I have a hole he can use!” True, but fags all need to remember that a female pussy is specifically designed to accommodate a penis. The impermeable lining of the vagina, the muscles running along its length, all of it is designed to pleasure the Man and cause him to ejaculate. It feels good to a Man, so they crave that snugness and warmth all the time.

So I don’t resent Master Lorenzo for being interested in taking Mario’s vagina when the opportunity presented itself, and you shouldn’t either.

Ultimately, Master Lorenzo is a God Alpha. It would be a privilege to be owned by him as his personal toilet scrubber. As a faggot, it is inappropriate to tell him how he can live his life. I assure you that both Giovanni and Rafael don’t feel like they’re only cumdumps, because Master Lorenzo is a truly great King. He doesn’t treat them like that. You’re wrong to categorize their situation this way.

If you couldn’t do it, fine. But I guarantee you that a life spent as Master Lorenzo’s cumdump faggot is better than a life spent with any other Man.

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I have been a slave since I was 23 and my 19 yr old alpha roommate dominated me. I am now in my 60s and sexually have always been submissive. Lately, I realized that I have wasted my whole life, because I have only been sexually submissive, and I have not given my whole life to the Alpha men who used me. I always thought it was a sexual fantasy. But lately, I realized that I’m not only sexually inferior, but I am completely inferior. I am sad that it’s taken me 62 years to understand that. Now I am craving life is to find a man who is willing to take on an older inferior. But am I past my prime?  What can an older slave like me do to improve the lives of Alpha men.  I want to spend the rest of my life in servitude.  I just don’t know where to begin.

Thank you for the heartfelt question, brother!

It’s always heartbreaking to hear from faggots like you (and I’ve heard from a lot of them). Your generation and older didn’t have the internet, nor did you have the more widespread acceptance of homosexuality that many cultures have today. Most gay males spent their lives in frustration, hiding in the closet and rarely getting the opportunity to experience fulfillment of any kind.

The one group of gay males that often DID find fulfillment (at least fleeting tastes of it) were faggots. You see, faggots have always been around, and Men have always been using us. So these faggots were able to serve quite often, albeit in secret.

You are an example of this. At 23 years old your 19-year-old Alpha roommate recognized what you are and took ownership of you. That is pure hierarchy in action. My straight best friend did that to me at age 17. We all have stories like that.

The difference between us occurred after that first service opportunity stopped. I turned around and became a super-faggot, whereas you bottled it up and hid it away.

Believe me, I feel for you, brother. However, all is not lost. Older faggots have a longer shelf life if they convert to becoming domestic faggots. I have a wonderful and inspiring thread here on the site of a wonderful older faggot named Chadwick who still wanted fulfillment so badly that he began offering domestic service to Alphas on apps like Grindr and such, and before you could blink twice he had a bunch of Alphas using him that way! The thread is in the right sidebar.

So don’t give up. Anyone who submits and embraces their truth as a faggot can be useful to Men!

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Hello sam! As a faggot who enjoys my small penis to be humiliated by Alphas, i was curious to know if it’s possible for an Alpha to have a Micro Penis, or a small than average Penis. So i suppose my question is, can an Alpha have a Small Penis, and does Alpha Penis size matter?

faggot haven.

Thank you for writing!

In a general sense, penis size doesn’t matter when it comes to Alphas. HOWEVER, I think it’s virtually impossible for an Alpha to have a micropenis, which is why I refuse to acknowledge so-called transsexual Alphas as true Alphas. I say this because being dominant requires penetration. I will never come off that position.

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Hello, I have this one guy who I’ve had sex with, he says he is straight but like the way guys give blowjobs and are okay with being fucked, his entire attitude and demeanor reminds of alpha men, but he seems to not fully realize it, j as a faggot sent him this page and asked him to go through it, is there any ways I can help him realize it faster?

Thank you for the question!

Sometimes despite all of the obvious evidence some Alphas don’t fully understand or accept what they are. Some are disproportionately modest, too. Through your submission and worship, many will generally start to embrace their truth.

If you want to help the process along, you might send him my “Letter To An Alpha” (or link him to it). There I spell out the basics of hierarchy, including his role as an Alpha. This might cause him to view you in a different light, as well as his own motivations.

Just keep serving him and worshiping him. Kiss his feet. Call him “Sir”. Thank him for using you. He’ll get the point.

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Hi Sam, 23 year old muscular jock here who loves to wrestle. But I’m a bitch to big Asian cock, especially my Sir Grant’s. Whoever says Asians can’t be kings are lying. Sir Grant is 20 years old and has been using me as his personal fuck toy for the past five years. He’s so unbelievably dominant that I sometimes am just awestruck at how he commands and controls, during fucks and outside of fucks.

I used to bully him when he joined the high school wrestling team at 14, I was 17. I teased him, kicked him around, even called him pathetic. But the next year, Sir Grant’s skinny body was gone, he was a jacked hunk. He absolutely destroyed me, pinned me, slammed me around, made me tap out.

I never felt so useless, but I was also so hard. Sir Grant made me strip, and laughed at my little nub, when he pulled out an 8″ monster cock, even at 15 years old. He made me suck him, destroyed my throat, and made it my pleasure to worship his big Asian cock from a superior real male.

I learnt how good his thick cock felt choking me of all breath. He fucked my head repeatedly, and drowned me in his seed. The next time we wrestled, and after owning me like the superior he was, Sir Grant made me suck his cock wet, then turned me around and began forcing his cock into my white pussy. He didn’t stop as his massive cock plunged in and out of me, and I was transformed. I loved the pain and pleasure from his cock, so thick and so commanding and so good in me, especially when he finally came inside my ruined pussy.

Sir Grant has only gotten stronger and bigger. He’s shorter, but so much more built, and feels ten times stronger than I am. His cock, last we measured, was almost 11 inches. Huge and uncut, and he likes to slap my face around with it.

Just yesterday, Sir Grant fucked me hard in front of some of his friends. Wrestled me and threw me around, picked me up like a feather, and slam me down before fucking me. Stretched my jaw around his cockhead, tasting his sweat and scent, before he flipped me, stuffed my face with his jock, and pounded me for hours.

I still struggle to take all 11 massive thick inches of Sir Grant, but he keeps training me to be his perfect cock sleeve. He talks down to me, calling me his “pathetic white cumdump”, how I use his “superior Asian cum to bulk up”. I passed out from cumming so much from his cock in me and woke up to him still fucking me. Sir Grant has fucked me for a whole day without showing tiredness. And his loads are so massive.

Today, I’m so sore, but I can still feel my pussy muscles trying to clench around his phantom cock inside me. He’s fucking a girl so loud in his room, and I wish it was me taking his powerful cock and vigorous fucking.

I’m addicted to him, Sam. You can probably tell how much I love Sir Grant and his big Asian cock. He fucks me crazy, but my white pussy always needs days of rest after he fucks and breeds me. He constantly fucks other guys and girls, but I’m his longest serving bitch. I’m his roommate officially, but his house bitch in reality, so I am always open for him.

Wrestling is our shared hobby, we have a whole set-up in our basement, and he loves to dominate me hard before he destroys my pussy for hours in our home gym. I’ve become his domestic servant and bitch, such as letting him use me as a footstool, sniffing his pits, cleaning his room, even Sir Grant asking me to wash his hair. He seems to like it, and pets me and compliments me before fucking me stupid.

My question to you, Sam, is that is it normal of me to want more? A fantasy I have is for him to bully-fuck me, like I used to bully him. Kicking me around. Treat me like dirt. Bash my body. Sir Grant is brutal, but he has never completely let loose on me, I can feel it. I can feel my Sir is far stronger than he shows. How can I get him to unleash that power on me? I want him to humiliate me even more. I want him to degrade me harder. Use me on his large cock even more brutally. Amplify the difference between his Asian supremacy over my white wrestler bitch body. I’m building my body up for Sir Grant alone so he can use me even harder. Fuck me longer and rougher, even after I’ve passed out. What can I do to devote myself to Sir Grant and show him that I’m ready for more?

Thank you for the question!

Actually, it’s not really much of a question. After all, what else can you possibly do to devote yourself more to the needs of your Master, Sir Grant?? You’re essentially doing everything and anything he demands of you without question. He’s clearly at least an Apex Alpha, if not fully a God Alpha. He’s not holding back from using you at all.

Things seem perfect, honestly.

If you want him to beat you up more, then I suggest you kneel before him and make that request. I’m sure he won’t have any problem getting revenge on the way you treated him when you were younger.

But I will say this to everybody out there: stop stereotyping Asian Men. Many of them do not fit that stereotype at all, and your prejudice is likely to end up with you pulverized and left for dead. Sir Grant is yet another example this site has recently published of the phenomenon of powerful God-level Asian Alphas with big dicks totally ravaging faggots and females. Don’t sleep on Asian Alphas!

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Hi! Ive tried sending you this question before but I don’t think it worked so im sending it again!

Im a faggot who’s been serving Alphas for 5 years now. Ive served a few different alphas and I’ve noticed that close to all of them had a big dick. Now, im not saying they were all 12+ inches, but definitely bigger than average. I know that Alphas have penises of all sizes, and I also know that faggots can have big dicks too (though they should never use it), but do you think there is a correlation between penis size and being an alpha? Is a man with a big dick more prone to being an Alpha? Does it have something to do with hormones and testosterone? Id love to hear your perspective on this!

Thank you for the question five times over two days! I try to work in order so I don’t miss anything, but I’m jumping out of order to respond to your “urgent” question so that you’ll stop asking it. LOL

Think the issue you’re talking about really relates to a sense of confidence gained because of having a large dick. Certainly, any Man with a large package is going to feel some sort of way about it. He has extra swagger in his step from knowing what he has between his legs. This is only natural.

It doesn’t necessarily mean he’s truly Alpha.

I know a couple of “pre-Alphas” with big dicks, and much of their Alpha-like swagger comes from their cock size. However, they are not fully Alpha, just non-submissive straight Men.

So generally speaking, unless the male is fully a beta or faggot, a big dick will make any Man feel more Alpha-like.

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Hi Sam! I’m a fag in my late 30s living in the northeast US, and the straight alpha I’m longing to serve lives in the Midwest. I had a crush on the guy in college, but I moved on from wanting a romantic connection with him by the time we were done with school (almost 20 years ago). I found out after college that he’d been fucking guys all through college, but he was keeping it on the DL because he was concerned about hurting my feelings. I’m pretty sure he and another one of our close friends were also banging on the regular, and in retrospect, there were a few opportunities for the three of us to play that I was too chicken to pursue.

A few years ago, I brought it up, and he said, “Yeah, everyone needs a big cock up their ass sometimes.” It wasn’t what I was expecting, but I was glad that bringing it up didn’t mess with our friendship. In 2022, I visited him for a week, and he flirted with me the whole time! In front of his girlfriend (now wife), he suggested that I might want to suck a load out of his cock—she looked mildly scandalized, but I got the impression he found a woman who lets him fly his freak flag. At another point in the visit, we were in the back patio of a bar and he was telling me a story about going to a strip club with friends, and he grabbed my crotch playfully at one point to make a point. My partner (male) and I went to his wedding last year, and though we didn’t make out (like we did at a mutual friend’s wedding a few years prior), we danced together and I felt the charge still there. I also met a friend of his during that visit, who he does a naked bike ride with every year; I also felt a charge with that guy.

It’s obvious he was testing and provoking me when I visited, but at the time, I was too scared to jump on the opportunities he presented. We catch up on the phone occasionally, and the guy is still my best friend, but we don’t see each other in person very often.

I fantasize constantly about serving him and his friend, giving them my holes and my hands and my mouth, letting them dominate me and in all ways treat me like the fag I am. He and his wife might be heading my way at some point this year—do you have any suggestions about how I can find and engineer opportunities, both now and when he’s here, to communicate my eagerness to please without going overboard? I feel confident that our friendship can withstand some stretching of the boundaries that have been there for close to two decades, but I get the feeling the onus is on me to make the next move. What do you think?

Thank you for the question!

Your situation is incredibly disappointing, You’ve had TWO DECADES of this straight Alpha signaling that he wants to use you, and you’ve pushed him back or stalled out of fear. What else needs to happen? Does he need to hire a sky-writer to write “SUCK MY DICK” in the air? Maybe take out a full-page ad in a newspaper?? It makes no sense.

Now here we are and you’re asking me what to do to encourage him to use you. It’s crazy. I literally think you just need to get up enough courage to kneel before him and apologize for not being brave enough to submit to him. Better yet, copy my “Letter To An Alpha” (link in the right sidebar) and send it to him. See what he says.

Look, I’m not trying to hurt you … but you need to understand how insane it is that you’ve been this constipated all of these years while this Alpha has been practically demanding service from you. There are so many faggots who would KILL to have such an opportunity handed over to them on a platter.

You’ve done the exact wrong things with this Alpha to this point. Time to start doing the right things before it’s too late. Shit or get off the pot!

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Hi Sam! I am a 26 year old new found faggot. I learned maybe a bit later in life, but I am so happy to have found my place in society and the hierarchy. I am 6’5″ 210lbs muscular, masculine, jock of a fag. The only physical feature of me that IS fitting is my small package between my legs.

My question is: Do you think I will have a more difficult time finding an Alpha to serve? Do Alphas like masculine, larger faggots? I’m sure that there are fags of all sizes, but I just feel self conscious that I don’t find the typical mold.

Also, if you know of any Alphas in the Great Lakes region, I would love to meet some!

Thank you for the question, brother!

Sounds like you’re in terrific shape! I get this question every so often, and here’s the truth: YES, there are definitely some Alphas who would love to own and use you! I’ve covered Alphas who ONLY hunted and conquered faggots larger than them!

Here’s a recommendation since you’re a gym faggot: wear a chastity cage in the locker room and shower room. Show it off. Alphas will take notice and make a move of some kind.

You should join my Discord! There are channels for every area on the planet, so you might be able to find someone there!

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Hello Sam!

I’m a submissive boy from Iran. I’m 31 years old and married. My wife knows about my desires and sometimes dominates me it feels nothing for me. It feels so fake. I considered myself straight all my life and I wanna submit to a dominant woman in my dreams but finding a real one seems impossible specially where I live.

I’m your long time reader and alpha men and hierarchy idea really turns me on and I think it’s true. There is a natural hierarchy between men

But here is my problem, whenever I tried to approach or have any kind of erotic or sexual or service based contact with an alpha man I feel turned off by the body and the look and voice and…. Of those men. I’m submissive who craves for power to worship but I can’t find it in women and I can’t enjoy serving men. So I’m confused. Am I a faggot? And if I am what should I do? I tried contacting alpha men few times but each time I felt sick in stomach after our first meeting. And gave it up. Your wisdom and help is well needed and appreciated bro

Thank you so much for the question!!

I dearly love hearing from faggots and others from the Middle East. It crushes me to know my fag brothers and others (like you) who don’t conform to the restrictive sexual rules of that region. I worry all the time about those faggots who might never find fulfillment and/or lose their lives in the Middle East. If you’ve been reading me for a long time, you’ll know I rescued a kid (18-years-old) from Syria that I met through the earliest version of this site. He almost died getting out, but he was determined not to suffocate emotionally there and/or be killed. And there was no way I could let that happen, either.

So that’s my perspective when I get the rare chance to speak with someone like you, my friend. Just know there are people like me who desperately want you to be happy, fulfilled, and safe!

Just reading your question, I tend to think you’re not a faggot, but rather a “beta-sub” on the hierarchy chart. Your wife is trying to dominate you (which is commendable on her part), but we all know it’s ridiculous when females try to be dominant. You want an Alpha to dominate you properly, but you’re simply not turned on by the male body.

So what’s the answer? I think it might be good for you to try being a domestic submissive for an Alpha. That’s nonsexual, but still fulfills your desire to serve and be useful to more powerful Men. In addition, such service would probably be safer for you.

Try it, and see if that helps, my friend! My heart is with you!

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Thank you for your quick and very prompt response Brother Sam, It truly means the world to me to have you offering me advice  and guiding me, your website has really helped shape my life and identity and help me (and so many others) find purpose, I cannot thank you enough. I just wanted to write quickly to update you that I will do exactly as you said, I will have dinner ready by 5pm, over by 7 at the latest, a conversation during the movie about alphahood and serving him and I will offer to massage his feet -that was such a great idea, thank you for offering that , what a brilliant idea. I was also wondering do you think I should print out your letter to an Alpha and leave it on the couch before the movie or give it to him after or before dinner to open the conversation? would love to get your advice, also I know its my duty as a fag to serve straight Alpha men but part of me feels guilty submitting to my moms boyfriend, I want to submit to him wholly, fully and make his life better no matter what it’s my purpose as a fag but the guilt is inside me, I dont want to hurt my mom or betray her, do you have any advice on how best to deal with this guilt or reframing my view point? would dearly love any and all advice you can offer brother, I know I am destined to serve him but how do I keep the guilt away, what would you do, thank you brother, light and love -Ethan xo

This is a follow-up to THIS QUESTION.

Ethan, thank you for following up!

I’m excited for you, and I’m so proud of your courage and attention to detail! Be determined to serve him, but allow the evening to dictate how you approach it. Don’t force it. Just relax, let the rhythms guide you, and just be eager to please him.

If you want to print out the “Letter To An Alpha”, that might be a good idea, but I wouldn’t lead with that, Like I said in my previous response, I firmly believe he wants to use you. So I would try the seduction techniques I outlined, and then use the letter as a way to force a conversation or to clarify a point if he (somehow) doesn’t understand. However, I KNOW HE DOES.

As far as your Mom, I understand. However, Alphas has needs, and we faggots are born to serve those specialized needs. Your Mom isn’t going to let him fuck her ass, for instance. I’m also sure you can suck dick better than her. And most importantly, you’re submissive to him in ways she will never be. You’re providing services to him to keep him with her. The likelihood of your Mom ever finding out about this is less than zero, I’m sure. Just bear in mind that this is exactly why you exist. It’s your purpose.

My thoughts are with you little brother! Be brave, and submit!

Love,

sam the faggot

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The following post is part of a thread chronicling the life of domination of a God Alpha named Master Jase. CLICK HERE to read all posts in this thread in chronological order!

There has been a lot of brouhaha over THIS QUESTIONS FROM READERS in which a reader complained about my longstanding belief that there is no appreciable difference between straight and gay Alphas. Like some other issues such as chastity or findom, my position on this issue has evolved over time as I’ve been exposed to other opinions. I certainly didn’t feel straight and gay Alphas were equal when I first started the site in 2015. I’ve just known too many powerful gay God Alpha to ignore the evidence.

One of those powerful gay God Alphas is Master Jase. In fact, he might be one of the most powerful Alphas on EARTH, straight or gay. And I knew as soon as I published that QFR that Master Jase would eventually have something to say.

I wasn’t wrong:

Jake sent this to me. Jake himself is bisexual, but he knows that I am a gay Alpha and asked how I feel about this reader’s post. I pity the reader’s ignorance, fag Sam. He believes that gay men are attracted to straight men because of submission. He doesn’t understand that powerful gay alphas, such as myself, are the opposite.

I am attracted to masculine men because I love to break them. To dominate them. To show that my power and strength is above theirs. My attraction is one fueled by the need to have all that masculine confidence under my control.

The reader doesn’t know how many straight Alphas have sunk their asses onto my cock. How many I have pinned and rutted inside. How many I have cunted wide and taken my seed. How many I have transformed and made into better versions of themselves. Their girlfriends and wives too, I have fucked and made into absolute wastes. It is no comparison to the passion I feel from dominating other men, however. If I wish, I could have knocked up and bred a legion of superior sons and daughters. As it is, I will always keep trying with my circle of sluts and fags. Constantly breeding them deep, hoping to catch seed with my potent cum.

The reader, I don’t doubt is an Alpha. But he needs to learn to not be so close-minded and understand that there are god Alphas of all types, sizes, ethnicities, strengths, and yes, sexualities.

There really is nobody quite like Master Jace. In fact, his perspective is almost too skewed to give a wholly-relatable answer because he is the prototypical example of what I’ve often called the omnivorous Alpha. There are simply some Alphas to whom rules descriptors cannot be applied. Master Jase consumes all flesh equally and at his whim.

So to Master Jase, this argument of straight Alphas vs. gay Alphas is the catty bitching of inferiors, white noise drowned out by wails of the cunted rabble he leaves in his wake.

In fact, it’s God Alphas like Master Jase that really convinced me that, at least at a certain power level, there is absolutely no difference between straight and gay Alphas. I’ve intimately known and met God Alphas (both straight and gay), and they all want the same thing: ultimate power. It’s expressed in different ways, but the end result is always the same.

I’ve heard a lot of differing opinions from people about that DFR the other day. It’s been a healthy conversation. But ultimately, I defer to Alphas like Master Jase, true leaders who see the clearest perched at the top of the hierarchy!

I am a reader of your site and I agree with the hierarchical pyramid you propose. I have a master who is an alpha and whom I worship as a superior being. However, a problem has recently arisen: one of his friends has a submissive and we often see each other together. This submissive is a beta. He is unbearable and feels much more important than me. He also behaves in an unpleasant manner, when we are alone. I talked to my master about it, but he laughed and said that this was nonsense.

I’ve never had any problems with Alphas, and i respect the Hierarchy, but I can’t accept the whims of a beta. In my opinion, a faggot is a better than a beta. A Beta is a faggot who doesn’t have enough courage to be a faggot. What do you think?

Regardless of this consideration, how should I behave with that asshole without offending my master or his alpha friend?

Thank you for the question!

I can definitely appreciate how you feel about beta males. They are hierarchically useless unless they can be manipulated to serve the needs of Alphas. Also, beta males often have an inflated sense of importance because they are not treated like faggots (much like this beta you’re dealing with). Like you correctly said, betas don’t have the courage (or the honesty or humility) that faggots have.

Here’s the thing about this particular beta tormenting you: he’s a “beta-sub” on my hierarchical pyramid, which isn’t enough of a difference from a faggot to have egotistical bragging rights. It’s like being a guy with one paralyzed leg mocking a guy with two paralyzed legs.

I’m unhappy with your Master’s response to this situation. He should be pro-active when his property is being hurt or defamed (especially by a beta). I guess there’s not a lot that can be done about that, though.

As far as this beta is concerned, maybe showing him my chart and explaining to him that he’s really nothing special.

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I wanted to express my opinion about the question you previously had about Gay VS Straight Alphas, and what type of Alphas was the more superior one.

In my humble opinion, the belief that Straight Alphas are superior to Gay Alphas is total utter bullshit, and quite frankly disrespectful to any Gay Alpha. To me, that belief stems from internalized homophobia about oneself, and eroticizes heterosexuality in a way that is completely separate from serving Alphas. Because someone thinks heterosexuality is “normal”, the homosexuality is deviant and abnormal, therefore inferior to heterosexual males. Which is again, bullshit.

I’ve seen comments saying Gay Alphas were inherently inferior because they had skin in the game, they had attraction to men, and could get attracted to Straight men too, meaning they were superior. The truth is, an Alpha sees getting served by a faggot completely separate from feelings or love. It has nothing to do with attraction, it is simply is innate right to be served and worshipped.

Faggots thinking Gay Alphas are inferior to Straight Alphas are simply bootlickers, and are disrespectful as a whole towards ALL alphas, just by questioning the alphahood of a certain subtype of Alphas.

Service isn’t about sexuality or attraction, it’s about DOMINANCE.

This is in response to THIS QUESTION.

This topic has uncorked a torrent of responses since I published it a few days ago. I get all of the arguments, and I definitely understand yours.

I won’t add more to the fire right now, other than I’m more inclined toward your position (as I have been for many years), but the discussion will go on. I have more to publish on this, and will likely be my next podcast episode.

BTW: calling faggots “bootlickers” is almost redundant. LOL

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Hello Sam I’m after some advice.

I’m a 38 year old born faggot. I’ve always been submissive and always known my purpose was to serve alpha men. Gods that were put on this off for me to serve.

I’ve severed men all my life. I have been wearing Chastity since I was a teen and I have been owned by some of the most superior alpha gods – man and boys. However over the last couple of years things have slowed down. I am still very eager to serve and although I’m an experienced faggot I always believe each alpha owner can teach you something new. So why are alphas no longer interest in me? Do faggots like me have a shelf life?

I have so much service left in me and am keen to obey as I always have. What can I do to keep alpha men interested in an experienced faggot.

Thank you for the question!

You’ve hit on one of the most frustrating truths about being a faggot. Sadly, it’s true: faggots DO have a shelf life.

Now, when I say that, I’m only referring to sexually. Obviously, as a faggot ages it becomes less attractive sexually to Alphas, especially given that Men and Alpha are notorious hunters of young, fresh meat. However, how soon that expiration date arrives is entirely within the faggot’s control. Obviously, a paunchy (or fat), balding faggot with bad teeth and eye bags (or other physical defects of aging) can be mitigated if the faggot takes care of itself, right?

Another more insidious effect of aging is a loss of confidence on the part of a faggot. Every successful faggot I’ve ever known has a bit of confidence and self-worth attached to themselves, which in turn attracts high-quality Alphas eager for servants to reflect well on them. But if a faggot loses that confidence (due to insecurities from aging), Alphas can sense that and be less interested.

Now brother, I don’t anything about your situation, but I can tell you that 38 is too young to be experiencing this issue. So be honest with yourself: how do you really look? Have you let yourself go? Have there been other physical issues?

The good news is that older, aging faggots can still be quite useful domestically and for worship sessions. You might remember an inspirational story about a wonderful older faggot in his sixties named Chadwick who recognized his diminished physical appeal and turned himself into a popular nation-wide domestic faggot. You can read that thread by CLICKING HERE. That is the ultimate answer for aging faggots.

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As the title suggest, I think the Super Bowl is a good thing for faggots because during the show I was invited to the party and there were two stray guys that we knew and one that I didn’t and two other fellow fags and one thing we all notice was the guys were naked semi hard all the time we were told to stay between their legs all the time I got the new guy reason why is because I was told he was really rough and during the halftime shows we would be forced to slobber and serve those cocks. Of course, I made a mistake of looking at my master for once and he smacked me hard across the face and told me not to look in my eyes fag Now I see why I got stuck with the new guy

Anyway, his team started losing and he got pissed really pissed and instead of letting him yell yelling scream always said was when you’re pissed off come fuck the faggot He did and I won’t lie I kind of liked how he hit me how he made me feel like I was worthless and we both came pretty hard, hands-free orgasm. Imagine that.

Anyway, do you think the Super Bowl is a good thing for us fags because we get to be put to use Sam for a long time I used to think that you were wrong about us and now I’m trying to realize I was wrong. I enjoy getting used I enjoy being pissed on. I enjoy just almost all of it.

Thanks for the question!

Yes, of course the Super Bowl (or any other Alpha-oriented gathering) is great for faggots. Even if we aren’t used sexually, it’s still wonderful to be able to be useful in times like that.

Speaking of which, I was at a huge bar watching the game with a large group, and my black straight Alpha friend Matt actually let his wife and kids go home. When I asked him why, he said he didn’t need her there to serve him when I’m there to do it. So that’s what I did, getting his drinks and food, cleaning up after him, etc.

We have our uses!

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Hi Sam,
Recently I came across some of your posts on X where you claimed that Straight Alphas say gay Alphas are below them in the hierarchy. I’ll start by saying that I agree with them. I truly believe that Straight Men are superior and that gay Alphas are below any Straight Man, but that’s not the main point.
Even if we want to indulge the idea that gay Alphas could be equal to Straight Men, or even Straight Alphas, because of how they treat others and how they act, it’s clear as day that they don’t get respected by Straight Men simply because they are gay.
The hierarchy is a social pyramid based mainly on sexual power, and the fact that gay Alphas, as gay males, could potentially be attracted to a Straight Man gives them a natural weakness and makes them inferior to a Straight Man, let alone a Straight Alpha, because the Straight Man holds power over the gay Alpha.
To me, that doesn’t mean gay Alphas don’t exist, but rather that they are below Straight Men.
We can see this everywhere, the number of dominant “Alpha” tops who have confessed that they would submit to real men, meaning Straight Men, is astounding. I’m not judging them, actually, I support this. I just don’t understand how you can believe they are equal to Straight Men or even Straight Alphas. Part of me wants to understand you and believe you, but I just can’t see that.

Thank you for the question/observation!

I’m not going to argue, because you make a salient point here. I would be inclined to agree with you based on that reasoning.

I remember back in the very early days of this site my pyramid looked significantly different. In that version I split the triangle down the middle, with one side a shade darker than the other to denote the gay versions of each level. After a significant amount of pressure from many including gay Alphas (for homophobia, no less!), I altered it. So you can see from my past stances that I’m not traditionally far off from your conclusion within myself.

I do think procreation itself is an argument for a lowered status for gay Alphas, but your additional reasoning makes a good case even stronger. However, I do think it’s more of a case of adjustment within Alpha hierarchy as opposed to an adjustment to the entire pyramid.

I’m happy to entertain more thoughts on this! Thanks again!

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I’m reaching out for advice on how to handle conversations about being a fag, especially in contexts where I usually keep my kink life private, like with family.

Context: My boyfriend and I are in a long-term, consensual Dom/sub relationship. As part of our dynamic, I wear a chastity cage almost all the time. While we’re open about our relationship with trusted friends, we generally keep the kinkier details private from family and work.

What happened: We were at my boyfriend’s parents’ place with his family. I accidentally left my chastity cage lying around after cleaning it—my fault entirely. My boyfriend’s brother found it and made some remarks. My boyfriend wanted to address it honestly to prevent teasing, so we talked to his siblings. They were supportive, but their attitude caught me off guard.

Instead of surprise or curiosity, they treated it as completely normal—almost dismissively so. Their reactions were along the lines of “Of course you’re the submissive one,” “It makes sense our brother would lock you up,” and “Glad he finally found someone who consents to it.” It wasn’t malicious, but their absolute self-confidence made me feel uncomfortable. I found myself reacting emotionally, apologizing later, but their responses only reinforced that feeling of being objectified.

What I’m struggling with: How can I discuss my submissive side in these contexts without becoming flustered or reactive? I want to be able to calmly express that I am a faggot, that I serve my Man, our kinks and so on, without feeling like I’m losing control or being pushed into a role I didn’t agree to in that moment.

I’d really appreciate any advice on how to stay composed and communicate clearly in these situations, while staying true to myself and my dynamic with my boyfriend.

Thank you in advance for your support.

Best, Dave

Thank you for writing in, Dave!

This is an interesting dynamic. Firstly, I congratulate you for maintaining such a long-lasting and healthy Alpha/fag relationship! It’s hard to make the transition from role play to long-term embracing of mutual purpose. You and your Master should be proud of yourselves!

I think I understand the real problem here. You don’t want to be objectified or spoken to/of like a thing without any sense of self.

But here’s the problem: you’re a faggot, so in some ways you ARE an object. You need to embrace that reality and actually relish it. For me, talking about being a faggot in everyday situations is full of joy because I’m actually pretty proud to be a faggot.

So what’s bothering you about what happened with the family? Did you want them to be shocked? Disgusted? Disappointed? Bullying? What reaction do you think would’ve been better for you?

Honestly, I think your Master’s family’s reaction is nothing short of revelatory. You should be so grateful to be part of a family that embraces whatever truth you have so openly and warmly. Your Master was brought up to be inclusive and open, and that upbringing (coupled with his Alpha dominance) makes him comfortable in his own skin.

I wish the same for you, brother. As a completely owned and cherished faggot, you should be proud to wear your Master’s cage and represent him and glorify him in all you do. It’s nothing to be embarrassed about or ashamed of. Your Master’s family wanted you to feel good about being owned by him, which is why (I think) they had that reaction.

There are soooo many worse reactions that happen every day to faggots everywhere. Be grateful, be thankful, and be proud!

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So recently I went hunting right I needed something to do. I felt bored and I still had a deer tag left so I went hunting and I came across this beautiful deer, big ass antlers and then I’m trying to get a look at the head and then I realized it’s not a deer. It’s a man dressed up as a deer and then I look over and I see another guy dressed up as a deer

And I literally watched them fuck like animals in the woods in the snow and the entire time I kept thinking of myself God, I wish that was me and the one time I scope didn’t have the camera feature. I was kicking myself for that one otherwise I’d have a video for you to see.

And I watched them finish and I followed their tracks back to their cabin and when I walked up to the door and knocked, I saw a father and son there And without any preamble, I said I saw you guys as dear how are you guys were fucking in the woods I saw you knocked up your little faggot son over there Instead of being beet red, they said, do you see what you like? I gulp and I said yes, but it never went further than that, but I did tell them next time you guys want to fuck like animals please do it in the safety of your cabin here I almost shot you guys

And when I got back to my truck, I busted a nut in -38° weather so anyway, what are your take on furries Sam Are you one? I know I am and that would explain why I have an attraction for The DC comic character, killer croc

Thanks for the experience!

Well I’m glad you didn’t shoot anyone! No, I’m not a furry. I don’t really understand the kink, much like I don’t get a lot of performative stuff like pup play or the leather scene. It seems nonsensical.

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