Collaring faggots isn’t something that comes up often here on the site. I remember covering straight Masters Nick and Matt when they collared their faggots back in the days of FWA. More recently, Master Anthony collared his special faggot Fabien with a pendant that read “Anthony” to clearly mark Fabien as his property. It’s simply not something that is done as often as you’d think.

Whenever a Master asks me about presenting a faggot with either a chastity cage or a collar, I always advise them to turn it into a ceremony. Make it a special, solemn moment between a Man and his faggot. These are, after all, the “wedding rings” of hierarchy. Masters Nick and Matt loved to make caging and collaring their faggots into a day-long event that led up to the moment when they were locked in place. I loved that so much, and so did their faggots!

The subject of collaring came up on the Hierarchy University Discord (JOIN NOW) recently, and one of the older Alphas on the server, a wise, no-nonsense Alpha named Master V, chimed in with some terrific information that I wanted to share.

To set it up, a faggot named @joshfaglondon asked: “Just wondering if anyone has had, or been to, a formalized collaring ceremony? As a worshipful faggot who dreams about being a full-time boy wife, I fantasize a lot about professing my love and loyalty, making lasting promises, and handing over my rights to Sir in front of a supportive congregation. Do these events really happen? Do any Alphas share this fantasy, or is it just wannabe fagbrides like me?”

Here’s what Master V said in response:

Yes, they happen. They are a semi-formal affair, considering the topic. It’s not really a wedding ceremony thing where you declare vows and some Entity standing between you now declares you connected. It’s more intimate, or inter-personal, where the dominant and the submissive acknowledge the collar and commitment between themselves in front of a couple witnesses.

There can also be the confusing situation where this same process is split in to two or three parts/stages and goes deeper into the formalities and protocols. (Think of “the old days” when you started with the courtship, then ask dad for permission followed by the engagement, and finally the wedding.)

To make it even more confusing the order they happen can be reversed.

Basically you have the ‘collaring’ ceremony, and a ‘signing’ ceremony. (Usually in that order. And if 3 staged, the middle one a mix of the two.)

The collar represents the bonding ring .. In the first, more common usage, it is the wedding ring. Once it’s on , you’re part and parcel with the owner’s household.

In the split format, you get the probationary collar. (Or household collar or temp…or whatever collar. [It comes with an adjective.]) Think of that like an engagement ring. And to make matters even more confusing, this might be the promissory ring if you live in separate towns for example. Until one moves to the other’s town, then it might work up to be an engagement.

Then there’s the signing ceremony — this is that indenture contract, the BDSM or Slave contract you hear about. This ceremony is the one with the more formal pomp and circumstance, for good reason. That document is the prenup, the wedding vows, the license and certificate all rolled into one. Treat it with that respect and be serious with the terms.

And for the collars themselves… Each ceremony may come with a new collar… or maybe the first is the one you’ll always wear….. with adjustments.

Ever noticed how some are small thin things with one ring, while others are heavy things with rings all around and usually come with some specialized locking mechanism? There’s your different levels of the collaring ceremony on full display.

** for some of you, you’re not going to be able to see your elders in the same light here…

That small thin, no rings collar used to be called a choker. A tight leather ribbon necklace. Back before the 70s that was free and unowned, but looking to settle down. In the late 60s it became a fashion statement, much like how the leather jacket went from something you earned to something you bought at Walmart.

Then you have the more sturdy, buckled collar – usually with a single D-ring on the front. There’s that promissory collar. Sometimes you’ll even here of a Notice of Intent being put out by the dominant, which is basically a formal notice to other dominants you’re looking at – or courting – this submissive, so hands off. (Just remember, it also lets those others know to report issues they may see or know of to him as well.)

This is followed by the more heavy leather collar versions, with an odd number of rings. Still buckled, but maybe able to take a paddle lock to show more permanence, to represent that engagement. If the dominant puts out a Letter of Intent here, it may come with terms for the submissive like a “starter” contract which would require the submissive to agree and sign. At this point, whether living in the dominant’s home or not, you are to be his and his alone.

And finally comes the signing ceremony. That pseudo-formal contract protocol. The wedding, where your collar stops being symbolic. The buckles might be removed and it riveted on. Or maybe the leather band is replaced for a solid metal one. Or the chain collar went from a small key lock, to a medium combo lock, to now welded closed.

I must admit there was a lot here I’d never heard expressed in such linear terms before, but much of it makes sense. These sequential steps Master V outlines here really highlights the layers of depth that exists in the Master/faggot dynamic!

I do wonder why Alphas have gotten away from collaring their faggots. Part of me thinks it has to do with the new freedom gays enjoy in the Western world, where many feel collaring faggots “dehumanizes” them.

But every faggot I’ve ever known who has been collared was deeply moved by the experience and cherish their collar. So the act and ceremony of collaring isn’t dehumanizing, but rather empowering. Wearing it honors both the faggot and its Owner. It’s something deserving of ceremony and celebration!

I thank Master V for describing these traditional collaring ceremonies, acts that deepen the commitment between Masters and their faggots and emphasize the purpose of each!

The following post is part of a column written by a 40-something experienced faggot who calls himself “Mr. Fag”. CLICK HERE to read all of these posts in chronological order!

Hi Sam,

This is Mister Fag. I saw your response regarding the limp dick and just wanted to point out that a cage may not be practical for various reasons (hello, TSA!). However, a faggot should know that being limp—whether naturally or educated by a cage—is essential to understanding our biology.

I have been traveling a lot recently for business. I wanted to share a little story that occurred during one of those trips. After a full day of meetings, I decided to get a couple of drinks at the hotel bar. Curiously, the only seat available was next to a man who was clearly good-looking and whom I initially thought was straight.

Maybe it was the loneliness, or maybe the vibe, but I started making small talk. I must admit, he was charming. At our second round, he whispered, “So, tell me, are you a fag?” I felt scared for an instant, but after I said “yes,” he replied, “I knew it.” That felt safe.

Later that night, after paying for his drinks, I followed him to his room where I obeyed and let him decide how I should please him.

During the week, I met him a couple more times. I always took care of him (paid for his dinner and serviced his needs). On the last night, he told me he wanted to try ball torture because “you have no real use.” I let him do it—and yes, it is painful during and after.

I don’t want to dwell on the physical specifics, but the experience forced me to realize how vital the bridge of trust is between a fag and an alpha. In the vacuum of a hotel room, far from the social scripts of the daytime world, the hierarchy becomes a living thing that requires communication to function. Over the years, I have learned that a true fag doesn’t just obey orders; he finds his purpose in them. Yet, there is a recurring shadow: fear. It is a specific, sharp kind of fear—not necessarily of the act itself, but of the sheer, uncompromising scale of the alpha’s power. It is the vertigo one feels standing at the edge of a cliff; it’s not that the cliff is “mean,” it’s simply that its nature is absolute and yours is fragile.

And that fear is okay. In fact, it is necessary. It is the recognition of the weight of the man standing above fags. The key, I’ve found, is to communicate that feeling to the alpha. You aren’t “complaining” or “safe-wording” out of the experience; you are clarifying your position within it. You are telling him that your hesitation isn’t a sign of disrespect toward the natural order, nor is it a rejection of his nature. Rather, it is an admission that you are being moved—truly, deeply moved—by the gravity of his power. When an alpha understands that your fear is actually a form of worship, the dynamic reaches its most honest state.

Maybe I am romanticizing, but I thought it was worth sharing.

Respectfully,

Mister Fag

Well done, brother!

My first question: why do you think the Alpha at bar was not straight? Did he say he wasn’t? Straight Alphas are quite clued in to the use of fags sexually, and when they sense a wild fag in an appropriate moment, they will often make a move. In fact, the ball torture makes me think he was straighter than you imagine.

That aside, I thought this was an exceptional entry in your series, Mister Fag! Your central thesis that Alphas carry a weight that inspires respect, awe, and fear in inferiors like fags is spot-on. I’ve actually heard Alphas say how much it turns them on to see how intimidated faggots and females are in their presence!

The Alpha in the bar probably sensed your nervousness right away and read it correctly. As I’ve said many times, Alphas are extraordinary hunters and possess the ability to read their prey. They see nervous eye contact and instinctively know the person can be controlled and used by them.

But your point about how “fear is a form of worship” is particularly fascinating to me. Even when we aren’t intentionally worshiping an Alpha, our natural instinct of fearful respect is also registered as worship in the eyes of Alphas!

Again, that is why I always encourage faggots to TRY to talk to Alphas and offer service. Yes, I know it can be intimidating, but Alphas read it correctly and hierarchically.

Thank you so much for such an insightful post, brother!

~ sam the faggot

Hi Sam!

I’m an asian faggot who’s new to serving alphas. I started serving this white alpha every few days who really enjoys raceplay. Some of the basic things he’ll make me do include:

• Calling me a chinky fag, both during service and while texting
• Write humiliating things on my body with marker
• Make me verbally proclaim why white men are superior

Now I don’t accept racism, but raceplay with him has been so hot and has made me feel even less important as a faggot, that I feel like I’m better at serving him. I’m thinking of only his wants and needs. He’s told me how both asian girls and fags alike are always so submissive to white men and I just wanted to know what you think about alphas using raceplay to train faggots and why asians are so drawn to raceplay from white men. Thanks Sam!

Thank you for writing, brother!

First of all, I’m very much like you. I’m not racist at all (in fact, I pretty much trend quite anti-racist), but when black Alphas first got me into race play I found it to be exhilarating. I think that feeling comes from both the taboo nature of it, as well as the fact that those black Alphas made me do something against my natural will. I suspect it’s the same for you.

That’s also why I think race play can be an effective tool to train faggots. It forces the faggot to think of itself in relation to other degraded or dismissive minorities, and also forces the faggot to do/say despicable things to further shame it. That said, I really have a love/hate relationship with race play. It just reduces all people to stereotypes that often don’t fit at all.

As far as the attitude of Asians for race play, I probably can’t adequately answer that given I am not Asian. My guess is that Asians do tend to be submissive because of their naturally short, skinny, hairless frames and their falsely-stereotyped tiny penises. There is an insecurity bred into Asians for that reason, and race play pings those insecurities they have.

Ultimately, it’s nonsense. There’s nobody who can make Asian race play jokes around a powerful Asian God Alpha like Master Jace and live to tell about it. Sadly, we humans are broken in myriads of ways.

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The following post is part of a thread following the story of Titouan, an 18-year-old French faggot currently owned by an older Alpha. CLICK HERE to read all of these posts in chronological order!

I’ve been self-caged since 2021 (minus my imprisonment, obviously), and it’s wonderful. But still, if I need to become freed from the cage at any point, I can do that. I have the key.

But it’s an entirely different equation when a faggot is caged by a Master who will also be the keyholder. The faggot often (understandably) becomes anxious because it truly no longer has a choice except to obey. Locked up permanently for the foreseeable future. Can be scary, especially for younger faggots like sweet little Titouan!

Speaking of which, Titouan returns with an update about his straight, married Master and his new designs for his new faggot.

I’m Titouan french boy, in a recent relationship with a straight mature Daddy, he loves twinks like me (secretly to preserve his straight and family life) and loves a lot to use me, make me lick him everywhere, suck his big dick, offer him all my body. I feel lucky to be his young faggot with duty to serve a dominant straight male like him.

This week he says he wants me to buy a chastity cage and bring it next time, so he can fix it on me and keep the key. It already happened I had to wear one but not with him and was only for very short time. He tells me reasons why he demands this, I try to translate his words from French:  says for a boy like me respect to my Alpha includes chastity rule, having not any sort of sex relationship with anybody and not being able to touch myself. And knowing his boy has chastity cage when not with him makes him sure of my strict fidelity. Of course as Alpha male he remains free and fidelity obligation is only for me as jeune pédale (young faggot). Seems a fair rule. He adds I must buy small size as I have a little boyish dick, only there to be laughed at by real men or other boys.

I understand Alpha males have unlimited right to pleasure, and at same time chastity is fair rule for faggots. I was asked if I ever had my dick sucked, I answered the truth, yes Sir it happened, last time was some weeks ago a girl wanted to suck me and did it, and yes it was great. I understand with chastity rule it’s going to be forbidden now. Big frustration yes, but I like the idea it pleases my Daddy so much. I feel the superior men and boys have right to maximum pleasure as often as they want, and I must only think of serving them. Isn’t it correct ?

This is an exciting step for Titouan in his service to his new Master! I love it when straight Alphas take ownership of a faggot and their instincts kick in to lock up their fag in chastity (among other things). It’s just so natural. Men have a drive to transform everything they own to meet their own needs, whether it’s jerry-rigging highchairs to make caring for infants easier or building a treehouse in the backyard to keep the kids occupied or adding parts to their cars to make them louder, cooler, and faster. It’s just the nature of Men, and especially Alphas.

A faggot is simply another thing they own and build to satisfy their needs.

Titouan’s Master sounds like he’s enjoying Titouan’s service enough that he wants to make modifications in Titouan so that his new faggot will be even more pleasurable! I love it!

But I really love Titouan’s submissive, willing attitude when it comes to these demands from his Master! He’s much like Fabien, Jimmy, or Giovanni in that respect! They’re all exemplary faggots who typify the proper attitude toward service at any cost … even their useless penises!

Love you, Titouan!

Sam, I sent you a message a month ago about my Jamaican Alpha… do u remember me??

I respectfully asked him if he could prepare my hole and he was very nice to me. He told me to buy three dildos (small, medium, and large). The biggest one had 18 cm, but his cock is 22 cm. He said that he did that on purpose because he wanted me nice and tight for him. I trained for around 10 days, following step by step what he told me. Then I went to his apartment, wearing a big plug, and I was really scared, brother. I sucked him for a long time, and when he said “I’m gonna fuck you now”, I almost tried to run away, but I remained there to fulfill my destiny. He has so much experience, it was really great to be manhandled by such an experienced Alpha. He held me with his hands positioned me on his lap and told me to go down as much as I could. I only took one third of his cock. But he was really good to me when I said I couldn’t go deeper than that. He just held my hips and banged me with the tip of his cock (which is already a lot lol). He came, bred me, and I relaxed my hole for two days before he banged me again. And what matters the most: he said that I am really good boy and he’s proud of me!

I also want to say that I read the message of the Alpha with a 5-inch girthy dick and I want to say to him: MASTER, I DON’T KNOW YOU BUT YOU ARE A LUCKY MAN!! Really, I wish my Alpha had a 5-inch dick, my life would be soooo much easier. Specially if he wants to fuck and breed virgin faggots, this cock size is just great. But that’s alright, I am a fag, and my duty is to accept whatever my Man has to me, I just wanna say that my poor virgin ass would’ve suffered so much less if my master had a dick this size. And by the way, I have just seen one cock my whole life, but 5 inches with 6 inches of girth is huge! I couldn’t be able to close my right hand holding his cock. I know you already said that my brother Sam, but I just wanted to give my opinion as a young faggot who has just been fucked and bred by a enormous cock.

I love you brother!! <3 I am happy with my Man and thanks to you I am working hard to become a better fag for him.

This is a follow-up to THIS QUESTION.

Yes, little brother … of course I remember you!

I’m glad that your giant-dicked Master had some mercy on you and helped you to develop your ability to please him! It really speaks to the quality of your Master as well as your true desire to be a successful faggot! An Alpha’s reaction to challenging circumstances reveals what’s in his heart, so when your Master didn’t just shove his dick into you and force you to take it all, it demonstrates a wisdom and benevolence on his part! He is definitely an Alpha worth serving!

But your dedication to training in order to please him to the best of your ability reveals what a good faggot you are, too! Your Master sees that, and that’s why he reassured you with commendation by calling you a “good boy”. He’s pleased by what he sees in you as a prized, valuable possession. He sees the desperation in your face as you struggle to please him, and that satisfies him in a way that can’t be measured in orgasms, if you understand what I mean.

I’m really proud of you, little brother! Keep up the good work! Love you!

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Hi, Sam,

I’ve been lurking for a few years, but I thought I’d finally send something in.  The link (below) from The New York Times made me think of what you’ve been preaching:  The bird Bruce overcoming his “disability” and taking his rightful place as the alpha among his fellow keas: getting to eat first, for example. No matter what, an alpha will show his true colors, I guess!

I was struck by this passage:

After enjoying a meal, Bruce permits lower-ranked males to preen his feathers and clean his bottom beak. “And when Bruce is done, he’ll give a kick or a little joust to say, ‘Right, that’s it, I’m done,’”

I know I’m certainly not an alpha, and seeing the description of even a bird’s alpha-ness aroused me.

Keep up the good work,

Tony

Thank you for writing to me!

Tony is referring to THIS ARTICLE about Bruce the parrot that appeared in The New York Times. It’s a pretty fascinating article, honestly, and it really demonstrates a truth about hierarchy that encompasses all of nature.

One thing we can say about nature, it is incredibly organized. We humans are often too arrogant or too idiotic to notice, but from the microscopic to the macroscopic, everything has order. One only has to look at the building-block constructions of RNA molecules to the tireless, scent-controlled activities of ant colonies to the graceful wheeling of distant galaxies to appreciate that harmonious order.

Hierarchy is the ultimate form of order, the First Law of all natural societies.

The story of Bruce the parrot exerting his natural Alphahood despite his disability demonstrates how ingrained these roles are in our DNA. Bruce has a brain the size of a sunflower kernel, but he still recognizes that he rules the roost – and so do the other parrot challengers to his throne (perch?).

I laughed a little when the article discusses how the other parrots groomed Bruce and served his needs until he dismissed them, much like faggots serving their Alphas or beta males attempting to curry favors from their superiors. These roles are ingrained in them, and cannot ever be changed.

But the hierarchy the story describes is more important than individual roles. It defines our society. It provides a framework for purpose, just the way a worker bee ceaselessly toils at his gifted role until he finally collapses. It’s all part of a machinery much larger and more complex than our minds – caught within its Matrix – can ever comprehend!

Thank you, Tony, for sharing such a wonderful article with me!

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Hi, I’m 18 and haven’t fucked yet. I live in a small town, but I am going to college in a major capital full of nightclubs, parties, and thousands of whores and faggots. I am not sure if I am bisexual but I do love fags and love to jerk off to fag/femboys porn. I found your site 2 days ago and I just spent hours and hours learning about hierarchy. You have one more reader now, fag.

My hard cock is 5.2-inch long and 6.2-inch thick. I have two best friends and their cocks are longer than mine, but mine is WAY thicker than theirs. But I have only seen 3 cocks in my whole life, including mine. Looking online, I learned that 5.2 is unfortunately slightly below the average, but 6.2 seems to be thicker than the average. My first question for you is: is my cock really thicker than the average?

My second question for you is: does a thick cock feel good when a man is pounding you? I know that fags are not supposed to feel pleasure, but I want my future fags to feel good when I breed them, so I wanna know if girth feels better than length, or if it’s just painful. Most importantly, I wanna fuck virgin fags around my age when I get to college, but I will be in competition with other Alphas with bigger, but probably thinner, cocks. Is my girth a good atribute to attract girls and fags?

I would be happy to hear anything you have say about this. I don’t have a lot of self-esteem issues and in general I am pretty confident, but I guess that watching Alpha cocks in porn does not help. Thank you.

Sir, thank you so much for writing to me!

What an exciting time for you, Sir! You’re finally going to be free of the small-town lifestyle and experience the wide world destined to be yours! I think you’ll be truly stunned by your power and the breadth of what’s available to you!

As far as cock size is concerned, I’ve always maintained the same stance: cock size does NOT determine Alphahood. Anybody who judges you or any Man for the size of their dick simply has no real understanding of power.

Technically, your dick might be imperceptibly shorter than average. That means nothing. Length is not that important. I guarantee you that I could stick the entire length of a broom handle in my ass and it wouldn’t affect me the same as a simple beer can.

But to answer the other part of that question, yes, your dick is MUCH thicker than average and is guaranteed to open up females and faggots in ways they will never forget! You should be proud of the battering ram between your legs, Sir!

As far as pleasing partners, of course you will please them, Sir! Just be sure to use a lot of good lube (probably silicone-based unless you’re using condoms). Go slow until you get them accommodated to your girth. Your thick cock will probably be perfect for cunting faggots, too, because you’re likely to hit the prostate more consistently.

Your journey reminds me of an Alpha virgin who was graduating high school and concerned about the size of his cock. He reached out to me on social media and I gave him similar advice to what I’ve said above. A year later I heard from him and he owns multiple faggots in college and doing very well. I think you’ll be exactly the same, Sir!

Keep me posted!

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The following post is part of a column written by a 40-something experienced faggot who calls himself “Mr. Fag”. CLICK HERE to read all of these posts in chronological order!

Dear Sam,

This is Mr. Fag.  In the grand scheme of things of Alpha-fag dynamics, where raw dominance meets yielding surrender, one truth stands eternal: the limp cock is the fag’s crown.  Too many eager holes chase the illusion of hardness, thrusting their pathetic stubs forward like beggars at a feast.  Alphas recoil—and rightly so.  A fag’s cock, rigid and insistent, screams “equality,” shattering the sacred asymmetry of the room. Limpness? That is poetry. It is the visual hymn to your role: soft, dangling, and utterly irrelevant. Watch an Alpha’s eyes light up when your meat hangs slack, a silent vow that this hole is his altar, not a rival shaft.

Limpness isn’t mere optics—it’s physiological gospel for fag’s greedy guts. Pleasure should cascade from the hole upward, a prostate symphony that floods the fag’s system with bliss without demanding the crude machinery of an erection.

True ecstasy is found in the Sacred Circuit:

• The P-Spot Pulse: Anal stimulation hijacks the pudendal nerve, spiking dopamine and oxytocin.
• Blood Flow Prioritization: When the fag remains flaccid, their body directs blood flow to the internal erogenous zones rather than the superficial swell of the shaft.
• The Tension Trap: Forcing a boner chokes the pipeline. Tension builds in the corpora cavernosa, diverting neural energy away from your core and toward a distracting, masculine urgency.

Stay soft, and every thrust becomes a full-body wave. Fag’s glans will tingle passively, the balls will churn surplus seed, and the fag will remain an open vessel for hours rather than a ticking clock.

Alphas sense this instinctively. To them, a hard fag is a distraction—a mechanical competitor in a space that requires a vacuum. A limp one, however, is a pure invitation: “Ruin me, Sir.” It signals that the fag has successfully surrendered their own agency to prioritize his manhood.

We must cultivate this state. It is a discipline, not an accident.

1. Edging via the Rear: Practice solo with plugs, breathing through the urge to touch yourself.
2. Mirror Affirmations: Look at your softness. Recognize that the power is not in what stands up, but in what opens up.
3. Wellness through Yielding: Reduced erectile strain means healthier vessels and the elimination of the “refractory blues.”  The fag becomes an evergreen resource for Alpha’s pleasure.

Limpness isn’t weakness; it is the fag’s superpower. Embrace the hang, brothers. Let it swing free while the real work happens behind the scenes.

Respectfully,

Mr. Fag

I’m not sure what to make of this entry, brother. I tend to agree that Alphas hate seeing fags with hard dicks, but I believe fags should be caged rather than “flopping around”. That’s just my opinion, though.

~ sam the faggot

Hierarchy 310 – The Power Of Piss

Alpha piss is more powerful than they understand!

SITE: https://hierarchypodcast.com/hierarchy-310-the-power-of-piss/

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AMAZON: https://music.amazon.com/podcasts/b09c451b-5400-481c-b69e-85463cf2e84c/the-hierarchy-podcast

APPLE: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-hierarchy-podcast/id1778739988/

I cannot tell you how overjoyed I was today when I FINALLY found the video above! I used to have it bookmarked somewhere and lost it, and I’ve been hunting for it ever since!

On the surface, it’s simply a straight black Alpha (Jamaican?) getting his huge, fat dick professionally serviced by a talented faggot.

But the VERBAL in it as the Alpha starts enjoying himself is hypnotic, and when he cums … woooo boy it it volcanic! He shakes and cusses and and doesn’t hold back! I also love how focused the faggot is on simply providing expert head for his superior!

It’s the best! Enjoy!

The following post is part of a thread following the story of Titouan, an 18-year-old French faggot currently owned by an older Alpha. CLICK HERE to read all of these posts in chronological order!

Early in 2022 I met a young French faggot named Titouan. He was an 18-year-old high school student who was already deeply exploring his purpose as a faggot, serving both Alpha classmates as well as older married Alphas. As you can see from his picture above, he’s an adorably smooth little twink, the kind of faggot that Alpha Daddies love to own and use.

Of course, my communication with Titouan (and the rest of the world) abruptly ended a few months later when I had to go to prison (seems like forever ago!), and I thought I’d lost contact with Titouan for good.

But somehow, against all odds, Titouan found me again! So in honor of my friendship with him and his compelling story, I’ve manually rebuilt his entire thread from the FWA archives. You can access it all from the link in the header above!

So what has been happening with little Titouan in the last few years? Here’s his update:

I found your new site by chance. Do you still have some of the pics or texts I sent you and that were published on your older site ? (I suppose not, no problem, just a curiosity)

I still live near Paris with my parents and sisters, student, 20, usually classified as ‘minet’ (french for twink). Since my beginnings at high school then university I met some guys. Had a first Daddy for some time as you may remember. Also went with “rebeus” (french arab boys). Since beginning of this university year in october 2025, I have been used used as their young cocksucker by two rebeus. I feel it’s a duty for me as twink faggot to serve these superior boys. 

Then at beginning of this year, I met a new Daddy (thanks to french gay site ‘les pompeurs’;  pompeurs = cocksuckers). He is a mature, Alpha straight and married family man but loves to see secretly twinks like me. So virile and dominant. He also loves to use me for his pleasure. There are several “rules” I have to obey and comply with.  And some hot ideas for next months. 

I can tell you more, and send one or two pics. Should I write to you only at this email address, or is it possible directly on your site ? (I think I ‘registered’ on it but not sure how it works)  I agree to be published on site as I was on the older one, if you wish…  Of course I love most things (texts, pics, videos) on your site (with a few exceptions that are too hard for me).

Titouan (french boy)

Lovely!

Titouan really loves serving those older straight Alphas, doesn’t he? I really hope this older Alpha can treat Titouan better than some of the ones he served in the past!

I giggled a little bit when Titouan said that some of the videos on this site were “too rough for him”. He’s a young faggot, but he’s more than experienced enough to handle anything I throw at him!

Anyway, Titouan, it’s wonderful to hear your “voice” once again! If only I could find little Guillaume, and my life would be complete!

Love you, Titouan!

Hi Sam, it’s been a while. I started dating this guy named Sani Real name he’s this really nice big black guy and I love him to death dearly and I know he loves me too, but every other alpha top I’ve been with you know what at least they were open and willing to suck my dick, but this guy just won’t and I’m getting really depressed and their times when I want to hurt him and times when I wanna hurt myself I fell through the ice a long time ago I got permit shrinkage on my cock. I went from 6 1/2 nice an average down to a three and it fucking pisses me off.

I know he’s my alpha. I know that OK it’s not his job, but you know what I would like to feel fucking respected for once and not having to ask you know just once I’m sure a lot of us would love it if our alpha would actually if they actually genuinely loved us actually would love to suck our dick because you know what sometimes I think you’re hierarchy bullshit is a whole well that’s just it. I think it’s bullshit sometimes.

I’m sorry I don’t mean to take it out on you, but it’s the God’s honest truth and my antidepressants make me really fucking blunt just once I would like to encounter a top that likes to suck dick as well whatever happened to those guys

Thank you for the question/rant!

I don’t know who this is, but congratulations on the new relationship! I’m sorry it doesn’t sound totally fulfilling for you, though. But the problem isn’t with him … it’s with YOU.

It all comes down to unrealistic and/or selfish expectations.

Everybody wants to be with an Alpha, but Alphas are NOT like other Men. They almost always want completely submissive people (females and faggots) who cater to them and/or worship them. Subs they can train. Subs they can use.

Alphas are rarely interested in things like sucking a faggot’s dick, especially if they’re bisexual and leaning straight. No amount of whining or demands will make him change his NATURE. You’re going to get dismissed before that ever works.

And frankly, I think he should dismiss you. I’m mortified by your attitude. No faggot should EVER have such a self-serving perspective, nor should they ever throw such childish fits like this.

Let me tell you the truth: Hierarchy is very real. It’s not a joke, It’s not “bullshit”. And no matter how many hissy fits you throw, nothing is going to change it. Hierarchy is inescapable.

So either get your mind focused, or find a new direction in life.

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“He stood up right next to me, positioned Gio on his knees right next to Mario, and Gio started sucking him just like Mario was doing on my cock. But then Lorenzo grabbed my ass, kissed my neck, touched my hole with his fingers and said “enjoy it brother, but don’t forget who is the King here”. Fuck, I almost came in Mario’s mouth listening to Lorenzo’s deep voice while he touched my hole and his boyfriend gave me such a nice head. And I am not embarrassed to admit it. I wonder what it might mean from a hierarchical standpoint… “

Sam, when an Alpha touches another Alpha’s hole, as Lorenzo did to Jose is it a dominant role they’re establishing? I am an older Alpha and I have had this work for me in the past. A young Alpha who always wanted a locker close to mine at the gym was always getting in my way. Finally one day I had had enough and I put my hand on his bare ass to move him out of the way. As I was guiding him over my finger slipped into his crack and came to rest on his hole. At first he was bristling but when my finger touched his hole he melted into a submissive respectful person and has shown proper respect since.

Have you noticed this with other Alphas over the years?

Thank you.

KJ

Thank you for writing to me, Sir!

The passage you quoted came from the most recent update from Master Jose after his latest visit with Master Lorenzo in Brazil. That post can be found RIGHT HERE.

Your experience is most interesting Sir, mainly because I think it’s telling how you had an instinct to do that with one of your Alpha brothers, and then he responded properly as a lesser Alpha. Ordinarily Alphas show some amount of deference and respect to the other members of their Alpha fraternity. But, in this case, you felt the need to “discipline” him slightly by refocusing his mind on his proper place!

The incident also reveals just where you are in my Alpha pyramid, Sir! It must’ve made you feel great to be subsconsciously obeyed in that manner! I’m glad it registered with you, because that means you’ve been paying attention to the way Alphas move beneath you for many years! You’re an Alpha who reads my descriptions of Alpha hierarchy and you get it because you live it.

I have definitely chronicled similar behaviors among Alphas in the past, but most notably with God Alpha Master Lorenzo and Master Chad. I’m sure Master Jose will be comforted and encouraged when/if he reads your account, Sir. A lesser Alpha is still Alpha, and born superior to faggots like me. These kinds of moments merely serve as hierarchically-defining triggers, and not a definition of a whole Man.

I must tell you that I’ve been running this site daily for almost eleven years now, and I still discover new facets of Alpha behavior and psychology!

Thank you so much for sharing this experience with me, Sir!

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Hey Sam,

I saw the recent post an Alpha made about domestic service and I wanted to share my own experiences. I don’t know how much of this is fully applicable, but when I was in college I was doing homework for some Alphas– one of them even let me do his laundry sometimes.

I’ve since had to find some online Alphas to help with work. I’ve taken notes on lectures, written essays, made presentations, and just generally have made myself available to Alphas who need a break from work or maybe a free tutor to help with some assignments. I try to help them learn too, so they can still get something out of the assignment beyond the grade, but it feels really good to just make a man’s life easier.

Sure it can be kind of boring sometimes, especially when they just drop an assignment on me and move on, but it feels good to work on something, especially for my betters.

Thank you for writing!

I love how my audience immediately responded after that Master wrote in about the lack of domestic fag content here! I’ve been approached by multiple fags about their experiences since just last night!

Whenever fags tell me they can’t find any Alphas to serve, there’s a part of me that rolls my eyes and I think, “You’re either not trying, or you have the wrong attitude about your purpose.” Fags that complain about that simply mean they couldn’t find an Alpha to serve SEXUALLY, but there are other, possibly less glamorous ways to serve.

Domestic service is a primary one fags overlook. Look, cleaning floors and toilets might not be as thrilling as getting throat fucked or bred, but the sense of accomplishment can be similarly orgasmic! I really love the way you stated it, brother: “it feels really good to just make a man’s life easier.” EXACTLY!

True submission requires us to place our own comforts, hopes, desires, and even needs aside in favor of serving those of a superior Man. You epitomize that ethos, my brother! I’m proud of you!

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You need to spend more time talking and espousing the importance of domestic faggotry. I had two domestic faggots during my college years and they were helpful in keeping my apartment clean getting general shit done for me. As I have aged (30s now), I’m finding that the fags I encounter are less likely to be interested in domestic faggotry. I’m inspired by the story of Josh and his wife pursuing this avenue as it’s very useful in life. It would certainly save me money if I could stop paying my cleaning lady and get a fag to do it instead. Sam, you need to push this aspect of faggotry more in order to enhance our lives to the fullest extent possible.

Master, thank you for writing to me!

Domestic service is something I preach often here on the site. No, I don’t cover it more than sexual service, but that’s mainly because there is so much more sexual content to use for teaching than domestic service.

I LOVE serving as a domestic faggot. Of course, my times as a domestic faggot typically came as a live-in for straight Masters who were also using me sexually (and occasionally financially). There’s something so emotionally satisfying about taking care of an Alpha’s personal life and affairs. I took great pride in my work, whether it was changing bedsheets every day, creating satisfying meals, or even making sure my Master’s toilets were immaculate. Domestic service is the one function of a faggot that is completely selfless, because the faggot expends itself completely without any hope of physical pleasure or reward.

I know the faggots reading this site come here mostly for selfishly masturbatory reasons, and that’s a problem. But I do know that some of the domestic faggots I’ve covered here have received high praise and lots of curiosity. One such faggot is Chadwick, an older faggot who never stopped trying to be useful to Alphas. You can read about Chadwick’s inspirational story by CLICKING HERE!

In the short instructional video I made entitled “What is a faggot?” I discuss domestic faggots to some degree as well.

So I assure you, Master, I am covering it and want to cover it more. I appreciate the reminders and encouragement!

Thank you for writing, Master!

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Hi sam,

Bit of a messy situation. I’ve been with my straight alpha for 4 years. We met on Instagram, but I fly out to see him a few times a year.

For the first 2 years, we messaged pretty much every day and I became something of an emotional pillar for him. We agreed on exclusivity, and I’ve been his fag ever since. I’m only allowed to serve and talk to him. It’s VERY intense, but being long-distance comes with challenges.

In recent years, his career has taken off and he only messages me maybe 3 times a week. I’ve brought this up, and he says he cares about me, but he’s busy and this is just how things are.

Truth is, I’m having a very difficult time. Ownership has made me dependent on him. I feel like my emotional needs aren’t being met, and most of my time is spent isolated and alone. Any tips on how to resolve this? Or should I ask to end exclusivity?

I REALLY like him, and he’s even indicated he wants to keep me after he marries his girl. I just with things could go back to how they used to be.

Thanks.

Thank you for writing to me, brother!

Congratulations for serving a straight Master for four years, especially given that it’s been almost an entirely remote relationship. It’s commendable, and it certainly speaks well of both you and your Master that you’re both loyal, genuine people!

I’m afraid you’ll need to accept the situation as it is unless there is a radical shift in the life of one of you. He’s a straight Alpha who is now focusing on his new career, and likely doing a fair amount of fucking and partying as well. Meanwhile, you are far away. Friends online don’t last for four years, let alone a straight Alpha and a faggot.

You seem very loyal, brother, and I feel for you. Most fags (including me in my younger days) would’ve just found someone else to serve by now and just lie to their Masters. However, I’ve seen straight Alphas become very attached and even choose their fags over females simply because of their fag’s loyalty and self-sacrifice. Which one is your Master? I have no idea.

I think it might be beneficial to talk to your Master in the most humble and submissive way about how you need training and guidance that he doesn’t have the time for, and ask him if he thinks you should find a local Alpha to serve and train you. Emphasize that you want to do this so you might be a better faggot in the future for him.

By doing that, you’re showcasing two things I’m sure he’s not considering (or even understanding):

1. Faggots need constant training and use to improve

2. Faggots want this training. It’s like water to a plant.

I’m sure at this point your Master just looks at this like a fetish, but by telling him these things he might understand that faggots are real and valuable and, like any other valuable thing in an Alpha’s life a faggot needs to be tended to.

I’d try that and see how he responds.

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Hi Sam. I hope you’re having a wonderful day/evening. I wanted to ask how do I make my straight alpha friend become my master? Me and him have been friends for a few years now and I really want him to my master. He’s not fully aware I’m a faggot, but he knows I like kinky things. I’ve been trying to gauge how he feels about these certain things by making “jokes,” like paying to smell his feet, but I don’t know how to further push it without just admitting it to him. I’m just scared it would drive him away if I came on too strong, but I’d really like him to be my master. What is the best way to get the point across? Thank you for your help in advance!

Thank you for writing!

First of all, there is no way to “make” your straight Alpha friend do anything. There are techniques you can try to arouse his dominance, but to my knowledge there is no hypnosis technique for this! Believe me, I wish there was!

So let me get this straight: you’ve made jokes about paying him to smell his feet, and it didn’t register at all? That’s odd, although I suspect that he’s started to turn questions over in his mind.

Given that I don’t know how old you both are, or what your situation is (do you spend a lot of time together alone, etc.), my advice is limited. But my primary recommendation is to print out my “Letter To An Alpha” and humbly, submissively give it to him to read. It’s designed to gently bridge the gap between a straight Alpha and a faggot. Or, you can do something I often recommend, which is to ask him if he considers himself to be Alpha. Depending on his answer, you can lead him to a discussion of Hierarchy. You could even tell him you came across this site and it made you curious about his thoughts on hierarchy.

You obviously need to engage him more specifically. These are the steps I think you should take, brother.

Keep me informed!

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Hi Sam,

I came across your profile recently on X when researching about alphas and have been reading a bit about how hierarchy works and your posts, but still have a lot to learn about it as I just started looking into it. Recently, I had a meetup with a DL guy for a quick hookup to give him head and let him nut in me. When we met up he asked if it was okay to do some roleplay saying he liked went he was in control and I agreed since I liked being more submissive anyway. It started off simple just him telling me to appreciate his body and muscles before facefucking me which I really enjoyed. However, it took a turn when I tried to move my mouth away from his dick he grabbed me by the hair and said something like “did I tell you to stop faggot?” and slapped me on the face. I was really shocked for a moment but realized it got me hard when he forced me down. I’m guessing since I didn’t say anything he just went with it and eventually had me kneeling, saying I could only call him sir, making me say thank you every time I touched him, and even giving me a wedgie when I wasn’t listening to him. I’ve never had this experience before but I can’t deny I was aroused and at the end he asked if I was okay saying he gets caught up in it, but only continued since I seem to enjoy it. I agreed and said I never had this happen to me but for some reason I enjoyed it and like being told what to do.  I ended up driving him back to his place and we had a really nice conversation just about what we study and what we like, which was so different than his dynamic earlier. It was honestly just a very wholesome talk that I wasn’t expecting and since all. of that happened I’ve been looking into more hierarchal aspects and that’s how I found you? My main thing currently is things are moving really fast as he said he wants to meet up again and while I enjoyed it 100% and have thought about it a lot, it’s a big step forward and Idk how to really approach it ig? Just trying to figure out everything has been a whirlwind of emotions and Idk if you just have any advice on just how to approach literally any part of this bc I just have so many unknowns right now that Idk what to ask.

Thank you for writing!

Yes, it’s a huge moment when one discovers they are, in fact, a faggot! Your experience mirrors mine in some ways. My first Alpha pushed me down and throat fucked me before claiming me. And, like you, I had something of an “Alice in Wonderland” moment where everything I thought I knew about my life was flipped upside-down. I wasn’t just a gay boy, or even a submissive gay boy. I am a faggot.

And that made all the difference.

The first way you approach this is to fully commit to serving Men, and this new Alpha in particular. He’s making a claim of ownership on you and wants to keep using you, so you should be obedient to that. It sounds to me like this Alpha knows more than you do about hierarchy, and obviously understands what you’re supposed to do. He’s already taught you some valuable truths about yourself, and I think he wants to keep training you. These are all very good things.

The reason why you 100% enjoyed everything you experienced with him is because you ARE a faggot, so there’s no reason to question it any longer. The only real task before you is how quickly you can assimilate your new purpose into your refashioned old lifestyle.

I’d start going through the vast resources on this site, particularly the “Advice for faggots” section.

Just know you are far from alone. You’re going through something every faggot goes through … just be glad you have the information that many faggots in the past never did!

I also advise you to join the Hierarchy University Discord (CLICK HERE). The fellowship of other faggots and the many resources within will help you as well!

I hope it helps!

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Hi Sam!

thank for all that you do for the hierarchy and helping us fellow faggots be at our best in service to the incredible Men in the world.

To that point, I’ve recently been serving this very beefy and strong Alpha from the gym. He, of course, noticed my clit cage (thanks for the recommendation to shamelessly put it on display in the locker room!) and has been fucking my pussy about twice a week. It’s all a faggot could ask for except he refuses to use any lube other than what I coat his dick with from him face fucking me or the spit he adds along the way (very little). He does have me suck his dick multiple times while breeding my pussy (gladly!) but it really leaves my cunt sore for days after.

I basically never feel like it fully recovers before he’s balls deep in my pussy again with just a bit of spit to pound away almost instantly (he pistons in and out so hard and fast that the spit seemingly disappears in seconds).

I’ve asked, even begged for him to use some lube but the only thing accepts is more spit and throat slime from me gagging on his 8-9” cock.

Am I being too demanding or selfish, Sam? Or should I try another approach like pre-lubing? Think he might get pissed if he finds out though.

all thoughts appreciated!

thanks,

houston

Thank you for the question!

I just had a very similar question recently … what’s the deal with these Alphas not using lube? I mean, I get not liking condoms, but lube just makes things easier.

But I think that’s really the point. These Alphas (like yours) WANT it to hurt you. It makes them feel more powerful when your pussy is stretched and fucked raw. They like the screams and the writhing.

This is just a reality we faggots must handle if we are to fulfill our duties.

However, I think you should try pre-lubing in the hope that he will not mind too much. Do whatever you can to deal with it, unless you think you can approach him and beg him to allow the use of lube. There just aren’t many easy solutions to this issue, brother.

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I don’t know if Henry Ford anticipated how his invention of the car was going to help faggots around the world suck off massive numbers of straight Men and Alphas, but it definitely did!

This straight Alpha has only one interest: getting this faggot to swallow his load. And guess what? He succeeded!