I’m a 26-year-old engineer who moved up quickly and recently became a senior engineer at my firm. A junior engineer straight out of school joined the company and was given a relocation package that covered a hotel for two weeks while he looked for an apartment.

At the end of those two weeks, he still hadn’t found a place. Since I have a finished basement close to the office, I offered to let him stay there and pay me rent. He’s been living with me for about two weeks now.

What has surprised me is how naturally a dynamic seems to be developing. Without me asking, he’s started cleaning the house after work, doing laundry, washing dishes, and generally taking care of domestic chores. He seems genuinely eager to be useful and appreciative of having a stable place to live.

He’s younger, smaller, and much less established professionally than I am, and the whole situation has me wondering about the line between landlord, mentor, boss, and something more.

I actually found your podcast while looking for discussions about straight men making use of willing gay boys for domestic service. It got me thinking about whether the arrangement should simply continue as it is, or whether there is value in explicitly defining what is already happening rather than leaving everything unspoken.

If a boy seems happiest taking care of the home and being useful to the man providing for him, is there any reason not to acknowledge that directly? How would you approach a conversation about stopping the apartment search and making him explicitly a live in faggot. How should I take advantage of this situation?

Master, thank you so much for writing! This is an extraordinary letter!

This is not the first time the podcast has led straight Alphas to the site and eventually to the truth about hierarchy. Every time it happens, I’m just so overwhelmed with gratitude for it.

Let me just preface my advice with these hierarchical truths: hierarchically-speaking, straight Alphas deserve worship and service from every inferior, male or female. That includes sexual, domestic, and financial service. Hierarchy is not about sexuality, it’s about power, so when a straight Alpha uses a faggot sexually, it isn’t GAY because those simple labels do not apply to what is happening between an Alpha and a faggot. When a straight Alpha uses a faggot sexually, it doesn’t change the Alpha’s sexual preference. Instead, the straight Alpha experiences an unparalleled rush of power that leads to tremendous orgasms and a sense of completeness that other straight Men cannot know.

That’s a lot to take in, I realize, but it’s important to define that so we can tackle what’s going on (and what needs to happen) with the kid you have now living with you, Master.

I think you’ve already accepted the truth that your new guest is a faggot. I’m guessing by how it is behaving that it has accepted this fact about itself and is trying some of my methods to get your attention (I don’t claim to know it’s ever read my site, but it’s following my game plan to a “t”). This is great.

Here’s what I suggest, Master: tell it that you want to speak to it. When the time comes for this meeting, have it kneel before you. Commend it for the domestic work it has been performing, and that you understand why it needs to do these things. Ask it directly: “Are you a faggot?” Once it admits this, ask repeatedly: “What are you?” and make sure it openly admits that it’s a faggot. Tell it “good boy”.

Then tell it that you want to take ownership of it as your personal faggot. Ask it if that is what it wants. It will say “yes, Sir”. Have it kiss your feet. Then outline your expectations from it, and demand confirmation from it.

At this point I recommend some form of scent training exercise, Master. I don’t know what you’re comfortable with, but you can have the faggot deeply sniff your feet, pits, or dick/balls. This will cause the faggot to imprint on you.

After that, ask it again what it is. Make it say “I’m your faggot, Sir”. Then dismiss it to get back to its chores.

That is how I recommend the first initiation should go, Master.

There could be variations to this depending on how you plan to use your new faggot. If you’re planning on using it sexually, then definitely train it on the smell and feel of your cock/balls. You might feel the urge to feed it your cock/cum on the first day; you should always follow your instincts on this, Master. Nature always knows best.

But the structural approach I’ve outlined helps the faggot understand that you have expectations and it needs to obey them.

As for your everyday approach going forward, you should start outlining expected tasks as part of its duties. So far, the faggot has been doing domestic work as a “gift” in exchange for lodging. This must be mentally changed to “work as an offering to a superior Alpha”. It’s part of the purpose of every faggot.

I hope this sets you up correctly, Master. I have a feeling you have an excellent faggot residing with you, and I have no doubt you’re going to love owning it!

Please feel free to write anytime! Thank you, Master!

Yours,

sam the faggot

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Dear Sam,

I was very lucky in college to get a gorgeous Alpha for a roommate and eventually Dom who I’ll call “Tommy.” He was this beautiful olive-complexioned burly wrestler with curly dark hair and a dazzling cocky smile he flashed constantly. With a little effort, and your advice, I slowly started leading him into the idea of becoming his sub. I used wrestling as an introduction, offering to spar with him any time he wanted extra practice and when he saw how much he enjoyed tossing around and pinning down a much smaller guy, our hierarchy was set, and I was his for the next four years.

The situation was wonderful for both of us. With me tending to all of his needs, he exceled athletically and academically, and having me waiting in the room to suck him dry at every turn meant that he never fell to the typical siren songs that many young, horny, unrestrained college athletes succumbed to. I was thriving, as well, the comfort and security I got from being so fully owned did wonders for my confidence as well, and I dove headfirst into my studies and student clubs and became a regular social butterfly. Had we ever acknowledged a public relationship or let it extend past the four walls of our dorm room, we likely would have been seen as the university’s top power couple.

Sadly, we did drift apart after we graduated and started building our own careers, but kept in touch enough for me to see that he continued to thrive as well as I did. I’ve become a successful realtor and he’s launched a few successful startups and made some very profitable investments, clearly using his Alpha skills to dominate business deals the same way he used to dominate me when I laid on the floor at his feet (well, maybe not exactly the same way, although…)

Anyway, our five-year reunion recently came and went and I got to meet up with Tommy in person again. At the party, he was the same charming-bordering-on-cocky alpha he always was, with the same dazzling smile and the same wrestler’s build that stretched the seams of his business casual clothes that just always looked wrong on him (a body like that should always be standing on a plinth and covered in nothing but a single fig-leaf to be admired by the masses.) I suggested going out for a drink afterward, and he agreed. While there, I started mustering up the courage to ask the question I wanted to all night, but right before I was about to turn and ask if he wanted to have one more night of fun for old time’s sake, I turned and noticed something was… off. He seemed withdrawn, the sparkle was gone from his eyes. With a little prodding and a few more beers, I finally got him to open up. He didn’t want to say anything at the party, but I guess when you’re alone with someone who’s met your family at your graduation with a belly full of your piss before, you’re a little past playing coy. His dad had been sick for a while, and he was reaching the point where his time left was being predicted in weeks. Tommy had been caring for him full-time, by himself and suffering in silence, for a couple of years now, and the stress and grief had clearly worn him down. The reunion was the first time he’d been on a social outing in months, and his charming confident self was all an act, the same mask he put on every time he negotiated a business deal or lead a board meeting, purely instinct at that point.

Sam, it absolutely broke my heart to see Tommy this way. I’ve already decided I’m going to help him physically, both with caring for his father and getting through the next steps when the worst finally happens. Helping him mentally, however, is going to be trickier. I can see the same assertive, cocky Dom I knew back in college still buried in there, I’m just not sure of the right approach to draw him back out. Simply saying, “Hey, how about you sit on my face or I suck on your toes for a while?” seems wrong in this context, and possibly a little selfish on my part. Do you have any advice for helping to rebuild an alpha that’s this… broken?

Thank you my brother for sharing your inspirational-yet-sad story!

First of all, congratulations on the tremendous opportunity you received in college and how well you capitalized on it! Alphas sometimes need faggots to help them understand their purpose and how to satisfy the deeper needs they don’t often comprehend. I can’t tell you how much I appreciate the fact that what I’ve taught here helped you make that connection with Master Tommy! So huge!

(BTW, your description of Master Tommy is almost exactly how I would describe my beloved Master Aaron! My pussy widened just reading it!)

It’s amazing that a Master and his faggots can have such a powerful bond for four years “in the trenches” of college and then drift apart, isn’t it? However, it really shows something about Master Tommy’s nature that he kept in communication with (what I assume was) his first true faggot! He’s an Alpha of great depth to match his stunning exterior!

I’m so sorry to hear for Master Tommy’s loss, my brother! Again, how Master Tommy stoically handled himself at the reunion and then with you after reveals a lot about his bravery and strength! I can see why you’ve spent so many years worshiping and serving him! He deserves it!

Your plan to assist him during this time is absolutely what I would advise, brother. Do everything for him, still treating him like a King but allowing him the space to care for what he needs to do. Don’t push for anything sexual right now. There are times (like these) when a faggot should be like a loyal dog, quietly loving and tenderly compassionate. Alphas don’t know how to express a lot of these more complex emotions during distress, so just be a lifting breeze for him until the worst has past.

I would add one suggestion: remain submissive to him. For example, if you’re sitting with him watching television, sit on the floor at his feet unless he directs you otherwise. Show him deference as an Alpha without making a whole sexualized deal about it. Asking, “Master/Sir, is there anything you need?” is an effective way to keep the proper lines of communication open.

Once this awful time has passed, I suspect that Master Tommy will look at you with a passionate gratitude that he still owns a faggot like you! Furthermore, it will deepen and strengthen his appreciation for the Alpha/faggot dynamic that has enriched his blessed life! I do really anticipate that kind of dramatic response, so look forward to it!

Thank you so much for sharing your story with me, brother! I do hope you’ll keep me updated!!!

Love,

sam the faggot

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The following post is part of a series chronicling the life of a beta male named Quinn who was manipulated by his Father-in-law, a fat former frat brother named “Big Tony”. CLICK HERE to read all of these posts in chronological order!

There are a lot of difficult, troubling stories involving abuse, confusion, isolation, and despair in Hierarchy. This is natural, I suppose, given the unsympathetic power plays, selfishness, and delusion involved in such sloppy human interactions. I hate when I see lifetimes of damages caused by bad actors and decisions made without truth, honesty, or perspective.

I received such a story from a guy named Quinn. He’s a married male who was essentially manipulated and “seduced” by his wife’s father, a fat, well-hung former frat guy named Antonio (but everyone called him “Big Tony”).

The story Quinn sent me about this is so well written that I became suspicious of its origins, so I searched for references of it across the internet. However, it appears to be original. In that case, I tip my cap to Quin for crafting the story of his personal experience so well, and I apologize for being suspicious. I just don’t like to publish fiction here.

Here’s what Quinn shared with me (after the jump, because it’s long):

Sam, Do you know of any faggots who have met or been approached by an alpha because the fag was wearing one of your hierarchy shirts — like the one that says “faggot” or “locked” or with the hierarchy logo. I keep wondering what would happen if I wore a T-shirt that proclaimed I was a faggot and went to places where straight alphas would be — or even just on the street.

Thank you for the question!

Yes, some of the shirts I sold in the store definitely worked well. Here were the most effective:

I heard some stories about faggots wearing the “faggot” tee shirt (the #1 seller on the store) out at places and getting action (same with the “locked” shirt), but nothing compared to the stories I received from faggots who wore the “NO RECIP” shirt. One faggot told me that the shirt led to at least seven service opportunities right after purchasing it!

I honestly should’ve made the line a lot sluttier and “in your face”, but I was trying as best as I could to be suggestive while also retaining socially-acceptable standards so they could be worn anywhere.

I think I have different plans for the Hierarchy brand. Something more upscale. We’ll see.

The following post is part of a thread following the story of Titouan, an 18-year-old French faggot currently owned by an older straight Alpha. CLICK HERE to read all of these posts in chronological order!

I think most faggots become apprehensive when an Alpha suggests chastity. There’s this distinct and somewhat terrifying feeling of helplessness that washes over them, as if they’re about to be tossed off a cliff and into an abyss, lost forever.

But here’s the surprise: chastity actually does the opposite. Yes, the faggot’s sex organs are tossed off a cliff, so to speak, but instead of falling into an abyss, the faggot finally learns to FLY.

Chastity is such a useful tool to get a faggot to accept its truth and more deeply experience what it was born to know: that it was never meant to be a Man, never meant to use its penis like Men, and never meant to penetrate or reproduce like Men.

Titouan is a faggot who was definitely born a faggot and embraced that purpose from a young age. Chastity is a natural progression for him. Until now, Titouan hasn’t really been confronted by that as a permanent possibility, but now that he’s owned by a kinky, straight, married Alpha, that possibility is looking more like a reality:

Hello, I hope everything is ok on your side. Very hot in France these days. I went to pool, exciting for me as twink and young faggot, seeing other boys and men in speedos (only authorised swimwear in most french pools). Just moments of humiliation when some other boys have big bulges in their speedos and luv the girls to look at them,  I have not the same and some call me petite bite (tiny dick) and make fun, but true they are in a different category and I admire them.

Fortunately my Alpha straight Daddy just sent me a message, he wants me tomorrow afternoon in his secret second apartment in Paris. I must bring the chastity cage he made me buy, he writes “demain je  la fixe” which means tomorrow he’s going to lock it on my little dick. I suppose he may keep the key when he will send me back home. I know it won’t be seen under the boyish white briefs (as on the above title picture) I must wear, means no pb if my sisters at home or other boys in sport lockerroom see me in underwear (except they laugh at my whities but this not new).

My Alpha Daddy told me it’s fair rule a young faggot like me has to wear chastity and feel humiliation and frustration, pleasure being reserved for real men. I know he is right, big frustration yes, very jealous of other boys, but at same time I luv to feel  so much his superiority as Alpha straight and mature Male, and my place as twink who has to serve superior men like him.

He also sends me other videos showing my duties , I luv them as I must do the same, do you think they are good examples ?

Here is the video Titouan’s Master sent him:

You can hear Titouan’s nervousness in his message, and I get it. But ultimately, the humiliation he already feels wearing his tighty-whiteys and his little boy pee-pee around other guys can’t be any worse by wearing a cage. In fact, I think Titouan wearing a chastity cage will only make straight males that see it better understand his purpose and use him more. There have been plenty of experiences just like that documented on this site.

So I encourage Titouan to be proud of his Master putting him in permanent chastity, and use it to his advantage. There’s so much education Titouan can provide these other straight Men and Alphas who are curious about why he wears his cage, and what it means to be a faggot!

I’ve come to the realization that I can only submit to straight alphas. I only feel humiliated by them. I only want to be cucked or feel cucked by them.

if a gay alpha did the same thing then I wouldn’t care or feel anything . Why?

Thanks for writing, brother!

This is a pretty common issue among faggots (I had the same issue in my younger years). We faggots grow up fantasizing about serving straight Alphas that we knew growing up. Their carefree power was intoxicating to us, so naturally when we got a bit older we carried over that fetishizing of straight Alphas.

This is a shame, because gay Alphas understand faggots much better, and more importantly, know how to TRAIN faggots. The only real issue I have with gay Alphas is a lot of older gay Alphas want to be a little more reciprocal or fetishy (surprise!) because they’re gay. However, I think younger gay Alphas are much more likely to be just as dominant and non-reciprocal as straight Alphas, to the point that you cannot tell the difference between them.

Just know that this conditioning is preventing you from experiencing the depth and breadth that the entire Alpha fraternity offers if you only want to serve straight Alphas while disparaging gay Alphas.

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I took your advice. I was being used by my alpha and he suddenly got up and said “I gotta piss” then I proceeded to kneel and suck his soft cock. No piss.

was that not clear? Another time I followed him to the bathroom and he said “I’ll stop you at piss kink” I jokingly responded “piss kink? I just like bothering you”

now what ?

Thanks for the follow-up (I guess?), although I couldn’t find the previous advice I gave you.

Frankly, I think you did the wrong thing with those to examples you provided me.

In the first example, your Alpha said he had to piss and you knelt to suck his soft cock. Is that necessarily supposed to tell him to piss in your mouth? It could simply be taken by him as you just wanting to suck his dick. Why wouldn’t you kneel and tell him you’re willing to swallow his piss?

In the second example, you turned your “offer” into a joke. You should never do that. Kneeling beside the toilet and simply saying, “Sir, may I drink your piss?” would be direct and a vastly better approach.

Your Alpha is not a mind reader, nor does he understand the depth of our need to be of service to them. He’s not your buddy … he’s your Alpha. Treat him with serious respect, but also help him understand how to better own you. That requires honest, direct communication, not games.

Try again.

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Yoo sam, could you tell us about your highschool years as a faggot?

I’m straight, but I imagine that, being a faggot, your experience was probably quite different. I guess you wouldn’t have joined in on the conversations about rating the best girls’ asses in class hahaha. Also you could create a section about your own life experiences

Thank you for writing, Sir!

Well, this should be fun! I don’t write a lot of autobiographical stuff on here aside from specific examples of my past as a faggot, but I’m definitely willing to share, Sir!

I grew up in the Midwest of suburban America in the 80s and 90s, the firstborn son of religious, middle-class parents. My high school was straight out of a John Hughes film, and I was a near-carbon copy of the nerdy kid played by Anthony Michael Hall in those films (particularly in SIXTEEN CANDLES). Skinny, gangly, goofy, and cute. I had a thick brown mop of feathered hair, big, brown cow eyes with long eyelashes, and embarrassing dimples. I was well-known in school for bizarrely wearing an electric-blue bomber jacket every single day for all four years of high school (we symbolically burned it at a post-graduation bonfire).

I had a very tight group of misfit friends all four years that we called “The Group”. We’d known each other since kindergarten (and I’m still friends with some of them today!), and we knew each other very well. In the social hierarchy of our high school, we were somewhere between The Burnouts on the lower levels and The Jocks on the main levels.

I was very much then like I am today; intelligent, creative, sweethearted, but also armed with a blistering streak of sarcasm that earned me the title of “King Of The Put-Downs”. This combination of qualities served me well during my Freshman year when I found myself in an elective recreational sports class with a bunch of Seniors. They found me hilarious, and I became their funny little brother … so they served as my “protector Alphas” in dangerous areas like the lunchroom. The only time they didn’t protect me was in my history class, where a bully named Matt Sprenger tormented me every day.

My friends were all typically straight white guys, and I managed to blend in perfectly with them even though I was nothing like them inside. Ever since fifth or sixth grade I knew I felt something for boys. My first “crush” happened then with a boy named George Collins. Then in junior high I sort of fell in love with a guy named Bob who looked a little like a blonde version of Albert from “Little House on the Prairie”, and that continued into high school. Ugh … Bob used to wear this form-hugging gray corduroy pants that showed off his bulge and his perfect ass. While my friends were busy talking about cheerleader tits and asses, I was chasing Bob and this cute guy named Matt.

These crushes helped me understand that I was gay, and I knew I felt submissive (as a little kid I was already manifesting an interest in macrophilia), but I didn’t know what to do with those feelings. I certainly never told my friends, nor my parents. So instead I began to date and attempt to fuck girls like my friends were doing. This started between the ages of 15-16. I lost my virginity to a white girl named Rachelle, my second girlfriend. I had a threesome with two girls one night at a party.

And I hated it. Entering a vagina with my little pee-pee felt wrong, and my body didn’t seem to even understand thrusting and other mechanical aspects of straight male fucking. I tried eating vagina, and it was absolutely revolting. All-in-all it was an embarrassing disaster. I started to think I was doomed.

Then I got a job at an Italian restaurant, and there I met a straight Alpha named Roger. He was my age and same grade, but he went to a competing high school. He was everything I wasn’t: hot, sexy, confident, muscular, and extremely popular. I fell instantly in love with him. I wanted to be with him all the time, smell his scent, and hear his laughter. He’d playfully call me “faggot” – the first time anyone ever called me that, and it was like an electric charge raced through my body every time he said it. The word felt like a siren song leading me into deeper waters.

This was, of course, the same Roger who forced me to my knees and throat fucked me with his 8+ inch cock a few months after meeting me (we had been watching some schlocky “girls in prison” movie in his mother’s basement). After that, I was his personal cocksucker for our final year of high school, and I never looked back.

So yeah, those were my years of discovery as a faggot in high school, Sir! I’m not sure my development was typical of most faggots, and I certainly handled those years with a sense of wide-eyed wonder and excitement that definitely seems atypical now that I’ve spoken to so many other fags.

EPILOGUE: Before I get the inevitable follow-up question, yes my high school friends all know I’m a faggot these days. After I disappeared from them for several years (being owned by multiple Masters), I returned and told them the truth. Then, at a class reunion, I made sure everyone in the class knew I was a faggot. Needless to say, none of them were shocked! We all had a great laugh over it!

One more thing, Sir: There is a category specifically for me and my stories. It’s all in the category “Me”.

Hi Sam –

Longtime fan of your site. I have been trying to figure out what to write to you for a while now (if you want to share any of this on your site please feel free to do so).

A little background: I’m a fag, 40 years old, former fraternity guy and athlete. I’ve been married to my Alpha military husband (Army Alpha) for 10 years.

Our relationship in brief: I’m obviously a total bottom, I’m into a lot of kinks and some kinda extreme stuff. I’ve experienced a few rapes over my lifetime, and it’s a big part of my desire to serve. I also tend to seek situations where I put myself at risk of that happening and recreating what I’ve gone through. My favorite experiences of service have been for sadistic, Destroyer Alphas (if those details are of interest I can share my experiences). I’m a masochistic fag and like to know that my pain brings pleasure for an Alpha.

My Alpha husband (I’d say he is in the Protector Alpha category) understands this and has been open to exploring some of these desires of mine but also says he loves me and couldn’t take it as far as I want. He is a total top, but is more vanilla sexually. I obviously don’t pressure or force him to do anything he isn’t comfortable with, but it has impacted our sex lives. He usually only uses my mouth and not my fag hole because of his size (8-8.5 inches and extremely thick). Although I am a total bottom and have taken many Alpha cocks, and I stretch myself frequently, I remain very tight – to the point that sometimes he says it’s too tight for him to fuck me and doesn’t feel good on him. I’ve told him he can force it into me, begged him to, but when I start to show I’m in pain it turns him off.

We’re fully open, he fucks other fags and likes to hear about me getting fucked by other guys. We rarely have threesomes for many reasons (mostly irrelevant but can share if you want to know). But I’ve heard a really hard time recently finding any other true Alphas that would be willing to fuck me hard and wreck my fag hole. He says if I have that done he thinks I’d be loser for him.

For the next year we are long distance (because of a deployment for him) but I’ll be able to visit him for a month or two every few months. I’ve been looking EVERYWHERE for an Alpha to own me while he’s gone (Grindr, X, BDSMLR, Reddit, etc) but have been unsuccessful.

My questions for you:

1. Where can I find an Alpha? Most guys I talk to are only seeking virtual roleplay, or are too far away to ever meet, or want a young fag (at 40 I’m still very conscious about my looks and body and make sure I stay attractive for Alphas). I’m mostly attracted to straight Alphas (all my friends are straight and they are 100% in the Alpha category). I’ve tried to show them I’d serve them but it’s never worked (a few brief moments with teammates or frat brothers or childhood friends but never long term).

2. I don’t want to pressure my Alpha husband into things and know it isn’t my place, but when he fucks other fags he is very rough and aggressive so I know he has that side to him as well. Is there a way I could respectfully encourage him to do the same to me? He recently told me about a fag he fucked wearing his uniform, one booted foot on the fags head while he fucked him using only a little spit for lube and the fag ripped and bled. I get hard knowing he did that and wish it were me. He knows that I’d like that but says he’d never want to hurt me. But he’s hurting me by not giving me that experience and it’s now becoming an overriding focus of my life. I’ll spend days seeking it out, and now that I live alone I have fewer responsibilities to my Alpha so I will ignore friends and family and work searching for an Alpha to use me (that’s incredibly embarrassing for me to admit, and I know it isn’t healthy but its been so long since I was able to feel of use and like I’m fully serving I am obsessed with it).

Sam – can you help me please?

Respectfully,

Frat Fag Alex

Thank you for writing to me, Alex! I apologize for the delay!

I’ve encountered this weird situation a couple of times in the past, and it always leaves me baffled. Protector Alphas are amazing, but when they’re GAY Protector Alphas it can almost become a barrier. Gay Protector Alphas are too careful with their faggot partners because they’re in love with their faggot partners.

A faggot is a very specific kind of creature. Our need to be used and serve overwhelms everything else. We surrender everything to fulfill this central need; our bodies, our minds, our self-respect, and even our hopes and dreams. Even extreme pain is not a real consideration for us fags, just as long as we are pleasing our Owners. All that truly matters to us is our Alpha’s complete satisfaction. I really don’t think it’s even possible for Alphas to comprehend this about their faggots, even extremely experienced Alphas like your husband.

I get that he loves you. You are his most prized possession. But that is what’s so confounding to me about this situation – he’s loving you so much that he’s preventing you from being the most complete version of yourself. By sparing you what he thinks is pain, he’s actually causing tremendous emotional damage to you instead. I’m sure you’d agree with me that a pussy hole delightfully damaged in service will recover, but slowly suffocating to death as years tick away is the kind of damage that is hard to recover. Does your husband really think it’s okay for you to watch him use other faggots the way you desperately want to be treated?? That idea is mind-boggling to me.

It’s amazing how much better straight Alphas are with their personal faggots when it comes to this issue, and I think that’s both a shame and a mystery.

Anyway, back on point. I want to deal with the second question first, because I think the real issue is what’s happening in the marriage.

First and foremost, I want you to have your husband read your ask and my reply. It’s very important that he comprehends the depth of your desperation and sadness over this. He needs to appreciate how much long-term damage this is causing within you. He also needs to understand that giving to other fags the most intrinsic thing you desire and are denied is absolutely wrong, cruel, and unconscionable.

Secondly, whenever you both are together, I want you to try Caged Jock’s ingenious hole-stretching method using chopsticks (SEE THE VIDEO HERE). This is an activity you can do together to stretch you more and prepare you for the fuck of your life. This is the kind of “upkeep” every Master should be doing with their faggots in order to customize them for proper service.

As for your Question #1:

Submitting to your straight Alpha friends is still a possibility, but it might be only in the domestic aspect unless you get them drunk. The problem faggots have when trying to seduce their straight Alpha friends is the “friends” part. When an Alpha sees a guy as his friend (and “equal”), he’s less likely to want to use the fag. Calling them “Sir”, being complimentary, and directing the conversations to them in upbuilding ways (particularly engaging them in conversations about their Alphahood) can and often does lead to some engagement. Take a couple of these straight Alpha friends out for dinner/drinks and employ a more submissive persona, utilize what I just told you, and you might be surprised. I wonder if they even really understand what a faggot is … so it might be good to educate them. They’d also need to understand that your Owner has no issue with you serving other Alphas.

You can employ these same techniques while out alone at a bar or restaurant/bar and you see a straight Alpha alone. Offer to pay for his meal/drinks, and when he asks, just be frank as to why. Is he really going to hit a submissive male who’s buying stuff for him and calling him an Alpha? Of course not! He might not be willing to do anything, but this is a game of repetition and averages. Keep trying, and you will find success.

The apps are a mess, but apps like TheBlowers.com will absolutely get you Alpha action. Try that in a pinch.

In conclusion, I honestly think this situation with your Alpha husband can be fixed. There needs to be more open, honest communication and some experimentation to make it work.

Thank you for the long-time readership, and for reaching out to me, my brother!

Love,

sam the faggot

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Hi Sam,

I hope you’re doing good. I have a straight friend, Patrick, who I find really charming, he’s very smart and has a really nice body. Me and him have been friends for a few months now, and I’ve realized I would like him to be my master/dom in some way. However, he’s never used fags before, to my knowledge. How do I bridge the gap without it being too awkward or coming on too strong. I don’t want turn him away and possibly ruin our friendship. I’ll take any and all advice you could give me, and thanks in advance!

Sincerely,

Luke

Luke, thank you for writing to me!

That’s great that you’ve found a possible Alpha to serve! I know it’s always a little intimidating, but there’s really nothing to fear. This is all quite natural.

I don’t know how often you hang out together (or even your ages), so some of what I suggest might not be applicable given that I don’t how you typically interact. If you’re hanging out watching movies or sports in a house, try to get low in relation to his body (like sit on the floor at his feet, etc.). Offer to pay for food/drinks when you’re out together. Be genuinely complimentary. If he’s single, offer to do cleaning or laundry for him, or detail his car. In other words, find ways to be USEFUL to him. This will eventually trigger something in him if he’s truly Alpha.

A shortcut to this longer play is to simply engage him in a conversation about hierarchy. Ask him if he considers himself to be Alpha. Definitely pump up his confidence on this. Then explain hierarchy to him in relation to himself and where he stands among other males.

Depending how that conversation goes, you can show him this site’s pinned post about hierarchy so he can read it. Or perhaps give him my “Letter To An Alpha” (right sidebar) so he can more fully understand your feelings.

Again, without much detailed information about both of you and your situation, it’s hard to advise further. But these are benchmarks in the whole seduction phase with an Alpha.

Let me know how it goes!

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Where can I find true alpha men? I would prefer gay but BI would be okay too.

Thanks for writing!

It’s not that hard, brother. Go wherever Men like to congregate and socialize. Gyms, bars, sporting events, parks, hardware stores (there’s a reason why Home Depot is called “Homo Depot”), etc. If you’re in school, that’s even better because they’re literally everywhere and always horny.

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Whenever people ask me how I came up with the definitions of various levels of hierarchy I get a little nervous. Yes, there are certain criteria that define each level, but some of it is my instinct honed over the course of 30 years. I can just feel out a person’s status by the details of their stories and how they express themselves and determine their status.

But some levels of hierarchy are easier to read than others. From my vantage point as a faggot, I’ve learned to spot the Alpha levels of hierarchy so well that they are as clear as daylight. That’s why I was the first (and perhaps still the only) teacher of hierarchy to really isolate these subtle Alpha layers and clearly delineate them.

The most important of these Alpha layers is the top one, which I’ve named “God Alpha”. God Alphas lead the pack, so to speak, setting the pace for everyone else and receiving the greatest rewards for their vast superiority.

Watch this incredible video narrated by straight findom Master @HoldenMastersX in which he describes his life and how he came to accept and embrace the entirety of his God Alphahood. Afterward, I will break down the deciding factors of his status:

There are quite a few God Alpha signals in this video. Let’s pick them apart:

1. Submission of other Alphas – In the video, Master Holden describes how other Alphas followed him and looked to him for guidance. He was the captain and quarterback of the football team, a very natural position for a God Alpha.

2. Claiming of the property of other Alphas – Master Holden insinuates that he could (and did) take the women from fellow Alphas and other males.

3. The submission of older people in positions of societal power – Master Holden insinuates that even school faculty let him have his way, thereby unofficially acknowledging his natural authority over them.

4. Easy claiming of females – Master Holden admits that getting whatever he wants from girls is not even a challenge because women simply surrender to him and offer themselves to him.

5. Faggots submitted to him from a very early age – This is almost always a sign of burgeoning God Alphahood, because faggots in high school are typically too scared to offer themselves unless motivated by a truly and uniquely powerful force.

6. Master Holden accepted the worship/service of faggots – This is a critical step for God Alphahood, because it reveals in the Alpha an eagerness to embrace all of hierarchy as a natural extension of his truth as a God Alpha. Any true God Alpha must understand the very nature of hierarchy and accept it.

What did you notice about Master Holden’s extraordinary description of his God Alphahood?

Sam — Just came across this awesome alpha specimen. @onlynudez69. Have you had any contact with him? If so, do you know if he allows real life fag service? It would be such an honor.

Thank you for the question!

I’d never heard about this Alpha, so I checked him out … definitely Alpha!

So I wrote to him, and we had a great conversation, honestly.

So yeah, he’s an impressive natural straight Alpha who has, through just life experience, discovered hierarchical truth and lives it!

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Yoo, Im a 24 yr old straight guy that discovered the old website and really liked it, but when Sam had his legal issues, I lost track of everything and thought he had disappeared and stopped creating this kind of content. I’m glad to know not only that Sam is doing well, but also that he’s still creating his fantastic content. I have to admit that I didn’t usually listen to the podcasts and mostly just looked at the posts and images/videos, but you have to admit hes a faggot that has a lot of personality, has a faggot voice (its very noticeable) and he’s made me laugh quite a bit (the song at the beginning is incredible lmaooo) and even I got hard listening to it. So shoutout to the real faggot goat Sam, he knows what a straight guy likes even better than ourselves. I’m not going to say I’m an alpha because it’s a bit ridiculous to say that about yourself, but im far from being a faggot. Anyways I enjoy the content a lot but im not watching that many porn nowadays because im focused on real life stuff, like working out and getting pussy lol. Luv u sam u are the goat, no homo

Sir, thank you for writing to me after so long!

I’m always pleasantly surprised when straight Men and Alphas visit this site consistently despite the non-stop gay sex here! I just really hope it means that the site itself is providing some measure of knowledge and insight into the truth of hierarchy! It’s easy to titillate, but it’s harder to TEACH!

Thank you for the fun message, Sir! I’m glad my podcast makes you laugh and get aroused all at the same time! I’m also glad you love my podcast theme song, Sir! I worked hard on that (well, not THAT hard … I was caged, after all!). If you want to know a little secret, I’ll tell you: I purposely made the theme funny and self-deprecating for the sake of straight Alphas like YOU. I know how straight Alphas like to laugh at us, so I gave you all something to laugh at WITH us instead!

I kind of view myself as the Dame Edna of hierarchy. I like to keep people laughing so that tough truths go down easier than a well-lubricated dick!

And while you are too humble to admit it, you’re pretty clearly Alpha just from the tone of your writing. I’m glad to hear you’re focusing on building your body as well as your body count, Sir! You’re 24 and in the prime of your life! You shouldn’t waste the infinite power you have!

Thanks again for writing, and I hope to hear from you again, Sir! Feel free to write me here or via email (hierarchyuniversity@gmail.com).

And I love you, too, Sir … so homo!

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The following post is part of a thread following the story of Titouan, an 18-year-old French faggot currently owned by an older Alpha. CLICK HERE to read all of these posts in chronological order!

The dynamic between Titouan and his straight married Master is interesting to me. This Master clearly loves his family, but he really enjoys owning faggots, too. He’s even made arrangements to constantly receive their worship by keeping a secret apartment in Paris! Not many Alphas go to those lengths!

Now comes Titouan’s summer plans (or, rather, the plans his Master made for him!), which mostly involve plenty of work!

Hi it’s Titouan french twink in recent relationship with a straight Alpha Daddy  who makes me come to secret apartment he has in Paris and uses me as his young cocksucker.

Yesterday he said me something about next July, I translate from French : he will be alone for two weeks as his family goes to seaside (he is family man, has teen daughters – exciting to know that he has this straight life and at same time sees secretly twinks like me for his pleasure). He wants me to stay with him while his family will be at sea in southern France, with these rules : I’ll have to be his houseboy, of course also to offer him my mouth and whole body every time he wants, and my other obligations wearing chastity cage and only boyish tighty whities. What is new is houseboy duties, i do not Know exactly what they will be, I think It is normal he demands this, seems exciting to have to serve him in this different way, even if being his young cocksucker is the most important . Isn’t it fair he wants to use me during this summer period when his family is away ? (I think he sees other boys in his secret apartment, I suppose he wants to go on during summer, I know fidelity obligation is only for me as his young faggot, isn’t it his right as superior straight Alpha Daddy )

It’s so interesting to me that Tito’s Master is managing to get away from his family for such a long period of time so he can fuck faggots! Alphas always find a way to get what they want!

As for Titouan, this summer is going to be really exciting! He’s finally going to be able to live out his true purpose! I’m sure it’s going to be a lot of work, but it’ll be good work!

I’m proud of my little brother Titouan! He’s fearlessly pushing himself to be the best faggot possible!

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Hi Sam.

I hope all is well.

I am a longtime Alpha worshipper. Unfortunately I’ve never served one properly. Whilst I respect all Alphas, I am particularly turned on by Destroyer Alphas, even though I am in full awareness of the toxic nature of them.

Why are some of us wired this way? I don’t understand why I derive pleasure from watching an Alpha belittle and hurt His inferiors. I particularly find myself in awe of Alpha bullies, and I enjoy amateur videos of Destroyer Alphas making Their inferior male counterparts perform non-consensual degrading acts, like kissing their shoes.

My heart always goes out to the victims, but at the same time I’m aroused by the cruel behaviour of the Alpha. It pleases me to know He enjoyed the high of His power.

It’s very conflicting, and I can’t make sense of it. I think given the choice I’d sooner be used by a Destroyer than a Protector. But I know this would be a poor life choice.

Any thoughts?

Thank you for writing in brother!

I honestly don’t know why so many faggots are drawn to serve Destroyer Alphas, other than the fact that faggots are broken creatures much the way many women are. And like faggots, women are more often than no attracted to the “bad boy” that treats them like shit, and keeps going back even if they’re abusive. There’s something about the submissive personality that is attracted by the abuse, because in their minds abuse = power, and it’s power than turns them on.

Honestly, it’s that dynamic that probably attracts Alphas to the Destroyer mentality, too.

I experimented with Destroyer Alphas mainly during my early, slutty years because my first straight Alpha used me for a year and threw me away and then I was raped, so that caused me to have low self-esteem. I felt it’s what I “deserved” for being a faggot. Fortunately I was eventually claimed by a series of very powerful Apex and God Alphas of the Protector Alpha variety, and they taught me that I had value, and they could be dominant without being cruel. It was not easy to overcome my sense of worthlessness, but I eventually did.

And so can you, brother. You just need to know that it’s okay to walk away when you find yourself serving a Destroyer Alpha, and remember there are Protector Alphas eager to own you … if you just allow yourself the chance!

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Hey fag Sam. I don’t know if you’ve already covered this but I might be at my ropes end and looking for some advice.

I’m a faggot. I accept it. I live out hierarchy. However hierarchy to me is also includes big dick worship. It’s hard for me to see someone with a small or average dick as superior to me or others. I’ve served some average cocks with inflated egos but over time the urge to serve dies down on my part if they don’t keep that ego up. I can inflate it all I want to but an act is an act and I can’t help an Alpha if he’s acting.

I’m experiencing that currently. An Alpha I serve has been taking pictures of himself and his cock but never a full body one. Never one connected to his face. Recently he sent a photo and I can tell his dick is average or even my size.

Its a pattern I’ve been noticing of average dicked Alphas vs big dicked Alphas. A big dick Alpha won’t be afraid to show off their body, their cock, all of themselves to show their hierarchy status, no matter what they look like. However average dicked Alphas will hide or play camera tricks to give the illusion of a big cock. Its becoming self evident to me that if an Alpha has to lie about his cock, that’s not an Alpha. I know there can be different circumstances where they are average and Alpha, but insecurity to the point of fabrication doesn’t sit well with me.

The Alpha I serve has been on the life for over 20+ years. He can be very alluring but then sends cock pics and it just breaks the vibe/scene. Am I a bad faggot or am I not listening to my instincts? Thank you for your time.

Thank you for writing, my brother!

This issue is an ongoing one on this site and across my social media. As a faggot who has never focused on dick size as a defining Alpha characteristic, I think I’ve made my position clear enough.

However, I DO understand your frustration regarding Alphas and dick size.

Yes, huge, heavy dicks owned by aggressive, dominant Men are quite breathtaking and cause immediate awe and submission in most people, but especially faggots. There’s no argument here.

But I just don’t believe we can judge a Man’s Alphahood based on physical characteristics he can’t control. So much of what makes a Man an Alpha comes from what is inside him that pinning the essence of a Man on a genetic lottery at birth seems random and wrong.

This is why I’m more prone to question the Alphahood of a fat slob. Would any true Alpha not care about the physical attributes he CAN control? How can a Man simply dismiss the way his physicality reflects his Alphahood?

But here’s the part of your question I really agree with completely: no Man can be an Alpha if he’s misrepresenting himself or creating a fake persona online. There’s simply no way to accept such a person as Alpha, and every faggot should reject them completely. Not only is such behavior NOT Alpha, but it’s also NOT MANLY OR RESPECTABLE.

As a side note, I’d like to reiterate that this is why I don’t search for Masters online. If I encounter an Alpha I want to serve in real life, then I make my move. That way, I see his Alphahood in action socially and KNOW FOR SURE what he is … making his penis size a secondary or nonexistent issue. You see how that works?

So you don’t need to feel bad about rejecting some of these insecure pretenders bothering you. It doesn’t make you a bad fag, brother … but rather, a wise one!

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Sam, can we get more of @HoldenMastersX? Video/podcast interview? He’s incredible,….

Thanks for writing!

I love Master Holden just as much as you do, brother! He’s a totally straight Alpha, but he has no fear AT ALL of faggots or being connected to them. In fact, he claims he hates us … something I don’t really believe given the fairly close relationship he seems to have developed with his primary faggot, an older male that Master Holden toys with.

As for coming on the podcast, I’ve spoken to him about it in the past, and he waved it off. I don’t think he’s going to change his mind, but I’ll let him know you asked!

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For those who don’t know @HoldenMastersX, here’s a taste:

The following post is part of a thread detailing the admission and submission of a new faggot named Ben to a teen Destroyer Alpha named Grayson. CLICK HERE to read all of these posts in chronological order!

I was a little surprised to look back into the archives and find that it’s only been a little bit more than a month ago since Ben last updated me. It felt like it had been months. I guess my life has been a little too hectic!

Ben’s situation is extraordinarily frustrating because he keeps ping-ponging between two straight Masters, Master Grayson and Master Ethan. In the past, I harshly labelled Master Grayson as a Destroyer Alpha based on his rather cruel treatment of Ben as well as the Orwellian insistence on surveilling Ben’s every waking moment. On the other hand, Master Ethan seemed to be more of a Protector type, warmer and more comforting. I very much preferred that Ben stick to serving Master Ethan and leaving Master Grayson in the past.

Well, as usual with Ben, things have taken another sharp left turn:

I wanted to write again for an update so you know what’s happening and if you have any advice for me. For better or worse, I am unable to serve Ethan anymore as he has recently found a partner who he devotes his time to. I want to say I was okay with it and I listened to your advice  and stopped trying but when I found out, I made a slightly rash decision and confronted him in person why he was dating someone and in a way confessed I had feelings for him. He told me to get on my knees and crawl to him to suck him off, which I did and I thought something would happen but he simply said “you’re such an obedient boy but you’re just a hole” and “you’re just so desperate to serve me as a slave but not as a boyfriend”. After that I haven’t seen him besides the ocassional run-in but he won’t text to meet up anymore.

Since then it’s stupid but I have spiraled a bit since I didn’t really have anyone to lean on besides Grayson. He has been helpful in keeping me motivated to work out and keep going to fulfill my work and also tasks as an apartment slave. However, he has also been more brutal with me lately not sure if he’s taking advantage of me by making me cook more for him and his gf, give him more money to sustain his lifestyle, and lately even loaning me out to his friends to use as a cumdump. It feels so humiliating because with the spiral I’ve thought all I can do now is serve Grayson and that’s all my mind has been on but since he’s mostly satisfied now with a gf it feels even worse that when I give head or am a hole now it’s just for his friends not even him.

The last thing that has really cemented things has been last week Grayson allowed me to take off my chastity for the first time in over 2.5 months and told me to invite someone over to let me top for the first time in a while. I was excited to finally take off the chastity and do something but when the time came, I couldn’t perform at all and couldn’t get it up and because of the chastity the guy I was supposed to hook up with said I was too small. To make things worse Grayson was in the apartment for this as he said he wanted to show me how pathetic I had become and he ended up locking me in a smaller cage and facefucking the guy I was supposed to top in front of me. I’m ashamed to admit that watching that made me harder but I couldn’t really do anything restrained by the cage. He ended up telling me that he is now locking me in chastity forever and to always remember this day as the reason why I don’t deserve to be free.

These events have me really spiraling as I accepted I was a slave of sorts, but this has really cemented how lowly I am. I wasn’t enough to be a bf, not enough to be my master’s hole, and also not good enough to be a top anymore. I am trying to accept all this but it’s hard and I’ve been trying to win back Grayson after all this as being unable to be used by him has made me realize a lot how much I want it. It has been a lot, but I promise I am alright, it’s just good to write this out as this space has been helpful in navigating everything.

I didn’t see that coming!

First of all, what a shame that Master Ethan did that to Ben. So much for the “Protector Alpha” label! In fact, he dismissed Ben in the ugliest way possible, something Ben didn’t deserve given how faithfully he served Master Ethan.

That dismissal brought Ben back into the clutches of Master Grayson.

I can easily see why Ben ended up here. He’s a good faggot who simply wants to serve. I wish Master Grayson had even a semblance of a clue about that, because maybe then he’d appreciate what he owns. Good faggots are hard to find, and clearly Master Grayson loves owning a faggot. It seems to me he should start to value his possessions more.

But I can say that Master Grayson has some incredible natural instincts for a straight Alpha. That move he pulled with Ben, letting Ben out of his chastity cage in order to humiliate his ineffectiveness by forcing Ben to watch him do the very thing Ben couldn’t do is a brutal twist on The Nuclear Option I’ve spoken about so many times before. It actually took my breath away. You can’t find that technique in a “Alpha domination manual” or in a film. That is PURE ALPHA INSTINCT in action! I’ve experienced it, and I’ve seen so many Alphas use variations of this technique so many times that it simply cannot be coincidence. It must be something inborn into them!

We can hear Ben’s growth from that experience. He feels more submissive, more fulfilled, more resigned to his true hierarchical place.

But that doesn’t mean I don’t want something kinder for my sincere little brother!